Help with Aquarius male please

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by gemini88june on Monday, April 18, 2016 and has 4 replies.
I'm just hoping some of you might have an insight into this aquas mind.

A good few months ago I started talking to this Aqua guy, pretty soon after he broke up with his gf we became fwb. It was going well until he became really distant after asking he told me he was getting to attached we cooled things off but would randomly meet up on nights when we'd both had a bit to drink he would then tell me how he didn't like me flirting with other guys. We hadn't talked for about a month and a half so I text him saying how I missed hanging out, a few days later I went round to his and he hung out as mates telling him I was actually seeing someone now only cuddling when we went to bed. He said he'd like to hang out just a friends again but since then I haven't heard from him, I don't want to message him again as I don't want him to think I'm pestering him. I'm just a little confused as to where we stand, one minute he say he misses me and wants to hang the next it's like he runs and hides, is it beat to just walk away from this friendship. Thank everyone
Fwb that send mixed messages is drama. Sounds like he doesn't want it to be more than fwb but doesn't want u to available to others either?
Posted by gemini88june
I'm just hoping some of you might have an insight into this aquas mind.

A good few months ago I started talking to this Aqua guy, pretty soon after he broke up with his gf we became fwb. It was going well until he became really distant after asking he told me he was getting to attached we cooled things off but would randomly meet up on nights when we'd both had a bit to drink he would then tell me how he didn't like me flirting with other guys. We hadn't talked for about a month and a half so I text him saying how I missed hanging out, a few days later I went round to his and he hung out as mates telling him I was actually seeing someone now only cuddling when we went to bed. He said he'd like to hang out just a friends again but since then I haven't heard from him, I don't want to message him again as I don't want him to think I'm pestering him. I'm just a little confused as to where we stand, one minute he say he misses me and wants to hang the next it's like he runs and hides, is it beat to just walk away from this friendship. Thank everyone

Seems like you're just as guilty as sending mixed messages. You're seeing someone new, but you're going to bed with this aqua. FWB has an expiration date. Yours expired when you told him you were seeing someone.

From my experience with aquas, they will not compete. He's most likely just stepped aside because you're seeing someone else. He's giving you space to go forth and prosper with your new guy.

Posted by truecap
Posted by gemini88june
I'm just hoping some of you might have an insight into this aquas mind.

A good few months ago I started talking to this Aqua guy, pretty soon after he broke up with his gf we became fwb. It was going well until he became really distant after asking he told me he was getting to attached we cooled things off but would randomly meet up on nights when we'd both had a bit to drink he would then tell me how he didn't like me flirting with other guys. We hadn't talked for about a month and a half so I text him saying how I missed hanging out, a few days later I went round to his and he hung out as mates telling him I was actually seeing someone now only cuddling when we went to bed. He said he'd like to hang out just a friends again but since then I haven't heard from him, I don't want to message him again as I don't want him to think I'm pestering him. I'm just a little confused as to where we stand, one minute he say he misses me and wants to hang the next it's like he runs and hides, is it beat to just walk away from this friendship. Thank everyone

Seems like you're just as guilty as sending mixed messages. You're seeing someone new, but you're going to bed with this aqua. FWB has an expiration date. Yours expired when you told him you were seeing someone.

From my experience with aquas, they will not compete. He's most likely just stepped aside because you're seeing someone else. He's giving you space to go forth and prosper with your new guy.


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