I'm a Virgo. I met this aquarian guy on tinder. On the first date, we talked for a couple of hours, got to know each other a little. He asked me why I'm on tinder. I said that I'm not looking for a hookup but rather looking forward to date someone and he seemed fine with that. On the second date which happened in the same week, we got drunk and made out on the street. That night was really fun. The third time, we met for lunch and had some good conversation.
After that, he invited me a couple of time to his home but he lives very far so I decided to not go.
Finally, after 3-4 times of saying no, we met again at his home and had good sex. After that boom, he disappeared. For the first two weeks, I imagined that he must be busy and I still texted him twice in between to check up on him asking how his rock and roll life going. After that, it got to my head that maybe it was his classic act to just sleep with me.
I texted him this- 'if you just wanted to sleep with me you could have been honest, it was okay!'. To this, he replied that 'if I had to sleep with you, I would have pulled that act earlier' I thought about it and gave him a benefit of doubt. My response was- 'I think I have too much free time these days, I'm focussing on wrong and unimportant things unnecessarily. '
That's it. Didn't hear from him anything after that. I moved on and had busy two weeks. But now that I'm free again, I thought about it and realised instead of trying to date and end up sleeping with random guys and exposing myself to the chances of getting an infection, I don't mind keeping friends with benefits relationship with him till the time I don't find someone good.
Is it a good idea to propose him that? if yes how do I convey this?
I feel that he might agree to it if I put it in the right way as he has just started his own company and he really doesn't have any time to meet girls and everyone has physical needs so I'm assuming he is no different.
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Mar 27, 2017Comments: 1330 · Posts: 12920 · Topics: 29
Yeah just be honest with him ask him to be your fwb lol