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Oct 19, 2010Comments: 14 · Posts: 937 · Topics: 33
get over it already...it was true at the moment...and not a lie or not genuine in that sense....good time spent..
If that was the case, why wouldn't he ask me about it? Instead of assuming?
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Oct 19, 2010Comments: 14 · Posts: 937 · Topics: 33
perhaps through my relationship with my gemini you may understand. He has bascially done a lot of things that make me question his values. "are we ultimately fundamently the same?..do share the same DEFINITION of honesty?" i picked up patterns from his stories...with co=workers-friends-ex lovers- me...over the course of 6 months i figured out what makes him tick. why he does the things he does EVEN * if he CONSCIOUSLY states otherwise. Based on my perception...i don't bother talking to him about it. I just adapt and make decisions.
Your aqua man probably sees the core of something and he doesn't like what he sees. Whether or not your right or wrong or he is..the fact is (not assumption) even if you WERE to explain yourself..you still cannot explain the core of why you do the things you do. and say the things you say. For tomorrow it will be a different answer.
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Oct 19, 2010Comments: 14 · Posts: 937 · Topics: 33
m bf did the same thing...haha..uh...that sucks for us do you know that? it shows your weakness in character...regardless of sign. You guys live purely in the moment of emotions. If you feel lonely then you'll go on a dating site or perhaps cheat. Aquas however see things in FUTURE tense. in months and even years. I asked my bf why he did those things and he said the ame thing you did....oh man when i asked him "BUT WHY? do you not like me?" he goes no " i have no idea why i did it...your my gf and its hard for me to be in a relationship ..your so special" IF THAT WAS REALLY THE CASE then he wouldn't need too. For that one incident, i realized i will put him in the "mr...right now fling box" so now we get along great. as for future? haha.uh no way...i would be fighting and depressed every minute of being with him. But i like him overall so its not bad to just have someone for now. WHY? he doesn't deserve what i have to offer 100% for he has nothing to offer me. but just short term fun and company.
YOu see..EVEN with his response (even if he is so genuine on his end) ultimately it doesn't make any sense to the bigger picture. It conflicts with all ideologies of love and relationships and human psychology. EPIC FAIL on his end. What he is saying is basically i was just some girl he asked to be in a relationship for consistent sex..ENDED UP falling. BUT if i were to tell him that statement what do you think he would say?
"no that is not true! i love you so much.." blah blah blah
so as you can see...aquas then just keep our real thoughts and observations that are FACTS and we make decisions on that..
he thinks of you as someone who doesn't share the same values as him. To stay with you longer and to fight and change you ..is pointless. its now officially tainted...!
live and learn!