Getting an Aquarius man back?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by JenBHavinFun on Sunday, April 1, 2018 and has 41 replies.
I was lucky enough to have a committed Aquarius man for 8 months (the longest since his divorce apparently). He did care for me and was loyal. He’d been under a lot of stress and suddenly ended it 5 days ago. Saying he needed to simplify his life. I was crushed as this guy, a week ago, said he saw a future with me. He did say he wanted to be friends. His family members reached out to me apologizing and I found out he ALSO said to his step dad that I deserve to be happy and he couldn’t help but look at other women. (We both believe he never cheated).

Since the break up he’s reached out twice. Once to say he was sorry and further explain. I tried getting more info and he shut down. Then last night he text asking if I was ok. I said I’m alright and asked how he was. I dropped it from there.

What are some tips to get this guy to regret, chase, and hopefully come back?
For now continue being his friend.

😀
@STILL get your ass here!
Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀
But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.
Ouch. He basically is calling you a complication.
Posted by AerialView
@STILL get your ass here!
She may want some aqua men advice 😉
Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀
But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.
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All possibilities are pretty much still open.
Posted by AerialView
@STILL get your ass here!


I need a break. It's too exhausting! 😥
Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by AerialView
@STILL get your ass here!
She may want some aqua men advice 😉
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She liked my post but she's nowhere to be seen here lol
Posted by STILL
Posted by AerialView
@STILL get your ass here!


I need a break. It's too exhausting! 😥
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Ah there you are lol
Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by AerialView
@STILL get your ass here!
She may want some aqua men advice 😉
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I don't need it. I have a handle on all the Aqua man in my life. And any future ones too 😉

Posted by STILL
Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by AerialView
@STILL get your ass here!
She may want some aqua men advice 😉
I don't need it. I have a handle on all the Aqua man in my life. And any future ones too 😉

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Lol, not you. I meant the op
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Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀
But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.
All possibilities are pretty much still open.
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Early days

Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by STILL
Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by AerialView
@STILL get your ass here!
She may want some aqua men advice 😉
I don't need it. I have a handle on all the Aqua man in my life. And any future ones too 😉

Lol, not you. I meant the op
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Sorry doll! Thought you were teasing. 😘

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Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀
But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.
All possibilities are pretty much still open.


Early days

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Must give OP some hope (:
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Posted by pisceswoman123
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Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀
But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.
All possibilities are pretty much still open.


Early days

Must give OP some hope (:
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You are too sweet sometimes (:
Posted by JenBHavinFun
I was lucky enough to have a committed Aquarius man for 8 months (the longest since his divorce apparently). He did care for me and was loyal. He’d been under a lot of stress and suddenly ended it 5 days ago. Saying he needed to simplify his life. I was crushed as this guy, a week ago, said he saw a future with me. He did say he wanted to be friends. His family members reached out to me apologizing and I found out he ALSO said to his step dad that I deserve to be happy and he couldn’t help but look at other women. (We both believe he never cheated).

Since the break up he’s reached out twice. Once to say he was sorry and further explain. I tried getting more info and he shut down. Then last night he text asking if I was ok. I said I’m alright and asked how he was. I dropped it from there.

What are some tips to get this guy to regret, chase, and hopefully come back?


What's your sign?

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Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀
But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.
All possibilities are pretty much still open.


Early days

Must give OP some hope (:
You are too sweet sometimes (:
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Other times just sweet (:
What's the cause of his stress? What did he explain to you before he shut down?
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Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀
But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.
All possibilities are pretty much still open.


Early days

Must give OP some hope (:
You are too sweet sometimes (:
Other times just sweet (:
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Lol. And then they say that aquarius are not charming 😛😉

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Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀
But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.
All possibilities are pretty much still open.


Early days

Must give OP some hope (:
You are too sweet sometimes (:
Other times just sweet (:


Lol. And then they say that aquarius are not charming 😛😉

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Who's they? 😜
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Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀
But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.
All possibilities are pretty much still open.


Early days

Must give OP some hope (:
You are too sweet sometimes (:
Other times just sweet (:


Lol. And then they say that aquarius are not charming 😛😉

Who's they? 😜
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The hateful ones 🤭😛

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Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀
But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.
All possibilities are pretty much still open.


Early days

Must give OP some hope (:
You are too sweet sometimes (:
Other times just sweet (:


Lol. And then they say that aquarius are not charming 😛😉

Who's they? 😜


The hateful ones 🤭😛

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They don't deserve Aqua's love 💕
Posted by JenBHavinFun
I was lucky enough to have a committed Aquarius man for 8 months (the longest since his divorce apparently). He did care for me and was loyal. He’d been under a lot of stress and suddenly ended it 5 days ago. Saying he needed to simplify his life. I was crushed as this guy, a week ago, said he saw a future with me. He did say he wanted to be friends. His family members reached out to me apologizing and I found out he ALSO said to his step dad that I deserve to be happy and he couldn’t help but look at other women. (We both believe he never cheated).

Since the break up he’s reached out twice. Once to say he was sorry and further explain. I tried getting more info and he shut down. Then last night he text asking if I was ok. I said I’m alright and asked how he was. I dropped it from there.

What are some tips to get this guy to regret, chase, and hopefully come back?
In my opinion, you stay put and dont do anything

the best would be just stop talking to him

I mean, he broke up with you and then he contacts you to say he is sorry, then asking if you are okey. I would not be mad at anybody for breaking up with me, but this patronising behaviour would make me mad.

he is adding insult to injury, how dare he

I am sorry he is an Aqua

he must have some other shy***tty planets and placements

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Posted by pisceswoman123
Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀
But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.
All possibilities are pretty much still open.


Early days

Must give OP some hope (:
You are too sweet sometimes (:
Other times just sweet (:


Lol. And then they say that aquarius are not charming 😛😉

Who's they? 😜


The hateful ones 🤭😛

They don't deserve Aqua's love 💕
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Nope, Aqua love is for the lucky few 😍

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For now continue being his friend.

😀
But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.
All possibilities are pretty much still open.


Early days

Must give OP some hope (:
I see.

I'm not needed then.
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Lol.

She may need a sincere answer

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Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀
But do you think he will come back or he is just feeling guilty and don’t want to hurt her.

It’s seems to me he wants to be single.
All possibilities are pretty much still open.


Early days

Must give OP some hope (:
I see.

I'm not needed then.


Lol.

She may need a sincere answer

Well, it could be anything.

It depends on his background and character traits.
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Yes, I agree that without more information it’s difficult to say anything for sure
It sounds like he is already starting to regret it. Don’t do anything to move the process along because it can have consequences. Just do you and be happy, if you two are meant to come back together you will, but it sounds like he cares about you. A lot of people have broken up so just roll with it lol
He admitted to looking at other women. That must mean there’s another woman on his mind.
This advice is all over the board 😂😂😂

Good luck with whatever decision you make.
Posted by AerialView
For now continue being his friend.

😀
Great! Bozo rejected her with open statement that he wants another woman and she needs to continue to be his...friend? While he is ducking other women and deciding her fate? No way!
Posted by pinkbird03
He admitted to looking at other women. That must mean there’s another woman on his mind.
But she could wait? Right? Until he will come back? Shit no!!!

Where those stupid advises from???

Man said he wants not you!!!

Doesn’t it make him deposit for trash can?
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by pinkbird03
He admitted to looking at other women. That must mean there’s another woman on his mind.
But she could wait? Right? Until he will come back? Shit no!!!

Where those stupid advises from???

Man said he wants not you!!!

Doesn’t it make him deposit for trash can?
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Lol i didn’t say to wait. I like a man who tells you what’s going on rather than leaving you confused by not saying anything. I’d take his word for it.

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He admitted to looking at other women. That must mean there’s another woman on his mind.
But she could wait? Right? Until he will come back? Shit no!!!

Where those stupid advises from???

Man said he wants not you!!!

Doesn’t it make him deposit for trash can?


Lol i didn’t say to wait. I like a man who tells you what’s going on rather than leaving you confused by not saying anything. I’d take his word for it.

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...and tell him to fucknoff...I hope...
He is trying to be kind and let you down as gently as possible

I'd say he feels bad, I sense he isn't a bad man, but proabably feels a little guilty

If it was me, I would allow him his freedom

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Treat him friendly and without drama and he might be back in one year or so.

Don't wait for him though.... find someone you like better.
The fact that you felt lucky to have him means you had the wrong mindset to begin with.

And he broke up with you, move on!

Don’t try to manipulate someone who told you you’re making his life complicated. Why are you desperate to have him?
Posted by Undine
Treat him friendly and without drama and he might be back in one year or so.

Don't wait for him though.... find someone you like better.
WHY is she supposed to be his friend?

To watch him dating and telling her about it? What are you all...crazy??? 😡
Posted by bkbella86
The fact that you felt lucky to have him means you had the wrong mindset to begin with.

And he broke up with you, move on!

Don’t try to manipulate someone who told you you’re making his life complicated. Why are you desperate to have him?
I am wondering if they were married and he said he wants to see another women...

Would she be advised to invite the woman to their home for cup of tea? Just to be friendly...and not a bitch...so in a year or so he might come back and happily ever after?

No way anyone would suggest that! So how is this shit different?
Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
Lol, it's not lucky enough at all.
Don’t you think they shouldn’t be friends?

We are minority here...lmao
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Undine
Treat him friendly and without drama and he might be back in one year or so.

Don't wait for him though.... find someone you like better.
WHY is she supposed to be his friend?

To watch him dating and telling her about it? What are you all...crazy??? 😡
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Friendly....not friend.

Little to worry about an Aqua....... he will pretend to be the eternal bachelor until he invites you to his wedding, decades later smile.