Hey everyone!! I'm new to the board and just wanted to say what's up. I'm an Aquarian. Rising sign is Sag and Moon is in Libra. I actually have a quadruple conjunction in Aquarius. (sun,venus,mercury & jupiter) Oh and 3 other planets in Sag. Hehe. Gotta love the air & fire. I have had these intense feelings for a friend of mine who is also an Aqua. We have been friends since November, but started getting closer around March. I'm not really looking for a boyfriend right now and neither is he looking for a gf (he just got out of a relationship that was ALMOST a decade long!) When we hang out we have such great conversations and there is a lot of sexual chemistry between us. (We have hooked up, not sex) He hasn't flat out told me he likes me, but I can see it in those dreamy eyes of his. Well, he's still dealing with his break up (he left the relationship) and he's not quite emotionally available at the moment, which I am very understanding of. We both play those games, testing each other, blah blah. I ignore him and he seems to show up more often, he ignores me and I tend to want him more. Hahaa. He's a great friend though. He's 8 years older then I am and I feel as if I could go to him for advice and he would be more then happy to help me out. Yet as soon as I start showing total affection to him, he will get frightened. I guess my question would be?.should I continue to play the games were playing? It's fun and I enjoy them, but will it ever amount to anything more?
Hehe thanx!! Nice to meet ya Aries! So, about 2 years ago I met a guy online and we started talking. He's an Aries. We ended up falling for each other, became great friends, talked on the phone, emails, AIM..then I flew out to meet him. Flew from Los Angeles to London lol. We spent two weeks together and fell head over heels. He introduced me to his family & friends and got along with them great! I miss him more then anything. The Aqua + Aries connection is good. He's adventurous and I'm willing to try anything. He's coming out to California in a few months to see me so that is why I don't really want to pursue things with the Aqua guy?even though I am so curious. Grrr.
Ah, Aqua sun, Sag ascendant, Libra moon here too! With scorpio and pisces in tons of houses. (Uber sensitive to people's moods as soon as they enter the room-but nonreactive nonetheless). I foresee this relationship with the guy going on for a loong time. Most likely than not, both of you seem to be in a comfort zone and don't wanna break it. Wait for the spark, it'll happen if you want it to happen. BUT sparks require friction on both ends. For most aqus, its either sentiment or logic, find out which he leans more toward and act accordingly.
Oh, and if your overtures don't work... the fact that you acted already would have planted the 'seed'. You're gonna remain friends anyway (worst case scenario).
"So you flew from Los Angeles to London to meet this aries man, that's cool, so aquarian: you knock down each obstacle (like geographic distance) when you want to meet/see someone."
Hahaa?I know?I'm such a risk taker. I flew there on complete faith that it would all work out and it worked out better then planned. I got back a month and a week ago and it feels so weird to be away from him. The second we met at the airport we bonded. I'm only 22 (hes 25). I know were young but if it's meant to be then eventually it will be. 😉
"I'm sorry but (I can't help myself) I become very enthusiastic when I read/hear about love and great friendship between an aquarius and an aries. Especially if you write things like this ""I miss him more then anything"", you aquas have a deep romantic streak, and God when you show it so suddenly it's astonishly and mesmerizing. "
When I do fall in love with someone, I fall hard. I would do anything for that person. I'm very picky when it comes to guys but when one catches my attention and heart, then I'm set and will do what it takes to have them. Haha
"Ok I stop or I'll become too "overwhelming"... just curios does your aries man speak a lot? "
He doesn't over talk at all?I was surprised. He does have that way of being the center of attention though. Hah. I know exactly what your talking about though because my ex was an Aries and he would never shut up. Hahah.
I have had these intense feelings for a friend of mine who is also an Aqua. We have been friends since November, but started getting closer around March. I'm not really looking for a boyfriend right now and neither is he looking for a gf (he just got out of a relationship that was ALMOST a decade long!) When we hang out we have such great conversations and there is a lot of sexual chemistry between us. (We have hooked up, not sex) He hasn't flat out told me he likes me, but I can see it in those dreamy eyes of his. Well, he's still dealing with his break up (he left the relationship) and he's not quite emotionally available at the moment, which I am very understanding of.
We both play those games, testing each other, blah blah. I ignore him and he seems to show up more often, he ignores me and I tend to want him more. Hahaa. He's a great friend though. He's 8 years older then I am and I feel as if I could go to him for advice and he would be more then happy to help me out. Yet as soon as I start showing total affection to him, he will get frightened.
I guess my question would be?.should I continue to play the games were playing? It's fun and I enjoy them, but will it ever amount to anything more?