Do You Have What It Takes To Be With An Aquarian?

i have asked myself this question many, many times....sometimes the answer is yes, and sometimes it is no, but most of the time for me, it is yes...

what can i say? i am just in love with these women...

one in particular who chart is overwhelmingly aquarian:

sun in aquarius

moon in aquarius

venus in aqaurius

mercury in aquarius

jupiter in aquarius


suffice it to say, our combined charts indicate a very strong placement for marriage....funny thing is we have discussed marriage and are engaged at the moment, except there is no set date because she (in keeping with her aquarian nature) wants to have control so we don't inhibit her "freedom"...oh yeah, aqaurians love that word, even the ones who are not into astrology...and she isnt, at least that what she leads me to believe...

so, the fact that we are even engaged is a feat in itself because she has never has had a boyfriend, serious or not in her life...in fact, she hates the terms "boyfriend" and "girlfriend"...she is 22....

i know i am the first love in her life and she is the first true love in mine but our love is strange, as with everything with this girl so it seems...

she absolutely drives me up the wall sometimes to the point where i feel like i can't take it anymore...during these times when she is obviously testing me (although she will never admit it)somehow, i hold it together and maintain my composure, only because i love her so much and would not want to repel her with any emotional displays, and I am very emotional, so it requires a lot of self-control on my part...

i never knew i ever had so much self-control until i met this aqaurius girl...i am such a "i want what i want when i want it" person, and it has always worked this way for me with few problems...girls are willing to play by my rules...

but i have met my match in this girl...her game is strong...probably the strongest of any of the girls i have dated extensively, and i have dated quite a few in my time...

not only is her game off the charts, but she is a STUNNER and of course she knows it...She can literally have any man she wants and she is so open, yet so closed...The guys that I constantly see falling over her have no clue that she is like a siren right out of greek mythology, but they realize it a little too late, when they have already flung themselves overboard trying to win her affection...

nothing feels better to me than watching hopeful suitors, handsome and awkward alike approach her and get their hopes up while she smiles at them and entices them all the while encouraging them, only to dash their hopes to the ground with one cold look or word when they either pass their place or she becomes bored...


oh how i love these women...

an aqaurius girl is just what i needed...these women are STRONG and if you want to feel like you just hit the megamillions jackpot, stir one of these women's emotions and you she will take to you another dimension, another galaxy all together...and if you just happen to be from another galaxy myself, it is a match made in heaven....

yeah, i know that was pretty brash considering that i just joined the board and i never bothered to introduce myself, instead, I chose to vent and rant to people who know not the first thing about me....

must be my mercury in aries....


i have just been reading these forums for the past few days and i finally decided to come out of lurking and post....i have gained a lot of insight here from what i have read...

hmmm, interesting, so which part of your chart is making you braggy?




ALWAYS

ha...

good one...


i am trying to work on that...

funny you should say that because another aquarian chick who i was just hanging out with (and pissed off) just now said the same thing about me...she happens to have venus and mercury in aries like me but apparently is not so full of herself (so she leads me to believe..)

it seems she had problems with the fact that i see myself as a "rock star" even though i have absolutely nothing to do with rock music...*shrugs*

but no, i am working on that...

working on being a rock star? can I have your autograph while it's early?

very weird, you sound like an Aqua dude I know 😕

hmm, Aries mercury's bound to make the Aqua 'I'm special' syndrome more vocal

here...have a slice...you deserve it

hahaha...


as a matter of fact, i had some aspirations in music, many of which i achieved so far, just not rock music, but let me not go there...

i still have autographs for anyone who wants it, though! j/k...i don't do autographs...

there is just something so pretentious about that...

sounds weird coming from a "braggy" person like me, huh? i know...i confuse myself a lot too...


but really, i have no aqaurius in my chart, but i seem to attract them hell out of them for some reason....

i always have them around in one incarnation or another...


and i do have a bit of a problem stroking my aqua girl's ego, although i know that is definitely the LAST thing she needs from me, but she is just so stunning and charming i can't help it---that must be my venus in aries acting without abandon as its so used to doing...

and forgive me if i seem like i have taken out my "braggy" hat once again, but my aqua girl has told me many times that although i stroke her ego along with many other men who do it constantly, it only means something to her when I do it...

if you only knew this girl, dude, trust me....you would be bragging too...she is an undisputed 10 on the hotness scale...


and thanks, man...i am enjoying this aqua slice...it is pretty damn tasty...i could eat it everyday for the rest of my life to the exclusion of all other slices and be completely happy about it...

lol you're far gone, dude what's your sun and moon dude?

enjoying the cake eh...here have a cookie too...


I share, that's what I do and no it's not bragging, it's fact...because I gave you the cookie jar...least you can do is share something back - oh I don't know, hmmm, let's say the picture of this said person that blew apart the hotness scale...

just messing - it's been fun...real life calls...

yeah, i've heard that before, dude...

i feel like i am so far gone that the only people who WILL hang out with me and give me the time of day ARE aquarius...

hence, i am so thankful for this forum, because at least i have at least a chance of being understood here...but knowing myself, maybe i'm hoping against hope...


really though, i have a pisces sun and gemini moon, which would kind of explain why my restless, insomniac a $ $ is up at 4:30 am on sat. morning posting on dxp ranting as i am...

i am so conflicted...

happily conflicted i might add...well sometimes....


and maybe i will post a pic of my super hot, german-bred, super-model aquarius, once i get over my pisces/gemini anxiety concerning the males on here who might take her picture and do unspeakable things while looking at it on their computers....

you would have to see her to understand...

and as far as her pics being on the net, she has never posted any seeing that she doesn't use it as a tool for social networking...i guess like most girls with lots of aqua in their charts, she is too cool for that...

so her image is really virginal as far as the internet is concerned and i wouldn't want to be the reason why her image loses its "internet virginity" if you know what i mean..


not that i'm the jealous type, though, cause i'm not...i'm just anxious..

did i mention that my sun is in pisces and my moon is in gemini? :-)

yea you mentioned...twice...but who noticed eh?

so a fishi eh...wait must put on my gear before I drown


wow - had no idea this sea was so deep dude


hmm, said was messing about the pictures - understand your anxiety...


hence, i am so thankful for this forum, because at least i have at least a chance of being understood here...but knowing myself, maybe i'm hoping against hope...
whoa - shark attack
...have no expectations is shield on open forums...and life itself...but again rants are very much welcome and encouraged

awww, how sweet and how pisces...

Aqua women dont get much love on these boards, so its much appreciated.

Much appreciated Stillwaters,. lovely, lovely🙂

yea stillw's pretty cool - that's why he got the last cake slice and cookie jar.

I LOVE Aqua ladies - little or no darned pettiness or bickering


The dudes have all da Aqua board luv 😛 actually like most the other sign boards

@ fallstar -

to me, yes, aqua women are the penultimate, most elusive prize in the zodiac...they are the hardest to make fall in love with you...

ask anyone who has tried...

and aqua women are not so easy as to just be with any old dude who is "intellectually mature" and "gives her freedom"...

first of all, you are trivializing aqua women waaay too much and they are much more complicated and complex than you make it seem...

first off, "intellectual maturity" will not satisfy an aqua women if there are no splashes of childish spontaneity and FUN mixed in with it...you gotta have a mixed bag with these girls because they are the pickiest i have met...

secondly, you can never give an aqua girl her freedom...she has it anyway and you are just a second thought where her freedom is concerned...

what you CAN do with an aqua girl is RESPECT the fact that she is going to do what she wants to do whenever she damn well pleases....

i speak from experience....

and you never mentioned the fact that girls with heavy aqua placements will not take you seriously if you are not HOT!

yeah, they can be superficial too, they will just never admit it...fixed air, remember?

and fallstar, i see you have just hidden you message about me being a "sadist" because i said i enjoyed watching my aqua girl string hopeful suitors along knowing all the while that she is just playing with them and will reject them in the end...

i am not someone who enjoys watching pain being inflicted on others, which is what a sadist is....

its just that i know that every guy she rejects is an acceptance of me in a way on her part...in other words, i know that as long as she is rejecting these guys that come non stop, everyday in literal droves, she has not found something better than me...

and i know she always has her eye out for something better, because she has told me so...EXCEPT she hasn't found it, and if i know myself at all, she won't...

i am it for her....

where is the sadism in that?

guys have their freedom just like an aqua girl...if they wanna set themselves up for the fall, let them...they are free to fall victim to an aqua girl's wily mind games just like anyone else...

that is why i asked the question, "do you have what it takes to be with an aqaurian?" because i know that the majority of people who want them do not..and usually in the end when they fail to win the aqua girl's love, they wish they did have what it takes because they will most likely end up with a broken heart or very hurt feelings and by then, its too late...

that big aqua luxury liner has sailed off into the sunset for new horizons, picking up new passengers along the way and you are but a mere dissipating wave that was generated by the wake of her magnificent yacht that is never turning back...

and chances are, she won't remember you or your name much less even think about you...

and the fool who has tried to win the aqua girl and has failed knows this all to well...

and they always end up thinking, "if i could only have been stronger..."


sooo, do you have what it takes to be with an aqaurian?

and to all of the lovely and beautiful, intellectually boundless aqua ladies in here, bless your hearts!

i am officially sold...and i am one of the hardest sales to make...

hats off to you ladies...you are truly worthy of all the praise that comes your way and more...

i feel like a lot of times, men don't fully appreciate all wonderful things aqua ladies have to offer (when they are finally moved to offer anything at all)...


it takes A LOT OF WORK...if you are lazy, forget about it, because there is only room for one lazy person in the relationship and the aqua is not changing so you better get your work gloves and your thinking caps out because you will need both to keep this girl interested in you...

but once they do start offering up their loads of charm and ingenuity and IDEAS, you won't need anything or anyone else...aqua girls can be a one-stop shop if they like you and feel comfortable enough to open up to you...

@ fallstar -


no offense taken and all the best to you and your capricorn...

my girl has a capricorn rising actually, and my mom is a capricorn..i love em to a certain
degree but i'll take an aqua any day with no regrets...

lol cw...

the aqua is not changing so you better get your work gloves and your thinking caps out because you will need both to keep this girl interested in you...

awwww

@ cappygolightly:

as far as i am concerned, your name says it all....a typically cautious capricorn...

but no worries....

i live life to the fullest with no regrets and that is one of the things i think aqaus find appealing about me...i have so much youthful energy and such a big imagination, they never get bored with me...

but, as far as i am concerned, she already has her mind made up about me...the only one who can ruin it is me...

or she could find someone better but knowing how EXTREMELY difficult and stubborn and lazy she is, she won't want to put forth the effort...and as long as she isnt putting forth any effort, any guy trying to woo her is going nowhere fast and it won't be long before he gives up and starts sniffing out other flowers..

this girls is tough as nails and knowing what i went through to be with her, i highly doubt that there are very many other men out there who have the balls to deal...


@ theskys: funny, i feel the same way about aqaurius women, like they have me pegged! and i am always used to being the mysterious one!

well as long as we both have each other pegged, that's ok...i guess that's kind of the aim in relationships:-)

you ladies are just sooooo delightful!


@ ofa:

i think maybe the reason why there isn't so much info on the aqua woman is due to their elusiveness..

now you see 'em, now you don't....

as soon as you think you are getting somewhere, you find that you really havent moved...unless they like you....and even when they like you, they move SLOW, but its ok, because if they like you progress will be slow, but there will be progress nontheless...thats all that matters..

dealing with aqau girls sometimes, its almost like sitting in a parked car by the water watching a boat pass by slowly and thinking that the car you are in is moving and not the boat, without even realizing it....

and then you realize that SHE is the one moving leaving you behind standing STILL...

ahh, sorry is the man who has had his feelings hurt by an aqaurius...

i can see why it must hurt so much to get rejected by them because they just have this way of reeling you in making you think everything is peaches and cream and then...





BAM!!!!


they have swept the rug under your feet and you are trying to figure out what just happened...it can be quite amusing to watch actually just because aqua girls are SOOOOOO GOOOD AT IT....they just have this finesse about them, even when rejectin

@ aquagoddess:

the reason you ladies don't get love in all honesty is because you make it so damn hard for people to love you!

but that's good, don't change (like you would anyway, right?) because the few people who do end up behind your walls definitely deserve to be there...

i used to date a few virgos and i thought they were picky, scrutinizing, observant note-takers and situation-filers....

but i must admit, aquarius takes the cake when it comes to pickiness and note-taking.....not to mention fickless...


if you think your aqua girl is being aloof, that is just her cover so she can take notes on everything without anyone bothering her...i mean, she needs to concentrate for all that note-taking since it has to be accurate! i mean, she will be making important decisions about people based on these notes! everything is based on these notes!

but in my experiences, these girls don't miss a beat, even when they look like they are being aloof...don't fall for it guys, like everything else they do, its a game!

that is why you know anyone who has staying power with an aqua girl in the long run REALLY has it going on....because you know in order for him to be in that position, he was most likely scrutinized more than a CIA candidate...

and that is no joke...

how many Aqua females have you dated out of curiosity?

counting the ones i can remember off the top of my head, 4.....

all of them very similar, yet very different...more similarities than differences, though..

it seems like you have put this girl on a pedestal. these things you've described that you love about her seem very surface to me. but hey ho, infatuation is fun

esp with "stunners"

I'm an Aquarian woman and I am officially in LOVE with you

"this girls is tough as nails and knowing what i went through to be with her, i highly doubt that there are very many other men out there who have the balls to deal..."


I guess this is pisces male trait...you all dont give up or just dont get the hints?

@ wheelhomies:

woe unto the man who does not put his aqua on a pedestal...i find that is a key thing they are looking for in partner to put them on a pedestal because after all, they do think they are special:-), not better than anyone else mind you, just DIFFERENT......(sure *wink*)...


aqua ladies are true egoists indeed and very narcissistic, though they will rarely if ever admit it...

it is a must that they be treated like the special ladies they are...there is no other way...


@ theskys:

it takes a confident guy indeed to grab one of you...and really, guys never seem to grab aqua girls...we can only make state our case as best as CAREFULLY as possible and HOPE that an aqua girl decides to CHOOSE us....

nothing is happening with these girls before they are READY for it to happen and they WANT it to happen...

like i said, these girls must come first in any relationship they are in and they make it clear either indirectly or directly.....and why not? they are SPECIAL!

and although an aqua girl will most likely never belong to a man, a man will most certainly be owned by her in many respects!

but only because she needs to protect her freedom....


@aquarius818:

and i am oh so in love with you too, Baby....smooches...


@ ladym:

:-)...i dunno what it is about pisces men and challenging, impossible, headstrong women, but they are definitely my weakness...

what would i do without aqaurius ladies? i would be so lost...so misunderstood...

and nothing makes me more amorous than rejection sometimes...its a challenge to me when a girl brushes me off and and plays hard to get (aqua women play VERY hard to get) and i make her like me somehow and open up to me, i win...or we both win, rather...


yeah, if you are a guy who doesn't like to play games, an aqua girl ain't for you...


@ aqauriusgoddess:

ditto, Love...i have nothing but love and admiration for you ladies...

i have been studying you ladies and observing your behavior for quite some time since it is so strangely odd, yet tantalizingly appealing at the same time!

i am a aqua addict...i am not afraid to admit it....

and not only are aqua ladies special, but they want a man who is special too, in his own way...i mean after all, normal is just so BORING to you ladies...

stillwaters are you still on this? (hehe that rhymed)



I guess this is pisces male trait...you all dont give up or just dont get the hints?
ah yes, those crucial hints...
not just pisces male trait...

this is nothing - check out stillwater's other posts 🙂

Everyone has narcissitic egotistical tendencies commonly known as 'getting your way' - some just hide it better than some...

The fact that stillwaters bring it up means he may be feeding on this in his relationship with the Aqua lady, hence the Aqua ladies here are concurring...but like Cappy points out...it get old very quick Do you think a marriage would survive what you really think of her deep down? It seems to have the pattern of an addictive relationship. Addictive relationships are not healthy. You're not loving her for herself, but to fulfil some personal pattern that fulfils your subconscious urges. Like I said, enjoy it while it lasts. Sooner or later your real feelings will come out or she will get bored.
or like I guess this is pisces male trait...you all dont give up or just dont get the hints?

sooner or later, what is it you want stillwaters? what is your definition of forever or normal to you? if you remember a relationship is between 2 people with equal amount of compromise...if you think that one person's lazier and can't change or shouldn't change, it is not a relationship between 2...it's one-sided.

Water and Air has similar fascination with the other but extremely very different outlooks in the long run...

lol - i am a aqua addict...i am not afraid to admit it.... Hotlovinggirl said this a while ago too - mutable signs eh, gotta love them.

"I prefer my girls to be womanly and comfortable with their own femininety."

says the man dating a cap.

aaah, well its the same way with all reserved women.

You can only truly judge what you know.

Not entirely, but it doesnt come easy ... good things in life never do🙂

So you say. How do you know you've had the absolute best of any?

It's Evan!

Whats good is subjective
so is what's best...one man's food is another's poison

hare you what now? laying it on a bit too thick are we not?


oh well

please evan, don't kill a good flow with nutritional fact spewing Virgoness now dude ...

So evan, in lurve with cappy? or what? we want juice !



LOL - blingie- better luck next time me duck - I'll shed a tear for you in the meantime

aawww, your 2 posts speak a million words about your care-o-meter me duck......ok you know what? fuck it, Amma cry you a river

BUT STILL !!! The question remains....Do you have what it takes to be with an Aquarian — No, I hope not !
erm, I mean, I don't think so...do you? if you, please zen be what it takes to be with the ever elusive, almighty sustance that will be more blah to Aquarius...




no no - your understanding skills need some work ...I meant, if you didn't care, you wouldn't have responded to the post 2wice...ok so how's this bait?



please advice !

substance...

lol -
advice = advise (US - UK) 😛

hmmm...being a pussay's easy no?

an unsidedown Leo eh...hmmm... ....

really?

🙂

No, just amused at the hateration 🙂🙂

I wonder what would happen if we change every "aqua/aquarius" word to "aries" or perhaps "scorpio" in the OP??

So it seems; Im sure no one will doubt there efforts.

lol bling & M...just got scorched by the lurve between you two

ok let's switch from aqua/aquarius - bring it ! hehe - as long as it's not sommat like I heard aries women like to be raped or scorps are evil those ones have been played.




bling

The aries or the scorpio of course!

Im watching the Tudors season 2 online. The new megavideo is good but sucks at the same time. It tells me take a break for 54 minutes after 72 of watching, WTF??

really? tells you to break how? 😕

Quit using it...couldn't be arsed with how much it sucked.