Guys...
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by AnnoyedCancer on Saturday, December 22, 2007 and has 21 replies.
Ok.
I'm going to be away for christmas this year (3 days, not a whole lot.)
I went shopping with my aqua today in the morning, and it was normal.
Our friends called and invited us to go to a hooka bar, but I personally didn't want to go, not because I mind people smoking, but I like to keep things clean.
I told him, "if you want, you can go with them."
So he went.
I don't mind he went, its just the fact that he went and he's not going to see me for the next three days and he's basically choosing our friends over me.
People have explained to me (or rather my mother who is dating an aqua) that its because I'm leaving. My best friend (an aqua) says he did it because he wanted attention.
I personally don't care why he did it, I just think it is really messed up.
When he went on vacation for a week, I spent the last day with him. He expected me to stay home and wait for him. So see, why can't things be balanced?
I played it cool, texted him to "have fun babe!" and I do hope he does.
I'm going to be away for christmas this year (3 days, not a whole lot.)
I went shopping with my aqua today in the morning, and it was normal.
Our friends called and invited us to go to a hooka bar, but I personally didn't want to go, not because I mind people smoking, but I like to keep things clean.
I told him, "if you want, you can go with them."
So he went.
I don't mind he went, its just the fact that he went and he's not going to see me for the next three days and he's basically choosing our friends over me.
People have explained to me (or rather my mother who is dating an aqua) that its because I'm leaving. My best friend (an aqua) says he did it because he wanted attention.
I personally don't care why he did it, I just think it is really messed up.
When he went on vacation for a week, I spent the last day with him. He expected me to stay home and wait for him. So see, why can't things be balanced?
I played it cool, texted him to "have fun babe!" and I do hope he does.
You don't mind he went???? Something makes me think otherwise....
Well, what I meant was if he wants to go out with our friends, I wouldn't mind.
The thing is, I'm not going to see him for three days and I didn't do that to him.
Him hanging out with friends isn't what bothers me, its the fact he didnt even ask me if I wanted to do anything other than that (which I do for him).
That would be whats bothering me. The fact he didn't care enough to do something more caring.
What do you think?
The thing is, I'm not going to see him for three days and I didn't do that to him.
Him hanging out with friends isn't what bothers me, its the fact he didnt even ask me if I wanted to do anything other than that (which I do for him).
That would be whats bothering me. The fact he didn't care enough to do something more caring.
What do you think?
"I told him, "if you want, you can go with them."
So he went."
This is what you said...and thats exactly what he did.
Dont say you dont mind when you do.
You should've told him you guys should spend time together if thats what you truly wanted.
He's not a mind reader.
So he went."
This is what you said...and thats exactly what he did.
Dont say you dont mind when you do.
You should've told him you guys should spend time together if thats what you truly wanted.
He's not a mind reader.
Yes i understand but...I guess I expected him to notice.
I didn't say anything because, to tell you the truth, I don't really know why.
I feel like I don't want to worry about these things.
Is this an aqua thing, the not knowing, or just every guy?
I didn't say anything because, to tell you the truth, I don't really know why.
I feel like I don't want to worry about these things.
Is this an aqua thing, the not knowing, or just every guy?
You're right antibling, its hard for me to show emotion to him, I don't want him to get sick of it.
I have ALOT of emotions lol.
But, I just expected the same treatment because it seems like the right thing to do in those situations.
I know if I had done that to him he would have said something, because he would have found it wrong.
I guess its not a connect-the-dots sort of thing with him.
:/
I have ALOT of emotions lol.
But, I just expected the same treatment because it seems like the right thing to do in those situations.
I know if I had done that to him he would have said something, because he would have found it wrong.
I guess its not a connect-the-dots sort of thing with him.
:/
Hehe thanks alot antibling 
Boy do I see it now. He keeps asking me if I minded, and no matter how much I play it off (I'll tell him...eventually), I feel like if he WANTS me to mind.
He already made all his plans and told me the very day. It seems he is having a field day.
You go weeks without seeing yours spachtel ( I have to double check to see I'm writing it right lol)
I think its healthy, but when something like that happens, it just becomes like a vacation.
He already made all his plans and told me the very day. It seems he is having a field day.
You go weeks without seeing yours spachtel ( I have to double check to see I'm writing it right lol)
I think its healthy, but when something like that happens, it just becomes like a vacation.
I called, he seems to like talking about feelings.]
I don't.
Gah, well thanks spachtel (ALOT).
I don't.
Gah, well thanks spachtel (ALOT).
Bless your dramatic little cancer heart.
I like you guys, but you all are life draining.
I like you guys, but you all are life draining.
"Bless your dramatic little cancer heart.
I like you guys, but you all are life draining."
Trust me, I know.
"We notice,it's just whether or not we can be bothered to play along,and how frequent the
'jump through the flaming hoops,psychic doggie!!" *communications* are....."
This is the second time I've done it, last time was like 5 months ago when he went to a birthday dinner with his ex gf where in that dinner she said not to take me. I didn't care about that one. My statisfaction came when he said he knew he was wrong. He=he.
"Oh please. I don't think so. You guys haven't got a clue."
Yeah. Dont try and play it off antibling
I like you guys, but you all are life draining."
Trust me, I know.
"We notice,it's just whether or not we can be bothered to play along,and how frequent the
'jump through the flaming hoops,psychic doggie!!" *communications* are....."
This is the second time I've done it, last time was like 5 months ago when he went to a birthday dinner with his ex gf where in that dinner she said not to take me. I didn't care about that one. My statisfaction came when he said he knew he was wrong. He=he.
"Oh please. I don't think so. You guys haven't got a clue."
Yeah. Dont try and play it off antibling
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haha I do that too!
I dont think tuning out is bad.
I do that all the time during long talks about politics he-he.
Anti-bling, does that mean you hate jewlery?
Or does it mean your alergic to shiny stuffs?
I do that all the time during long talks about politics he-he.
Anti-bling, does that mean you hate jewlery?
Or does it mean your alergic to shiny stuffs?
Anti loves shiny things
You had to read the other postings knuoichi
I'm over it, we talked it over, and I feel much better!
I'm over it, we talked it over, and I feel much better!
"Our friends called and invited us to go to a hooka bar, but I personally didn't want to go, not because I mind people smoking, but I like to keep things clean."
Ok, I'm confused again .. can someone please explain.
Doesn't hooka mean a water pipe?
There are pot smoking bars?
Second .. clean?
You mean, you like to keep your lungs clean?
Ok, I'm confused again .. can someone please explain.
Doesn't hooka mean a water pipe?
There are pot smoking bars?
Second .. clean?
You mean, you like to keep your lungs clean?
Or clean as in, drug-free?
Again .. you have marijuana smoking bars?
Where do you live?
Again .. you have marijuana smoking bars?
Where do you live?
A hookah (Hindi: हुक्का, Urdu: حقہ hukka) or shisha (Arabic: شيشة or أركيلة), is a single or multi-stemmed (often glass-based) water pipe device for smoking; originating in India,[1][2][3] it has gained popularity, especially in the Arab World. A hookah operates by water filtration and indirect heat. It can be used for smoking many substances, such as herbal fruits and tobacco.
You don't even have to be a smoker to enjoy a hookah. It's all about the taste but most importantly, about the social aspects.
You don't even have to be a smoker to enjoy a hookah. It's all about the taste but most importantly, about the social aspects.
Yup, thats all it is, flavored tabacco.
What i mean by keeping this clean is that, I wouldn't mind doing it, buts not like something I would be like, "OH NO WHY ARE YOU DOING THAT???"
I don't really smoke or drink lol, drinking makes me sleepy.
And I live in Miami, I honestly wouldnt be surprised if there WAS mary jane smoking in those.
You'll find alot of things here
What i mean by keeping this clean is that, I wouldn't mind doing it, buts not like something I would be like, "OH NO WHY ARE YOU DOING THAT???"
I don't really smoke or drink lol, drinking makes me sleepy.
And I live in Miami, I honestly wouldnt be surprised if there WAS mary jane smoking in those.
You'll find alot of things here
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