Feelin Blue

Those of u that have read my previous post about my bf kno,if not read "aqua wont answer" and "help all aquarians" im just a lil dwn n feel unwanted without explanation i would have felt better sigh maybe this is all in my head

Well, look at it this way. He's not your perfect match. You're not his perfect match. Wouldn't you rather find out now than later? It's not personal and you shouldn't take it that way. It frees you up and gives you an opportunity to find your perfect match.

Posted by truecap
Well, look at it this way. He's not your perfect match. You're not his perfect match. Wouldn't you rather find out now than later? It's not personal and you shouldn't take it that way. It frees you up and gives you an opportunity to find your perfect match.

well i dont even wanna date anymore tbh im tired of men not knowin what they want

Posted by Impulsv
Then first sign u dump them so u don't invest or waste it time.

Yep! If they don't know what they want, then leave them to figure it out and go out with someone else.

It's really pretty simple.

I was reading comments on the youtube video "Why I would never date an Aquarius man" or something similar. One Aqua guy wrote- If you wanna be worshiped & treated like a goddess, then go date an average guy. But if you wanna BE the goddess (next to the god aka aqua man lol), then an aqua man is the man for you. Thing is, gods worship nobody, not even the goddess.

There were similar responses from other aqua men. They dont seem to care much, sadly. Too much trouble lol.

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Posted by Impulsv
Then first sign u dump them so u don't invest or waste it time.

Yep! If they don't know what they want, then leave them to figure it out and go out with someone else.

It's really pretty simple.

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not easy if feelings r involved i wish i could cut them off like did 😢 its not easy

*like he did typo

Posted by WaterCup
I was reading comments on the youtube video "Why I would never date an Aquarius man" or something similar. One Aqua guy wrote- If you wanna be worshiped & treated like a goddess, then go date an average guy. But if you wanna BE the goddess (next to the god aka aqua man lol), then an aqua man is the man for you. Thing is, gods worship nobody, not even the goddess.

There were similar responses from other aqua men. They dont seem to care much, sadly. Too much trouble lol.

i dont ask to be worshiped all i asked is to tell me if its over or not so that i can move moving on is not the problem its the leaving me confused without knowing whether or not he still wants me is the problem

you don't need to be told its over in order to move on.

YOu move on when it because difficult and/or you end up feeling more sadder than happy.

It's pretty straight forward.

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Posted by WaterCup
I was reading comments on the youtube video "Why I would never date an Aquarius man" or something similar. One Aqua guy wrote- If you wanna be worshiped & treated like a goddess, then go date an average guy. But if you wanna BE the goddess (next to the god aka aqua man lol), then an aqua man is the man for you. Thing is, gods worship nobody, not even the goddess.

There were similar responses from other aqua men. They dont seem to care much, sadly. Too much trouble lol.

i dont ask to be worshiped all i asked is to tell me if its over or not so that i can move moving on is not the problem its the leaving me confused without knowing whether or not he still wants me is the problem

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I'm not saying you want to be worshiped, just giving you insight on how some operate. They dont seem to care, like I said. Huge egos too. So I dont think you should expect him to explain himself to you or tell you its over or whatever you expect him to do in order to "set yourself free". His actions are saying it all imo & maybe he thinks you'll get the hint...as you should.

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Posted by Impulsv
Then first sign u dump them so u don't invest or waste it time.

Yep! If they don't know what they want, then leave them to figure it out and go out with someone else.

It's really pretty simple.

not easy if feelings r involved i wish i could cut them off like did 😢 its not easy

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I'm just meaning learn to read the signs and red flags early on before feelings get involved. Or guard your feelings in the beginning until his actions prove he won't do you this way.

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Posted by WaterCup
I was reading comments on the youtube video "Why I would never date an Aquarius man" or something similar. One Aqua guy wrote- If you wanna be worshiped & treated like a goddess, then go date an average guy. But if you wanna BE the goddess (next to the god aka aqua man lol), then an aqua man is the man for you. Thing is, gods worship nobody, not even the goddess.

There were similar responses from other aqua men. They dont seem to care much, sadly. Too much trouble lol.

i dont ask to be worshiped all i asked is to tell me if its over or not so that i can move moving on is not the problem its the leaving me confused without knowing whether or not he still wants me is the problem

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You have the power to set the standards of your own relationship. Why is it up to him to say it's over? You can decide that for yourself. Take your power back, girl. If you're not happy with how he is acting, then take your power and move on.

that's what i said.

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Posted by WaterCup
I was reading comments on the youtube video "Why I would never date an Aquarius man" or something similar. One Aqua guy wrote- If you wanna be worshiped & treated like a goddess, then go date an average guy. But if you wanna BE the goddess (next to the god aka aqua man lol), then an aqua man is the man for you. Thing is, gods worship nobody, not even the goddess.

There were similar responses from other aqua men. They dont seem to care much, sadly. Too much trouble lol.

i dont ask to be worshiped all i asked is to tell me if its over or not so that i can move moving on is not the problem its the leaving me confused without knowing whether or not he still wants me is the problem

I'm not saying you want to be worshiped, just giving you insight on how some operate. They dont seem to care, like I said. Huge egos too. So I dont think you should expect him to explain himself to you or tell you its over or whatever you expect him to do in order to "set yourself free". His actions are saying it all imo & maybe he thinks you'll get the hint...as you should.

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i have moved on im just venting i dont chase men if they dont want me fine ive already started getting to kno and goin out on dates believe me its no problem for me my feelings are still there thats something that wont go away over not geesh yall are so harsh !!!

OP, just go read the aqua men comments on the youtube video I mentioned. They are more honest about why they do the things they do. The big-headedness is HILARIOUS. But I'm sure you wont find it that funny since you're going through one of their stunts...it's good for insight, though.

*over night

@watercup

I saw the comments on the video and its just endless people ranting LOL.

Half of that stuff are things I've never experienced so we shall see.

Posted by IAmMystified
@watercup

I saw the comments on the video and its just endless people ranting LOL.

Half of that stuff are things I've never experienced so we shall see.

Are you guys dating now? Maybe its more apparent when dating, IDK. The rants are actually some of them being very honest about themselves, as an Aqua I can recognise some of it.

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Posted by IAmMystified
@watercup

I saw the comments on the video and its just endless people ranting LOL.

Half of that stuff are things I've never experienced so we shall see.

Are you guys dating now? Maybe its more apparent when dating, IDK. The rants are actually some of them being very honest about themselves, as an Aqua I can recognise some of it.

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Aquas are very honest. Some of it is blunt honesty and I've been the target of some. Sure at the time it hurt but they were things I should be honest about with myself anyway.

I truly understand how you feeling....MOVE ON!!!

@watercup

By ranting i meant by the people who hate aquas LOL.

(ball up in fetus position)...... 😭

Posted by IAmMystified
@watercup

By ranting i meant by the people who hate aquas LOL.

Oh ok lol. People seem to dislike aqua men.

Posted by highlyclassified
(ball up in fetus position)...... 😭

Men aren't everything.

Anyone especially an aquarius would tell you that.

@watercup

I guess it depends on the person. They aren't all the same. my aqua friend there's bad and good to him:

Bad - has a tendency to just automatically take over everything, doesn't always share what he's thinking/feeling evenw hen it matters, distracted by everything, forgets easily, can't remember important dates until it becomes a patterned event, tendency to be messy, comes across as wanting to be the center of attention, has a temper

Good - protective, worries about me, loves the fact that i'm just as blunt as he is...makes him excited i think, turns into a little boy when he's shy or nervous, athletic, intelligent, honest to a fault, doesn't like immaturity (which is a good thing because he keeps me on my toes), generous, helpful, knows how to bring people together, gets over things easily

So its like someone said somewhere, its a give an take. It's like I'm not easy to deal with either and i wouldn't want him or anyone to try and change me. He doesn't try and change me but he'll sure as hell put me in my place when im being an asshole.

I'll offer another perspective. Maybe they are pretty simple and everyone else just thinks too much on it.

Posted by aquasnoz
I'll offer another perspective. Maybe they are pretty simple and everyone else just thinks too much on it.

disappearing without a trace isnt simple its being an a**hole who doesnt care about my feelings

Not saying he's not an asshole.

Though sometimes it's better to just disappear. I've had people who has done that to me in the past. I can't say it's an ass move or not but it does help getting over them a lot quicker. Whether if they did it out of spite or not they severed that tie which is a pretty amazing thing to do.

You can either look at it from a good perspective or a bad perspective or accept it for what it is. I've stayed friends with people who I should've just disappeared from, either way it's drama so I'll take being the asshole anyday then an asshole who's pretending to be nice.

Posted by aquasnoz
I'll offer another perspective. Maybe they are pretty simple and everyone else just thinks too much on it.

I could agree with that.

I see the simplicity to them.

*than

Posted by aquasnoz
Not saying he's not an asshole.

Though sometimes it's better to just disappear. I've had people who has done that to me in the past. I can't say it's an ass move or not but it does help getting over them a lot quicker. Whether if they did it out of spite or not they severed that tie which is a pretty amazing thing to do.

You can either look at it from a good perspective or a bad perspective or accept it for what it is. I've stayed friends with people who I should've just disappeared from, either way it's drama so I'll take being the asshole anyday then an asshole who's pretending to be nice.

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By the way I'm not dismissing your feelings. I know it feels like shit. If I had DXP back then I'd probably make a million posts about my break up. Quite a sight so see an aqua lose it I'll tell you that.

It's one of those moments where I'll just hug people rather than talking through it because nothing really seems to help until you help yourself get over it.

Might be weird but perhaps aquas understand that. They are the waterbearers after all. Letting the water flow for what it is, no words and no explanations needed. And understanding the flow of water perhaps at times we're too guarded.

Posted by aquasnoz
By the way I'm not dismissing your feelings. I know it feels like shit. If I had DXP back then I'd probably make a million posts about my break up. Quite a sight so see an aqua lose it I'll tell you that.

It's one of those moments where I'll just hug people rather than talking through it because nothing really seems to help until you help yourself get over it.

Might be weird but perhaps aquas understand that. They are the waterbearers after all. Letting the water flow for what it is, no words and no explanations needed. And understanding the flow of water perhaps at times we're too guarded.

lol strangely i get it but thank you for caring

Long story short!

Regardless of what situation you are in or whoever is involved.

If soemthing isn't making you happy, then don't be a part of it. No person, activity, or place is worth allowing it to affect your happiness.

So if you find yourself unhappy consistently, then stop doing it, going to that place, ebing around that person

etc. etc. etc.