Fall into in the early stages of dating an Aqua man

I knew an aqua man 6 months ago.

It’s fun, it’s sexy, it’s exhilarating…

I just can’t get enough of him. He keeps texting me to come over and, when I do, he’s all over me, which means he can’t get enough of me either ..

But then suddenly – after a couple of intoxicatingly inseparable weeks together – he starts to pull away and need some “space.” Why is that?

Did I do something wrong?

Did he say he needs space?

You should text/call him.

Just let him have the space he needs. If everything was going good is nothing to worry about. Just contact him if you miss him very much but don’t make a fuss about it.

Agreed with all. I am classic example of actually *being here, doing that*. .. a 5 month long LDR. and it's like a slow violin...

Yes @ACsquarepluto you're right .. because I'm not playing with him, just waiting for him back and just need more patient

Posted by WittyGem88v2
I agree with @ACsquarepluto if hes interested he will come back. No need to chase. Normally they do come back if you are not clingy or not chasing them. They ar eknown for pulling a disappearing act or becoming distant and thats just them analyzing their feelings and not trying to fall too fast. He is uncertain how to move forward. Best you can do is allow him that space. Dont make the classic mistake of chasing, admitting your feelings or making him jealous. It doesnt work like that with them.

Yepp that's good point I won't make him jealous

Posted by pinkbird03
Did he say he needs space?

You should text/call him.

He didn't say it.. Just disappeared 😕

Posted by ACsquarepluto
No. This happens. They have their own lives and hope this will be respected by the person they're seeing. It's not personal.
To clarify, I have gone 5 weeks no contact from an aqua I was talking to and he popped back up
If you want to wait for him, best thing you can do is give him his time and don't try to replace that attention with another man's attention
I bet he'll come back around when he's ready

Yes you're right .. because I'm not playing with him, just waiting for him back and just need more patient

Posted by Bluebellecalm
We knew each other for 6 months. He went somewhere and completely disappeared for a whole week. Before he disappears he looks so busy with other person and ignores me who tried to contact him. We know we are anxious to meet again, but he goes elsewhere instead of spending time with me. I'm just confused because he is not used to disappear like this. Well thanks for your advice, girls.. maybe he does need his own time..
When he came back, is it good that I behave normally as if nothing happened? because as long as he disappears I also have not contacted him at all. I try to stay busy with my own business, but keep thinking about him

What do you mean he was busy with someone else?

What is his venus and mars?

Posted by Bluebellecalm

Posted by pinkbird03
Did he say he needs space?

You should text/call him.

He didn't say it.. Just disappeared 😕 click to expand

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That's just rude

Who was he busy with....a woman?

Who wants to wait around and see how long the great "disappearing act" lasts for?

Life is too short for that

Posted by Bluebellecalm

Posted by pinkbird03
Did he say he needs space?

You should text/call him.

He didn't say it.. Just disappeared 😕 click to expand

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Then you are assuming. It could be anything. Busy with work, family issues, etc. reach out to him. They can be stubborn