Have you ever dated another Aquarius?

I haven't had much experience with other Aquarians as I have an eery way of avoiding most of them, I know it's the rarest sign but I rarely meet Aquarians.

I also find that their over-excitement is a bit uncomfortable at times, and if they are male I get very analytical and critical of them. It may seem as distrust or hostility based on fears, but I just have a really strong bullshit detector and quite honestly, we can be full of shit sometimes. Don't deny it. 😄

The female Aquarians I've talked to have been okay, and quite likeable as people, just never had that sexual attraction with any Aquarian women yet.

What are your experiences with other Aquarians? We crazy.

I dated an Aquarius guy both born on the 21st which was pretty strange when we realized lol

We had a lot of fun together.. and i felt attraction to him almost instantly and think he felt the same. It was a rollercoaster 3 months... he was very laid back and so was I. But he was deep, way deeper than me and he was incredibly hard to read and he felt miles away a lot of the time. Sex wise was good but I was young and maybe abit inexperienced.. it wasn't amazing but it was good. We clashed when it came to headbutting... I got angry with him and he basically ran for hills instantly. I would say, I love Aquarius but i don't think I would never date a male Aqua again. I was besotted with him and the way he just fell of the face of the earth hurt like hell. It was only 3 months but I saw an amazing guy turn into a horrible cold hearted (censored word here)overnight and it taught me one hell of a lesson!! We were similar but also very different and that's probably to do with our other sign placements!

My ex Aquarius left my crazy scorpio ass for another aquarius, he very quickly came running back to me. No idea what the match is like but it started quick and ended even quicker :L

Posted by ccaqua
I dated an Aquarius guy both born on the 21st which was pretty strange when we realized lol

We had a lot of fun together.. and i felt attraction to him almost instantly and think he felt the same. It was a rollercoaster 3 months... he was very laid back and so was I. But he was deep, way deeper than me and he was incredibly hard to read and he felt miles away a lot of the time. Sex wise was good but I was young and maybe abit inexperienced.. it wasn't amazing but it was good. We clashed when it came to headbutting... I got angry with him and he basically ran for hills instantly. I would say, I love Aquarius but i don't think I would never date a male Aqua again. I was besotted with him and the way he just fell of the face of the earth hurt like hell. It was only 3 months but I saw an amazing guy turn into a horrible cold hearted (censored word here)overnight and it taught me one hell of a lesson!! We were similar but also very different and that's probably to do with our other sign placements!

Amazing synchronicitiy , imagine that. I'd be laughing for days if I realized something like that. 😄

I feel that a lot of Aqua guys are oblivious to their nature, and when overrun by negative emotion act out on them so harshly that they forsake everything related to the break up, and we are prone to doing things that later we will regret so much that we block out the memory and any associated emotion. I think most Aqua guys have at least one experience were we

We have a tendency to take things too lightly, or to sugar coat reality by telling ourselves that things are fine.

When we realize that reality is of course different than from what we have in mind, we start experiencing very volatile emotions; feelings of frustration, disgust with ourselves, irritability, detachment and all that jazz. That's when the cold-hearted monster can surface, and it's not pretty..

Sounds like you learned a lot of valuable lessons though. 😄

Posted by Scorpio579
My ex Aquarius left my crazy scorpio ass for another aquarius, he very quickly came running back to me. No idea what the match is like but it started quick and ended even quicker :L

Haha he must've been put off really bad, I can relate.

I've felt that barrier-like emotion, where you just feel this cold chill of discomfort. Had this twice with female Aqua's. Something I do a lot is scan people whether or not they would be of romantic interest, but when I scanned them I was almost creeped out.

I'm normally very intuitive so I have a good idea of who I match with and not, but never felt the chill quite like with other Aqua ladies, at least romantically.

@Scorpio579.. that's exactly what happened with us. Think he was still hooked on his ex (who weirdly had ginger her like me)Don't think he went back to her though. It was a crazy fun disaster. lol

You fella's have a great side and really bad side, but so do Aqua females lol I'm a bit worried I may come across creepy to others now though :-O Lmao!!

It would be interesting to hear of a successful duo though!

Some of the stuff you said is so true especially with the sugar coating, I tend to sprinkle that shit everywhere and sometimes flip out when I learn otherwise and then experience shame for not knowing any better, eventually pride because I learned something new then I become complacent and the cycle starts over Ha.

Its so weird when I meet a new Aqua we totally have that moment when you look in a mirror and you're like 😕 and then your hand goes up and you're reflections hand goes up but then your reflection starts talking...I recently made friends with an Aqua girl and we're good friends but shes so deep like shes not here and there's a sense of melancholy to her even though shes so bright and smiley and happy, we started hanging together and going clubbing and I realised I found myself seeing her the way some people see me and I'm not sure if I liked it. I like her but I feel an unsettling distance between her and reality,

I hardly ever meet any aquas, have never dated one I wonder what it would be like....So many Aquas i know are so weird and not in a cute way, like "woah this shit is real" weird

One set of my ex in-laws are both Aquarius. They are adorable! They've been married for about 25-30 years. They seem to be very compatible and have a happy marriage. They both do their own thing, then come together to do their couple thing as well. They bicker back and forth in the most hilarious way. Not because they're fighting, but that's just how their dynamic is - all in humor and classic smart assedness. They're very loyal to each other. If someone does her wrong, they've got to deal with him, and vice versa. They've got each other's backs.

I dated one for a bit and there was no connection whatsoever. The other I've had as a fwb on and off for two years now, we have a very caring relationship, but there isn't any romantic connection there. There might have been in the beginning but I had no clue he felt that way, and he was hurt when I started a relationship with a Leo. So then we had a tumultuous while where we tried actually dating after said Leo, but I could tell he thought I had betrayed him. As a result he never really trusted me, so I finally told him it wasn't going to work that way. It has been the most caring partnership I have been in, he has always been a real friend!

Posted by AquaMermaid
I was in relationship with a gorgeous Aquarius man for two years.That was in my teen. He attracted a lot of females. Sometimes it made me crazy jealous and possessive but when he kissed me and looked into my eyes, I used to melt.We were inseparable.He would take me on long drives,buy me my favourite flowers and chocolates. We could take a walk in the rain.We had great chemistry. He was a Pisces moon and I am a Cancer moon.We couldn't be together due to unavoidable circumstances.He wrote me letters and poems with roses in it. I still have them at my parents home. I have no bitterness or bad memories related to him. He made me smile more than he made me cry. I have no regrets loving my own kind. He was unique and all mine.

Wow, what a dream. Sounds like a fairy tale. 🙂

Posted by truecap
One set of my ex in-laws are both Aquarius. They are adorable! They've been married for about 25-30 years. They seem to be very compatible and have a happy marriage. They both do their own thing, then come together to do their couple thing as well. They bicker back and forth in the most hilarious way. Not because they're fighting, but that's just how their dynamic is - all in humor and classic smart assedness. They're very loyal to each other. If someone does her wrong, they've got to deal with him, and vice versa. They've got each other's backs.

Hah! I would totally love bickering back and forth like that, if someone can make me laugh repeatedly I'm all theirs.

Their relationship sounds really heart warming. 🙂

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Posted by truecap
One set of my ex in-laws are both Aquarius. They are adorable! They've been married for about 25-30 years. They seem to be very compatible and have a happy marriage. They both do their own thing, then come together to do their couple thing as well. They bicker back and forth in the most hilarious way. Not because they're fighting, but that's just how their dynamic is - all in humor and classic smart assedness. They're very loyal to each other. If someone does her wrong, they've got to deal with him, and vice versa. They've got each other's backs.

Hah! I would totally love bickering back and forth like that, if someone can make me laugh repeatedly I'm all theirs.

Their relationship sounds really heart warming. 🙂

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Here's an example of one of their sessions:
Him - sitting on the porch drinking beer after cooking on the grill, says something stupid.
Her: Just how many beers are you going to drink?
Him: Not as many as I'm going to have.
Her: Then you can just sleep on the porch.
Him: Fine by me. Finishes his beer and goes in the house.

I think they're adorable!

Posted by AquaMermaid
It was very intense and romantic 🙂 He was my first love, I'll remember him forever.

I never had a true love unfortunately, wish I knew what it felt like but I can imagine it to be a surreal feeling.

Maybe he'll show up in your life again, one day. We have a habit of doing that. 😉

Posted by truecap

Here's an example of one of their sessions:
Him - sitting on the porch drinking beer after cooking on the grill, says something stupid.
Her: Just how many beers are you going to drink?
Him: Not as many as I'm going to have.
Her: Then you can just sleep on the porch.
Him: Fine by me. Finishes his beer and goes in the house.

I think they're adorable!

That's hilarious, so nonchalant. My type of humour. 😄

I've been very solitary most of my life, and romance was not on the top of my priorities until recently. Not to say I haven't been with women, but that's different. 😄
Also I was just asked out by a girl on Tinder yesterday actually... She's gorgeous but I'm really nervous!!! I hate conventional dating, but she's Irish and they're so traditional, sigh.. Physical attraction is there and she is always asking me how my day is, about work and stuff. I don't know her sign but she seems very fond of people in general. Any guess what her sign might be? 😛

I didn't know you were already happily married! Yes, Scorpios are not to be messed with when it comes to stuff like that.

Memories are what I live for, it's good that you are so appreciative of them.

@ Vattuman:

Nice to know a fellow Aqua man with the same moon position here in DXP!! People call me intimidating as well and they instantly form an opinion that I am arrogant. I can relate to what you said.

I have always had trouble taking an Aqua relationship beyond friendship. I guess too much detachment is the problem. Anyway, I am happily settled now with a Gem and I am delighted how things are and look for the future. 🙂

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Posted by vattuman
I've been very solitary most of my life, and romance was not on the top of my priorities until recently. Not to say I haven't been with women, but that's different. 😄
Also I was just asked out by a girl on Tinder yesterday actually... She's gorgeous but I'm really nervous!!! I hate conventional dating, but she's Irish and they're so traditional, sigh.. Physical attraction is there and she is always asking me how my day is, about work and stuff. I don't know her sign but she seems very fond of people in general. Any guess what her sign might be? 😛

I didn't know you were already happily married! Yes, Scorpios are not to be messed with when it comes to stuff like that.

Memories are what I live for, it's good that you are so appreciative of them.

You're adorb! No wonder you got asked out. I am guessing your date must be a fire or air sign because she made the first move. Earth and Water females are traditional so they want the male to make the first move unless she has heavy fire or air in her chart. She could be a Scorpio too! I've known Scorpio women who asked out men on a date. Don't be nervous. Be the nonchalant Aqua 😛 I hope you enjoy your date.

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Very smart, AM! +10000..

have a good time, OP.

I'm dating a fellow Aquarius. We are like minded at almost everything. We talk like best friends, the sex is passionate and caring. Pretty perfect. From my side I grew attracted to him first emotionaly than physicaly because of how open, honest and caring he is. It's not some thing you are gonna feel instantly but once it grows its there. He's an aqua sun, Scorpio moon, cap Venus and mars. I am a aqua sun, Pisces moon, cap Venus and sagg mars.