Do you think he likes me? Will I go to hell? I just made him cheat.

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sunire16
@sunire16
8 Years

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OK, I'm a Gemini born in the year of rabbit, and he's an aquarian in the year of Dog.. at first I had no plan to like him or see him in that kind of romantic way.

We were facebook friends, He's a very sweet and friendly guy, kept commenting and like on my posts, kept reacting to my facebook's stories, one day he DM me, and Voice text me, his voice was so deep and so sexy and it kinda turn me on. He invited me to play game with him (Mobile legend), Even though I never play it before, I downloaded it and played with him, I wonder why I did that? I kinda get lost in the conversation, I got so carried away, He showered me with lots of attention, the only aquarius who did that, and I ... kinda sent him my nude. he likes it and asked for more. but after that day, my vision.. how I see him is different from before.. he's getting cuter and cuter day by day, he did whatever I told him to, such a nice guy, We planned to see a movie together, and a sleepover, He was so excited he wanted to come to my house very early before even the sleepover party started, I Of course turned him down, I mean there's nothing we can do, it's too early.. I told him I update him later this evening, evening comes, I called him again and he said he's busy, he couldn't come, He video called me, it was the best video call ever, I saw him, I feel him, his eyes were so shiny when he talked to me, he looks very happy to see me in the video call, we talked and talked .. it felt so good. after a good 15mins of video call he hung up and said he need to take a shower, half an hour later he texted me "I need to tell you something"

and my mind thought he was about to say "I like you" but what I got was different than I expected he said "I'm already in a relationship" my heart kinda sink to the ground, dropped and exploded into million pieces, I try to react normal, I try to speak to him normally, but the pain in my chest is making me feeling so suffocate to even let me speak properly, i told him don't put the blame on himself, i'm fine i'm ok, i'm glad we could be friend, i believe a 25years old man isn't playing any mind games with me, he just likes me but is not at the right time, wrong timing. I saw him posted 2 movies ticket, and he offline since then.. I got so drunk, at my sleepover party, I cried, I feel so miserable.. the next morning he approached me and said sorry again, We played game together and I acted like nothing happened.. but i can feel something is different, his action, his attitude, his text, I couldn't bear the changes so I straightly asked him and he said that he was just so busy, I get it, maybe he's with his girlfriend and he can't text me, maybe there is nothing wrong with him, he was just a man who is trying to commit to his relationship, and me? I was just a no one, I was just out of place. I felt like my chest is gonna burst out anytime soon so I left my house to get some fresh air and felt better, get back home saw his text and feel better again... I don't know I'm so addicted, he's like a drug, i'm so desperate, i'm so insecure every minutes every scenario that hurt me are created in my head. Of course my desperation happened off screen I didn't show any of these to him, I kinda open up about my feeling and I thought maybe he would left me but he still stick around... I- cannot, this is getting harder than before, it's so hard for me to back off now, I asked what are we? he replied "whatever you want, I promised anything for you" of course I wanted to be his girlfriend but that is just so selfish.. I asked to be his side chick and he agreed.. I feel bad for his girlfriend now. . . we texted, and joke,and game together all the time now that i feel like his time are invested in me more than his girlfriend.. Please don't tell me to back off from this guy because, I will never ever find someone like him again. I will stick around for so long until I broke out of this side chick zone, what do you think?
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Sunmoonrising
@Sunmoonrising
6 Years

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Posted by Aquarelle

This is not what you want to hear, but you should back off.

For your own sake.

He is with someone else, so he will never put you first as long as he is taken. And from your post I get the impression you are not taking it well, because you want to be his number one.

If you continue, your self esteem will suffer immensely. You give him everything he wants, while he gives you ...well....not much.

Agreeing to be his "side chick"is no guarantee he will choose you in the end. Also, you are not showing any respect for the girl he is with now.

It's up to you, but I think you deserve better than this.


You may one day be his main girl and he'll get a side chick on you. It's nasty to even consider it to that other women who no doubt senses he's up to no good as women have a 6th sense.

Be a better person..
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Pandora101
@Pandora101
10 Years1,000+ Posts

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I never understood why someone would chose the aqua forum for trolling 🙂

we are so mellow and boring individuals, you should reinvent the story a bit (just make sure you alter a bit the "I sent him a nude" and "I didnt want him to come over first, because its too early") and put it into some more exciting thread, you know

other signs will apreciate it more 🙂

some things in the story need tweking a bit, but otherwise good troll material, detailed, etc

(welcome back honey) 🙂
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Pandora101
@Pandora101
10 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by sunire16

OK, I'm a Gemini born in the year of rabbit, and he's an aquarian in the year of Dog.. at first I had no plan to like him or see him in that kind of romantic way.

We were facebook friends, He's a very sweet and friendly guy, kept commenting and like on my posts, kept reacting to my facebook's stories, one day he DM me, and Voice text me, his voice was so deep and so sexy and it kinda turn me on. He invited me to play game with him (Mobile legend), Even though I never play it before, I downloaded it and played with him, I wonder why I did that? I kinda get lost in the conversation, I got so carried away, He showered me with lots of attention, the only aquarius who did that, and I ... kinda sent him my nude. he likes it and asked for more. but after that day, my vision.. how I see him is different from before.. he's getting cuter and cuter day by day, he did whatever I told him to, such a nice guy, We planned to see a movie together, and a sleepover, He was so excited he wanted to come to my house very early before even the sleepover party started, I Of course turned him down, I mean there's nothing we can do, it's too early.. I told him I update him later this evening, evening comes, I called him again and he said he's busy, he couldn't come, He video called me, it was the best video call ever, I saw him, I feel him, his eyes were so shiny when he talked to me, he looks very happy to see me in the video call, we talked and talked .. it felt so good. after a good 15mins of video call he hung up and said he need to take a shower, half an hour later he texted me "I need to tell you something"

and my mind thought he was about to say "I like you" but what I got was different than I expected he said "I'm already in a relationship" my heart kinda sink to the ground, dropped and exploded into million pieces, I try to react normal, I try to speak to him normally, but the pain in my chest is making me feeling so suffocate to even let me speak properly, i told him don't put the blame on himself, i'm fine i'm ok, i'm glad we could be friend, i believe a 25years old man isn't playing any mind games with me, he just likes me but is not at the right time, wrong timing. I saw him posted 2 movies ticket, and he offline since then.. I got so drunk, at my sleepover party, I cried, I feel so miserable.. the next morning he approached me and said sorry again, We played game together and I acted like nothing happened.. but i can feel something is different, his action, his attitude, his text, I couldn't bear the changes so I straightly asked him and he said that he was just so busy, I get it, maybe he's with his girlfriend and he can't text me, maybe there is nothing wrong with him, he was just a man who is trying to commit to his relationship, and me? I was just a no one, I was just out of place. I felt like my chest is gonna burst out anytime soon so I left my house to get some fresh air and felt better, get back home saw his text and feel better again... I don't know I'm so addicted, he's like a drug, i'm so desperate, i'm so insecure every minutes every scenario that hurt me are created in my head. Of course my desperation happened off screen I didn't show any of these to him, I kinda open up about my feeling and I thought maybe he would left me but he still stick around... I- cannot, this is getting harder than before, it's so hard for me to back off now, I asked what are we? he replied "whatever you want, I promised anything for you" of course I wanted to be his girlfriend but that is just so selfish.. I asked to be his side chick and he agreed.. I feel bad for his girlfriend now. . . we texted, and joke,and game together all the time now that i feel like his time are invested in me more than his girlfriend.. Please don't tell me to back off from this guy because, I will never ever find someone like him again. I will stick around for so long until I broke out of this side chick zone, what do you think?


I am his girlfriend and I will come after you! he told me everything and I am going to make public your nude, I promise! I will contact everyone on your fb list and warn them (with the nude attached)!

on the other hand, he, my boyfriend, the Aqua, told me he loves you very much and cant decide if stay with me or go with you..... he feels you love him more..... the bastard!

I am so in love with him that I am willing to have a threesome if that is the way to keep him!