Signed Up: Aug 11, 2012 Comments: 1 · Posts: 109 · Topics: 12
some this is what happened.... --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- hey people i am Aquarius ( 22yr old) so this guy i am in love with ( i guess) is a cancer .. a typical one when i broke up with my bf ( 2 months ago) .. he was there for me all the time.. after that i went to live with my family and he started to get distant. i asked him what is going on BTW us as he is giving me mixed signals.. all he said was that he is not sure if he loves me or not.( he would be sure of this when i will be in front of him, face to face and when he will spend some time with me ) however he likes me.. that is what he is sure about. i asked him to stay stick with me till i graduate as i know i will start going through emotional crisis and i don't want that to ruin my education( 6 months left) he said *ok sweety* right after that for almost a week, he was being distant however i ignored it. 3 days ago i texted him that "(x) this distance of yours is only making me upset more and more.. and if u keep this up.. i might start talking other people with in some months, including my ex. as you are giving me allot mixed signals" that line blow him off.. he started insulting me that i run after another guy in case if my former boy is not giving me time .. etc... i cried while reading his msg.. and only replied that i love him and he confuse me... he has been confusing me past 3 years. but i never said because i always took him out of my league.. but now when i broke up with my bf he was there.. and it have me the feeling that may be he loves me too... as he use to send kisses and hugs.. and protection etc.. he replied that it was all friendly.. he never kissed me in real or anything like that.. now i was more then confused so i asked him again whether there is some thing BTW us more then friends or was it always till friendship.. he never replied.. i am not really thinking what should i do or if he would come back or not.. all i want to know is did i do right thing ( telling him about what i feel ..? though he said he don't believe me.
You are seriously lacking in self awareness. You have no idea of what you want. I would suggest quitting dating relationships altogether. Start doing some daily self-discovery. Learn what you are all about and how you impact to other people. After that, you will know what to do next. Good luck.
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