How to express yourself to Aquarius man?
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by beebeeN on Saturday, September 9, 2017 and has 33 replies.
So I want to tell my Aquarius guy how I feel. I just don't want to freak him out. I'd eventually like to be with him but I'd like to date exclusively, talk every other day, and go out, travel, etc.
We've messed around for a couple of years on and off cause I couldn't deal with his inconsistency. I've learned to come to terms with some of his ways and he's gotten soooo much better. Though we meet up and have sex, it's so much more than that. We talk for hours when we see each other.
I care about him sooooooo much and I've felt like this for awhile. It's been eating me up cause I've been trying to play it cool. How should I let him know? Would love to hear from an Aquarius.
We've messed around for a couple of years on and off cause I couldn't deal with his inconsistency. I've learned to come to terms with some of his ways and he's gotten soooo much better. Though we meet up and have sex, it's so much more than that. We talk for hours when we see each other.
I care about him sooooooo much and I've felt like this for awhile. It's been eating me up cause I've been trying to play it cool. How should I let him know? Would love to hear from an Aquarius.
does he like you too?
are you sure he's not seeing someone else but you?
first you must be sure on those.
are you sure he's not seeing someone else but you?
first you must be sure on those.
Posted by aquarius_man
play it cool
take it easy, don't go all over him
he s not waiting for you to make the first step, he likes it as it is for now
the moment you become mutually exclusive should be his decision
So....... don't say anything? Lol
Posted by Senorita_LLGiiiiirrrrllllll it's tricky. I want to tell him how I feel but how? While still playing it cool
As a Gemini, I have to always play the Tom and Jerry games with the Aquas.
It is hard to know their true feelings and sometimes I wonder, if they even have one, to began with.
Good luck my Gem. May the force be with you!
Posted by Senorita_LLi'm being serious yet i'm the only ignored by OP lolPosted by AerialViewLol!!!!!
does he like you too?
are you sure he's not seeing someone else but you?
first you must be sure on those.click to expand
So you want a relationship from your fwb?
Posted by Senorita_LLi was trying to help. guess i have a troll aura lolPosted by AerialViewOh, you mad aqua? Cos' you were being ignored?Posted by Senorita_LLi'm being serious yet i'm the only ignored by OP lolPosted by AerialViewLol!!!!!
does he like you too?
are you sure he's not seeing someone else but you?
first you must be sure on those.
Yeah, that's the best way to get an Aqua to keep coming back for more. OP did the right thing.
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that kind of "to keep coming back for more" only work if we like the person. if not, we just simply ignore back.
Posted by Senorita_LLnot exactly like that.Posted by AerialViewSo, that means.....Posted by Senorita_LLi was trying to help. guess i have a troll aura lolPosted by AerialViewOh, you mad aqua? Cos' you were being ignored?Posted by Senorita_LLi'm being serious yet i'm the only ignored by OP lolPosted by AerialViewLol!!!!!
does he like you too?
are you sure he's not seeing someone else but you?
first you must be sure on those.
Yeah, that's the best way to get an Aqua to keep coming back for more. OP did the right thing.
that kind of "to keep coming back for more" only work if we like the person. if not, we just simply ignore back.
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but i get your point lol
Posted by AerialViewI believe he does a d he said he isn't seeing anyone elsePosted by Senorita_LLi'm being serious yet i'm the only ignored by OP lolPosted by AerialViewLol!!!!!
does he like you too?
are you sure he's not seeing someone else but you?
first you must be sure on those.click to expand
Tell him. If he's stuck around this long and spends hours talking to you... he may really like you too. Now he may have others, but if he's serious he'll let thyme go. Only thing is if an Aqua man wants you.... he'll go after you. It'll take time for him to decide, but once he does he's all yours.
Posted by LadyNeptuneYep pretty much lol
So you want a relationship from your fwb?
Jajajajaja when you know the answe let me know?
Posted by GeminiGirl052388Thanks! Now I'm having second thoughts lol I'm not good at expressing feelings either ( I HATE rejection). How should I deal if we make plans and he doesn't show up? No call no text? He's confusing me because he acts a certain way, says certain things to me ("I'm the type of person that'll love you and you won't even know", he once told me he loves me after I helped him find something "see this is why I love you") but then can be so distant. Why are you guys like this?! LolPosted by Senorita_LLAgree. They are very vague. Just shows hints here and there. Best thing to do is keep yourself interesting and busy. Remember Gem, if we think about it a lot, it becomes stressful. Just go with the flow, let him be and if he really truly likes you, he will tell you because he cant hold back anymore. If an aqua falls for you, they fall deeply so you wanna make sure the timing is right for him and you.
As a Gemini, I have to always play the Tom and Jerry games with the Aquas.
It is hard to know their true feelings and sometimes I wonder, if they even have one, to began with.
Good luck my Gem. May the force be with you!click to expand
Be inventive. There are millions of ways to say "I love you" without spelling out the words. Aquas love subtle messages. Just make sure they are consistent. From crafted words to gestures and surprises. But he already knows...
Yeh it's important that you have a good sense of humour and try not to come across as serious when you say you love an Aquarius, any hint of desperation comes of as drowning clawing cat to me and I avoid people like that as the plague....
Posted by compyLol what makes you think that he already knows?!
Be inventive. There are millions of ways to say "I love you" without spelling out the words. Aquas love subtle messages. Just make sure they are consistent. From crafted words to gestures and surprises. But he already knows...
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11Thanks for the advice ? I will continue playing it cool. I'll tell him how I feel but I won't freak him out
Yeh it's important that you have a good sense of humour and try not to come across as serious when you say you love an Aquarius, any hint of desperation comes of as drowning clawing cat to me and I avoid people like that as the plague....
Posted by beebeeNYou've been "fooling around" for two years. That's enough of a proof. He wouldn't stay around for so long for nothing. But having it lightly it's convenient for him. Do you know if he is side dating?Posted by compyLol what makes you think that he already knows?!
Be inventive. There are millions of ways to say "I love you" without spelling out the words. Aquas love subtle messages. Just make sure they are consistent. From crafted words to gestures and surprises. But he already knows...click to expand
Remember it's not what you do but how you do it.
We are very susceptible to naturally charming people who have the gift of the gab and are funny,
We are very susceptible to naturally charming people who have the gift of the gab and are funny,
Posted by compyHe's pretty honest with me. If he's dealing with someone he'll let me know I asked the other day and he said that he was dealing with someone but he's distancing himself and they don't have what we have ?Posted by beebeeNYou've been "fooling around" for two years. That's enough of a proof. He wouldn't stay around for so long for nothing. But having it lightly it's convenient for him. Do you know if he is side dating?Posted by compyLol what makes you think that he already knows?!
Be inventive. There are millions of ways to say "I love you" without spelling out the words. Aquas love subtle messages. Just make sure they are consistent. From crafted words to gestures and surprises. But he already knows...click to expand
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11Hmmmm, I get you. It's all in the delivery.
Remember it's not what you do but how you do it.
We are very susceptible to naturally charming people who have the gift of the gab and are funny,
Can I just say that I loooooove you guys?! You're so complicated but you're worth the headache.
just don't say it while you're half or full naked 
Yep. Very hard to digest if you have a bunch of too heavy demands. Fun and enlightening if you are not in a hurry. The best way is to let things grow naturally, be discrete with your feelings, but create a securing atmosphere around him. Do not put any pressure and he will eventually prefer you instead of his freedom.
Posted by compyWould it be too much to tell him "hey I really like you and like having you around so let's date, not rushing into anything let's do stuff and have fun". Cause on the inside, I'm falling for him but I won't tell him that. I'm willing to date for awhile and see what happens not really in a rush. I'm more concerned with building our relationship versus calling him my boyfriend
Yep. Very hard to digest if you have a bunch of too heavy demands. Fun and enlightening if you are not in a hurry. The best way is to let things grow naturally, be discrete with your feelings, but create a securing atmosphere around him. Do not put any pressure and he will eventually prefer you instead of his freedom.
Posted by AerialViewI thought this would be one of the best times to do so lol
just don't say it while you're half or full naked
Posted by beebeeNi knew you would say that lolPosted by AerialViewI thought this would be one of the best times to do so lol
just don't say it while you're half or full nakedclick to expand
Posted by beebeeNNo, the dating should be his idea, not yours. He might completely reject it. Stick to the first part of your sentence and continue seeing each other "to do stuff and have fun". Who initiates the communication and the meetings and how often?Posted by compyWould it be too much to tell him "hey I really like you and like having you around so let's date, not rushing into anything let's do stuff and have fun". Cause on the inside, I'm falling for him but I won't tell him that. I'm willing to date for awhile and see what happens not really in a rush. I'm more concerned with building our relationship versus calling him my boyfriend
Yep. Very hard to digest if you have a bunch of too heavy demands. Fun and enlightening if you are not in a hurry. The best way is to let things grow naturally, be discrete with your feelings, but create a securing atmosphere around him. Do not put any pressure and he will eventually prefer you instead of his freedom.click to expand
Posted by compyWe both intimate meetings but most of the time I initiate that . I used to communicate with him more than he did with me but that has changed, since I don't reach out as often he'll randomly call or text me to check on me. We sometimes go weeks without seeing each other.Posted by beebeeNNo, the dating should be his idea, not yours. He might completely reject it. Stick to the first part of your sentence and continue seeing each other "to do stuff and have fun". Who initiates the communication and the meetings and how often?Posted by compyWould it be too much to tell him "hey I really like you and like having you around so let's date, not rushing into anything let's do stuff and have fun". Cause on the inside, I'm falling for him but I won't tell him that. I'm willing to date for awhile and see what happens not really in a rush. I'm more concerned with building our relationship versus calling him my boyfriend
Yep. Very hard to digest if you have a bunch of too heavy demands. Fun and enlightening if you are not in a hurry. The best way is to let things grow naturally, be discrete with your feelings, but create a securing atmosphere around him. Do not put any pressure and he will eventually prefer you instead of his freedom.click to expand
Posted by beebeeNI should mention that he already said we were dating lol I was like oh, we were? LolPosted by compyWe both intimate meetings but most of the time I initiate that . I used to communicate with him more than he did with me but that has changed, since I don't reach out as often he'll randomly call or text me to check on me. We sometimes go weeks without seeing each other.Posted by beebeeNNo, the dating should be his idea, not yours. He might completely reject it. Stick to the first part of your sentence and continue seeing each other "to do stuff and have fun". Who initiates the communication and the meetings and how often?Posted by compyWould it be too much to tell him "hey I really like you and like having you around so let's date, not rushing into anything let's do stuff and have fun". Cause on the inside, I'm falling for him but I won't tell him that. I'm willing to date for awhile and see what happens not really in a rush. I'm more concerned with building our relationship versus calling him my boyfriend
Yep. Very hard to digest if you have a bunch of too heavy demands. Fun and enlightening if you are not in a hurry. The best way is to let things grow naturally, be discrete with your feelings, but create a securing atmosphere around him. Do not put any pressure and he will eventually prefer you instead of his freedom.click to expand
Posted by beebeeNI see. How much do you know about him, how open is he in sharing about his daily life? What does he consider you? I am trying to figure out how he sees you now. If you do not want to post it here, you can PM me.Posted by compyWe both intimate meetings but most of the time I initiate that . I used to communicate with him more than he did with me but that has changed, since I don't reach out as often he'll randomly call or text me to check on me. We sometimes go weeks without seeing each other.Posted by beebeeNNo, the dating should be his idea, not yours. He might completely reject it. Stick to the first part of your sentence and continue seeing each other "to do stuff and have fun". Who initiates the communication and the meetings and how often?Posted by compyWould it be too much to tell him "hey I really like you and like having you around so let's date, not rushing into anything let's do stuff and have fun". Cause on the inside, I'm falling for him but I won't tell him that. I'm willing to date for awhile and see what happens not really in a rush. I'm more concerned with building our relationship versus calling him my boyfriend
Yep. Very hard to digest if you have a bunch of too heavy demands. Fun and enlightening if you are not in a hurry. The best way is to let things grow naturally, be discrete with your feelings, but create a securing atmosphere around him. Do not put any pressure and he will eventually prefer you instead of his freedom.click to expand
Be authentic. Balls to the wall. Anything else is a lie. You don't need to 'come to terms' with how someone behaves.. They either fit your life and who you are or they don't..they either get you or they don't. Avoiding rejection by compromising yourself and your needs does not a good relationship makethy..??? Be yourself. Even if it seems completely inappropriate..he's had enough time to get to know you.
Seize the day. Duck it all.
Go forth and prosper.
Amen
Seize the day. Duck it all.
Go forth and prosper.
Amen
Posted by aquarius_manI partially agree (as an aqua girl) but i must say i know when i "want" someone (even when i am scared of my feelings), i make an effort even i don,t speak my feelings out loud.
play it cool
take it easy, don't go all over him
he s not waiting for you to make the first step, he likes it as it is for now
the moment you become mutually exclusive should be his decision
if i am not interested and just see this man as friend i don,t show up often, i barely respond, i make no effort, i don,t go on dates with him etc. i only see this man as friend then and make it quite clear when he doesn,t understand.
i don,t know if aqua men and women are so different in that
??? would be interesting haha Posted by lightseed
Be authentic. Balls to the wall. Anything else is a lie. You don't need to 'come to terms' with how someone behaves.. They either fit your life and who you are or they don't..they either get you or they don't. Avoiding rejection by compromising yourself and your needs does not a good relationship makethy..??? Be yourself. Even if it seems completely inappropriate..he's had enough time to get to know you.
Seize the day. Duck it all.
Go forth and prosper.
Amen
Thanks for this!!!
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