Do Aquarius contact people they don't like?

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I've been talking to this Aquarius for abt a week or two. Known him a lot longer but just recently spent a couple nights at his place, fooled around a little. It was fun. He's super sweet, timid & affectionate. Kinda quiet, though his affection makes up for almost everything. But every time he contacts me now, he's super short with me. Almost mean? Whereas before he would talk almost too much. It's kind of surprising he contacts me at all! I always feel like asking if he wants me to let him go. Lol but I don't. I just be nice & try to go with the flow. And he just keeps coming back!

Is this normal Aquarius behavior? I feel like he doesn't like me but he's always in my face lol I'm confused. I'm a Scorpio btw.

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Pisces moon
Aquarius Mercury
Pisces Venus
Gemini Mars
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Give us an example.
Okay, like instead of it being a normal flowing conversation that I'm used to from him, like "good morning beautiful. hey, how are you? How was your day? Yeah, my day was so weird or shitty ..blah blah etc. What are you up to? Oh that sounds like fun, I've always wanted to try blah blah blah etc"

Now he's more like "Morning. Hey. Wyd? Oh. Yeah. I'm chillin. I'm tired. Long day. Cool. Goodnight." Like... I don't get why text me at all if you clearly don't seem to wanna really talk! Lol
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Posted by sweetplainjane
I've been talking to this Aquarius for abt a week or two. Known him a lot longer but just recently spent a couple nights at his place, fooled around a little. It was fun. He's super sweet, timid & affectionate. Kinda quiet, though his affection makes up for almost everything. But every time he contacts me now, he's super short with me. Almost mean? Whereas before he would talk almost too much. It's kind of surprising he contacts me at all! I always feel like asking if he wants me to let him go. Lol but I don't. I just be nice & try to go with the flow. And he just keeps coming back!

Is this normal Aquarius behavior? I feel like he doesn't like me but he's always in my face lol I'm confused. I'm a Scorpio btw.

Aquarius sun
Pisces moon
Aquarius Mercury
Pisces Venus
Gemini Mars
he has aquairus mercury/sun trine his gemini mars...

that might be a huge indication of his talking too much? maybe? and his venus and moon makes him super affectionate and lovey dovey.

the water and air maybe difficult for him to express in a communicative way?
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Posted by truecap
Give us an example.
Okay, like instead of it being a normal flowing conversation that I'm used to from him, like "good morning beautiful. hey, how are you? How was your day? Yeah, my day was so weird or shitty ..blah blah etc. What are you up to? Oh that sounds like fun, I've always wanted to try blah blah blah etc"

Now he's more like "Morning. Hey. Wyd? Oh. Yeah. I'm chillin. I'm tired. Long day. Cool. Goodnight." Like... I don't get why text me at all if you clearly don't seem to wanna really talk! Lol
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hm maybe just go with the flow and just enjoy the spurts. i dont think there's anything wrong.

he's probably just super tired one day and excitable the other day...like he drank a red bull or something. and chilled the other day because he worked long and needs to relax...
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Don't let it bother you, just keep being you. Be consistent. The important thing is he is staying in touch and contacting you daily.

Everyone has an off day where there's nothing interesting going on. Sometimes I have to be the one to keep the conversation rolling and come up with interesting topics to discuss. Sometimes he does. My aqua has aqua mercury too and needs to be drawn out with interesting text subjects.

Daily routines aren't really that interesting actually. Ask him what his favorite cartoon was growing up, or what was his first job ever, or what was the first car he ever had. Or tell him about some odd news story you saw. Just don't ask wyd. I mean, come on. Wyd isn't very clever or engaging.

But most of all instead of focusing on what he isn't doing (like you wanting more sentences), focus on what he is doing (keeping contact).