Does aquarius want me or his bm? Was it real, should i fight for him??

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by thatbihh612 on Friday, November 16, 2018 and has 11 replies.
I met this aquarius (bday 01/29/1996) back in the beginning of June. Im a gemini (bday 06/04/1990. Im a stripper, he came into the club with his friend for his friends birthday. He paid for a lapdance and he was so sweet and interested in me I even gave him a discount. He was kind of shy about it which was so cute its like he couldnt believe he was getting touched by such a beautiful women. Not to be shallow but I am very attractive, i weigh 118, cute face and a great rack lol (this is important btw later on) and he is also extremely attractive. Which was why it was so cute because he could get anyone he wanted if life looks was all that mattered. ANYWAYS, long story short, I gave him my number, I cant remember if he asked or i told him to hit me up. I was just looking for someone cute to have fun with. Didn't hear from him for a few days, then got a text from a different number pretending to be him. It wasn't (his bm found my number in his pocket) A few hours later he texted me from his actual number and told me to just ignore his BM bc shes just jealous and mad he broke up with her. Im a stripper so I know how that goes, BMs cant let a dead relationship go and try to sabotage a new relationship.

Anyways he texted me and claimed they werent together and she was crazy. Asked me to come get him from his hotel bc his bm and him got into argument there and called the cops on him and he needed to have fun and we could go to this party together and just have some drinks. He's such a sweet charming sexy savage. It's hard to resist him and just something about him just made me feel like it was love at first sight. It was just fun, and I was just drawn to him. I know he felt the same by the way he looked at me and that night we had sex, it just naturally happened. He treated me like I was a prize He was just so respectful to me and didnt seem to mind that I was a stripper, its like he just loved the way I made him feel and I did too. I couldnt stop thinking of him. Our connection was so instant and obvious. He treated me so good I felt like a queen. But he would dissapear and then call me saying he just got out of jail and I just wanted to be that women for him since he had so much drama with his bm and he didnt deserve that, and then a few days after his BM hit me up AGAIN

A week and a half later he called me again and told me he got out of jail and he wanted to see me. I called bs but his cousin told me he wasnt lying.he was such a kind person I wanted to treat him as good as he made me feel. So i didnt mind helping him out and when I came into town he would come by and see me and we would talk outside at my job bc he was always having to get rides and on time limits. (So at this time it was like a month since meeting him and we met up about 3 times. but talked whenever he wasnt in jail. smh bad boyyy i know but hes young.) anyways.....

I was coming back into town for work and he was finally out of jail and he was so excited to see me, we both love to make money and it was just exciting to be with someone who was obsessed with me and treated me so politely like I was mother theresa lol. I stayed in town for like a week bc he didnt want me to leave and we were making so much money together with his lil "hustles" selling things for weed and shit (legal where we live) but also he uplifted me and didnt make me feel bad for choosing the life style I was living as a stripper or judge me. I was literally in love and he was too but I could tell something was holding him back he would act weird, sneak off to make calls. always running to the store. wouldnt spend the night with me at first.

i was feeling used tbh but im not one to beg any dude to see my worth so i didnt hit him up for a day and he could tell i was mad and that night he asked around his family for a place to stay for us to be together because he lost $ 500 he was supposed to pay me back and i was broke from paying for everything. and my friend wouldnt let him stay the night. but again he started distancing himself so i demanded him spend the night with me and HIM pay for it or i was leaving. So he didnt contact me all day but then did as I got off work at bar close. he came to get me and it was like that connection was back and he was sorry, he wanted to make it up to me and even had me meet his cousins who he was staying with that night and wanted me to meet his sons the next day.

all he could talk about that night was how he hated his bm. and his cousin said that we were cute and that i was gonna be his wife and wanted me to meet his kids and be his wife and he just seemed so ready finally to commit. and his bm brought the kids over the next day. then i realize she didnt know i was even there. he kept going outside to call her and they kept arguin on the phone that whole morning and i heard him say he couldnt do this with her anymore and he was done with her. then i saw she wasnt even cute at all she was literally hideous i was shocked. but then i walked outside to where he was talking to her to see what he was talking to her about so much on the phone (he kept going outside bc his phone was broken and only worked on speaker phone) and he was crying while on the phone with her and so i opened the door quick and said his name super loud and said come here and as soon as he heard my voice he hung up and asked how long i was down there. anyways at that point he looked caught but told me he was crying bc she made him miserable and she was ruining something that was for once making him happy and wished she could just move on. i just felt like it could be true but he wasnt about to play that game with me. so i told him i had to go meet up with my guy friend and I'd call him after work. but i wanted him to sweat bc he knew he got caught doing something. and i was gonna make him know i had options. so he needed to choose. bc we never talked about if we were together or what, i just asssumed he felt what i did. then that night he called me and said he was sick and couldnt see me before i went home. i was so sad but i could tell he said that bc he was mad about me saying i met up with another dude

that week (july 9th-14) was the first time we spent that much together. (6 weeks into meeting him at this point.) and he went missing again and after that he would say he was coming to see me but wouldnt or his cousin would say he was in jail again and id give his cousin money to put on his books. i didnt think ppl would lie about that bc its not cute to be in jail. but his phone wasnt working

then i got a message on fb in the beginning of august (2 weeks later) saying that he was getting back with his bm and to not hit him up. I thanked him for telling me but i told him i would miss him and was really confused tbh because i thought i was more. i was crushed. then an HOUR later he called saying that was his bm and that he missed me, then that night she videochatted me from his page and asked him who i was but i made my sister answer the call. he wouldnt look at the camera and i started saying "who am i....how bout u ask his mom who i am" and he grabbed the video and said he didnt know who that was and hung up.

i was pissed but i had no way to get a hold of him then he called me from his moms facebok a month later asking what i was telling his bm about how we fucked and why i was texting him talking shit (which i never did so it must of been her texting him trying to sabotage us and get us against eachother).

IDK i just want to know like did he actually like me at some point do i wait and see if he comes around. bc i get random calls but never know if its him or his bm and she keeps messaging me still pretending to be him saying i was just used for money. idk am i dumb to think he really loved me and the only reason it didnt work out is bc she manipulated the situation?? help bc i cant get over him. was it just because they were fighting and i was dumb for him? idk.

her bday is 10/2/1990 and libra

idk its sad bc i see they are acting all happy on fb now and i have a bf now but i just feel like if he found out it wasnt me talking shit to him that he would realize that what we had was real and come back to me.
You deserve better.
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Posted by Arielle83

You give your kitty away for free?!

Damn, you one suckka of a hustla.


Hol up!

So I should start charging for fees from now on?

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Wtf is wrong with you???
Posted by thatbihh612

I met this aquarius (bday 01/29/1996) back in the beginning of June. Im a gemini (bday 06/04/1990. Im a stripper, he came into the club with his friend for his friends birthday. He paid for a lapdance and he was so sweet and interested in me I even gave him a discount. He was kind of shy about it which was so cute its like he couldnt believe he was getting touched by such a beautiful women. Not to be shallow but I am very attractive, i weigh 118, cute face and a great rack lol (this is important btw later on) and he is also extremely attractive. Which was why it was so cute because he could get anyone he wanted if life looks was all that mattered. ANYWAYS, long story short, I gave him my number, I cant remember if he asked or i told him to hit me up. I was just looking for someone cute to have fun with. Didn't hear from him for a few days, then got a text from a different number pretending to be him. It wasn't (his bm found my number in his pocket) A few hours later he texted me from his actual number and told me to just ignore his BM bc shes just jealous and mad he broke up with her. Im a stripper so I know how that goes, BMs cant let a dead relationship go and try to sabotage a new relationship.

Anyways he texted me and claimed they werent together and she was crazy. Asked me to come get him from his hotel bc his bm and him got into argument there and called the cops on him and he needed to have fun and we could go to this party together and just have some drinks. He's such a sweet charming sexy savage. It's hard to resist him and just something about him just made me feel like it was love at first sight. It was just fun, and I was just drawn to him. I know he felt the same by the way he looked at me and that night we had sex, it just naturally happened. He treated me like I was a prize He was just so respectful to me and didnt seem to mind that I was a stripper, its like he just loved the way I made him feel and I did too. I couldnt stop thinking of him. Our connection was so instant and obvious. He treated me so good I felt like a queen. But he would dissapear and then call me saying he just got out of jail and I just wanted to be that women for him since he had so much drama with his bm and he didnt deserve that, and then a few days after his BM hit me up AGAIN

A week and a half later he called me again and told me he got out of jail and he wanted to see me. I called bs but his cousin told me he wasnt lying.he was such a kind person I wanted to treat him as good as he made me feel. So i didnt mind helping him out and when I came into town he would come by and see me and we would talk outside at my job bc he was always having to get rides and on time limits. (So at this time it was like a month since meeting him and we met up about 3 times. but talked whenever he wasnt in jail. smh bad boyyy i know but hes young.) anyways.....

I was coming back into town for work and he was finally out of jail and he was so excited to see me, we both love to make money and it was just exciting to be with someone who was obsessed with me and treated me so politely like I was mother theresa lol. I stayed in town for like a week bc he didnt want me to leave and we were making so much money together with his lil "hustles" selling things for weed and shit (legal where we live) but also he uplifted me and didnt make me feel bad for choosing the life style I was living as a stripper or judge me. I was literally in love and he was too but I could tell something was holding him back he would act weird, sneak off to make calls. always running to the store. wouldnt spend the night with me at first.

i was feeling used tbh but im not one to beg any dude to see my worth so i didnt hit him up for a day and he could tell i was mad and that night he asked around his family for a place to stay for us to be together because he lost $ 500 he was supposed to pay me back and i was broke from paying for everything. and my friend wouldnt let him stay the night. but again he started distancing himself so i demanded him spend the night with me and HIM pay for it or i was leaving. So he didnt contact me all day but then did as I got off work at bar close. he came to get me and it was like that connection was back and he was sorry, he wanted to make it up to me and even had me meet his cousins who he was staying with that night and wanted me to meet his sons the next day.

all he could talk about that night was how he hated his bm. and his cousin said that we were cute and that i was gonna be his wife and wanted me to meet his kids and be his wife and he just seemed so ready finally to commit. and his bm brought the kids over the next day. then i realize she didnt know i was even there. he kept going outside to call her and they kept arguin on the phone that whole morning and i heard him say he couldnt do this with her anymore and he was done with her. then i saw she wasnt even cute at all she was literally hideous i was shocked. but then i walked outside to where he was talking to her to see what he was talking to her about so much on the phone (he kept going outside bc his phone was broken and only worked on speaker phone) and he was crying while on the phone with her and so i opened the door quick and said his name super loud and said come here and as soon as he heard my voice he hung up and asked how long i was down there. anyways at that point he looked caught but told me he was crying bc she made him miserable and she was ruining something that was for once making him happy and wished she could just move on. i just felt like it could be true but he wasnt about to play that game with me. so i told him i had to go meet up with my guy friend and I'd call him after work. but i wanted him to sweat bc he knew he got caught doing something. and i was gonna make him know i had options. so he needed to choose. bc we never talked about if we were together or what, i just asssumed he felt what i did. then that night he called me and said he was sick and couldnt see me before i went home. i was so sad but i could tell he said that bc he was mad about me saying i met up with another dude

that week (july 9th-14) was the first time we spent that much together. (6 weeks into meeting him at this point.) and he went missing again and after that he would say he was coming to see me but wouldnt or his cousin would say he was in jail again and id give his cousin money to put on his books. i didnt think ppl would lie about that bc its not cute to be in jail. but his phone wasnt working

then i got a message on fb in the beginning of august (2 weeks later) saying that he was getting back with his bm and to not hit him up. I thanked him for telling me but i told him i would miss him and was really confused tbh because i thought i was more. i was crushed. then an HOUR later he called saying that was his bm and that he missed me, then that night she videochatted me from his page and asked him who i was but i made my sister answer the call. he wouldnt look at the camera and i started saying "who am i....how bout u ask his mom who i am" and he grabbed the video and said he didnt know who that was and hung up.

i was pissed but i had no way to get a hold of him then he called me from his moms facebok a month later asking what i was telling his bm about how we fucked and why i was texting him talking shit (which i never did so it must of been her texting him trying to sabotage us and get us against eachother).

IDK i just want to know like did he actually like me at some point do i wait and see if he comes around. bc i get random calls but never know if its him or his bm and she keeps messaging me still pretending to be him saying i was just used for money. idk am i dumb to think he really loved me and the only reason it didnt work out is bc she manipulated the situation?? help bc i cant get over him. was it just because they were fighting and i was dumb for him? idk.

will this be a series or just one movie? or one book?

it sounds like a heavy fantasy smile

stripper, lap dance, baby momma who is jealous, man in the jail, misunderstandings, cops called out, money loaned..

I mean, you make sure you hire quality actors to play the parts to sell it

its just boring like hell so far

Posted by Aquaman4848

Feeling bad for you 😞😞

But i too think he used u...else he would have texted or called you.....and most importantly would never got back with his bm (what is bm ??)

Make it clear F2F ...meet him..ask him why did he do that etc....

And get over, atleast you would get the reason to hate 😅



I have no way to get a hold of him his cousins usually would but they blocked me. I called his old number yesterday and he hasn't responded or text I'm feeling like he thought it was love then he sobered up and felt bad but wishes I was her bc I made him happy
i did, they look closer then ever from the outside for anyone that cares. so I probably helped their relationship
Lol u are actually really dumb 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I cant believe u wrote all tht and it made sense in your head lmao 😭😭 first of all why are u happy with a nigga tht goes back and forth between u and his baby moms 😭
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Posted by thatbihh612

I met this aquarius (bday 01/29/1996) back in the beginning of June. Im a gemini (bday 06/04/1990. Im a stripper, he came into the club with his friend for his friends birthday. He paid for a lapdance and he was so sweet and interested in me I even gave him a discount. He was kind of shy about it which was so cute its like he couldnt believe he was getting touched by such a beautiful women. Not to be shallow but I am very attractive, i weigh 118, cute face and a great rack lol (this is important btw later on) and he is also extremely attractive. Which was why it was so cute because he could get anyone he wanted if life looks was all that mattered. ANYWAYS, long story short, I gave him my number, I cant remember if he asked or i told him to hit me up. I was just looking for someone cute to have fun with. Didn't hear from him for a few days, then got a text from a different number pretending to be him. It wasn't (his bm found my number in his pocket) A few hours later he texted me from his actual number and told me to just ignore his BM bc shes just jealous and mad he broke up with her. Im a stripper so I know how that goes, BMs cant let a dead relationship go and try to sabotage a new relationship.

Anyways he texted me and claimed they werent together and she was crazy. Asked me to come get him from his hotel bc his bm and him got into argument there and called the cops on him and he needed to have fun and we could go to this party together and just have some drinks. He's such a sweet charming sexy savage. It's hard to resist him and just something about him just made me feel like it was love at first sight. It was just fun, and I was just drawn to him. I know he felt the same by the way he looked at me and that night we had sex, it just naturally happened. He treated me like I was a prize He was just so respectful to me and didnt seem to mind that I was a stripper, its like he just loved the way I made him feel and I did too. I couldnt stop thinking of him. Our connection was so instant and obvious. He treated me so good I felt like a queen. But he would dissapear and then call me saying he just got out of jail and I just wanted to be that women for him since he had so much drama with his bm and he didnt deserve that, and then a few days after his BM hit me up AGAIN

A week and a half later he called me again and told me he got out of jail and he wanted to see me. I called bs but his cousin told me he wasnt lying.he was such a kind person I wanted to treat him as good as he made me feel. So i didnt mind helping him out and when I came into town he would come by and see me and we would talk outside at my job bc he was always having to get rides and on time limits. (So at this time it was like a month since meeting him and we met up about 3 times. but talked whenever he wasnt in jail. smh bad boyyy i know but hes young.) anyways.....

I was coming back into town for work and he was finally out of jail and he was so excited to see me, we both love to make money and it was just exciting to be with someone who was obsessed with me and treated me so politely like I was mother theresa lol. I stayed in town for like a week bc he didnt want me to leave and we were making so much money together with his lil "hustles" selling things for weed and shit (legal where we live) but also he uplifted me and didnt make me feel bad for choosing the life style I was living as a stripper or judge me. I was literally in love and he was too but I could tell something was holding him back he would act weird, sneak off to make calls. always running to the store. wouldnt spend the night with me at first.

i was feeling used tbh but im not one to beg any dude to see my worth so i didnt hit him up for a day and he could tell i was mad and that night he asked around his family for a place to stay for us to be together because he lost $ 500 he was supposed to pay me back and i was broke from paying for everything. and my friend wouldnt let him stay the night. but again he started distancing himself so i demanded him spend the night with me and HIM pay for it or i was leaving. So he didnt contact me all day but then did as I got off work at bar close. he came to get me and it was like that connection was back and he was sorry, he wanted to make it up to me and even had me meet his cousins who he was staying with that night and wanted me to meet his sons the next day.

all he could talk about that night was how he hated his bm. and his cousin said that we were cute and that i was gonna be his wife and wanted me to meet his kids and be his wife and he just seemed so ready finally to commit. and his bm brought the kids over the next day. then i realize she didnt know i was even there. he kept going outside to call her and they kept arguin on the phone that whole morning and i heard him say he couldnt do this with her anymore and he was done with her. then i saw she wasnt even cute at all she was literally hideous i was shocked. but then i walked outside to where he was talking to her to see what he was talking to her about so much on the phone (he kept going outside bc his phone was broken and only worked on speaker phone) and he was crying while on the phone with her and so i opened the door quick and said his name super loud and said come here and as soon as he heard my voice he hung up and asked how long i was down there. anyways at that point he looked caught but told me he was crying bc she made him miserable and she was ruining something that was for once making him happy and wished she could just move on. i just felt like it could be true but he wasnt about to play that game with me. so i told him i had to go meet up with my guy friend and I'd call him after work. but i wanted him to sweat bc he knew he got caught doing something. and i was gonna make him know i had options. so he needed to choose. bc we never talked about if we were together or what, i just asssumed he felt what i did. then that night he called me and said he was sick and couldnt see me before i went home. i was so sad but i could tell he said that bc he was mad about me saying i met up with another dude

that week (july 9th-14) was the first time we spent that much together. (6 weeks into meeting him at this point.) and he went missing again and after that he would say he was coming to see me but wouldnt or his cousin would say he was in jail again and id give his cousin money to put on his books. i didnt think ppl would lie about that bc its not cute to be in jail. but his phone wasnt working

then i got a message on fb in the beginning of august (2 weeks later) saying that he was getting back with his bm and to not hit him up. I thanked him for telling me but i told him i would miss him and was really confused tbh because i thought i was more. i was crushed. then an HOUR later he called saying that was his bm and that he missed me, then that night she videochatted me from his page and asked him who i was but i made my sister answer the call. he wouldnt look at the camera and i started saying "who am i....how bout u ask his mom who i am" and he grabbed the video and said he didnt know who that was and hung up.

i was pissed but i had no way to get a hold of him then he called me from his moms facebok a month later asking what i was telling his bm about how we fucked and why i was texting him talking shit (which i never did so it must of been her texting him trying to sabotage us and get us against eachother).

IDK i just want to know like did he actually like me at some point do i wait and see if he comes around. bc i get random calls but never know if its him or his bm and she keeps messaging me still pretending to be him saying i was just used for money. idk am i dumb to think he really loved me and the only reason it didnt work out is bc she manipulated the situation?? help bc i cant get over him. was it just because they were fighting and i was dumb for him? idk.

will this be a series or just one movie? or one book?

it sounds like a heavy fantasy smile

stripper, lap dance, baby momma who is jealous, man in the jail, misunderstandings, cops called out, money loaned..

I mean, you make sure you hire quality actors to play the parts to sell it

its just boring like hell so far

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I know is this even real
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Posted by thatbihh612

Posted by Aquaman4848

Feeling bad for you 😞😞

But i too think he used u...else he would have texted or called you.....and most importantly would never got back with his bm (what is bm ??)

Make it clear F2F ...meet him..ask him why did he do that etc....

And get over, atleast you would get the reason to hate 😅



I have no way to get a hold of him his cousins usually would but they blocked me. I called his old number yesterday and he hasn't responded or text I'm feeling like he thought it was love then he sobered up and felt bad but wishes I was her bc I made him happy


This is sad 😣😣

If u r not going to meet him anyway....so it is final, u will have to move on!!!
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The fantasy in her head is awful
Posted by ElvisStalinWoods

What did I just read?

As a friend of a couple strippers, this shit isn't very cash money of you.

If you have a dude gaga over you in that industry, you hold a lot more power than to just pop free coochie and empty your wallet on the dude.

Dude saw a mark and had a field day.

I know I'm probably being a bit of a dick here, but you gotta make sure you don't make such a dumb mistake again. This guy played you and you need to re-evaluate the perception of your own worth. Know how to play the field in a way that you can at least make sure that even a ''fun'' situation doesn't leave you screwed over.
I know this is an old thread and an old response but LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO @ “that isn’t very cash money of you” and “coochie”. I see your quite equipped with the memes and slang of this time 😎😎