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Sep 30, 2011Comments: 712 · Posts: 13125 · Topics: 157
I moved to the province where im staying 3 years ago and during this time i only befriended only one person whom im no longer friends with anymore. I get lonely and tell myself to make some friends. At my son's school we have monthly parent meetings and i get to meet other interesting ppl. I exchanged numbers with some and when they call i find myself avoiding every single call. I dont know why. I want to make friends, but at the same time i dont want to, i d/k if that makes sense.
Is there anybody in here who had experienced the same thing?
How did u overcome it?
How did/do u deal with personal space issue? (this is my major concern)
Thanks for taking your time reading this and thank u in advance for your input.
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Sep 30, 2011Comments: 712 · Posts: 13125 · Topics: 157
Aquaj, what happened to the lady on your link is what i fear too. I dont want to be alone forever or be surrounded by cats. I mentioned that i've been going through some soul searching and i want to change some things as hard as it is to do so. Thanks for the reminder of a lonely death, lol
What I don't think most people understand is while an Aquariuos can be the fun and exciting one in the group we are really introverted. We do not usually "Get out There" so to speak. Now give us a guide to take us on our tour and we will follow their lead and let loose. So maybe find someone at work or that you know and see if you can get a friendship started on a smaller more one on one level.
You really should not force the issue of answering the phone or allowing contact. I do the same thing but when I feel like allowing the contact to take place it's because I feel they will be good friends lasting and personal space Will not be important.