How can I help him ?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Tinxy on Saturday, October 24, 2015 and has 28 replies.
Aqua guy with scorp moon

He's told me he's hinding his feelings !
He actually said I'm hiding it ...

I never push him for anything I let it just happen but I feel he wants me to dig it all out but I want to give him time ..

It's stupid as this had been going on a long time
I know he feels very deep for me I guess I've known a long time.

We spoke for the whole day on Thursday and yesterday I stepped back and let him just be partly bc I'm struggling myself with this intensity of feelings and I'm not one to flood them on anyone.

How can I help him and make it a bit easier , we both reached a common ground now no more arguing or drama I just want to get to the next level with as little discomfort as possible.

Aquas are not the only ones uncomfortable with feelings I am too.

Help Aqua people, bearing in mind he's a scorp moon and a scorp sun libra moon

Thank you
*im scorp sun libra moon


Ok I see

Thanks arseholes
Goodluck if you're that impatient and cunty
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Goodluck if you're that impatient and cunty


I was JOKING


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I am a cunt it's true
Posted by flowingwater
Uhh... I would help because once again I'm in the waters as well *wink wink* And we're finding common grounds Finally but I don't want to say publicly on dxp.



Haha I knewwww ittttt

I happy for you I could cry relief honestly smile

Things can never be rushed even if it does take a hundred years

Yippee

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Wish i had advise for you... but i really don't. You already know it takes Aquas some time to really let others in. it comes across very dismisive to the others feelings and standoffish. But its all defenses. Self preservation at it's finest.

Maybe let him know that if and when he's ready you are there for him, to just listen to what he is saying or not saying? That you respect that he isnt ready to share those feelings, yet. That part i CAN relate too, when saying he is hiding his feelings. It can be overwhelming, especially if its all new and wonderful feelings. Can feel like you are drowning. Feels are very hard for some Aquas. Sharing that part of ones self with another ,very hard for Scorpio placements ( this coming from my Rising) and with his moon.. man i can only imagine.
Posted by justagirl
Wish i had advise for you... but i really don't. You already know it takes Aquas some time to really let others in. it comes across very dismisive to the others feelings and standoffish. But its all defenses. Self preservation at it's finest.

Maybe let him know that if and when he's ready you are there for him, to just listen to what he is saying or not saying? That you respect that he isnt ready to share those feelings, yet. That part i CAN relate too, when saying he is hiding his feelings. It can be overwhelming, especially if its all new and wonderful feelings. Can feel like you are drowning. Feels are very hard for some Aquas. Sharing that part of ones self with another ,very hard for Scorpio placements ( this coming from my Rising) and with his moon.. man i can only imagine.


I know I know I just needed to talk I know aqua minds I'm surrounded by them

I just never been in the love game with one and needed to let it out.

I got his back he knows love is love I just want to do it right finally putting ego aside bc he's an amazing and I appreciate the human he is

Thanks for your reply

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Posted by Tinxy
Posted by justagirl
Wish i had advise for you... but i really don't. You already know it takes Aquas some time to really let others in. it comes across very dismisive to the others feelings and standoffish. But its all defenses. Self preservation at it's finest.

Maybe let him know that if and when he's ready you are there for him, to just listen to what he is saying or not saying? That you respect that he isnt ready to share those feelings, yet. That part i CAN relate too, when saying he is hiding his feelings. It can be overwhelming, especially if its all new and wonderful feelings. Can feel like you are drowning. Feels are very hard for some Aquas. Sharing that part of ones self with another ,very hard for Scorpio placements ( this coming from my Rising) and with his moon.. man i can only imagine.


I know I know I just needed to talk I know aqua minds I'm surrounded by them

I just never been in the love game with one and needed to let it out.

I got his back he knows love is love I just want to do it right finally putting ego aside bc he's an amazing and I appreciate the human he is

Thanks for your reply

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Posted by Tinxy
Aquas are not the only ones uncomfortable with feelings I am too.



Then you should be able to understand it.
Posted by AquaMermaid
You mouthy Scorp! You need spanking from your Aqua man Winking
And by the way, the couple in this video are Aqua man and Scorpio woman.



Loooooool Omgosh


Big Grin
Posted by killerwhalemoon
Wow the video was really hot. Hmmm. You sound really needy op. I is an aquari ass. Just because we admit to having feelings or hiding them doesnt mean we need to be aided to. We might just go some where and brush it off. I have a water moon. Feelings dont scare me.


Feelings scare the fcuking shit outta me I'm an air moon though lol so maybe that's why idk why


I find it hard processing feelings and emotions can't handle my own very well.

I don't want to aid him I want to acknowledge and accept it I'm very dismissive sometimes but not in a mean way it's just how I handle things

Posted by AquaMermaid
Scorpio and Aqua can't deny each other no matter how hard they try. His feelings run deep. Use your Scorpio sun to understand his intensity. Don't run away from him. Even if it's damn rough, the water moons prefer the partner to stay close and work things out instead of bailing out. Don't judge the book by it's cover, still water runs deep.


Gosh he's testing me like the devil tested Jesus LOL but I got nothing to hide.

I have never gone through this before it's always me doing it to others , the convos we had over the past 2 days it's hilarious and scary at the same time lol

I've been asked if I'm having sex with anyone lol all sorts of madness like that I actually laughed I know I shouldn't but I did

Big Grin
Posted by flowingwater
Posted by Tinxy
Posted by killerwhalemoon
Wow the video was really hot. Hmmm. You sound really needy op. I is an aquari ass. Just because we admit to having feelings or hiding them doesnt mean we need to be aided to. We might just go some where and brush it off. I have a water moon. Feelings dont scare me.


Feelings scare the fcuking shit outta me I'm an air moon though lol so maybe that's why idk why


I find it hard processing feelings and emotions can't handle my own very well.

I don't want to aid him I want to acknowledge and accept it I'm very dismissive sometimes but not in a mean way it's just how I handle things




Seriously?? What's your air moon?

I had asked my Scorpio ex the same as well.. Us Aquas gotta know, don't be playing games with us or we will fade off... Lol
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I'm libra moon I have 9 placements in libra lol

Too much air with a bit of Scorpio water

Big Grin
Posted by flowingwater
Posted by Tinxy
Posted by flowingwater
Posted by Tinxy
Posted by killerwhalemoon
Wow the video was really hot. Hmmm. You sound really needy op. I is an aquari ass. Just because we admit to having feelings or hiding them doesnt mean we need to be aided to. We might just go some where and brush it off. I have a water moon. Feelings dont scare me.


Feelings scare the fcuking shit outta me I'm an air moon though lol so maybe that's why idk why


I find it hard processing feelings and emotions can't handle my own very well.

I don't want to aid him I want to acknowledge and accept it I'm very dismissive sometimes but not in a mean way it's just how I handle things




Seriously?? What's your air moon?

I had asked my Scorpio ex the same as well.. Us Aquas gotta know, don't be playing games with us or we will fade off... Lol


I'm libra moon I have 9 placements in libra lol

Too much air with a bit of Scorpio water

Big Grin


Scorpio has a libra moon or so I think, he pursues and than steps back than comes back again. Why does he do that? Every time he does come back he spills a bit about himself.
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Simply put

FEAR and EGO
He will keep doing it till he has you mind body and soul. It doesn't matter what you say what matters to him is what HE thinks and how it is in his mind
No lie .....
Posted by Tinxy
Posted by killerwhalemoon
Wow the video was really hot. Hmmm. You sound really needy op. I is an aquari ass. Just because we admit to having feelings or hiding them doesnt mean we need to be aided to. We might just go some where and brush it off. I have a water moon. Feelings dont scare me.


Feelings scare the fcuking shit outta me I'm an air moon though lol so maybe that's why idk why


I find it hard processing feelings and emotions can't handle my own very well.

I don't want to aid him I want to acknowledge and accept it I'm very dismissive sometimes but not in a mean way it's just how I handle things


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You sound strangely like me only different (everyone is different though so thats to be expected). I am Scorpio heavy though on the contrary (4 planets). My Venus is barely in Scorpio, but I feel like this is fortunate because I feel like it is less "intense" than it is described.

My moon is Virgo, but it is also in the 11th house. My emotions revolve around friends, social gatherings etc. They are the base of my emotions, what keeps me happy. However since my moon is in Virgo, emotions are not my forte, period. In fact, I hardly feel much at all. I would even describe myself as somewhat "robotic" (someone made a thread that described Virgo moon as that - I think it is fairly accurate in a non-depressing way- I find it to be very important to be rational, not emotional). I see people crying and I comprehend it, but I don't want to be around it. It's very discomforting and bothers me. If it is a close friend of course I try to comfort them, but I am not the best at it lol. I've said this so many times on so many threads but my best friend (Aries Sun/Cap moon/Sag rising) tells me I have a black soul and heart as a joke because of how standoffish and cold I act. When it comes to discussing emotions with someone I love, I tend to show them I care, not tell them. Even then I find it discomforting to discuss. I tend to be kind of flighty when pursued actually. I am not a huge fan of it. Maybe it's the Sag Mars in me. I am not Libra heavy but air is my 2nd dominant element. My top energies are: Scorp, Aqua, Aries. My top planets: Sun, Venus, Saturn.

My happiest relationships were with Aquas. We are still friends to this day. The worst was with a Virgo. He wanted to confine me to a little box. I think that experience was really what altered me but in a good way. I learned much from it. I succumbed to it because I was young and weak-minded. It taught me a very valuable lesson in how to not be in love. It gave me an innate desire to find someone who is wild and free and who dares to be different and who will allow me to be the same.
Given that, I have a deep care and love for my friends (and family). They are my life. That is where my heart lies. Though I am not a very emotional person (though it is in my being since I am a water sign and water dominant), I would do anything for my friends and for my family to show my devotion to them even if I do not display strong emotions outwardly as other water signs do.
Posted by killerwhalemoon
Wow the video was really hot. Hmmm. You sound really needy op. I is an aquari ass. Just because we admit to having feelings or hiding them doesnt mean we need to be aided to. We might just go some where and brush it off. I have a water moon. Feelings dont scare me.


an aquarius sun male actually wrote that story. O_O

jjjeeeezzzz. he had a leo mars too, with aqua venus from what i remember doing his chart.

those opposite in the charts got him confused, and wanted physical pain and torture.
Posted by degenerate_ingenue
Posted by Tinxy
Posted by killerwhalemoon
Wow the video was really hot. Hmmm. You sound really needy op. I is an aquari ass. Just because we admit to having feelings or hiding them doesnt mean we need to be aided to. We might just go some where and brush it off. I have a water moon. Feelings dont scare me.


Feelings scare the fcuking shit outta me I'm an air moon though lol so maybe that's why idk why


I find it hard processing feelings and emotions can't handle my own very well.

I don't want to aid him I want to acknowledge and accept it I'm very dismissive sometimes but not in a mean way it's just how I handle things




You sound strangely like me only different (everyone is different though so thats to be expected). I am Scorpio heavy though on the contrary (4 planets). My Venus is barely in Scorpio, but I feel like this is fortunate because I feel like it is less "intense" than it is described.

My moon is Virgo, but it is also in the 11th house. My emotions revolve around friends, social gatherings etc. They are the base of my emotions, what keeps me happy. However since my moon is in Virgo, emotions are not my forte, period. In fact, I hardly feel much at all. I would even describe myself as somewhat "robotic" (someone made a thread that described Virgo moon as that - I think it is fairly accurate in a non-depressing way- I find it to be very important to be rational, not emotional). I see people crying and I comprehend it, but I don't want to be around it. It's very discomforting and bothers me. If it is a close friend of course I try to comfort them, but I am not the best at it lol. I've said this so many times on so many threads but my best friend (Aries Sun/Cap moon/Sag rising) tells me I have a black soul and heart as a joke because of how standoffish and cold I act. When it comes to discussing emotions with someone I love, I tend to show them I care, not tell them. Even then I find it discomforting to discuss. I tend to be kind of flighty when pursued actually. I am not a huge fan of it. Maybe it's the Sag Mars in me. I am not Libra heavy but air is my 2nd dominant element. My top energies are: Scorp, Aqua, Aries. My top planets: Sun, Venus, Saturn.

My happiest relationships were with Aquas. We are still friends to this day. The worst was with a Virgo. He wanted to confine me to a little box. I think that experience was really what altered me but in a good way. I learned much from it. I succumbed to it because I was young and weak-minded. It taught me a very valuable lesson in how to not be in love. It gave me an innate desire to find someone who is wild and
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Posted by AquaMermaid
You mouthy Scorp! You need spanking from your Aqua man Winking
And by the way, the couple in this video are Aqua man and Scorpio woman.



Loooooool Omgosh


Big Grin

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I just watched this film

I don't know if to laugh of cry

WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON !!!!
Posted by Tinxy
Posted by Tinxy
Posted by AquaMermaid
You mouthy Scorp! You need spanking from your Aqua man Winking
And by the way, the couple in this video are Aqua man and Scorpio woman.



Loooooool Omgosh


Big Grin



I just watched this film

I don't know if to laugh of cry

WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON !!!!
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Do both.... theme of the week!

<"`.
I feel fed up

Ffs

It's back and forth back and fourth he's testing my patience and I have ALOT of it but he's being weird when I don't react the way he wants he retreats.
He's accused me of being the one who dissapears

Idk someone talk some sense into me please before I do something stupid
<"`.
I am a Scorpio @Tinxy

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Posted by degenerate_ingenue
I am a Scorpio @Tinxy

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Aha lol

So I guess we are similar then

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How long does he go distance for? Are we talking days or weeks?? Maybe months?! Xx
Posted by Littlepig77
How long does he go distance for? Are we talking days or weeks?? Maybe months?! Xx




It's been 2 months before

Sometimes it's been days , atm it's days but I disappear for weeks 2/3 at the most smile

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