lagirl14
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8 Years
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Do AQUA MEN hold grudges? forgive? seek revenge?
Posted by Black-Mamba
He sounds like a loser and funny enough you love how he's treating you now vs before
Why nice guys turn into straight bytches
This. He’s using a different approach to try and get the same result. Last time he was being too nice you got turned off and said you didn’t want anything. This time around he’s acting more of a bad boy, not giving you all his time and attention and at least to a certain extent it’s working.
I wouldn’t pay it too much mind. Ignore him when he’s acting hot/cold or being rude and don’t play into any games.
You hurt him , he's just bidding his time to drop that other shoe on your head.
He was nice to you the first time around because well he liked you... a lot.
Maybe he isn't all that different this time around it's just he's ditched that sweet version of himself because he doesn't need to be.
Maybe he isn't all that different this time around it's just he's ditched that sweet version of himself because he doesn't need to be.
Cool story bro.
Posted by lagirl14
Hey guys, so I met this aqua guy 4 years ago, for the first two years we hang out a few times just as friends, although I knew he wanted more, around year 3 (exactly a year ago) we hooked up a couple of times, but within 10 days he got super clingy which is a big turn off for me. He was such a sweet and nice guy and I could tell he liked me more than I liked him, so I didn't want to hurt him, I didnt think he deserved that, so I told him that I was really sorry but that I didnt want to date anyone at the moment, that I didnt want to waste his time or mislead him, or disrespect him, and I apologized a lot, I was very respectful.
He didnt say much but I could tell on his response that he was angry. He automatically deleted me from social media and we didnt talk until a month ago.
I was deleting photos on my phone, found one photo of him, so I sent him a message, hoping that maybe we could be friends. He immediately started asking me to hang out again, we did, we hooked up again, he wasn't clingy this time to it seemed it was all good. But then I started realizing that he changed, he seemed meaner, he would tell me im busy every weekend this month I have plans, but I want you to be part of my plans too, but then he will go out with friends and never respond when we were supposed to meet, it feels like he's playing hard to get, he's more aggressive in the way he talks to me, its like he's a completely different guy, I can sometimes see hints of his old nice and sweet self, but most of the time he's cold. I asked him if this has something to do with what happened the year before, and he said no, he said that yeah it bothered him at the time, and he was disappointed, but he wasn't involve and he moved on pretty fast, but if his new behavior is not a kind of payback for that, I am not sure why he would be acting like this. He's constantly asking me to meet up, telling me he misses me, that he wants to see me, making plans to go on holidays one day, and the next day he's disappear with friends and its cold and mean again.
I told him that he's different, that he's not the same person, and that I couldnt let him treat me like this anymore.
Is he trying to make me feel bad or hurt me because I wasn't ready for a relationship with him a year ago? Was he always like this and I didnt see it?
If he is purposely trying to hurt me then I obviously don't want anything with him anymore, at this point I can't even trust him so not sure if there is anything to save here.
Thank you 🙂
He is not trying to hurt you you are just not his priority this time up.
He's protecting himself this time round and try to avoid it again but can't help the way how he feels at the same time.
Lol who cares what Aqua men do or think?
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