Has he come back to being friends /casual relationship /or is he getting serious?
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Ilovemyaqua on Monday, November 2, 2015 and has 4 replies.
So last month,after he kept digging me and I reluctantly confessed I was getting serious about the relationship, he had backed out and said he thought we both knew we were in a casual relationship and that we should end everything and just be friends.He also said he needed a one month break.After about 10 days,he came to my place to return a book of mine.We talked and then he left next day for his hometown.He had one other thing of mine with him.That he said he'll return later.After some days I wished him luck for his job interview via text.He called me up but I had to hang up because of some work.He called me again at night.Then twice he came to my place to return something of mine but I wasn't at home.We talked over the phone and decided to meet this Sunday,however he said he'll leave soon,by 5, since he had work(however, that didn't happen, he stayed till 7).He was going to his hometown after that and we wouldn't meet for perhaps 2 months.When he came over to meet me,we behaved like friends.However, a little talks here and there about feelings happened.I got upset a little about something and he said he feels at liberty to talk to only me about many things,which he doesn't with anyone else.He also said he knows how I am and that was why at that moment he was with me and no one else.We cuddled towards the end which turned into a make out session.I asked him the clichéd why he liked me and he said he liked everything about me.However, he didn't want to know why I liked him.We continued making out 
and he finally dropped me at my place (and yet again forgot to return my stuff ). My question is,has he come back to being just friends /casual relationship /or has he too started getting a little serious?
and he finally dropped me at my place (and yet again forgot to return my stuff ). My question is,has he come back to being just friends /casual relationship /or has he too started getting a little serious?Any inputs guys?
I wouldn't make out with him until you know what his intention is. It just clouds your judgement.
On the surface, it sounds like he just wants to be friends (with possible benefits.)
"he said he feels at liberty to talk to only me about many things, which he doesn't with anyone else"
sounds like he needs you more as a good friend than anything else.
especially the fact that he wasn't interested in why you like him is a flag.
perhaps there could be a future, but right now it sounds like he wants you to be a good friend.
"he said he feels at liberty to talk to only me about many things, which he doesn't with anyone else"
sounds like he needs you more as a good friend than anything else.
especially the fact that he wasn't interested in why you like him is a flag.
perhaps there could be a future, but right now it sounds like he wants you to be a good friend.
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