I need help to understand this aqua guy.. =)

I met this aqua guy online . He added me on Fb and he was keeping in touch with me for about 3 months while I was trying to move on from my Cancer ex. He was complimenting me all the time , I felt like he was a bit of a stalker , everytime I was online he was popping up with a msg saying sweet things and complimenting. I didn't find him my type of guy but I enjoyed his attention. I was even rude few times and I was even shocked that he continued chatting with me .
I said to myself I need a friend at this point , someone to make me forget the Crab. ƒ slowly ,with persistence he got me interested to meet him . So I did. He is very polite , he introduced me to his coworkers and closed friends ( we are both working and living abroad ) and had a good time and got plenty of attention. Very hot in bed , we have great chemistry and kinda start to like him.
My problem is , everytime we are together he's perfect , then the next day he's aloof and looks like he needs his space . I don't like that . I told him already I'm used with a lot of attention , my exes were Cancer and Scorpio . I'M A PISCES .. lol I breath love .. I tend to msg him hot stuff , sexy words and he seems to like it but he is not entering the game and sometimes I feel like an idiot . Maybe because I was pushing him away few times and he doesn't trust me anymore. Maybe he thinks I'm playing with him . But that's my way , I'm nasty sometimes with ppl I like. Don't know why. I was so rude with him that one time he told me to leave his place . Then after couple of days I said sorry and he answered right back like nothing happened. He even cooked for me . Then he is getting cold again. WHY IS THAT —?
Now he is travelling back home for holidays and before he left he told me " don't go running off with some cute guy while I'm away".. I told him "I'm gonna miss u , I just want to get along and be good with each other".. and he said "yes , I'll miss u too "..
I am at the age that I want to settle down . Hes 36 , I'm 37 years old. But I feel we are acting like teenagers and we both keep cool and avoid to show our real self. He said he likes my sense of humor and my smart ass attitude and he misses our conversations (one time when I told him he's weird and I don't want to continue . )
What shall I do ? If I'm sweet and kind he seems to be cold , if I create drama he comes all nice and keeps it going. I'm tired. I just want him to be open with me.
Is that a typical Aqua man ? Is this a test ? It will get better ?
Thanks . I really need some answers from you guys . KISSES.
Miss L.

They're just like that. You'll learn that it has nothing to do with you. Continue to be confident and consistent.

Thank you for your answer @moon dust ..I'm sure Ur right , my problem is coming from my Virgo ascendant , that makes me inpatient and I want things to be perfect right here right now. . I need to know what my man is thinking .. I hate mystery .. I'm all fun and games until u ignore me . Then the other side of my personality comes out. •

*impatient I mean .. Š sorry English is not my first language

Ah, good ole Pisces and Aqua love 🙂

I've never been in a romantic relationship with a Pisces over time, (just a steamy hookup one time), but I am friends with both the guys and the girls, plus my sister is a Pisces. I have a lot of respect for them because they are intuitive and smart, at least the ones I am talking to.

Anyways, from what I've read about these two being in a relationship, for it to work out, the Aquarius needs to understand that Pisces women want a lot of closeness with their partner and Pisces should understand that Aqua needs space from time to time. As long as you can both address that and find a middle ground, and be happy with that middle ground, it has a chance.

Hope this makes sense.

Hahaha. .u should try a pisces .. we are definitely not someone u'll get bored with .. we can be hot and cold , silly , mature , casual , classy , dominant , submissive.. it's all about what u inspire us ..
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If aquarius likes you, YOU WILL KNOW! i mean if you can get past the fact that we are aloof and need space. if you can understand that part about us, then we will love you forever forever. if an aquarius cooks for you, be sure they are definitely into you, if they make time for you, call you, text you, want to breathe the air next to you, they like you

I know , I don't have doubt about it .. another question , his contract will be over in July and I'm a bit scared to get too attached , he will be back to the States and even tho he was joking few times of taking me in his luggage I think he's controlling his feelings same like I do , not to get too attached.maybe ... What are the chances to get so serious til summer to make it a permanent commitment ? Xx

From my experience with aqua it's definitely going to be different, my wife has a Venus in Pisces and she is extremely attached to me, and she was the same in past relationships as well but when they are over, there is no going back. If the push pull thing works in your situation you know what you need to do to get some attention, I think with aquas they dnt realize the significant other feel a certain away because they are focused on other tasks, and dnt mean to neglect you until you remind them ..hey right here remember me.

Aquarius women are totally different .. I have 2 best friends and my sister as well aquarius .. they are so sensitive and get upset very easily if I'm not there for them for example .. I'm also busy and have stuff to do , I need my space too but they are tekin it most of the times personal . AQUA ladies are very clingy . Men are totally different .. I was ditching my guy several times , canceling dates and changing my mind , he never had bad reaction. .