Mr Aquarius liked me for years (blushing, hands shaking, staring into my eyes, etc.) but nothing happened because (a) he is shy, (b) he is a childhood trauma survivor, (c) I was with another guy. Now I'm single and friends with Mr Aquarius, but every now and then he behaves strangely. Got very jealous when another guy flirted with me in front of him, backed away from me, glared at me and wouldn't speak to me. The other day, I said to another guy I was thinking of moving to another town, and Mr Aquarius looked upset and wouldn't even greet me the next day - literally ran away from me and it took me 10 minutes to get him to say one word to me, then he stared into my eyes for the next half an hour at yoga class. Then he disappeared from yoga class for a couple of weeks. So last night I texted him to ask how he is (it's been two months since we made contact) and he said he knows I have feelings for him but we should just be friends, we are spiritual 'family' and deeply connected but "I have no intention of being more than a friend to you." WTF? He doesn't *act* like a friend - in fact, he sometimes glares at me like he absolutely loathes and hates me. What is going on with this guy? By the way, he is training to be a shaman now and says he can train me, too, if I like - and last night we texted for five hours on the phone. He is nearly 26 and has never had a girlfriend.
Don't understand Aquarian's behaviour

Are you sure he is Aqua? Seems to be a Cap or Scorpio. And what's your sun sign?
Posted by Capricorn91He is Aquarius with Taurus Moon and Venus and Mars in Capricorn. I am Scorpio.
Are you sure he is Aqua? Seems to be a Cap or Scorpio. And what's your sun sign?
A couple of years ago, he told me I was his 'twin flame'. But I think I may have caught him off guard when I told him I love him two months ago. I made light of it at the time, however, and told him it was unconditional and I didn't expect anything from him.

It sounds like he has a thing for you.

Posted by MaggieRoseVenus in Cap will be attracted to Scorpio. Plus he has Taurus moon which will be compatible with your Sun. Just give him a chance.Posted by Capricorn91He is Aquarius with Taurus Moon and Venus and Mars in Capricorn. I am Scorpio.
Are you sure he is Aqua? Seems to be a Cap or Scorpio. And what's your sun sign?click to expand
Awwww what's your Moon, Mars and Venus? He's in love. Maybe he's too scared to approach you or because of him becoming a Shaman he doesn't want to fall hopelessly in love & not be able to have you in the way he'd like. By the way... I love your name! Too cute.

Yea that water air stuff is confusing af, it does sound like he feels for you but his Aqua walls are up..
Posted by Wineaux15Haha, thanks.
Awwww what's your Moon, Mars and Venus? He's in love. Maybe he's too scared to approach you or because of him becoming a Shaman he doesn't want to fall hopelessly in love & not be able to have you in the way he'd like. By the way... I love your name! Too cute.
I am Scorpio with Gemini Moon, Venus in Libra and Mars in Capricorn.
How do I handle this guy, though? Just try to be a best buddy and hang out with him and see how it goes?
He said he was only ever helping me through a bad time when I was attacked when out hiking (I fought off my attacker, though!), and not because he wanted a relationship. But on New Year's Eve last year, he elected to chat to me at midnight rather than go out with his buddies! Would he have done that if he just thought of me as a friend?
He is so difficult! But I know he has severe abandonment issues from his childhood (he was an unwanted child and his parents made him feel it). π’
Posted by BrittnieHow does one get the Aqua walls to come down? π
Yea that water air stuff is confusing af, it does sound like he feels for you but his Aqua walls are up..
I guess it's possible he freaked when I told him I love him. Even though it was a very unemotional declaration and I said I expected nothing from him as the love is unconditional.
He didn't say he didn't like me or anything - he just said, "I have no intention to be anything other than a friend to you."

He's unexperienced, maybe you should take the lead and be more aggressive π
Posted by MaggieRosePosted by BrittnieHow does one get the Aqua walls to come down? π
Yea that water air stuff is confusing af, it does sound like he feels for you but his Aqua walls are up..
I guess it's possible he freaked when I told him I love him. Even though it was a very unemotional declaration and I said I expected nothing from him as the love is unconditional.
He didn't say he didn't like me or anything - he just said, "I have no intention to be anything other than a friend to you."click to expand
I agree with AerialView. He's inexperienced, shy, and has abandonment issues. But his actions don't match his words. With an Aqua always look at their actions. If their actions show they care... then they do, but is it on a friendly or romantic level? I'd continue to be his friend, give it some time, and then try to pursue again. If he says he has no intentions again then leave it be. Let me ask you, what do you want to come of this? How do you feel about him? Have you already used actions that aligned the things you're saying to him?

Posted by MaggieRoseI would ask him why maybe because if I like people I won't be with there's a reason. Like I thought a Gemini was cute but I was crazy about Pisces so I told Gem I didn't wanna be more than friends.Posted by BrittnieHow does one get the Aqua walls to come down? π
Yea that water air stuff is confusing af, it does sound like he feels for you but his Aqua walls are up..
I guess it's possible he freaked when I told him I love him. Even though it was a very unemotional declaration and I said I expected nothing from him as the love is unconditional.
He didn't say he didn't like me or anything - he just said, "I have no intention to be anything other than a friend to you."click to expand

Posted by MaggieRoseSounds like he doesn't want to get hurt again and if you're saying you're moving away or flirting with other guys he probable doesn't want to start something up! He's been hurt in the past as you said so probably doesn't trust easily this man still appears to have allot of issues. Ask yourself do you want these issues? If he still had them and you get together this will effect your relationship do you want that burden?
Mr Aquarius liked me for years (blushing, hands shaking, staring into my eyes, etc.) but nothing happened because (a) he is shy, (b) he is a childhood trauma survivor, (c) I was with another guy. Now I'm single and friends with Mr Aquarius, but every now and then he behaves strangely. Got very jealous when another guy flirted with me in front of him, backed away from me, glared at me and wouldn't speak to me. The other day, I said to another guy I was thinking of moving to another town, and Mr Aquarius looked upset and wouldn't even greet me the next day - literally ran away from me and it took me 10 minutes to get him to say one word to me, then he stared into my eyes for the next half an hour at yoga class. Then he disappeared from yoga class for a couple of weeks. So last night I texted him to ask how he is (it's been two months since we made contact) and he said he knows I have feelings for him but we should just be friends, we are spiritual 'family' and deeply connected but "I have no intention of being more than a friend to you." WTF? He doesn't *act* like a friend - in fact, he sometimes glares at me like he absolutely loathes and hates me. What is going on with this guy? By the way, he is training to be a shaman now and says he can train me, too, if I like - and last night we texted for five hours on the phone. He is nearly 26 and has never had a girlfriend.
Oh, yes, I absolutely do want the burden. I have been head-over-heels in love for three years and there is nobody else. π
I really love him, unconditionally and in the most heartfelt way. I am prepared to wait for him, while still living a very full and busy and exciting life. I think that, as you say, his actions tell the story, not his words. Because of his fear, he pushed me away before but always let me back into his life without any hesitation. I think it's best to show him I'm a good friend and he can rely on me. In the past, when he brought up the issue of my dating again (I'm divorced), I said I was only interested in friendship as I would rather be alone than hurt, and he replied, "I'm alone and hurt." Then he said to me, "Damn you and your contradictions." I think my telling him I love him really threw him and he needs to digest it - it's just easier for him to say, "I have no intention of being anything other than a friend, but you are spiritual 'family' to me and we have a deep connection."
When I text him, he texts back really quickly and usually wants to chat for hours, unless he's really busy. He never shows me I'm incidental in his life. Which is really good. But he has admitted that his fears run deep and he has never let anyone into his life before. I believe I have got way further than anyone else. Hence I will persevere, without putting pressure on him.
Thanks for the advice. π
When I text him, he texts back really quickly and usually wants to chat for hours, unless he's really busy. He never shows me I'm incidental in his life. Which is really good. But he has admitted that his fears run deep and he has never let anyone into his life before. I believe I have got way further than anyone else. Hence I will persevere, without putting pressure on him.
Thanks for the advice. π

Posted by MaggieRose
Hence I will persevere, without putting pressure on him.
Posted by MaggieRoseπ
"Damn you and your contradictions."click to expand

Posted by MaggieRoseMaggie, I dont really get your story.... lots of it is in your imagination I am afraid π
Mr Aquarius liked me for years (blushing, hands shaking, staring into my eyes, etc.) but nothing happened because (a) he is shy, (b) he is a childhood trauma survivor, (c) I was with another guy. Now I'm single and friends with Mr Aquarius, but every now and then he behaves strangely. Got very jealous when another guy flirted with me in front of him, backed away from me, glared at me and wouldn't speak to me. The other day, I said to another guy I was thinking of moving to another town, and Mr Aquarius looked upset and wouldn't even greet me the next day - literally ran away from me and it took me 10 minutes to get him to say one word to me, then he stared into my eyes for the next half an hour at yoga class. Then he disappeared from yoga class for a couple of weeks. So last night I texted him to ask how he is (it's been two months since we made contact) and he said he knows I have feelings for him but we should just be friends, we are spiritual 'family' and deeply connected but "I have no intention of being more than a friend to you." WTF? He doesn't *act* like a friend - in fact, he sometimes glares at me like he absolutely loathes and hates me. What is going on with this guy? By the way, he is training to be a shaman now and says he can train me, too, if I like - and last night we texted for five hours on the phone. He is nearly 26 and has never had a girlfriend.
you told him you love him, and then flirt with others and planning to move
then you wrote above: "Oh, yes, I absolutely do want the burden. I have been head-over-heels in love for three years and there is nobody else. "
with who you were in love for 3 years? with him?
calm down your gemini moon please, and tell the story coherently π

Posted by Senorita_LLBut you're here in our board 24/7 ??Posted by MaggieRoseHere, this is the only way but results may varyPosted by BrittnieHow does one get the Aqua walls to come down? π
Yea that water air stuff is confusing af, it does sound like he feels for you but his Aqua walls are up..
I guess it's possible he freaked when I told him I love him. Even though it was a very unemotional declaration and I said I expected nothing from him as the love is unconditional.
He didn't say he didn't like me or anything - he just said, "I have no intention to be anything other than a friend to you."![]()
LOL! Anyways, let me give you some tips about these water bearers.
Distant yourself from him. Sometimes, to get someone's attention is by not giving them any.
Personally, I don't understand them either and have no intention of doing so. π
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Posted by Senorita_LLAt least you admitted it. That's a start lolPosted by AerialViewCos' I'm bored and I know I will never get any reaction from the Aquas. That itself, makes me happy.Posted by Senorita_LLBut you're here in our board 24/7 ??Posted by MaggieRoseHere, this is the only way but results may varyPosted by BrittnieHow does one get the Aqua walls to come down? π
Yea that water air stuff is confusing af, it does sound like he feels for you but his Aqua walls are up..
I guess it's possible he freaked when I told him I love him. Even though it was a very unemotional declaration and I said I expected nothing from him as the love is unconditional.
He didn't say he didn't like me or anything - he just said, "I have no intention to be anything other than a friend to you."![]()
LOL! Anyways, let me give you some tips about these water bearers.
Distant yourself from him. Sometimes, to get someone's attention is by not giving them any.
Personally, I don't understand them either and have no intention of doing so. π
Eh, I'm delusional, remember? π
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I really love him, unconditionally and in the most heartfelt way. I am prepared to wait for him, while still living a very full and busy and exciting life. I think that, as you say, his actions tell the story, not his words. Because of his fear, he pushed me away before but always let me back into his life without any hesitation. I think it's best to show him I'm a good friend and he can rely on me. In the past, when he brought up the issue of my dating again (I'm divorced), I said I was only interested in friendship as I would rather be alone than hurt, and he replied, "I'm alone and hurt." Then he said to me, "Damn you and your contradictions." I think my telling him I love him really threw him and he needs to digest it - it's just easier for him to say, "I have no intention of being anything other than a friend, but you are spiritual 'family' to me and we have a deep connection."
When I text him, he texts back really quickly and usually wants to chat for hours, unless he's really busy. He never shows me I'm incidental in his life. Which is really good. But he has admitted that his fears run deep and he has never let anyone into his life before. I believe I have got way further than anyone else. Hence I will persevere, without putting pressure on him.
Thanks for the advice. π
This sounds so sweet and endearing to me. If he doesn't come around then he doesn't deserve you. I'd totally swoon at this type of loyalty.

Posted by Wineaux15
This sounds so sweet and endearing to me. If he doesn't come around then he doesn't deserve you. I'd totally swoon at this type of loyalty.
Rightβ?
Such expressions of loyalty turn me on! β
Posted by Senorita_LLPosted by AerialViewWell of course.Posted by Senorita_LLAt least you admitted it. That's a start lolPosted by AerialViewCos' I'm bored and I know I will never get any reaction from the Aquas. That itself, makes me happy.Posted by Senorita_LLBut you're here in our board 24/7 ??Posted by MaggieRoseHere, this is the only way but results may varyPosted by BrittnieHow does one get the Aqua walls to come down? π
Yea that water air stuff is confusing af, it does sound like he feels for you but his Aqua walls are up..
I guess it's possible he freaked when I told him I love him. Even though it was a very unemotional declaration and I said I expected nothing from him as the love is unconditional.
He didn't say he didn't like me or anything - he just said, "I have no intention to be anything other than a friend to you."![]()
LOL! Anyways, let me give you some tips about these water bearers.
Distant yourself from him. Sometimes, to get someone's attention is by not giving them any.
Personally, I don't understand them either and have no intention of doing so. π
Eh, I'm delusional, remember? π
Geminis will always admit, they do have flaws and that, they were never perfect.
Unlike Aquas, they will never do that. Cos' they God. π
I kid, I kid.
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I admit my flaws all the time! Maybe too much. I f- up all the time too. Like last night.... I got tipsy and meant to send a mean text to my ex, but sent it to my boss....luckily we are close. But I'm such an asswipe clutz sometimes.
AerialView has apologized on here quite a bit to people for offending them.... even though he doesn't try. That's just his way.
Posted by Mr_PinchySarcasm turns you on too right? Please don't PM her.... she's in love.Posted by Wineaux15
This sounds so sweet and endearing to me. If he doesn't come around then he doesn't deserve you. I'd totally swoon at this type of loyalty.
Rightβ?
Such expressions of loyalty turn me on! β
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Posted by Wineaux15idk what to say to this honestly, but okay, duly noted, no jokes with you. ?Posted by Mr_PinchySarcasm turns you on too right? Please don't PM her.... she's in love.Posted by Wineaux15
This sounds so sweet and endearing to me. If he doesn't come around then he doesn't deserve you. I'd totally swoon at this type of loyalty.
Rightβ?
Such expressions of loyalty turn me on! β
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Posted by Mr_PinchyPosted by Wineaux15idk what to say to this honestly, but okay, duly noted, no jokes with you. ?Posted by Mr_PinchySarcasm turns you on too right? Please don't PM her.... she's in love.Posted by Wineaux15
This sounds so sweet and endearing to me. If he doesn't come around then he doesn't deserve you. I'd totally swoon at this type of loyalty.
Rightβ?
Such expressions of loyalty turn me on! β
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Oh, I was joking too. Maybe my jokes don't come across as jokes on the net. Guess I'll be apologizing all day. I'll take a break from DXP for a minute. That's what I'll do.
Posted by Senorita_LLGirl yes! I'm horrified because of what the text said. I think this retrograde is messing with my communication though. Things are coming across not necessarily as I want them to.Posted by Wineaux15Awww...lord! To your boss? That is why I will never text anyone when I'm tipsy. I might regret the next day. πPosted by Senorita_LLPosted by AerialViewWell of course.Posted by Senorita_LLAt least you admitted it. That's a start lolPosted by AerialViewCos' I'm bored and I know I will never get any reaction from the Aquas. That itself, makes me happy.Posted by Senorita_LLBut you're here in our board 24/7 ??Posted by MaggieRoseHere, this is the only way but results may varyPosted by BrittnieHow does one get the Aqua walls to come down? π
Yea that water air stuff is confusing af, it does sound like he feels for you but his Aqua walls are up..
I guess it's possible he freaked when I told him I love him. Even though it was a very unemotional declaration and I said I expected nothing from him as the love is unconditional.
He didn't say he didn't like me or anything - he just said, "I have no intention to be anything other than a friend to you."![]()
LOL! Anyways, let me give you some tips about these water bearers.
Distant yourself from him. Sometimes, to get someone's attention is by not giving them any.
Personally, I don't understand them either and have no intention of doing so. π
Eh, I'm delusional, remember? π
Geminis will always admit, they do have flaws and that, they were never perfect.
Unlike Aquas, they will never do that. Cos' they God. π
I kid, I kid.
I admit my flaws all the time! Maybe too much. I f- up all the time too. Like last night.... I got tipsy and meant to send a mean text to my ex, but sent it to my boss....luckily we are close. But I'm such an asswipe clutz sometimes.
AerialView has apologized on here quite a bit to people for offending them.... even though he doesn't try. That's just his way.
Nah, I am fine with him. π
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Posted by Wineaux15Oh gg then, all good. Pm sent. Youre not in love are youβ
Oh, I was joking too. Maybe my jokes don't come across as jokes on the net. Guess I'll be apologizing all day. I'll take a break from DXP for a minute. That's what I'll do.
Jk jk ?
Posted by Mr_PinchyMaybe ?Posted by Wineaux15Oh gg then, all good. Pm sent. Youre not in love are youβ
Oh, I was joking too. Maybe my jokes don't come across as jokes on the net. Guess I'll be apologizing all day. I'll take a break from DXP for a minute. That's what I'll do.
Jk jk ?
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Posted by Wineaux15Ravens are already flying to Castle Wineaux carrying confessions of eternal love and endless devotion m'lady. ?Posted by Mr_PinchyMaybe ?Posted by Wineaux15Oh gg then, all good. Pm sent. Youre not in love are youβ
Oh, I was joking too. Maybe my jokes don't come across as jokes on the net. Guess I'll be apologizing all day. I'll take a break from DXP for a minute. That's what I'll do.
Jk jk ?
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Posted by Mr_PinchyPosted by Wineaux15Ravens are already flying to Castle Wineaux carrying confessions of eternal love and endless devotion m'lady. ?Posted by Mr_PinchyMaybe ?Posted by Wineaux15Oh gg then, all good. Pm sent. Youre not in love are youβ
Oh, I was joking too. Maybe my jokes don't come across as jokes on the net. Guess I'll be apologizing all day. I'll take a break from DXP for a minute. That's what I'll do.
Jk jk ?
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Posted by Senorita_LL?Now I want to hear the story! I will. This is the second time (diff person) in like a month and a half. I think I'll lay off the drink too. BUT I hadn't had a drink in 5 days because I was shut in my house from Hurricane Harvey and finally had one drink for the first time yesterday. It got to me really quick?. But yes, I'll stay away.Posted by Wineaux15Been there, done that.Posted by Senorita_LLGirl yes! I'm horrified because of what the text said. I think this retrograde is messing with my communication though. Things are coming across not necessarily as I want them to.Posted by Wineaux15Awww...lord! To your boss? That is why I will never text anyone when I'm tipsy. I might regret the next day. πPosted by Senorita_LLPosted by AerialViewWell of course.Posted by Senorita_LLAt least you admitted it. That's a start lolPosted by AerialViewCos' I'm bored and I know I will never get any reaction from the Aquas. That itself, makes me happy.Posted by Senorita_LLBut you're here in our board 24/7 ??Posted by MaggieRoseHere, this is the only way but results may varyPosted by BrittnieHow does one get the Aqua walls to come down? π
Yea that water air stuff is confusing af, it does sound like he feels for you but his Aqua walls are up..
I guess it's possible he freaked when I told him I love him. Even though it was a very unemotional declaration and I said I expected nothing from him as the love is unconditional.
He didn't say he didn't like me or anything - he just said, "I have no intention to be anything other than a friend to you."![]()
LOL! Anyways, let me give you some tips about these water bearers.
Distant yourself from him. Sometimes, to get someone's attention is by not giving them any.
Personally, I don't understand them either and have no intention of doing so. π
Eh, I'm delusional, remember? π
Geminis will always admit, they do have flaws and that, they were never perfect.
Unlike Aquas, they will never do that. Cos' they God. π
I kid, I kid.
I admit my flaws all the time! Maybe too much. I f- up all the time too. Like last night.... I got tipsy and meant to send a mean text to my ex, but sent it to my boss....luckily we are close. But I'm such an asswipe clutz sometimes.
AerialView has apologized on here quite a bit to people for offending them.... even though he doesn't try. That's just his way.
Nah, I am fine with him. π
At least you were just texting. I called the wrong person and ....
I'm not gonna want to recall that stupid incident anymore. Remember this, the next time when you're tipsy, stay away from your phone. π
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Posted by Wineaux15Stop stalking me LOLPosted by Senorita_LLPosted by AerialViewWell of course.Posted by Senorita_LLAt least you admitted it. That's a start lolPosted by AerialViewCos' I'm bored and I know I will never get any reaction from the Aquas. That itself, makes me happy.Posted by Senorita_LLBut you're here in our board 24/7 ??Posted by MaggieRoseHere, this is the only way but results may varyPosted by BrittnieHow does one get the Aqua walls to come down? π
Yea that water air stuff is confusing af, it does sound like he feels for you but his Aqua walls are up..
I guess it's possible he freaked when I told him I love him. Even though it was a very unemotional declaration and I said I expected nothing from him as the love is unconditional.
He didn't say he didn't like me or anything - he just said, "I have no intention to be anything other than a friend to you."![]()
LOL! Anyways, let me give you some tips about these water bearers.
Distant yourself from him. Sometimes, to get someone's attention is by not giving them any.
Personally, I don't understand them either and have no intention of doing so. π
Eh, I'm delusional, remember? π
Geminis will always admit, they do have flaws and that, they were never perfect.
Unlike Aquas, they will never do that. Cos' they God. π
I kid, I kid.
I admit my flaws all the time! Maybe too much. I f- up all the time too. Like last night.... I got tipsy and meant to send a mean text to my ex, but sent it to my boss....luckily we are close. But I'm such an asswipe clutz sometimes.
AerialView has apologized on here quite a bit to people for offending them.... even though he doesn't try. That's just his way.
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Posted by AerialViewPosted by Wineaux15Stop stalking me LOLPosted by Senorita_LLPosted by AerialViewWell of course.Posted by Senorita_LLAt least you admitted it. That's a start lolPosted by AerialViewCos' I'm bored and I know I will never get any reaction from the Aquas. That itself, makes me happy.Posted by Senorita_LLBut you're here in our board 24/7 ??Posted by MaggieRoseHere, this is the only way but results may varyPosted by BrittnieHow does one get the Aqua walls to come down? π
Yea that water air stuff is confusing af, it does sound like he feels for you but his Aqua walls are up..
I guess it's possible he freaked when I told him I love him. Even though it was a very unemotional declaration and I said I expected nothing from him as the love is unconditional.
He didn't say he didn't like me or anything - he just said, "I have no intention to be anything other than a friend to you."![]()
LOL! Anyways, let me give you some tips about these water bearers.
Distant yourself from him. Sometimes, to get someone's attention is by not giving them any.
Personally, I don't understand them either and have no intention of doing so. π
Eh, I'm delusional, remember? π
Geminis will always admit, they do have flaws and that, they were never perfect.
Unlike Aquas, they will never do that. Cos' they God. π
I kid, I kid.
I admit my flaws all the time! Maybe too much. I f- up all the time too. Like last night.... I got tipsy and meant to send a mean text to my ex, but sent it to my boss....luckily we are close. But I'm such an asswipe clutz sometimes.
AerialView has apologized on here quite a bit to people for offending them.... even though he doesn't try. That's just his way.
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Ohhhhh you love it ?.
Posted by Senorita_LLThanks Chica I'm safe now. The water almost came in my house, but Thank God it never did. Today is the first day some of the roads are clear so I'm about to get dressed and go somewhere.... anywhere to get out of the house.Posted by Wineaux15No! I won't tell you. That was really embarrassing. πPosted by Senorita_LL?Now I want to hear the story! I will. This is the second time (diff person) in like a month and a half. I think I'll lay off the drink too. BUT I hadn't had a drink in 5 days because I was shut in my house from Hurricane Harvey and finally had one drink for the first time yesterday. It got to me really quick?. But yes, I'll stay away.Posted by Wineaux15Been there, done that.Posted by Senorita_LLGirl yes! I'm horrified because of what the text said. I think this retrograde is messing with my communication though. Things are coming across not necessarily as I want them to.Posted by Wineaux15Awww...lord! To your boss? That is why I will never text anyone when I'm tipsy. I might regret the next day. πPosted by Senorita_LLPosted by AerialViewWell of course.Posted by Senorita_LLAt least you admitted it. That's a start lolPosted by AerialViewCos' I'm bored and I know I will never get any reaction from the Aquas. That itself, makes me happy.Posted by Senorita_LLBut you're here in our board 24/7 ??Posted by MaggieRoseHere, this is the only way but results may varyPosted by BrittnieHow does one get the Aqua walls to come down? π
Yea that water air stuff is confusing af, it does sound like he feels for you but his Aqua walls are up..
I guess it's possible he freaked when I told him I love him. Even though it was a very unemotional declaration and I said I expected nothing from him as the love is unconditional.
He didn't say he didn't like me or anything - he just said, "I have no intention to be anything other than a friend to you."![]()
LOL! Anyways, let me give you some tips about these water bearers.
Distant yourself from him. Sometimes, to get someone's attention is by not giving them any.
Personally, I don't understand them either and have no intention of doing so. π
Eh, I'm delusional, remember? π
Geminis will always admit, they do have flaws and that, they were never perfect.
Unlike Aquas, they will never do that. Cos' they God. π
I kid, I kid.
I admit my flaws all the time! Maybe too much. I f- up all the time too. Like last night.... I got tipsy and meant to send a mean text to my ex, but sent it to my boss....luckily we are close. But I'm such an asswipe clutz sometimes.
AerialView has apologized on here quite a bit to people for offending them.... even though he doesn't try. That's just his way.
Nah, I am fine with him. π
At least you were just texting. I called the wrong person and ....
I'm not gonna want to recall that stupid incident anymore. Remember this, the next time when you're tipsy, stay away from your phone. π
Hey, I hope you're all safe and fine over the other side. Yep, stay away will be the best option. We can be stupid, sometimes. Meh π
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Posted by Wineaux15?Posted by AerialViewPosted by Wineaux15Stop stalking me LOLPosted by Senorita_LLPosted by AerialViewWell of course.Posted by Senorita_LLAt least you admitted it. That's a start lolPosted by AerialViewCos' I'm bored and I know I will never get any reaction from the Aquas. That itself, makes me happy.Posted by Senorita_LLBut you're here in our board 24/7 ??Posted by MaggieRoseHere, this is the only way but results may varyPosted by BrittnieHow does one get the Aqua walls to come down? π
Yea that water air stuff is confusing af, it does sound like he feels for you but his Aqua walls are up..
I guess it's possible he freaked when I told him I love him. Even though it was a very unemotional declaration and I said I expected nothing from him as the love is unconditional.
He didn't say he didn't like me or anything - he just said, "I have no intention to be anything other than a friend to you."![]()
LOL! Anyways, let me give you some tips about these water bearers.
Distant yourself from him. Sometimes, to get someone's attention is by not giving them any.
Personally, I don't understand them either and have no intention of doing so. π
Eh, I'm delusional, remember? π
Geminis will always admit, they do have flaws and that, they were never perfect.
Unlike Aquas, they will never do that. Cos' they God. π
I kid, I kid.
I admit my flaws all the time! Maybe too much. I f- up all the time too. Like last night.... I got tipsy and meant to send a mean text to my ex, but sent it to my boss....luckily we are close. But I'm such an asswipe clutz sometimes.
AerialView has apologized on here quite a bit to people for offending them.... even though he doesn't try. That's just his way.
Ohhhhh you love it ?.
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Um, I didn't flirt with anyone else. Someone flirted with me in front of him. Yes, I have been in love with him for three years now. No, I'm not planning to move, I joked with someone about it but Mr Aquarius thought I was being serious.
I think that is pretty coherent. π
I think that is pretty coherent. π
This sounds so sweet and endearing to me. If he doesn't come around then he doesn't deserve you. I'd totally swoon at this type of loyalty.
We chatted for five hours and then again for two hours the other night...he is coming around, but v-e-r-y s-l-o-w-l-y due to a terrible childhood of abuse/abandonment. π’
He is being very responsive at the moment, chatting for hours, etc. It just takes time because of his horrible childhood - abuse and abandonment - he says he doesn't even remember whole days of his life at all, only going to bed at night. He is very damaged. I am trying to undo that, but it is tough. π’
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This sounds so sweet and endearing to me. If he doesn't come around then he doesn't deserve you. I'd totally swoon at this type of loyalty.
We chatted for five hours and then again for two hours the other night...he is coming around, but v-e-r-y s-l-o-w-l-y due to a terrible childhood of abuse/abandonment. π’
That's a long time to talk. He's giving you a lot of his time which is a good sign. What do you guys discuss if you don't mind me asking?
Posted by MaggieRoseDear Maggie.... you won't be able to undo that. That's a lot of pressure to put on yourself. You can only be there for him and show him consistency and stability. He may need to see a counselor about it. It sounds like PTSD.
He is being very responsive at the moment, chatting for hours, etc. It just takes time because of his horrible childhood - abuse and abandonment - he says he doesn't even remember whole days of his life at all, only going to bed at night. He is very damaged. I am trying to undo that, but it is tough. π’
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