heartbroken from aqua male
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by asa011 on Wednesday, July 26, 2006 and has 15 replies.
hey - i'm kinda new at this, but hears my story. i had been casually seeing an aquarius male for over a year now, and everything was going fine until a few weeks ago when there was a misunderstanding, and now he told me to get out of his life, and doesn't want to speak to me anymore. he told me to delete his number from my phone so i stop calling/texting him. i didnt do anything, and i wrote him an email explaining it, but he said 'get over it already, go away. bye.' i was wondering if anyone could give me some incite on the aquarius male, and if there is anything that i could do .. or a good a move to make now to make peace with him? im really upset, and really want to fix things. thank u so much!!
hmmm, hard to help without knowing the misunderstanding that's made him so angry that he'd banish you from his life. 'get over' what? did you say or do something? was it in response to something he did or something you said spontaneous?
I know being an Aqua female, that once I set my mind to say "good bye" to someone, I mean it, and will not give a second chance.
It will depend of course on this man's personality and on what this "Misunderstanding" was, but either way I would just expect it to be over and move on.
It will depend of course on this man's personality and on what this "Misunderstanding" was, but either way I would just expect it to be over and move on.
what the heck happened?
i was away for a weekend with some friends and they sent him some rude text messages from my phone, and he thought it was from me but it wasnt. then i was texting one of our mutual friends one night, and he thought i was trying to turn his friend against him or something really out there that didnt make sense. i can see how it made me look bad, but in my email i explained in detail that it wasnt my fault. he told me to get over it. hes like fine u want the last word, you win. goodbye. so i should just avoid him for a bit and he may or may not come around?
Bottom line: he was the target of these messages and it's the burden of proof for you to show/prove to him it wasn't you. Would be hard to prove it wasn't you since it came from your phone.
Why would he think that by texting a mutual friend would mean you are turning his friend against him? Some mutual friend you have there for even telling this guy you texted him.
either way, like i said, he was the target of these messages and put yourself in his shoes---wouldn't you find it hard to believe that your "friends" would even fathom sending rude messages to begin with?
Why would he think that by texting a mutual friend would mean you are turning his friend against him? Some mutual friend you have there for even telling this guy you texted him.
either way, like i said, he was the target of these messages and put yourself in his shoes---wouldn't you find it hard to believe that your "friends" would even fathom sending rude messages to begin with?
there must be a reason why your "friends" would do what they did. do they not like the guy? b/c i know my friends would never do something like that to a guy i was dating, even if they didn't like him. but if your friends all don't like him, there must be a reason why, right???
But she's been "casually seeing" this guy; what does that mean? Doesn't mean exclusivity.
Plus, I might catch flack for this, but I am having a hard time believing that her friends texted him but rather her to "test" him.
Plus, I might catch flack for this, but I am having a hard time believing that her friends texted him but rather her to "test" him.
sounds like high school
yes, it does sound like high school...
it is very high school. i agree. it sucks but how can i fix it?
I'm sticking with my hunch:
Plus, I might catch flack for this, but I am having a hard time believing that her friends texted him but rather her to "test" him.
Plus, I might catch flack for this, but I am having a hard time believing that her friends texted him but rather her to "test" him.
Asa, you really can't fix it. Re-read what I typed earlier:
Bottom line: he was the target of these messages and it's the burden of proof for you to show/prove to him it wasn't you. Would be hard to prove it wasn't you since it came from your phone.
Bottom line: he was the target of these messages and it's the burden of proof for you to show/prove to him it wasn't you. Would be hard to prove it wasn't you since it came from your phone.
i totally agree with u houston. i understand that it looks really bad on my part.
my personal opinion
he might have arrogently put u and some nagetive feeling together and think for granted that he has to run away from all this stuff:p i think if our good intention could always be expressed clearly, then there's really nothing we should do to help him any further.
sometimes working on urself, really not work.
take a breath, if he's worth you, he'll be back; if not, then move on
he might have arrogently put u and some nagetive feeling together and think for granted that he has to run away from all this stuff:p i think if our good intention could always be expressed clearly, then there's really nothing we should do to help him any further.
sometimes working on urself, really not work.
take a breath, if he's worth you, he'll be back; if not, then move on
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