Found my Aquarius online, s he just playing a game

I met my aqua online. We have talked and shared pics between each other for about a month. We are planning to meet this wee for the first time, however, I am a libra and Want him to come to my office to meet on the initials meeting. He wants me to meet him half way. I don't want to because I think he should come to me if he
Is really interested. Plus we chat on the phone, he said he needed to take another call and would call me back but didn't! I hate that, BUT I didn't call
Him back. I told him how that makes me feel. I asked him to give me more time to meet him because I have been dealing with some family issues.
I have not heard from him in about a week .

maybe he's busy? maybe he met someone else?

call him... what's the big deal ?

*blank stare*

Well, both of you showed you aren't very flexible. Men may date the divas and be attracted and chase them, but in reality, most men want to have a relationship with someone who's flexible, kind, and stands up for herself.

I think demanding meeting at the office showed inflexibility, when he preferred to meet someone else. It appears you didn't take his feelings into consideration.

And the game? You expected him to miss the last minutes of a game just to prove a point that you won't bend for anyone? That was inconsiderate on your part.

So many women want their way and their feelings taken into consideration, and when proving a point, they forget that there are two people in this and disrespect the other party. Then they miss out on some guys who would have given the same consideration back when it was you needing him to be flexible.

I'm not saying bend to every guy's whelm, but go along at least once or twice, and wait and see if its a pattern. If the pattern keeps repeating, then play your little games or walk away.

*Just my two cents*

*somewhere else*

oops.

Posted by 88PisceScorp
for me, nah. About the game I honestly didn't care.

I will care and be flexible when I am dating him, He was a total stranger to me.
so I chose to meet someone else who did keep his word.

I don't feel so desperate to just wait till he is ready or not. He should have told me earlier that day or the day before, that his plan was to watch the game, and I would have been more understanding.

I am not a desperate woman, and I don't feel like if I don't have a man, I'm incomplete. I leave those kind of men for desperate women.

hey I dont like flexible either. LOL
I can't stand those types that just tell you on their first date, "hey i wanna be with my friends."
wtf? You want your buddies? Okaaayyy buddy ....you aren't even interested in being reliable with even a date and your buddies are more important? have fun with them! bromance all the way, bud.

when it's a first date, it's rude to do that.

Flexibility is one thing when you're already dating and into a relationship.
You bend alot for your mate and vice versa.

It's as if he's not passionate enough to pursue you. Perhaps he thinks you're not even important enough.

He could do MANY things. Tell the date to come with him to the game with his buds for one.

You guys have your own way of wanting things, that's what makes us all different.

My typo implies he was at a game.... I meant to ask "if he is playing a game with me". He wanted to meet and I asked if he could meet me at my office before he
Mentioned a location. I like home and just wanted to take my time. As a few of you mentioned, I want to focus on my family before meeting him so I can be focused on him.
I am not the kind that keeps calling a guy. Now he has asked me to reciprocate in calling etc... Now when I do, he doesn't text me back. I had been reading comments
About Aquarians doing a disappearing act, but I don't like it. I am trying NOT to just walk away.

So help a woman out! It has been awhile since I have dated. Pretty accomplished, been married, no kids ( and YES he doesn't either)
For me in this juncture of my life, I am so glad. I am flexible to say the least.
@ Truecup I don't think I posted anything about him not leaving a game to see me. I honestly thought he wouldn't put his friend in front of
A commitment to meet me.

@ Narbil ... Help me to understand how I asked him to cater to my emotional needs? Actually whether I met him yet or not, if he is not a caring person, then we don't need to meet. He had been pressuring me to meet him, but I need more time.

I really appreciate all who gave me something to think about.

I do want libra and Aquarians (US) to work. I will be patient and see. 😉

Lol lmao sick thin. Lol
I know ... Just hoping from our very long and good conversation he is real and as handsome in the inside as he is on the outside. He has sent too many on the stop pictures for it not to be him.

I want the inside more than the outside. Just saying "I love The Lord who I have never seen". 😉 But on the real side, I am not wrapped up in him, just hoping
I can find a diamond in the ruff and have fun with a MAN who I have some commonality with,

I am not desperate. I have been without for over two years and before that seven. Plus I love me some ME and will be okay if it is what it is.