Confused cusp , advice por favor

First of all, I would like to just say that it has been enlightening reading all your messages, I have never really believed in the astrology area, but it seems likely in my case. I need a bit of advice, or comforting, or I dont know, your opinions at least. I am a cusp aqua/pisces, though I tend to exhibit more of the aqua than the pisces side, ehehehe. I just got out of a long relationship with a Sag last year, and decided to try my hand on online dating. I met this amazing Aquarian on the site, we met up, we clicked instantly and the first two weeks were fireworks! I have never been so indulged, pampered and taken care of in all my life :-) I went out with a Cancer a while back, and even he pales in comparison. Suffice to say, this Aquarian has me fascinated.....but now, I hardly hear from him, the past two weeks we saw each other once per week, he had various reasons, the calls are infrequent, maybe one or two every other day, I am usually busy though so I dont check my messages until I get off work, and I text him or call him only when he calls or text me first, which is now infrequent. I feel cut off, isolated from him, although when we do see each other, the connection is there. I still am keeping myself open to other possibilities, went out on a couple of dates with other guys, but they just do not compare to my Aquarian. I hope that he is not a rebound, he said he was getting over a divorce from his wife less than a year ago.....we never really established anything, the physical attraction is crazy, I slept with him on the second date , and now I dont know if that is turning him off.... he is the only man I have slept with since going out with other guys, and I dont know if I should just keep on dating around, and be patient with him as he is an Aquarius? I know he is probably dating around too, though I didnt ask, I assume it because I still see his profile when he logs on the online dating website where we met. I was kinda hurt that he didnt invite me to spend his birthday with him, which was two days ago...
Should I be patient, go on with my life, and let things flow? or should I gently nudge him, set up a time to hang out, and then ask him where this is going? this is driving me a bit insane, especially since I usually do the same thing to other guys....

Gosh I feel sorry for u already - Pisces/Aqua - You would have to be quite confussed allot! Aqua = Insensitive Pisces = Emotional.

Did he say anything about him caring for you or did you talk a bit about dating each other or did you not talk about it at all? You have to be Friends above anything with the Aqua guys I think?!? Do you guys talk like friends?

Dont really know about ur man hey. I dated an Aqua guy like that once. He was getting over his ex but just wasnt over her. He confussed the Bleep out of me. Best shag I have had thou. Once he gave me this letter to read that was from his ex saying how he was unemotional & didnt communicate rararar all typical Aqua traits & if I knew better I would have understood that he was trying to get closer to me & explain why he didnt show much affection but .. I didnt & I fucked it up cause I had also been thru a hellish break up & was a bit messed up in the head from it so I acted liek a hard bltch. He ended up being a alcoholic I think - I still think about him to this day thou. He was one of the few people that actually got under my skin. Just really could not understand the guy & he made me feel stupid. Slowly he just stopped texting me & calling & I knew it was over so I stopped contact too - Then I got a random message saying come over to my new place & I ignored it. Didnt like being head fucked.

well, he has said the sweetest things like , he really really likes me....and that he wouldnt hurt me like my ex....always telling me that he finds me sexy.... we have the best conversations because we are into a lot of the same things, we kid around each other a lot also, so I guess that would constitute talking to each other like friends.....like today, i finally got a text from him after two days of not hearing anything, and he says "hi, my sexy girl"....and then we texted each other asking each other about our day, like how buddies would text each other.... I was such and still probably am a tomboy, I hang out better with dudes than with gals.... its irritating me how just a text from him can instantly cure my worrywarts, ehehehe.... I am just going to go with the flow and focus on myself as I've always done....what is your opinion?

Was he married?

Oh sorry yes he was got ya! How old is he?

he's in his late 30's :-)

That should be a good age for an Aqua guy? Id say ride it out cause atm Aqua's are going thru allot of changes