Hey guys(:

Newbie here,what brought me to dxpnet is because of a certain Aquarius I can't let go and I wonder if I'm wasting my time and should let go..

His Chart
Sun Aquarius
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Aquarius
Mars Libra
Jupiter Aquarius
Saturn Aries
Uranus Aquarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Sagittarius

My Chart
Sun Sagittarius 
Ascendant Capricorn
Moon Aquarius
II Aquarius
Mercury Scorpio
R III Pisces
Venus Capricorn
 IV Aries
Mars Cancer
R V Taurus
Jupiter Libra
VI Gemini
Saturn Aquarius
 VII Cancer
Uranus Capricorn
 VIII Leo
Neptune Capricorn
 IX Virgo
Pluto Scorpio

Posted by Eccentric_Owl
Newbie here,what brought me to dxpnet is because of a certain Aquarius I can't let go and I wonder if I'm wasting my time and should let go..

His Chart
Sun Aquarius
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Aquarius
Mars Libra
Jupiter Aquarius
Saturn Aries
Uranus Aquarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Sagittarius

My Chart
Sun Sagittarius 
Ascendant Capricorn
Moon Aquarius
II Aquarius
Mercury Scorpio
R III Pisces
Venus Capricorn
 IV Aries
Mars Cancer
R V Taurus
Jupiter Libra
VI Gemini
Saturn Aquarius
 VII Cancer
Uranus Capricorn
 VIII Leo
Neptune Capricorn
 IX Virgo
Pluto Scorpio

Oh Shit! I He has a lot of Aqua Energy...buuut that may work well with your Cap energy.

Hey! Thanks for your reply(: â¤â¤â¤

I noticed ,what does this mean ? ¦

Posted by Eccentric_Owl
Hey! Thanks for your reply(: â¤â¤â¤

I noticed ,what does this mean ? ¦

Your welcome! Aqua is more detached...and Cap is more reserved/detached. No clingyness for either of you! But also your merc should match well which is important for communication. And I think Moon(emotions) should be ok for you guys.

Yeah when ever we have a disagreement we end up not talking to each other
For a while, like right now, I'm really confused on everything,we only talk in private,he's not afraid to tell me he needs alone time but sometimes I feel like he doesn't care about my feelings, he says he likes that I'm weird ,he likes the way I look, I dont bother him like others do,i give him space,we talk about his passion,he knows about my life and i know about his,but everything is slow as molasses..Right now I'm not talking to him and ignoring him,usually he will ask whats wrong but he hasn't he just stares at me and if I catch him he looks away..
I keep my distance and don't use eye contact because I'm so confused if I should continue this or not..

I think the one major thing in my mind is if he likes me the way I like him and its hard to tell because he's like a wall ..and shows me bits and pieces of intimacy and then he is detached ...or he acts like friends ,lately he's been going through stuff too..

He doesn't really show it with anyone he just walks away or goes off somewhere but with me he tells me and its a bit intense how he can get mad..
I always wonder why he showed this side to him with me..

Posted by Eccentric_Owl
I think the one major thing in my mind is if he likes me the way I like him and its hard to tell because he's like a wall ..and shows me bits and pieces of intimacy and then he is detached ...or he acts like friends ,lately he's been going through stuff too..

He doesn't really show it with anyone he just walks away or goes off somewhere but with me he tells me and its a bit intense how he can get mad..
I always wonder why he showed this side to him with me..

Okay, well your man's chart is very similar to mine and he sounds like me. If something bad is going on in my life that has me down, I cut off from the world and go into an introverted mode. I don't feel like pointlessly entertaining people and their small talk, which on a normal basis I can do. I rather isolate myself than come across as a rude person, which I do come across as when I'm down.

When I like someone, I don't show it. It's the opposite. I'm like a wall too and it's baffling to a lotttttt of people, irrespective of their sign. How you know he likes you is if he initiates contact with you and if he listens to you. I don't care to listen or entertain people I have absolute no interest in. I'm not one to lead people on for my selfish need for ego boost. A lot of people will keep someone who has a crush on them around because it feeds their ego or as a back up. In my book, that's called toying with someone's emotions. So, if he's keeping you around and just simply talking to you, then he does like you. We are straight forward, so if you ask him straight up, he'll give you a straight up answer. But, you will definitely be putting yoruself on the line and I don't know how comfortable you are with that.

He does listen to me and my problems , he's a good listener, he asks me questions and spends time with me..we never talk about his problems tho mostly just about his goals and dreams ..if I were to ask something personal he gives me a yes or no answer nothing detailed ..

It baffles me that he likes me even tho it feels like he doesn't ,I never get that ..but it makes sense in a way , I mean if he didn't he wouldn't even hug me right?

Posted by Eccentric_Owl
He does listen to me and my problems , he's a good listener, he asks me questions and spends time with me..we never talk about his problems tho mostly just about his goals and dreams ..if I were to ask something personal he gives me a yes or no answer nothing detailed ..

It baffles me that he likes me even tho it feels like he doesn't ,I never get that ..but it makes sense in a way , I mean if he didn't he wouldn't even hug me right?

Elaborate on what you mean by "if I were to ask something personal, he gives me a yes or no answer..."

I'd say he likes you. Almost all the guys I dated said to be explicitly that "it feels like you don't like me" even though I'd be clearly saying "I like you and only you". We suck at expressing ourselves in the beginning states. As the relationship gets old/comfortable, you will see a charmer come out. lol

P.S most definitely likes you if he's hugging you as well.

Like for instance if I were to tell him something personal about myself
I would ask him if he's going through the samething he will briefly tell me a bit of information and yes or no ,he won't go into detail or talk about it really he mostly just likes listing to me..

He will only talk alot if it pertains to his dreams or goals..

Do you think I should stop ignoring him or should I just wait till he talks to me again?

BTW thank you so much for commenting!! â¤â¤â¤â¤

I wouldn't ignore him. Hey may be taken back if he found you were doing ut on purpose or if he is being stubborn, more nervous to soak back out on it.
I do similar things, it's along the lines of...I know everything about me. Bleh. More questions for you...Sometimes it's loathsome to go through the great details again and worse to drudge up negativity.
He's gotta figure out why you tick the way you do.
But if he is doing the ignore thing back, either let it go or just get over it and act like nothing happened. You both know what did and just put it aside and get on to interesting you two.

well you both have aquarius moon. lol

lots of detached emotions.

means this:

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/detached

Synonym Discussion of DETACHED

indifferent, unconcerned, incurious, aloof, detached, disinterested mean not showing or feeling interest. indifferent implies neutrality of attitude from lack of inclination, preference, or prejudice . unconcerned suggests a lack of sensitivity or regard for others' needs or troubles . incurious implies an inability to take a normal interest due to dullness of mind or to self-centeredness . aloof suggests a cool reserve arising from a sense of superiority or disdain for inferiors or from shyness . detached implies an objective attitude achieved through absence of prejudice or selfishness . disinterested implies a circumstantial freedom from concern for personal or especially financial advantage that enables one to judge or advise without bias .

means you won't be EASILY INFLUENCED by trends, fashion, or things that don't have any meaning for you in YOUR life.

you'd be like, MEH!!!

from a fellow aquarius mooner here:

two famous aquarius moons that didnt work out, maybe they were too detached emotionally. *shrug*



he ended up married to a gemini sun instead. (i doubt she's another aquarius moon though)



your guy has libra mars, and you have cancer mars, you both have square "tension" that's good to have with at least one square or two, not too much.

Heh, since when is detachment boring? Seems less planned and more natural to me. Standards....Boring.

Heh, I've never had issues keeping myself entertained. It was a statement... Everything relaxed about it. Shesh... Touchy people in this place. But I sure don't remembering once being somewhere and not enjoying the best I could minus the bmv. But boring would be how others feel, bored would be for me. So may be a bit lost in your drift. If others are bored, that's sort of on them to find something "stimulating".

Thanks you guys(:

Saggies who don't like to confront? I've heard it all.

I've quite a few saggie friends, dated even more than that. The one thing honestly is that you guys run away from any sort of confrontation, almost like if you ignore it hard enough it'll just go away... until it all comes back on some random day.

Aqua's are not mind readers... we might be good at it but really the earnest is in you to talk to him and stop these "oh he's not talking to me, therefore I'm not talking to him." Ultimately we'll win out when it comes to a standoff.

You LOOK like a Gemini. 🙂

Posted by aquasnoz
Saggies who don't like to confront? I've heard it all.

I've quite a few saggie friends, dated even more than that. The one thing honestly is that you guys run away from any sort of confrontation, almost like if you ignore it hard enough it'll just go away... until it all comes back on some random day.

Aqua's are not mind readers... we might be good at it but really the earnest is in you to talk to him and stop these "oh he's not talking to me, therefore I'm not talking to him." Ultimately we'll win out when it comes to a standoff.

i think some cat lady astrologer went around putting that down somewhere cause i sure as hell can't read minds.

if i did we'd be billionaires!!!! reading the economic highs and lows, predictions, damn. that would be set for life.