I made an Aquarius upset, what do I do??

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by femgogh on Thursday, December 17, 2015 and has 8 replies.
Hi! So recently, I started talking to this guy that my Aquarius friend used to have a crush on but now she's talking to her ex. She has been ignoring me and deleted all of our pictures together on Instagram without even saying anything. I want to apologize but I'm not sure what to say or do. I think she feels betrayed because I didn't tell her that the guy and I would start talking, because honest;y it was a surprise for me too. I did not know it would end up like this. I was wondering if any Aquarius's know if she'll be able to forgive me once I apologize?? Thanks x
Aquas like to do the playing, but never get played. She got played her ego is hurt, she will never forget but she will forgive you. Aquas dont like losing friends, it will just take time. You will never be on the same level of friendship, but in time you will be friends again, give her her space and hit her up in a couple of weeks or months. You wont be forgiven today or tomorrow, and please dont confront her about it right now.
Posted by virgotruth
Aquas like to do the playing, but never get played. She got played her ego is hurt, she will never forget but she will forgive you. Aquas dont like losing friends, it will just take time. You will never be on the same level of friendship, but in time you will be friends again, give her her space and hit her up in a couple of weeks or months. You wont be forgiven today or tomorrow, and please dont confront her about it right now.

The thing is, we're both on a dance team together and we're having a secret santa party tomorrow at her house. I was thinking of going early before anyone shows up so it's just us and apologize?
Posted by femgogh
Hi! So recently, I started talking to this guy that my Aquarius friend used to have a crush on but now she's talking to her ex. She has been ignoring me and deleted all of our pictures together on Instagram without even saying anything. I want to apologize but I'm not sure what to say or do. I think she feels betrayed because I didn't tell her that the guy and I would start talking, because honest;y it was a surprise for me too. I did not know it would end up like this. I was wondering if any Aquarius's know if she'll be able to forgive me once I apologize?? Thanks x

just to understand.. she likes a boy, you liked said boy and you & Boy both started talking to each other/dating?

Yes she feels betrayed by you. Hos before bros.

However, he wasn;t hers so she doesnt really have a reason to be mad, except you seem to have gone behind her back, why didn't you speak up sooner? You so certain that the delting has to do with this guy? Did she find out?

You can try to apologize, but not sure it will work.

Posted by justagirl
Posted by femgogh
Hi! So recently, I started talking to this guy that my Aquarius friend used to have a crush on but now she's talking to her ex. She has been ignoring me and deleted all of our pictures together on Instagram without even saying anything. I want to apologize but I'm not sure what to say or do. I think she feels betrayed because I didn't tell her that the guy and I would start talking, because honest;y it was a surprise for me too. I did not know it would end up like this. I was wondering if any Aquarius's know if she'll be able to forgive me once I apologize?? Thanks x

just to understand.. she likes a boy, you liked said boy and you & Boy both started talking to each other/dating?

Yes she feels betrayed by you. Hos before bros.

However, he wasn;t hers so she doesnt really have a reason to be mad, except you seem to have gone behind her back, why didn't you speak up sooner? You so certain that the delting has to do with this guy? Did she find out?

You can try to apologize, but not sure it will work.


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Yes! She found out about us talking. Before the guy and I were talking, she wouldn't talk to me. I didn't really speak up sooner because I didn't really know what the guy and I were in the first place. I think she probably feels that I made her an option. I was thinking of apologizing to her tomorrow because we're both on a dance team and we have a secret santa party and it's going to be at her house; I could come early before anyone shows up so it's just us.
I swear just from my perspective that I am constantly being used for my connections, whether it's my str8 friends relying on me to get chicks for them or vice versa, if I openly like someone and you call yourself my friend (a true friend not acquaintance) and then you go for my catch then bitch you better run because I will hate you and I'll make sure everyone that I'm associated with hates you too, it happens rarely but every time it does it plays out like that.

You're obviously fucked in the head, the only reason you want her to forgive you is so you can have a good time at her party without having to worry if you upset her, you selfish fuckng cow, just ditch the party and have fun with your new man instead of trying to have your cake and eat it too.

That's the number one hate of an Aqua, someone getting the better of them then trying to weasel into group trying to be sweet and innocent just so they can do it again, bitch we all know you're game it's called stupid bitch.
I had a similar situation in the past. A close friend of mine started talking to my exboyfriend knowing it would bother me. After that, I cut all ties with her and broke off our friendship. Even with several other friends too..if I make up my mind about you, I will never talk to you again.
Posted by aqualady0118
I had a similar situation in the past. A close friend of mine started talking to my exboyfriend knowing it would bother me. After that, I cut all ties with her and broke off our friendship. Even with several other friends too..if I make up my mind about you, I will never talk to you again.

The same with me, my friends know that my crushes and exes are off limit.. And thats the same how I behave. My friend´s crushes are off limits, even if the friend is in relationship with somebody else, so technically the "crush" is free game...... no waysmile

In the past, I had to ice my long-term friends (one pisces and one cancer) because they did this to me and the worst part was, they didnt even realized, that it was wrong and tried to argue with me..... there are no logical reasoning for this.... its black and white for mesmile

The only best friend who understood this was an Aries