I left my Aquarius and regret it

Posted by bumboklatt
This exact scenario is why it probably wouldn't work out

A few years back I had a cap friend who liked me a lot but I always kept her at arms length cause she was was waaaaay too into her goals

The respect was amazing and the friendship was deep but the expectations were a buzzkill

Posted by catcap23
I'm a Capricorn female who has been dating an Aquarius man. The connection and mutual respect was strong, it was intense with a lot of love. I ended it because he was going back to school for his masters and was worried he would be too busy for me. I've dated guys in school in the past and have literally always gotten hurt, I always get put on the back burner even after I put everything I have and feel on the table. I told him I'd rather end things on a good note vs. feeling sad and rejected when he just doesnt have time for me and I get pushed out of his life.

He said he understood and wasn't expecting things to get so intense between us so quickly and that he's very dedicated to his work so there is definitely a chance he won't be able to see me while he's in school. He said if that would hurt me then we should definitely end things on a good note because he would never ever want to hurt me. He told me I was amazing and one of the most motivated and self aware people he knows. He said he would like to hang out with me again at some point when I'd like...

I'm wondering if I made the right decision. I know as a Capricorn I always shy away from things with extreme emotion, I hate getting hurt and opening up is very very hard. He doesn't like confrontation and knows that whenever I say something I mean it so he didn't question it. But I'm missing him terribly, and am wondering if I let my overthinking and fear of pain ruin something really special as I've never met someone who has been so accepting and loving. Any Aquarius out there that could shed a light on how they would be feeling?

Posted by AerialView

Posted by catcap23
I'm a Capricorn female who has been dating an Aquarius man. The connection and mutual respect was strong, it was intense with a lot of love. I ended it because he was going back to school for his masters and was worried he would be too busy for me. I've dated guys in school in the past and have literally always gotten hurt, I always get put on the back burner even after I put everything I have and feel on the table. I told him I'd rather end things on a good note vs. feeling sad and rejected when he just doesnt have time for me and I get pushed out of his life.

He said he understood and wasn't expecting things to get so intense between us so quickly and that he's very dedicated to his work so there is definitely a chance he won't be able to see me while he's in school. He said if that would hurt me then we should definitely end things on a good note because he would never ever want to hurt me. He told me I was amazing and one of the most motivated and self aware people he knows. He said he would like to hang out with me again at some point when I'd like...

I'm wondering if I made the right decision. I know as a Capricorn I always shy away from things with extreme emotion, I hate getting hurt and opening up is very very hard. He doesn't like confrontation and knows that whenever I say something I mean it so he didn't question it. But I'm missing him terribly, and am wondering if I let my overthinking and fear of pain ruin something really special as I've never met someone who has been so accepting and loving. Any Aquarius out there that could shed a light on how they would be feeling?

Yep. You let your own fear ruined it.

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Posted by Aquarius213

Posted by AerialView

Posted by catcap23
I'm a Capricorn female who has been dating an Aquarius man. The connection and mutual respect was strong, it was intense with a lot of love. I ended it because he was going back to school for his masters and was worried he would be too busy for me. I've dated guys in school in the past and have literally always gotten hurt, I always get put on the back burner even after I put everything I have and feel on the table. I told him I'd rather end things on a good note vs. feeling sad and rejected when he just doesnt have time for me and I get pushed out of his life.

He said he understood and wasn't expecting things to get so intense between us so quickly and that he's very dedicated to his work so there is definitely a chance he won't be able to see me while he's in school. He said if that would hurt me then we should definitely end things on a good note because he would never ever want to hurt me. He told me I was amazing and one of the most motivated and self aware people he knows. He said he would like to hang out with me again at some point when I'd like...

I'm wondering if I made the right decision. I know as a Capricorn I always shy away from things with extreme emotion, I hate getting hurt and opening up is very very hard. He doesn't like confrontation and knows that whenever I say something I mean it so he didn't question it. But I'm missing him terribly, and am wondering if I let my overthinking and fear of pain ruin something really special as I've never met someone who has been so accepting and loving. Any Aquarius out there that could shed a light on how they would be feeling?

Yep. You let your own fear ruined it.

Yup typical cap

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