Help!!! I'm a Scorpio and he's an Aquarius!

He's making me crazy! Are all Aquarius men like this?? It seems like he doesn't care when I text him he takes forever to reply or doesn't reply at all. But in person he's sweet and kind. He wants to get to know me better. And we've been dating for a week now and this spring break is keeping him away from and I'm scare that he'll lose interest

Aquas require a lot of patience.

Posted by truecap
Aquas require a lot of patience.

I'd agree with this. My husband has alot of patience. Although he is more impulsive and impatient than I am in a sense (His dominant fire) So i have more patience for him. Two hot heads are no good for eachother.

Posted by BalmyTigress

Posted by truecap
Aquas require a lot of patience.

Hey now Mrs. Capricorn. Stop projecting! 😉 You guys need more time. We need more space!

So I'd invest in an extra long leash :-)

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True, true. And we understand each other. But aquas can be confusing and frustrating. Can't show too much emotion, they'll poof in a flash! 😛

Posted by Serena53
He's making me crazy! Are all Aquarius men like this?? It seems like he doesn't care when I text him he takes forever to reply or doesn't reply at all. But in person he's sweet and kind. He wants to get to know me better. And we've been dating for a week now and this spring break is keeping him away from and I'm scare that he'll lose interest

Was exactly in the same situation. I haven't kept in contact with my Aqua man since Feb and I've been hoping he will be the first one to message me.. still nothing. I feel your pain because I've been thinking about him soo much recently its killing!..

I'm sure he finds you very interesting and wants to know you more. Like others have said, Aquas like space.. he will come to you.

I do hope things work out for you! x

Posted by BalmyTigress

Posted by truecap

Posted by BalmyTigress

Posted by truecap
Aquas require a lot of patience.

Hey now Mrs. Capricorn. Stop projecting! 😉 You guys need more time. We need more space!

So I'd invest in an extra long leash :-)

True, true. And we understand each other. But aquas can be confusing and frustrating. Can't show too much emotion, they'll poof in a flash! 😛

Yes, we understand each other even though we confuse each other :-)

I don't know if it's the same with Aqua men, but I just need the space to examine and explore. I don't do it without any morals and I don't want to hurt anyone, but telling me to not talk or spend time with other people, regardless of their gender, would not go down well with me. It's fine for me to be told that "OK, I need to get you back for a while to spend some time with me, because I want to". I think that would be lovely. But to not allow me to spend time elsewhere or to put some other kind of negative or disrespectful spin on it would be hurtful.

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Yes it would. And it would for me too, if it was reversed.

OP,

Don't let your fear or insecurity show. Any man can read that in a heartbeat and will run, run, run. It's only been a week, so don't "stake your claim" so soon. Give him room. His friends will always be a priority. Accept it and don't even try to come between that - you will lose. So, that said, let him do his thing. You do your thing. Keep options open, stay busy, be independent. Aquas like that. Always be cool and don't ever, ever try to crowd him in or make him feel smothered. Be yourself. Be fun. Be independent. Don't text him too much. Wait for him. Let him take the lead.

Like you said he is on spring break, so he is busy, busy, busy right now and probably is not keeping his phone on him. Don't put too much thought into it. Appreciate when he does contact you - let him know you enjoy talking to him. As for now, don't ask him why he is responding slow or any of that stuff.

If you ever have to say something negative, do it calmly, logically and rationally. They will listen to logical reason, but they will shut down to an emotional outburst.

This will be a lesson in patience, endurance, tolerance and maturity.

Life with an aqua is an emotional roller coaster. Take your dramamine, fasten your seat belt and enjoy the ride!!

Balmy, obviously I offended you. I apologize for that.

Just for the record, I love aqua people! Some of my best friends and favorite family members are aquas. My boyfriend is an aqua (we've been together for a year). I've dated two other aquas. I'm no expert, but I do have some experience. I don't mean it to generalize, but all of the aquas I know personally have very similar traits. Perhaps I should have put in a disclaimer.

There are generalizations about capricorns that we all admit to. Most of us think alike or very similarly, we have discovered.

And remember, of course, when someone asks questions, because we don't personally know these people, we do tend to either generalize (whether its about men/women or on a sign) or we use our own experiences to answer them the best we can. I was sharing what I have learned from my experiences with the three I dated.

So, if I offended you, I do apologize for that.

Ohhhh! Sorry. I must have misunderstood what you were saying. I thought that you felt like I was generalizing too much. I thought you were nicely fussing at me because of that. Now, I understand what you meant.

My bad.

Where are you from?