How do you tell an aqua you love him?
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by AwkWarDAqUa on Tuesday, January 8, 2008 and has 14 replies.
Hi, im new to dxpnet(lovin it) and
I need some honest advice..
I am truly in love with an aqua guy and Im not sure how to express this to him. Im a weird aqua and he is an even weider aqua. He is the type of person to get all quiet after I open up. Im AFRAID I will scare him away even though Im sure he feels the same way. He has never had a serious relationship... I really think he doesn't know how to have one. He seems to be afraid to be "tied down" to one girl, like it would be torture for him if he happen to love her. We are very close friends and I would HATE to ruin our friendship but I need to tell him. I trimble at the thought of me telling him. How can I say this or should I even tell him how I feel? Lady's how did you tell your auqa how you felt? (im talking to thoughs who opend up to their aqua first) I would truly apreciate any kind of advice I can get...Thank You!
I need some honest advice..
I am truly in love with an aqua guy and Im not sure how to express this to him. Im a weird aqua and he is an even weider aqua. He is the type of person to get all quiet after I open up. Im AFRAID I will scare him away even though Im sure he feels the same way. He has never had a serious relationship... I really think he doesn't know how to have one. He seems to be afraid to be "tied down" to one girl, like it would be torture for him if he happen to love her. We are very close friends and I would HATE to ruin our friendship but I need to tell him. I trimble at the thought of me telling him. How can I say this or should I even tell him how I feel? Lady's how did you tell your auqa how you felt? (im talking to thoughs who opend up to their aqua first) I would truly apreciate any kind of advice I can get...Thank You!
I dunno if it falls into this category but my ex-cancer declared her interest back to me after I had expressed some feelings to her first. I liked that cause it showed maturity and didn't kill the game at all. The way she did it, she said that she thought of my sayings and she was troubled as she liked what was going on between us but also said (dunno if true or an excuse to play it hard) that she "was with someone in distance who didn't call her almost ready to break up but not sure" etc !! I'm sure women's mind can think of ways regardless of aqua or not 
Ive had an aqua/aqua 'experience'
He was a VERY loving guy (most of them I know are quite loving).
He had no problems expressing the way he felt(1st decan, dont know his other placements), although I did.
I'm usually the one with the problems in this department.
IMO, I say go for it. You know he feels the same way. Aqua/aqua relationships usually become problematic and stagnant b/c of this and nothing more, so take the plunge and see what happens...easier said than done...I know.
dont you just love aqua/aqua experiences
He was a VERY loving guy (most of them I know are quite loving).
He had no problems expressing the way he felt(1st decan, dont know his other placements), although I did.
I'm usually the one with the problems in this department.
IMO, I say go for it. You know he feels the same way. Aqua/aqua relationships usually become problematic and stagnant b/c of this and nothing more, so take the plunge and see what happens...easier said than done...I know.
dont you just love aqua/aqua experiences
oh...Welcome....Stay for awhile.
Define your friendship please.
*bleurgh*
There! Allll better!
ewwww
I want to watch him eat it.
I want to watch him eat it.
Thanks for the great advice !!
personally i wouldn't confess love, not all Aqua men but a lot of them are all about FREEDOM, having it and loving it more than life itself, the mention of love can make an Aqua uncomfortable, my suggestion and its only a suggestion is to allow him to tell you first, therefore you will feel at ease telling him back whereas he may run for the hills after you open up. Don't rush things, keep flowing with the relationship and the confession of love from him will come as the relationship naturally progresses. If you tell him first chances are he will say it back but don't be suprised if things go down hill from that point on.
Be logical, if he's already shown signs of loving his freedom well he's not going to give you what you feel you may need from him by telling him you love him, he will more than likely panic and run, which will make the union much more complicated. A man will chew his own leg off to be free from the responsibility of a love relationship if he is in love with his freedom, seems yours is...commitment is a scary thing for him as it seems and why would you want to scare him more with I love you.
Respect the friendship, have fun but leave that love stuff at the door if you know whats good.
Be logical, if he's already shown signs of loving his freedom well he's not going to give you what you feel you may need from him by telling him you love him, he will more than likely panic and run, which will make the union much more complicated. A man will chew his own leg off to be free from the responsibility of a love relationship if he is in love with his freedom, seems yours is...commitment is a scary thing for him as it seems and why would you want to scare him more with I love you.
Respect the friendship, have fun but leave that love stuff at the door if you know whats good.
I sort of agree with u tiki - and Just be patient with him AwkWarDAqUa - When ready the Aqua will come out with it even if you think they may never say it - just wait for the subtle hints he throws at you prety common for an aqua to be indirect when expressing feelings.
Mr Aqua man tried to tell me he loved me a few times & I stopped him cause I didnt think he was being real - but when he was being real it was beautiful - tsk tsk
I am more of a 'show me your love' person but it is also nice to hear it - its reassuring.
Hey bjour - thats so cute the way u 2 told each other - awww
even if you think they may never say it - just wait for the subtle hints he throws at you prety common for an aqua to be indirect when expressing feelings. Mr Aqua man tried to tell me he loved me a few times & I stopped him cause I didnt think he was being real - but when he was being real it was beautiful - tsk tsk
I am more of a 'show me your love' person but it is also nice to hear it - its reassuring.
Hey bjour - thats so cute the way u 2 told each other - awww
oppsies - *bijou
thanks tiki33 and Pisces for the advice! Reading everyone's comments has really helped me decided what to do. I really love this guy but I rather not take a chance and risk our friendship. I think it would be more special to hear him say it. Plus I have asked him in his past relationships has he ever been in love with anyone. He has mentioned that women have told him that they loved him but for some reason I can tell he never believed that they did. I believe he thinks there isn't anyone who can really love him (besides his family) He has had a hard time with women.. I mean he has been with PLENTY of women! I guess you can say he is the player type. Knowing this makes me more cautious with my actions. I don't want to be another chick on his list. So saying I love you wont really be anything special even coming from a good friend. To him, I'm just another girl who says I love you.
"can tell he never believed that they did. I believe he thinks there isn't anyone who can really love him (besides his family)"
hmmm, I understand....
hmmm, I understand....
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