he said i am to intensiv

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Antero on Sunday, July 23, 2017 and has 27 replies.
I hope you guys here will give me some advice. I really confuse and don't know what to do. when an aqua man say you are to intensive, what shall I do?.. shall I ignore him?...and no contact for a while?
yes i mean intense.. sorry @AneemA08 @Happy_Aqua yes we text everyday but we meet once in a month . i was on holiday for a month out of the country and we dont text everyday as ussual. when i'm back i wanna meet him as he said he missed me and looking forward to see me soon. i go baxk to work and give my time to meet him for a few hours after my holiday and he said he was tired bit at the end we meet and he said I am to intense. I asked what does he mean he didn't answer . I said ok, let's stop text each other. he said no that's not what he mean. we had commited relationship 13 months . and he is 50 and I'm 39. @Dreamboy.. I am Gemini. thanks for your information. that's what I though I just need to be disappear for good. but he said he will come to my place before he is going on holiday. I feel not interested to meet after he said I am to intense.
we don't talk on the phone everyday.. only text and talking about the children and how is it with our day at work... for me as Gemini it's like a challenge to have a relationship with aqua. it's hurt sometimes but on the other side i don't want to give up . we know that we love each other.
i feel not interest to meet him at my place before his going on holiday after he said i am to intense . if i meet him perhaps i make a mistake . i know what he wants when we meet at my place. its the sex. i want a balance meet me outside just relax and talking when i want too. not doing sex and little talk and than go to sleep as he want too @AneemA08 i told him about it
@Happy_Aqua.. we keep intouch just 4 times when i am away for a month but when he is out of the country for holiday he text me like crazy. and always he took the initiative to text me first but when going back home I am the one to text him first and he did also sometimes. I really don't understand. normal people when you like someone you will spend most of the time with that person but this aqua is driving me crazy. and that's the challenge for me. and I won't give up. I don't know by disappear from him after our last meeting will be a good idea. as he wants to.meet me before going on holiday on Saturday. he asking me when I am going to invite him to.my place and I make food for him. I just laugh and told him back when he will make food for me?.. no answer.
Aquarius man CHEAT when they want space they don't like to stay solo..Never assume that they want space for think....Then they cheat texting cheating, sex cheatting...When a man , that have aquarius in a their natal chart ..sun, moon or even mars wants space ..they cheat. My ex husband have mars and now he has another wife..Guess who want to meet me when the wife was in hospital? Him..Who wans to meet me when the the wife was in a trip with their children without him?

They cheat because don't like to be solo..Like Leo..but leo have friends ..real..but aquarius ..not.

This is difference from leo and aquarius..Leo have family friends that come when you call them, Aquarius have bussines friends that you can' t disturb them when they feel borring or solo..



So, think a little about what I writen, look after the signs in your relationships and make the move you want. ?

But look ..I ' m gemini..beleive me..aquarius are not good for us if you have in your natal chart a little bit of cancer( moon, venus) .No no..You will suffer?
Posted by Arki
Aquarius man CHEAT when they want space they don't like to stay solo..Never assume that they want space for think....Then they cheat texting cheating, sex cheatting...When a man , that have aquarius in a their natal chart ..sun, moon or even mars wants space ..they cheat. My ex husband have mars and now he has another wife..Guess who want to meet me when the wife was in hospital? Him..Who wans to meet me when the the wife was in a trip with their children without him?

They cheat because don't like to be solo..Like Leo..but leo have friends ..real..but aquarius ..not.

This is difference from leo and aquarius..Leo have family friends that come when you call them, Aquarius have bussines friends that you can' t disturb them when they feel borring or solo..



So, think a little about what I writen, look after the signs in your relationships and make the move you want. ?

But look ..I ' m gemini..beleive me..aquarius are not good for us if you have in your natal chart a little bit of cancer( moon, venus) .No no..You will suffer?
Only because it happened to you it doesn't mean all Aquas are like that. What would say if I tell you that his ex Gemini girlfriend cheating on my Aqua all along their relationship? Generalizing doesn't help. Now he hates all Geminis in the world too smile

Posted by Arki
Aquarius man CHEAT when they want space they don't like to stay solo..Never assume that they want space for think....Then they cheat texting cheating, sex cheatting...When a man , that have aquarius in a their natal chart ..sun, moon or even mars wants space ..they cheat. My ex husband have mars and now he has another wife..Guess who want to meet me when the wife was in hospital? Him..Who wans to meet me when the the wife was in a trip with their children without him?

They cheat because don't like to be solo..Like Leo..but leo have friends ..real..but aquarius ..not.

This is difference from leo and aquarius..Leo have family friends that come when you call them, Aquarius have bussines friends that you can' t disturb them when they feel borring or solo..




So, think a little about what I writen, look after the signs in your relationships and make the move you want. ?

But look ..I ' m gemini..beleive me..aquarius are not good for us if you have in your natal chart a little bit of cancer( moon, venus) .No no..You will suffer?
I don't really understand the bolded part.
I think its best that you have a conversation with him regarding what you said. Aquarius from experience do not like intensity at all, as they feel smothered and if their freedom is being taken from them.

I have a theory when it comes to Aqua's it has been said here before that "you cant tame air" which is true. So the answer to that is to be the mountain as "air cannot move mountains."

Ask him to talk about it and if you have a half hearted response, respond and say "talk to me when you are ready" and leave it at that.

Let him come to you.
Just back off lil mama
AerialView

Leo and Aquarius don't enjoy the loneliness, they want to have friends, but not from the same reason. Leo, want friends , for joy for the show, audience and Aquarius , needs friends to forget the show, guilt from there mind..Leo will speak from their authentic soul, they seems naive when they tell you the problems from there life.. .. but they are authentic.. Aquarius never will be admite in front of a friend, family that he have a problem.. He will talk with a strange, psychologist, an old friend but not actual friend. Here he will want to be the strong one. And don't want the admit loudly the mistake they make.

This I see in my life regard a aquarius man, aquarius moon , ..I atract Aquarius because my 7th house it is there.

Even my father have Aquarius moon.

thanks @Arki.

he has sun in aquarius and moon in libra venus in capricorn mars in virgo.

i have sun in gemini moon in scorpio venus in taurus and mars in taurus. . there is no cancer in my natal chart.
Posted by compy
Posted by Arki
Aquarius man CHEAT when they want space they don't like to stay solo..Never assume that they want space for think....Then they cheat texting cheating, sex cheatting...When a man , that have aquarius in a their natal chart ..sun, moon or even mars wants space ..they cheat. My ex husband have mars and now he has another wife..Guess who want to meet me when the wife was in hospital? Him..Who wans to meet me when the the wife was in a trip with their children without him?

They cheat because don't like to be solo..Like Leo..but leo have friends ..real..but aquarius ..not.

This is difference from leo and aquarius..Leo have family friends that come when you call them, Aquarius have bussines friends that you can' t disturb them when they feel borring or solo..



So, think a little about what I writen, look after the signs in your relationships and make the move you want. ?

But look ..I ' m gemini..beleive me..aquarius are not good for us if you have in your natal chart a little bit of cancer( moon, venus) .No no..You will suffer?
Only because it happened to you it doesn't mean all Aquas are like that. What would say if I tell you that his ex Gemini girlfriend cheating on my Aqua all along their relationship? Generalizing doesn't help. Now he hates all Geminis in the world too smile

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Look, If a person are gemini and they cheat .. it is that you forget about her. Forget to talk with her and you have life without her. That it is the reason that gemini with aquarius ( but I tell you, I talk about aquarius man) it is not a good pair. Aquarius man are with a lot of friends but not a lot a good friends, just moments friends. Aquarius have very hide souls and very social life.They don't like to expose. their soul, problems...And they don't face the problems.. They don't like ideea that they maybe sometime NEED YOU...

It is good , it is bad?? I don't know. But I see many old girls aquarius single and boys aquarius with divorce and with many other relantions smile. Gemini smell the cheat , very quick because we are not emotional , the mind it is alert. Maybe I don''t have proofs at that moment, but in time , the evidence go up.

Aquarius need leo.. because leo for audience call all the time the aquarius, scorpio -who can stay alone time without problems, because scorpio enjoy their time alone..
Posted by Antero
thanks @Arki.

he has sun in aquarius and moon in libra venus in capricorn mars in virgo.

i have sun in gemini moon in scorpio venus in taurus and mars in taurus. . there is no cancer in my natal chart.
Your moon in scorpio help a lot and his capricorn venus. But him, with mars in virgo.. hmmm, I think that will you have to make all the moves.

You are not intens for aquarius sun , you are intense for capricorn venus..smile)
Posted by Arki
AerialView

Leo and Aquarius don't enjoy the loneliness, they want to have friends, but not from the same reason. Leo, want friends , for joy for the show, audience and Aquarius , needs friends to forget the show, guilt from there mind..Leo will speak from their authentic soul, they seems naive when they tell you the problems from there life.. .. but they are authentic.. Aquarius never will be admite in front of a friend, family that he have a problem.. He will talk with a strange, psychologist, an old friend but not actual friend. Here he will want to be the strong one. And don't want the admit loudly the mistake they make.

This I see in my life regard a aquarius man, aquarius moon , ..I atract Aquarius because my 7th house it is there.

Even my father have Aquarius moon.

I'm sorry but to me you just sounds butthurt cause of aquas
Posted by Arki
Posted by compy
Posted by Arki
Aquarius man CHEAT when they want space they don't like to stay solo..Never assume that they want space for think....Then they cheat texting cheating, sex cheatting...When a man , that have aquarius in a their natal chart ..sun, moon or even mars wants space ..they cheat. My ex husband have mars and now he has another wife..Guess who want to meet me when the wife was in hospital? Him..Who wans to meet me when the the wife was in a trip with their children without him?

They cheat because don't like to be solo..Like Leo..but leo have friends ..real..but aquarius ..not.

This is difference from leo and aquarius..Leo have family friends that come when you call them, Aquarius have bussines friends that you can' t disturb them when they feel borring or solo..



So, think a little about what I writen, look after the signs in your relationships and make the move you want. ?

But look ..I ' m gemini..beleive me..aquarius are not good for us if you have in your natal chart a little bit of cancer( moon, venus) .No no..You will suffer?
Only because it happened to you it doesn't mean all Aquas are like that. What would say if I tell you that his ex Gemini girlfriend cheating on my Aqua all along their relationship? Generalizing doesn't help. Now he hates all Geminis in the world too smile

Look, If a person are gemini and they cheat .. it is that you forget about her. Forget to talk with her and you have life without her. That it is the reason that gemini with aquarius ( but I tell you, I talk about aquarius man) it is not a good pair. Aquarius man are with a lot of friends but not a lot a good friends, just moments friends. Aquarius have very hide souls and very social life.They don't like to expose. their soul, problems...And they don't face the problems.. They don't like ideea that they maybe sometime NEED YOU...

It is good , it is bad?? I don't know. But I see many old girls aquarius single and boys aquarius with divorce and with many other relantions smile. Gemini smell the cheat , very quick because we are not emotional , the mind it is alert. Maybe I don''t have proofs at that moment, but in time , the evidence go up.

Aquarius need leo.. because leo for audience call all the time the aquarius, scorpio -who can stay alone time without problems, because scorpio enjoy their time alone..
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Aquarius needs TRUST! Aquarius is like a well kept folder with many files. Only a person that can build up the whole picture by reading between the files that are voluntarily shown up can truly see deep within an Aquarius soul and mind. When the Aqua realizes this, he opens up completely. This doesn't mean that person is necessarily a Leo, a Gemini and so on. Only a person that can prove the Aqua man that investing trust is not about losing freedom. As a matter of fact, I don't get along with Leos myself. Should I avoid them? You tell me...

I know Aqua people that never loved or truly trusted anyone, not even their own relatives. I also know happily married Aqua people. Or broken Aquas whose trust may never be rebuilt. But this doesn't mean all of them should be placed in the same bucket. Embrace diversity.
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Posted by Arki
AerialView

Leo and Aquarius don't enjoy the loneliness, they want to have friends, but not from the same reason. Leo, want friends , for joy for the show, audience and Aquarius , needs friends to forget the show, guilt from there mind..Leo will speak from their authentic soul, they seems naive when they tell you the problems from there life.. .. but they are authentic.. Aquarius never will be admite in front of a friend, family that he have a problem.. He will talk with a strange, psychologist, an old friend but not actual friend. Here he will want to be the strong one. And don't want the admit loudly the mistake they make.

This I see in my life regard a aquarius man, aquarius moon , ..I atract Aquarius because my 7th house it is there.

Even my father have Aquarius moon.

I'm sorry but to me you just sounds butthurt cause of aquas
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I see a lot of them in a long of 25 years. This Is from experience. For me, they produce damage.

Posted by Arki
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Posted by Arki
AerialView

Leo and Aquarius don't enjoy the loneliness, they want to have friends, but not from the same reason. Leo, want friends , for joy for the show, audience and Aquarius , needs friends to forget the show, guilt from there mind..Leo will speak from their authentic soul, they seems naive when they tell you the problems from there life.. .. but they are authentic.. Aquarius never will be admite in front of a friend, family that he have a problem.. He will talk with a strange, psychologist, an old friend but not actual friend. Here he will want to be the strong one. And don't want the admit loudly the mistake they make.

This I see in my life regard a aquarius man, aquarius moon , ..I atract Aquarius because my 7th house it is there.

Even my father have Aquarius moon.

I'm sorry but to me you just sounds butthurt cause of aquas


I see a lot of them in a long of 25 years. This Is from experience. For me, they produce damage.

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Exactly.
Posted by compy
Posted by Arki
Posted by compy
Posted by Arki
Aquarius man CHEAT when they want space they don't like to stay solo..Never assume that they want space for think....Then they cheat texting cheating, sex cheatting...When a man , that have aquarius in a their natal chart ..sun, moon or even mars wants space ..they cheat. My ex husband have mars and now he has another wife..Guess who want to meet me when the wife was in hospital? Him..Who wans to meet me when the the wife was in a trip with their children without him?

They cheat because don't like to be solo..Like Leo..but leo have friends ..real..but aquarius ..not.

This is difference from leo and aquarius..Leo have family friends that come when you call them, Aquarius have bussines friends that you can' t disturb them when they feel borring or solo..



So, think a little about what I writen, look after the signs in your relationships and make the move you want. ?

But look ..I ' m gemini..beleive me..aquarius are not good for us if you have in your natal chart a little bit of cancer( moon, venus) .No no..You will suffer?
Only because it happened to you it doesn't mean all Aquas are like that. What would say if I tell you that his ex Gemini girlfriend cheating on my Aqua all along their relationship? Generalizing doesn't help. Now he hates all Geminis in the world too smile

Look, If a person are gemini and they cheat .. it is that you forget about her. Forget to talk with her and you have life without her. That it is the reason that gemini with aquarius ( but I tell you, I talk about aquarius man) it is not a good pair. Aquarius man are with a lot of friends but not a lot a good friends, just moments friends. Aquarius have very hide souls and very social life.They don't like to expose. their soul, problems...And they don't face the problems.. They don't like ideea that they maybe sometime NEED YOU...

It is good , it is bad?? I don't know. But I see many old girls aquarius single and boys aquarius with divorce and with many other relantions smile. Gemini smell the cheat , very quick because we are not emotional , the mind it is alert. Maybe I don''t have proofs at that moment, but in time , the evidence go up.

Aquarius need leo.. because leo for audience call all the time the aquarius, scorpio -who can stay alone time without problems, because scorpio enjoy their time alone..
Aquarius needs TRUST! Aquarius is like a well kept folder with many files. Only a person that can build up the whole picture by reading between the files that are voluntarily shown up can truly see deep within an Aquarius soul and mind. When the Aqua realizes this, he opens up completely. This doesn't mean that person is necessarily a Leo, a Gemini and so on. Only a person that can prove the Aqua man that investing trust is not about losing freedom. As a matter of fact, I don't get along with Leos myself. Should I avoid them? You tell me...

I know Aqua people that never loved or truly trusted anyone, not even their own relatives. I also know happily married Aqua people. Or broken Aquas whose trust may never be rebuilt. But this doesn't mean all of them should be placed in the same bucket. Embrace diversity.
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On this forum, I think that we talk from experience.This is the reason I tell you my experience. If you say that Aquarius need trust , they found hard that trust. Or they never found. Anyway, the life is joy, trust in life not in human.

Posted by Arki
AerialView

Leo and Aquarius don't enjoy the loneliness, they want to have friends, but not from the same reason. Leo, want friends , for joy for the show, audience and Aquarius , needs friends to forget the show, guilt from there mind..Leo will speak from their authentic soul, they seems naive when they tell you the problems from there life.. .. but they are authentic.. Aquarius never will be admite in front of a friend, family that he have a problem.. He will talk with a strange, psychologist, an old friend but not actual friend. Here he will want to be the strong one. And don't want the admit loudly the mistake they make.

This I see in my life regard a aquarius man, aquarius moon , ..I atract Aquarius because my 7th house it is there.

Even my father have Aquarius moon.

dear god girl........ 7th house aquarius....holy crap. Well....you could be like Blake Lively, and she has 7th house Aquarius and she married a URANUS dominant man.

he doens't even have any aquarius the man she married but the energy of Uranus there.

so don't you worry.
@Arki...thats how i feel since we have a commited relationship and he has mars in virgo. i am the one to make the moves. before that he is the one who makes the moves. sometimes i feel tired with his behavior but we cant change people we need to accept it. when i told him that i dont like what he did to me and he said he promise he will make it better and will make an improvement. he doesn't remember my birthday as he never celebrate birthday. so strange but that's Aquarius

i agree with @compy.. aqua cant trust anyone even their own relatives . i can see that on him.

but he mention it that he trust me . dont know if he tell me the truth. but still i dont get it what he means by telling me i am to intense when we meet each other only once a month and its not the whole day either. max 10 hours and we are together talking in 5 hours and than 5 hours sleeping together. and i hate it when he said what does he mean by telling me to intense and he didnt answer my question. thats not nice.

really dont know what to do pull away for a while or keep doing as i used to be by telling him how is my day by text and so with him
what do you mean @lisabethur 8
Posted by Antero
@Arki...thats how i feel since we have a commited relationship and he has mars in virgo. i am the one to make the moves. before that he is the one who makes the moves. sometimes i feel tired with his behavior but we cant change people we need to accept it. when i told him that i dont like what he did to me and he said he promise he will make it better and will make an improvement. he doesn't remember my birthday as he never celebrate birthday. so strange but that's Aquarius

i agree with @compy.. aqua cant trust anyone even their own relatives . i can see that on him.

but he mention it that he trust me . dont know if he tell me the truth. but still i dont get it what he means by telling me i am to intense when we meet each other only once a month and its not the whole day either. max 10 hours and we are together talking in 5 hours and than 5 hours sleeping together. and i hate it when he said what does he mean by telling me to intense and he didnt answer my question. thats not nice.

really dont know what to do pull away for a while or keep doing as i used to be by telling him how is my day by text and so with him


omg....

lol



i just realized that alot of folks dont give a shit about birthdays and anniversaries cause that's an EGO thing....

i always have to remember everyone of my family members/loved ones. i always make a birthday party for my boy too and my husband, we go out all the time or have parties.


but anniversaries...holy shit. lol Our leo aunty is a big time anniversary woman. 25th anniversary party for her wedding, she celebrated that and the entire town came!!! she hired/rented a big place and 300 people came...it felt like a wedding again. Big Grin Big Grin

and with us we're sittin there sipping tea or drinking wine or drinking beer, burping...on the couch cuddling or lazily watching netflix...

and my man goes,"hon i think we just had our anniversary a few days ago or was it last week."

lmao!!Laughing

I said to him, dont worry about it, until 25th okay dokey?

XD
Posted by Antero
what do you mean @lisabethur 8
it just means....

you're gonna get some uranus love anyway, if you got 7th house aqua.

cause that's what's gonna happen.
still confuse and don't understand @lisabethur8

Uranus love from him?
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by Antero
@Arki...thats how i feel since we have a commited relationship and he has mars in virgo. i am the one to make the moves. before that he is the one who makes the moves. sometimes i feel tired with his behavior but we cant change people we need to accept it. when i told him that i dont like what he did to me and he said he promise he will make it better and will make an improvement. he doesn't remember my birthday as he never celebrate birthday. so strange but that's Aquarius

i agree with @compy.. aqua cant trust anyone even their own relatives . i can see that on him.

but he mention it that he trust me . dont know if he tell me the truth. but still i dont get it what he means by telling me i am to intense when we meet each other only once a month and its not the whole day either. max 10 hours and we are together talking in 5 hours and than 5 hours sleeping together. and i hate it when he said what does he mean by telling me to intense and he didnt answer my question. thats not nice.

really dont know what to do pull away for a while or keep doing as i used to be by telling him how is my day by text and so with him


omg....

lol



i just realized that alot of folks dont give a shit about birthdays and anniversaries cause that's an EGO thing....

i always have to remember everyone of my family members/loved ones. i always make a birthday party for my boy too and my husband, we go out all the time or have parties.


but anniversaries...holy shit. lol Our leo aunty is a big time anniversary woman. 25th anniversary party for her wedding, she celebrated that and the entire town came!!! she hired/rented a big place and 300 people came...it felt like a wedding again. Big Grin Big Grin

and with us we're sittin there sipping tea or drinking wine or drinking beer, burping...on the couch cuddling or lazily watching netflix...

and my man goes,"hon i think we just had our anniversary a few days ago or was it last week."

lmao!!Laughing

I said to him, dont worry about it, until 25th okay dokey?

Laughing
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One of the things I love about our son and his Dad is they both always remember dates....birthdays, mothers day, etc .I have them both well trained

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Posted by Antero
still confuse and don't understand @lisabethur8

Uranus love from him?
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