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LoL... as you all know, I have Taurus sun Aqua moon and once I dated a leo moon man ( Taurus sun) and his ego and his need for attention really annoyed me... then, now I'm entering myself to date a leo man.. and he's already showing similar traits of extreme self confidence etc.... look, I'm sure he's amazing but I do like humble people.. I know Aqua is so drawn to Leo energy. So I'm just wondering, how do you normally deal with it? Like, do you poke at it when they give you smart ass comments about how amazing they are or do you ignore them lol... ? I'm curious of how Aqua women handle this?
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Also i dated Aqua ( as u all know) and he's extremely humble like he will achieve these amazing things and never mention a word about it. He doesn't even like me complimenting him much... and he prefers to listen to my stuff and doesn't talk about his problems to me at all.... like he likes to make me feel good by listening to me.... n I really really loved that about him.. and now I feel like it wil b a massive switch. And I might struggle.. mmmmm never dated a leo man.. so I'm curious... I decide to post here coz Aqua people r smart n give me great advice and answers and you guys love leo people
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Posted by saweetz1988
LoL... as you all know, I have Taurus sun Aqua moon and once I dated a leo moon man ( Taurus sun) and his ego and his need for attention really annoyed me... then, now I'm entering myself to date a leo man.. and he's already showing similar traits of extreme self confidence etc.... look, I'm sure he's amazing but I do like humble people.. I know Aqua is so drawn to Leo energy. So I'm just wondering, how do you normally deal with it? Like, do you poke at it when they give you smart ass comments about how amazing they are or do you ignore them lol... ? I'm curious of how Aqua women handle this?
i knew a taurus sun/leo moon before...

i find it really easy peasy and this was before i knew astrology.

Leo rising,(and their cusps) always finds me, and leo dominant, and leo moons in men.

i haven't really analyzed why, and i have to think really hard and envision why... lol

maybe because of my 7th house, and it pulls that energy?

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Posted by saweetz1988
Also i dated Aqua ( as u all know) and he's extremely humble like he will achieve these amazing things and never mention a word about it. He doesn't even like me complimenting him much... and he prefers to listen to my stuff and doesn't talk about his problems to me at all.... like he likes to make me feel good by listening to me.... n I really really loved that about him.. and now I feel like it wil b a massive switch. And I might struggle.. mmmmm never dated a leo man.. so I'm curious... I decide to post here coz Aqua people r smart n give me great advice and answers and you guys love leo people
lol dont give us that.

dont pretend you're not smart.

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here's a good lada astrology video. about attraction.

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LoL... as you all know, I have Taurus sun Aqua moon and once I dated a leo moon man ( Taurus sun) and his ego and his need for attention really annoyed me... then, now I'm entering myself to date a leo man.. and he's already showing similar traits of extreme self confidence etc.... look, I'm sure he's amazing but I do like humble people.. I know Aqua is so drawn to Leo energy. So I'm just wondering, how do you normally deal with it? Like, do you poke at it when they give you smart ass comments about how amazing they are or do you ignore them lol... ? I'm curious of how Aqua women handle this?
i knew a taurus sun/leo moon before...

i find it really easy peasy and this was before i knew astrology.

Leo rising,(and their cusps) always finds me, and leo dominant, and leo moons in men.

i haven't really analyzed why, and i have to think really hard and envision why... lol

maybe because of my 7th house, and it pulls that energy?

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Yeah well, my ex was a Taurus sun and Leo moon . At first it was all awesome as he was extremely romantic. But once we get on to the dance floor he wants all the spot light lol... and I also like to shine haha.. he came over one time and my friends didn't like him coz he cudnt stop talking about himself.... n now this Leo man, he's already saying amazing things about himself which I'm sure he is but like, i am struggling to get used to it. The Aqua guy was just so bloody humble it's like a complete opposite.
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It gets annoying over time. Really annoying. Just be careful because this 'egoness' of selfishness isn't going to change when you are in a relationship. If you like humble people, this will definitely become a dealbreaker if you take this further because Leo's don't change for anyone and they certainly will not appreciate being poked at. They may like it in the beginning because you challenge them with it and they like challenges. They may even joke around, but it's all show. Inside their ego's do get hurt if you make fun of them. But in relationships it gets old over time and his ego will be hurt causing him to shut down and shut you out.

From your story I get the feeling you already know the Aqua was a better match for you (even though you broke up). Also I don't love Leo people. They are drawn to me but I don't think we match well.

Don't do this to me.. you r confusing me... hahahaha .. if I let the ego thing go, and he spoils me with love and loyal to me maybe that's ok? lol, I kind of just let it slide.. he's saying I dated stupid men in the past because they are not him. Like he's mentioned he's smart like 5 times already.. lol.. it's funny coz my ex( kind of ex) Aqua kept telling me how smart I am, and I know the Aqua is pretty smart lol.... I appreciate compliments you know and it's going to be a massive switch.. omg ! Can't wait to see how this one go ... lol
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Leo has the greatest egoness of the whole zodiac. They don't EVEN think of you, they only think how to do what they got in their brains. They talk about themselves all the time etc.
Yeah... mm this sucks.... T_T .. I think it might not be as good, I need to see him and study him more.... I hope he has more subtle energy maybe some water to cool down that egoness. But so far, it seems big lol... I don't know, maybe I can handle the ego thing as long as he's not like extremely needy to me. Neediness is more of a deal breaker but again i need to see. I do Latin dancing so if He doesn't want me out dancing then that's it for me lolz there's no question about it. With Aqua he lets me shine and I loved that about it... hahahaha I don't have ego, I just like the spot light once in a while and he gives me all of it. He kind of just observe from the background with smile
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On the plus side the sex is good cause they gotta prove their the best. Not to you but to themselves.
Imaoooooo am I supposed to get turned on by that? lol he Aqua ex had venus in place n moon so he went like miles to please me sexually... lacked the fire passion though. I never sexed with a Leo man before.
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Leo and Aquarius don't work long term imo.
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I'm not an Aquarius but i'm dating a guy who has his sun in the cancer-leo cusp, has a leo mercury, a leo venus and a leo mars. Maybe i can give you some insights.

We've been dating for ten long years. He's needy, doesn't think things through before acting, dramatic, bossy (kinda) and a little bit of a control freak. But he's also reliable, charming, caring, protective, funny, innocent, loyal, generous, creative. Most important of all, he would give the world to those he cares about.

He does have an ego that must be stroked but is that really something that hard to put up with when he has so much to give? Not for me.

Put everything in a scale.
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LoL... as you all know, I have Taurus sun Aqua moon and once I dated a leo moon man ( Taurus sun) and his ego and his need for attention really annoyed me... then, now I'm entering myself to date a leo man.. and he's already showing similar traits of extreme self confidence etc.... look, I'm sure he's amazing but I do like humble people.. I know Aqua is so drawn to Leo energy. So I'm just wondering, how do you normally deal with it? Like, do you poke at it when they give you smart ass comments about how amazing they are or do you ignore them lol... ? I'm curious of how Aqua women handle this?
i knew a taurus sun/leo moon before...

i find it really easy peasy and this was before i knew astrology.

Leo rising,(and their cusps) always finds me, and leo dominant, and leo moons in men.

i haven't really analyzed why, and i have to think really hard and envision why... lol

maybe because of my 7th house, and it pulls that energy?


Yeah well, my ex was a Taurus sun and Leo moon . At first it was all awesome as he was extremely romantic. But once we get on to the dance floor he wants all the spot light lol... and I also like to shine haha.. he came over one time and my friends didn't like him coz he cudnt stop talking about himself.... n now this Leo man, he's already saying amazing things about himself which I'm sure he is but like, i am struggling to get used to it. The Aqua guy was just so bloody humble it's like a complete opposite.
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what are the Leo's placements?



i find Leo/Taurus square very different with different sun signs,placements.

but always the same in which they want to take care of you and don't you worry your pretty head over nothing kind of feeling.

the Taurus sun/Leo moon ended up with a Sagittarius sun. He also had an Aries venus. lol

kind of like the Nicki Minaj and Meek Mills, but then i read/heard she's with a Cancer guy now...

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for his leo sun and your aquarius moon.



remember, there's lots of leo/aquarius in the chart in couples...



George Clooney has Leo mars and his wife is Aquarius sun/Aquarius venus.

& Harrison Ford is Leo mars, and his wife is Aquarius moon.

Jennifer Aniston Aquarius sun, with Leo sun/Leo venus.

Patty Smyth from the band out from the 80s, married famous ex tennis player John McEnroe, she's Leo mars, and he's Aqua sun.



Sienna Guillory and Enzo Cilanti, He's Leo sun and she has Aquarius Mars....
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On the plus side the sex is good cause they gotta prove their the best. Not to you but to themselves.
Imaoooooo am I supposed to get turned on by that? lol he Aqua ex had venus in place n moon so he went like miles to please me sexually... lacked the fire passion though. I never sexed with a Leo man before.
Leo and Aquarius don't work long term imo.

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The OP is a Taurus. Even worse. If the Aquarius can be detached and sweep away ego related stuff, a Leo will be very vocal.
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What you consider his ego and neediness another woman would consider an asset.
Asset? Lol ok hehe I wouldn't pay for t. He's actually not too bad in person
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Most people talk about themselves on the first few dates!

Most people also ask their dates about themselves!! So they answer about themselves!!

It's how first dates work!

You come across as someone who has very low confidence. Don't take it out on his sign!!

If you don't like confident people, don't date them!!!

It's really that simple

I
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Hey hope you are well.

I feel like I am somewhat qualified to answer this question for 3 reasons.

1.) I am a Leo, with a Libra moon.

2.) I dated a Taurus for many years.

3.) My recent ex girlfriend is an Aqua with a cancer moon.

The Leo and the Aqua will be very different in how they act and how they are, but in certain aspects Leos and Aquas are similar.

Firstly, if you want to date the Leo, date the Leo for his assets and attributes and what exactly it is about this Leo that you are attracted to, comparing him to your Aqua ex isn't going to end well because you will spend time drawing comparison which will take you away from understanding your Leo.

Firstly us Leo's definitely have an ego, after all we are the king of the jungle. And sometimes our ego is selfish in the sense that we will do grand gestures etc and expect something in return (in the form of gratitude or stroking the ego). But once we fall for you, then that is it, we will go out of our way to do things for you that you wouldn't even imagine were possible based on how we behave and act.

I agree that stroking a Leo's ego can get annoying over time, however a Leo's ego can also be used to control them if you know what you are doing. The vital key is here to communicate and set boundaries, and once the Leo is crossing those boundaries and becomes egotistically needy then tell him then and there. His ego will cause him to pull back and rationalise.

Yes they can also be impulsive but over time we do learn how to calm this as well. Being impulsive is part of our nature. Think of it like this, if a Leos impulse works in your favour then you will see it as a surprise, a bit of fun and spontaneous, which is what women like.

When the Leos ego is bruised, its bruised lol, but the Leo also needs to learn not to be too cocky and put himself above others without proving his worth (I am referring to the comment he made about being better than guys you previously dated).

I say give the guy a chance, but before you do that, know exactly what it is you want in a bloke. Don't compare him or draw comparisons to your Aqua. You should have a list of qualities and the leo and aqua need to have some or all of those qualities on that list. Secondly once you know what you want from a guy, compare the Leo to your quality list and work out how much you of the negative stuff you can handle.

You will soon find out that once a woman knows how to handle our ego, nothing compares to a Leo man who loves his woman with everything he has.
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I find that Leo suns are really influenced by their moons.

I have all tue Leo qualities, but they're more internally felt because of my Cappy moon. I don't often show those tendencies externally.

So you need to figure out his moon sign. That will tell you more.
And when you get a leo with leo moon and venus, you have quite the lion to deal with lol. Jfc. But worth it!
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I find that Leo suns are really influenced by their moons.

I have all tue Leo qualities, but they're more internally felt because of my Cappy moon. I don't often show those tendencies externally.

So you need to figure out his moon sign. That will tell you more.
yeah it would be nice to know the Leo sun's chart.

he could very well have Leo venus, Leo mercury. Leo mars... *phew*
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What you consider his ego and neediness another woman would consider an asset.
Asset? Lol ok hehe I wouldn't pay for t. He's actually not too bad in person
Most people talk about themselves on the first few dates!

Most people also ask their dates about themselves!! So they answer about themselves!!

It's how first dates work!

You come across as someone who has very low confidence. Don't take it out on his sign!!

If you don't like confident people, don't date them!!!

It's really that simple

I

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IMAO

i'm prob the most confidence people around but i don't go around telling people i start dating that

I am smart this or i am the best looking person he's ever met? or stuff like that

i like humble honest people.

you sound like , you are very negative and judgemental on your views.

i'm saying it as i see it.

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What you consider his ego and neediness another woman would consider an asset.
Asset? Lol ok hehe I wouldn't pay for t. He's actually not too bad in person
Most people talk about themselves on the first few dates!

Most people also ask their dates about themselves!! So they answer about themselves!!

It's how first dates work!

You come across as someone who has very low confidence. Don't take it out on his sign!!

If you don't like confident people, don't date them!!!

It's really that simple

I

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IMAO

i'm prob the most confidence people around but i don't go around telling people i start dating that

I am smart this or i am the best looking person he's ever met? or stuff like that

i like humble honest people.

you sound like , you are very negative and judgemental on your views.

i'm saying it as i see it.

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I find that Leo suns are really influenced by their moons.

I have all tue Leo qualities, but they're more internally felt because of my Cappy moon. I don't often show those tendencies externally.

So you need to figure out his moon sign. That will tell you more.
Yeah true I don't know his true date of birth yet. Thank you ! His ego isn't too bad in person. I can stand him not like Leo moon ex I had lol
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Hey hope you are well.

I feel like I am somewhat qualified to answer this question for 3 reasons.

1.) I am a Leo, with a Libra moon.

2.) I dated a Taurus for many years.

3.) My recent ex girlfriend is an Aqua with a cancer moon.

The Leo and the Aqua will be very different in how they act and how they are, but in certain aspects Leos and Aquas are similar.

Firstly, if you want to date the Leo, date the Leo for his assets and attributes and what exactly it is about this Leo that you are attracted to, comparing him to your Aqua ex isn't going to end well because you will spend time drawing comparison which will take you away from understanding your Leo.

Firstly us Leo's definitely have an ego, after all we are the king of the jungle. And sometimes our ego is selfish in the sense that we will do grand gestures etc and expect something in return (in the form of gratitude or stroking the ego). But once we fall for you, then that is it, we will go out of our way to do things for you that you wouldn't even imagine were possible based on how we behave and act.

I agree that stroking a Leo's ego can get annoying over time, however a Leo's ego can also be used to control them if you know what you are doing. The vital key is here to communicate and set boundaries, and once the Leo is crossing those boundaries and becomes egotistically needy then tell him then and there. His ego will cause him to pull back and rationalise.

Yes they can also be impulsive but over time we do learn how to calm this as well. Being impulsive is part of our nature. Think of it like this, if a Leos impulse works in your favour then you will see it as a surprise, a bit of fun and spontaneous, which is what women like.

When the Leos ego is bruised, its bruised lol, but the Leo also needs to learn not to be too cocky and put himself above others without proving his worth (I am referring to the comment he made about being better than guys you previously dated).

I say give the guy a chance, but before you do that, know exactly what it is you want in a bloke. Don't compare him or draw comparisons to your Aqua. You should have a list of qualities and the leo and aqua need to have some or all of those qualities on that list. Secondly once you know what you want from a guy, compare the Leo to your quality list and work out how much you of the negative stuff you can handle.

You will soon find out that once a woman knows how to handle our ego, nothing compares to a Leo man who loves his woman with everything he has.
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhyeaaaaaahhhhhh

I love how leo men on here give nice, big replies lol

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Lol - so long as it helps!!!
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I am going to go out on a limb and say that Taurus would have to be more stubborn than a Leo!! Yes I said it!! lol
Hahahah yes I am pretty bad... the Aqua def let me win in many conversations. It goes like this * why do u ask me if I want it babe? Coz you are going to give it to me anyway * we are talking about when im trying to feed him food here... hahahaha so yes, Taurus stubborn head. Once we want something we r too stubborn and most likely

Don't let go easily. We almost NeVER give up. Ever. This Leo is not in a good place, coz my stubborn Taurus hasn't fully let the Aqua go yet. Damn. T_T now I'm dealing with three stubborn signs. Myself , Leo and Aqua.. which one is the most stubborn?
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gross.

Stop painting every leo as an egotistical prick. I've always been humble about my accomplishments and at parties no I don't hog the spotlight, I pull everyone into it so theyre not left out. ? I actually get quite upset if I don't see people having a good time. I put others before myself, always have.
You can tell alot about a person by what they chose to focus on, and some people are saying really nice things about us and some are so not lol Im like that too, i try to include everyone and i have very pure intentions. Sooo sick of the "ego" thing...
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The real question is how's a leo deal with taurus egoness?
you mean, taurus stubbornness?

i am def crushing his ego at the moment. i'm being a bit cold and distant..

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So you're ignoring him on purpose or you wouldn't be on here asking how we handle our "ego", you're using it against us, this will end very well for you. Not.
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I am going to go out on a limb and say that Taurus would have to be more stubborn than a Leo!! Yes I said it!! lol
Hahahah yes I am pretty bad... the Aqua def let me win in many conversations. It goes like this * why do u ask me if I want it babe? Coz you are going to give it to me anyway * we are talking about when im trying to feed him food here... hahahaha so yes, Taurus stubborn head. Once we want something we r too stubborn and most likely

Don't let go easily. We almost NeVER give up. Ever. This Leo is not in a good place, coz my stubborn Taurus hasn't fully let the Aqua go yet. Damn. T_T now I'm dealing with three stubborn signs. Myself , Leo and Aqua.. which one is the most stubborn?
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Good question!! I think that all 3 can be stubborn in their own ways. I am a Leo and have dated an Aqua and a Taurus - for me the most damaging stubbornness is definitely that of an Aquarius.

Leo - Can be stubborn when it comes to our beliefs, morals and ethics. Its something that we do not change for anyone. We can also be stubborn when it comes to our thought process because we are logical people.

Taurus - My ex was a Taurus and in my opinion her stubbornness was immature and without validation. She was the type of person who would do what she wanted to do, create and argument, let the argument happen and then reset herself. An example I can provide is that one time I was getting my car serviced, I was inside the car depot and my ex was smoking in my car because it was raining. I hate people smoking in my car because I don't like the stale cigarette smell. She knew this and still chose to smoke when she had an umbrella and either could have stood outside or chosen not to smoke. I hit the roof!!!! lol

Aquarius - My most recent ex and the love of my life. I still have very strong feelings for this girl but we do need to talk and sort things out and see where they can go. She basically is stubborn in the sense of once she has made a decision she will stick to it, despite a change in the circumstances. Which I find rather odd because I never had an Aquarius down as a black and white person. They seem to be more grey. She would happily cause herself emotional pain to stick to her decision and deal with it rather than change her decision to suit the circumstances.
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I am going to go out on a limb and say that Taurus would have to be more stubborn than a Leo!! Yes I said it!! lol
Hahahah yes I am pretty bad... the Aqua def let me win in many conversations. It goes like this * why do u ask me if I want it babe? Coz you are going to give it to me anyway * we are talking about when im trying to feed him food here... hahahaha so yes, Taurus stubborn head. Once we want something we r too stubborn and most likely

Don't let go easily. We almost NeVER give up. Ever. This Leo is not in a good place, coz my stubborn Taurus hasn't fully let the Aqua go yet. Damn. T_T now I'm dealing with three stubborn signs. Myself , Leo and Aqua.. which one is the most stubborn?
Good question!! I think that all 3 can be stubborn in their own ways. I am a Leo and have dated an Aqua and a Taurus - for me the most damaging stubbornness is definitely that of an Aquarius.

Leo - Can be stubborn when it comes to our beliefs, morals and ethics. Its something that we do not change for anyone. We can also be stubborn when it comes to our thought process because we are logical people.

Taurus - My ex was a Taurus and in my opinion her stubbornness was immature and without validation. She was the type of person who would do what she wanted to do, create and argument, let the argument happen and then reset herself. An example I can provide is that one time I was getting my car serviced, I was inside the car depot and my ex was smoking in my car because it was raining. I hate people smoking in my car because I don't like the stale cigarette smell. She knew this and still chose to smoke when she had an umbrella and either could have stood outside or chosen not to smoke. I hit the roof!!!! lol

Aquarius - My most recent ex and the love of my life. I still have very strong feelings for this girl but we do need to talk and sort things out and see where they can go. She basically is stubborn in the sense of once she has made a decision she will stick to it, despite a change in the circumstances. Which I find rather odd because I never had an Aquarius down as a black and white person. They seem to be more grey. She would happily cause herself emotional pain to stick to her decision and deal with it rather than change her decision to suit the circumstances.
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wow sounds like the aqua has alot of fixedity. lol black and white.

or cardinal /fixed?

but when you wrote down she would rather cause herself emotional pain, i sense some strong water influence, especially fixed water. but not sure.

do you know their placements?
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@lisabethur8 - yes I do hun but they are at home and I am at work at the moment.

From memory she is a Aqua Sun Cancer Moon and a Carpicorn Mercury. That's all I can remember. I cant remember her time of birth to be honest so I only have generic placements.

She definitely does have a lot of fixedity, especially when it comes to dealing with or handling certain emotional situations. She can be quite passive aggressive in the sense that she will just ignore certain scenarios, emotions, issues etc.

When I said she would rather cause herself emotional pain, that was more of an opinion from observation when it comes to me and her. We both work in the same place so even though we don't talk we still spend a lot of time in each others company.

She used to react quite negatively (emotions wise) to my name being mentioned, refused to work with me on a work related project etc, and only recently has she started to speak to me again via email. I refer to her causing herself emotional pain because I have reached out a few occasions to try and smooth things over because we work together and its best to maintain professionalism and she completely ignored my emails. The way I see it is would make far more sense to have a conversation and draw up some ground rules so boundaries aren't crossed. This way confusion or misunderstanding don't occur. She just refused to acknowledge my existence. lol
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Posted by urania_ix
Well thats what Aquarius are for. To check a Leo so he doesn't look like an arrogant A-hole in front of others. Aquarius help humanity and has strong views and values. Leos think the world revolves around them. I love you Leos but the Aquarius has to check Leos sometimes.
The irony here is priceless. ?
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I have Aqua moon. I will make sure to keep my mans in check. There I said it. My man lol
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Posted by Montgomery
Posted by urania_ix
Well thats what Aquarius are for. To check a Leo so he doesn't look like an arrogant A-hole in front of others. Aquarius help humanity and has strong views and values. Leos think the world revolves around them. I love you Leos but the Aquarius has to check Leos sometimes.
The irony here is priceless. ?
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lol

people putting up mirrors to eachother.

projection everywhere.
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