disaster or not? Aqua man and Leo woman?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by roamingfree on Saturday, February 26, 2011 and has 23 replies.
hi,
I was wondering if anyone can shed any light on this, my friend the Aqua man wants to actually marry the Leo girl who is just using him to get out of Russia and come here, and he knows her only for 4 months - they met at a base in Afghan, she's gone to Russia now and he is hell bent on marrying her since he thinks that getting her pregnant is going to be his ticket to happiness - what do you all think? He's asking me for opinions and I'm like: uuuhmm, dude, that's not a reason for happily ever after, but hey whatever floats your boat. So here I am.
this is him:
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Aquarius 0.04 Ascendant Libra 26.20
Moon Aquarius 28.39 II Scorpio 23.39
Mercury Aquarius 16.03 R III Sagittarius 26.47
Venus Pisces 16.54 IV Aquarius 3.56
Mars Scorpio 11.55 V Pisces 7.52
Jupiter Libra 6.04 R VI Aries 5.08
Saturn Aries 19.30 VII Aries 26.20
Uranus Libra 3.56 R VIII Taurus 23.39
Neptune Scorpio 28.17 IX Gemini 26.47
Pluto Virgo 24.58 R Midheaven Leo 3.56
Lilith Gemini 24.08 XI Virgo 7.52
Asc node Aries 2.24 XII Libra 5.08

and this is her:
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Leo 0.17 Ascendant Sagittarius 13.16
Moon Virgo 7.07 II Capricorn 18.13
Mercury Cancer 28.07 III Aquarius 28.29
Venus Cancer 3.22 IV Aries 4.47
Mars Libra 23.56 V Taurus 2.42
Jupiter Scorpio 1.24 VI Taurus 24.32
Saturn Libra 16.30 VII Gemini 13.16
Uranus Sagittarius 0.42 R VIII Cancer 18.13
Neptune Sagittarius 24.47 R IX Leo 28.29
Pluto Libra 24.14 Midheaven Libra 4.47
Lilith Capricorn 3.36 XI Scorpio 2.42
Asc node Cancer 13.20 XII Scorpio 24.32

thank you anyone who can shed some light on this. since I know nothing about either one, only that I get along fabulously with Aqua and Leos on my own.
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i read somewhere that in astrology, in love compatibility ...they look at venus (love) and mars (desire) they have compatible love. Desires not so much.
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if anything i would worry not of the signs but more so that she could simply be using him for greencard! 4 months is a bit rushing it hahah...
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yeah, i know...but he's hell bent, so whatever, he's 41 so he can make his choices lol but no immigration officer will accept such a short relationship and such circumstances. so I told him it's going to be at least a year before they even look at that case.
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A green card marriage? Really? He can't be that desperate can he? She's just using him and he's delusional and trying to get her pregnant to try to chain her down. Of course this is going to end in disaster. Has anyone else stepped in to tell him he's making a huge mistake aside from yourself? Best thing to do would be to let it run it's course if everyone's already chimed in on it. Not much else you can do.
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Posted by roamingfree
yeah, i know...but he's hell bent, so whatever, he's 41 so he can make his choices lol but no immigration officer will accept such a short relationship and such circumstances. so I told him it's going to be at least a year before they even look at that case.


lol yea 4 months is gonna be pretty hard to prove its legit. but it can be done...the immigration is only thinking "is their love real or just arranged?" if nothing solid proves it to be a paid arrangement it will be easily granted. They'll just need photos of their lives together, joint accounts and living, haha scary
41?! haha oh sweety, i say forget it haha he can fight his own battles
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I don't think this has anything to do with astrology.
If they've only known eachother for 4 months & WORSE, if they're having a long distance relationship, I doubt they thoroughly/fully got to know eachother enough, therefore it'd be unfair to question compatibility at this point.
Leos & Aquarians are polar opposites. Doesn't mean they aren't compatible or that a relationship b/w them can't work out but moreso that they literally tick completely the opposite. And with Aquas in particular, it's alot harder & more challenging for them to enter into anything with someone who isn't even 1% like them. Aquas are generally too "fixed" for that, especially since it's alot easier for them to go find someone who is atleast almost like them or very similiar to how they roll/tick/think.
This guy has some insecurities & issues. His head is in the clouds. He's living in fantasy land, not reality. And this woman from Russia knows that & is using that to her advantage right now.
If you want to reach out to your Aqua friend, I'd stay away from the Leo/Aquarian/astrology argument/reasoning when trying to give him advice b/c it def. won't mean anything to him. This situation goes alot deeper than just someone's zodiac sign
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they met at a base in Afghan. It's ridicules and he proposed to her after 2 months, now he is still going to stay another 2 years there and she is back in Russia...I know this is going to go down the drain, but he is desperate. I'm not trying to reach out to him - I told him what I think about it: that she's full of it and he should keep his money close and wits closer. But, you can't reason with a guy who is hell bent on something. Either way he's asking me what I think about it from astrology point. That's all.
I know he's delusional.
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welll, they argue, she talks to her ex, hides that from him, the only reason he knows is because he snooped on her convos, he doesnt trust her. Seems to me he is trying to force the trust on this relationship but it will not go anywhere. He really wants to have a family. But I know from what he said that he has a hard time trusting her. This thing looks to me like he is trying to plow up the hill with blind bulls pulling rather rickety wagon, for the lack of a better analogy.
I don't think she loves him at all. Because my best friend is a Leo and I have some other Leo friends and I know when it's real when it's just a play for them.
but you have a point that they are using each other maybe - in the end it's whatever works I guess. And who is to judge?
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That's some crazy ass shit right there. Best of luck to your friend then. There's no way he'll listen to anyone if he's completely committed to this.
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i know...and all I say to him: wait, fine be engaged, but treat it as an actual marriage and see where it is in 4 months and how she treats you in 6 months and such.
That's all I will say to him. I washed my hands off of telling him: dude, you're in a warzone and you lost your mind to a girl who has seen guys like you by 100s.
well whatever, I hope it works for his sake because all I see is a disaster heading towards him and he will get hurt.
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Wow, this dude is ALREADY snooping through her things? Wow, so he's literally trying to marry someone that he doesn't even trust?! Wowwwww. Having trust is the cornerstone & BASIC necessity for ANY type of relationship to work, whether it's friendship, a relationship & especially marriage!
They both have issues. Neither of them is ready for a commitment. They both have their priorities mixed up.
I think they both know that the relationship won't work out in the long run, but hey some people are naturally drawn to people/situations that add more thrill. They like treading on forbidden territories. And it's even worse when the person you're chasing has just as many issues as you. 2 insecure & irrational people need to stay away from eachother, but sadly birds of a feather flock together; that is why, even though what he's doing is foolish, may feel so good & worth the thrill of the ride for right now.
I'm sure 1 or both of them will snap out of it eventually. Hopefully before the wedding!
And damn! I'd be damned if I asked a man for money after only knowing for less than 6 months. No, it's not about pride/ego, but moreso about the fact that if I'm gonna "need" you for anything, I'm atleast gonna wait until the relationship's foundation is complete. If not, of course I'll look like the chick whose just using him, even if that's not my real intention.
I feel sorry for your friend but then again I don't. I think he knows exactly what he's doing. He knows that he's being impulsive, foolish & irrational. He's defying all the rules/laws of dating & for some reason, him doing so gives him even more of a rush/thrill. Smh smh Happens every day. All you can do is just HOPE that 1 or both people snaps out of it before they enter into something that's gonna take lawyers, attorney's fees & 2 judges to get themselves out of
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nah. I don't feel sorry for him - I told him straight out that he is being a fool. But you know, he's desperate, so I think he will do that anyways. Just dumb to me. that's all, I'm trying to humor him in a way, but I keep telling him to snap out or at least slooooow down.
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"She's just using him and he's delusional"
"His head is in the clouds. He's living in fantasy land, not reality."

Everyone in the world can see this relationship for what it is, except him!
Sound like NEPTUNE to me.
Neptune is currently transiting directly over his Aqua moon (at 28 Degrees Aquarius). His natal venus in dreamy pisces probably isn't helping the situation.

READ the man this! He's an aqua, he should be open-minded enough to consider it at least!!
Neptune transits conjunct Moon:
You are more sensitive than ever, and through the course of this transit, your emotional life opens up to incorporate more refined, subtle and understated perceptions.
As the emotional pipelines open up and the emotional walls come down, you can become more vulnerable to deception. Your ability to discriminate is compromised, simply because Neptune's energy lacks definition and boundaries. Some measure of caution is advised. Some unusual or unexpected problems with the mother, important women in your life, and/or your domestic life may occur during the course of the transit.

And what kind of self-respecting Aqua moon marries a Virgo moon anyhow?
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@Roaming: You're right. There's no point in feeling bad for him at this point. It sucks though to see such a good friend risk it all for a relationship that probably won't last by this time next year, or actually this time next month!
But hey people do it every day! Most of the people in this country are somewhere entertaining, conversating with or giving their energy/time/all to the WRONG person/people.
If he ever does wake up from fantasy land, I hope he's not broke, heart broken & stuck with a $ 10,000 tab when it's all finally over!
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I've had a good friend for the past 20+ years ("family friend" is probably a better term).. he's a Sag... about 15 years ago.. he traveled to the Ukraine with his best buddy & buddy's Ukrainian wife..and met the woman's cousin.. love at first sight, spent tons of money flying repeatedly to Europe over the following three years, and fighting the bureaucratic red tape to get her a US Visa, etc etc. It seemed so shady and rushed to me... I expressed my concerns to my friend, told him just slow down a little. If it's love, it'll last right? But my Sag friend was 1000% blinded, his buddy & wife in full support of his marrying Dear Cousin.. my friend thought it was the same romantic story they had... he met her on a trip, spent years working to get her to the US.. marriage, kids, bliss. My friend worked it out as quickly as he could in order to also bring her (lazy, worthless, spoiled) 18 year old son while he was still eligible, and got them both here. Work Visas for them both (son didn't use his lol).. eventually, citizenship for them both. I never liked her, and her son was a nightmare.
.. Unfortunately, shortly after this, the first wife finally showed her true colors... they ended up divorced after some years, she got the kids, the house, the cars, the bank accounts, and most of his business. She broke him entirely, and when he asked her why.. she said she needed out of the Ukraine, wanted to become a US citizen, and to live comfortably for the rest of her life. Thanks, baby. The man had to move back to his parents' house! -.-
Guess what her cousin did to my Sag friend a few years later? SAME THING.
Learned his lesson, right? Maybe, maybe not. Last I heard, he married a Mexican woman and has dual citizenship, and she has full control of their finances. He says she's nice though. -.-
Apparently, he has a thing for "mail order brides" lol
I guess my point is.. can't save a man from himself. He'll do what he wants, won't listen to anyone. *smh*
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*following two years, actually. Took two years from meeting to US Visa.. they had married in the Ukraine after knowing each other less than 6 months.
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Well, I told him all those things...I hope he sees the reality and I hope for his sake that this is real. nothing else I can do.
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yeah, the disaster one of few months, not the 10 year one (that one married recently a Scorpio - not sure how that works, but ok, I guess for both of them).
The one in question though we stayed friends surprisingly.
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DISASTER! What you're exposed to my fiend, is a slow train wreck...that is to say if he's set on marrying that floosie...if you think you can shed some light into his airy head to change his mind, great. If not...sit back & watch the derailing of that train
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That's the only thing about being an Aquarius that bugs the shit out of me; my stubbornness. Ppl tell advise me on one thing, and I keep on doing what I want. Long story short, I've learned to NOT fuck with chicks my age who have kids...sorry, I'm rambling LOL
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Aren't Geminis really flakey and pointless 'til they're 40 anyways ?
Generalising a lot here, but they don't get much love really.
Great for finding out gossip and stuff like that on people though. smile


The only gemini I know is a chick and she is just oh so freaky...bisexual....*sighs* she's fun
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Aqua and leo match = temporary success.
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