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Apr 15, 2012Comments: 1 · Posts: 512 · Topics: 71
To start off, I'm a Leo woman( July 28) and I've been talking to an Aquarius man(Feb 14) for almost two months. We met online and have been talking almost everyday, up to 5 times a day whether it's texting, skype, or on the phone. The problem is we live in different states,and he wants me to come see him for a few days next month. I'm worried, because the conversations have gotten sexual at times and I don't really know what I am to him(friend, girlfriend,etc). He asks me when I will come visit and I always say "I don't know" I don't just wanna be some girl that he has sex with...anyways, how do I get him to define what we are, or how you I bring it up? Being a Leo, I just wanna flat out ask him what's up, but I don't think that will do any good.
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Mar 19, 2012Comments: 273 · Posts: 5457 · Topics: 33
You never know what he'll say until you ask! And, why not go and see how things work out? Maybe you'll be able to more easily understand where you stand with him when you can feel out the vibes you get from him. Just, don't let him pressure you into anything you don't want to do. I just went on a first date with a feb 13th aqua. He held off on sex of his own will, though has been talking sex a lot, now. He is a guy/human. But, the fact that he didn't go through with anything said a lot to me.
Some conversations are easier had in person, anyway. : )
If you don't let him know where your boundaries are, he won't be able to tell if he's crossing them or not, so it really is a conversation you should have soon.
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
I agree with the others. Don't go. Make him come to you. The man should always put out most of the effort in the beginning. If you go see him, you're setting the precedence that you will put out most of the work and he won't ever come to his full potential in the relationship. If he wants to see you, he will find a way. If a man is into a girl, he will make it happen.
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Dec 20, 2011Comments: 362 · Posts: 10167 · Topics: 100
+1 misslissa.
If I wanted to see someone I'd do it myself and not ask someone to and if I can't I simply don't raise that question. But personally I hate implanting ideas into people's minds because it's almost a form of manipulation.
"Being a Leo, I just wanna flat out ask him what's up?" I say go ahead and do it.
To be fair to the guy I'm not sure how old he is but even I'll admit to having sex on the mind when I'm single but then I'll go as far as to say I really do love sex and there's nothing wrong with that. If you do meet him in person just practice a bit of caution, meet at public places and vibe him out and never be too careful.
Stop thinking so far ahead when in reality nothing's begun.
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Apr 15, 2012Comments: 1 · Posts: 512 · Topics: 71
Thanks for everyone's answers(the respectful ones)! I'm not going,lol.