holding a relationship with Aquarius female?

Just wondering what Aquarian females look for in a relationship? I imagine plenty of space as they're independent characters, but what else?

thanks

Fun. Patience. Good conversation. Add food and water and watch us GROW!

plenty of understanding. also a guy who does not take EVERYTHING so seriously.

We LOVE Deep conversation & Make sure you can HOLD good conversation (Make sure she's not the only one always initiating all the convos). We love it when a man asks us alot of questions about ourselves (It gets us more comfortable talking to & opening up to you). We love to have fun (Our biggest pet-peeve is anything that is BORING). Do NOT be too clingy or too possessive up front (or really at all). And right, don't take everything we say so seriously. If we tell you we will call you back in 5 minutes & we end up calling you back in 50, the best thing NOT to do is complain or whine (WE HATE IT). And definetely DO NOT be too affectionate or touchy-feely in the beginning. It's okay to put the arm around the shoulder or kiss the cheek every once in a while but don't make any Aqua woman feel that you have gotten attached too quickly or that you have hidden sexual intentions (because the minute she starts to feel that way, you can HANG IT UP). Aquarians get intellectually attached through their own intellect. It's all about communication & making her open up to you as much as possible. She wants to know what you're about & how you go about doing you & instead of watching your actions (she may not want to stick around that long) she'd rather (in the beginning) give you the benefit of the doubt & let you tell your own story.

So it's pretty much, she leads and I follow?

Not necessarily. If anything, Aqua women want a man who knows how to take control & be independent in his own rights. We don't get attached to those who do everything we want & when we want it. We like challenges. Someone who is just like us----doesn't give too much or too little either. Aqua women want you to know how to start a conversation if they don't feel like it & hey, sometimes we like to start the conversation as long as we can see that you know how to HOLD it. Just be yourself. Open up to her. Let her see your intellectual side & SHOW & TELL her what you're all about, what you're looking for & what you want from her so she'll know up front. Sometimes We Aqua women spend so much time trying to guess & figure out who a man is & what he's about (generally because the man takes too long to tell us or show us) but in cases where they take the intiative to boldy show us WHO THEY ARE, it's right then that we show respect & see you as a potential.

of course not! She wont respect that. Just understand she is her own woman...she leads only herself. She expects you to do the same.

i agree with k7 and lm. i don't respect a man who is too bold. because i feel like he is trying to control the situation from the start. which leads me to believe that's how he will be in the future (if we were to get into a relationship) which turns me off instantly. k7's points were on target as far as the touchy feely, clingy, whinning HATE IT ALL! Be yourself and let her be herself. being able to hold a convo is the best thing you can do to keep her attention. A-1 advice ladies! Bravo!

"The biggest problem for us is that once we find a person, who in many ways resembles our ideal, we tend to start dreaming. That's where the danger starts. We want you to know how much it means to us when we find a person whom we're really, really interested in. If anything, it means we spend quite some time thinking about that person. If we get disilusioned and disappointed, we'll blame ourselves for letting that happen, and it'll be a disaster. So, well, I guess the trick is not to disappoint us. In this, it helps a lot not to be a phony..."

Definetely RIGHT word for word. I always tell men, LET ME FALL IN LOVE WITH THE PERSON YOU ARE & NOT THE PERSON YOU ARE PRETENDING TO BE. I do agree that BEFORE the commitment Aquas don't see the point in staying in one place (until it's final), but once we fall, we're like "Ok, that's it, better not F me over" & I believe that's where we get ourselves in trouble. We live in that "Stay distant" comfort zone for so long & the minute we fall when we least expect it it's almost as if we slip into another world & almost drop all distance & become new & different people. BUT, the minute we are crossed, betrayed or taken advantage of that's when we remember VERY QUICKLY how we used to be & WHY we were the way we were for so long...I feel bad for all that purposely betray an Aqua...It's not Pretty

All blissisco. 🙂

"if Aqua woman falls for you, you'd better prepare yourself for some thorough questioning and examination. Not aquas are like that, but majority of the ones I've met (including me) are. So, don't be caught off guard when she starts getting information out of you. It's our normal curiosity about the world around us, with an amplifier about that particular person we like"

JACKPOT! If anything, when we get into our "inspector gadget" mode, that's a GOOD thing. That means we actually CARED enough or were INTERESTED ENOUGH to even ask & attempt to hear your answers---giving you the benefit of the doubt that you're a truthful person. And yes, I believe MOST Aquas are this way (if not with EVERYBODY, they've atleast done this to ONE person they've ever liked in life). Hell, I think our curious side adds the intellect to the relationship (as long as they are rightfully accepting the signals we send out). Hell, I think relationships & friendships-hoping-to-turn-to-love would be better off if all the curiousity & questions were asked & answered up front anyways----after all, if a person wants you to have some kind of interest for them, they have to work at our affection & become pleasing to the mind AND body. Hell, everybody has questions (rather they're bold enough to actually ask them up front or not)...We're just bold enough to ask them----we waste no time.

"She won't lead, but she won't follow either.
Figure that one out."

Oh dear god that is SO dead on. We are so messed up. You have to meet us in the middle somewhere. Either that or just keep up.

I like a man who is also my best friend who I can share everything with and doesn't mind sharing me with everyone else as I feel and accepts my friends as long as I care to have them as my friends. I like a confident and friendly man who has his own interests and appreciates my interests. I enjoy a man with a good sense of humor and is easy to talk with. I like a man who is supportive of my ideas and who isn't afraid to express themselves. I like a man who is open and communicative, affectionate, sexual and sensual. I like a man who has a belief in me, in himself, in us, and is positive about life. I enjoy a man who has an adventurous spirit and isn't afraid to follow their dreams and is supportive of mine. I need a man who is secure and does not get jealous. I need a man to be honest with me even if I may not like the truth. I need a man to be true to his word and to do what he says. I like a man to be strong in his convictions and to know what he wants. I want a man who I can admire and respect and have fun with.

Tell us that were smart more than your sexy...we love to see it when your nice to the poor and considerate of others feelings...I love men with intergrity and values...Dont treat a stripper better than a waitress working at TGIFridays...hey theyre both hustlers, but why should one be treated better than the other?