I want to blow his little Aquarian Mind

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Jade_Alexander on Thursday, March 14, 2019 and has 43 replies.
Not with sex, with intellectual stimulation, emotional intimacy and unpredictability.

I feek like I need to change things up and surprise him. Something fun that would be touching and unexpected!

What would you suggest?

Sun Aqua

Moon Libra

Venus Capricorn

Mars Aqua
Posted by GenerousLibra

How about just being you!
Eh that gets old. He knows me well enough. Time to shake things up, he needs a puzzle.
I’d pack some camping gear, pack the Aqua and head to a remote forest- take some shrooms, plenty of wine, plenty of cigarettes and just stay up all night talking ❤️
Posted by wagtail

I’d pack some camping gear, pack the Aqua and head to a remote forest- take some shrooms, plenty of wine, plenty of cigarettes and just stay up all night talking ❤️
You lost him at shrooms and cigarettes
Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by wagtail

I’d pack some camping gear, pack the Aqua and head to a remote forest- take some shrooms, plenty of wine, plenty of cigarettes and just stay up all night talking ❤️
You lost him at shrooms and cigarettes
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Dang welp camping is still the very bestest I’d find somewhere with a lookout and just cosy up for some stargazing lol
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Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by wagtail

I’d pack some camping gear, pack the Aqua and head to a remote forest- take some shrooms, plenty of wine, plenty of cigarettes and just stay up all night talking ❤️
You lost him at shrooms and cigarettes


Dang welp camping is still the very bestest I’d find somewhere with a lookout and just cosy up for some stargazing lol
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He likes the outdoors. Just not drugs of any sort. Doesnt appeal and doesnt react well to them.

But we have done outdoors stuff. Not new
Name some of his passions. What does he talk about most?
Posted by GenerousLibra

How about just being you!
Best advice I've heard so far.

Get creative with yourself first
Posted by STILL

Name some of his passions. What does he talk about most?
Loves books, anything intellectually stimulating.. music, art, MMA, Medical stuff
Damn that’s a lot of air
Posted by Sag898

Damn that’s a lot of air
Its the worst!

Althought my sun, moon, mercury are all air too
Posted by 777

Posted by GenerousLibra

How about just being you!
Best advice I've heard so far.

Get creative with yourself first
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I have already decided that I’m stagnate... time to change again...
Posted by wagtail

I’d pack some camping gear, pack the Aqua and head to a remote forest- take some shrooms, plenty of wine, plenty of cigarettes and just stay up all night talking ❤️
shrooms AND wine? I mean shrooms alone you're tripping!
Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by wagtail

I’d pack some camping gear, pack the Aqua and head to a remote forest- take some shrooms, plenty of wine, plenty of cigarettes and just stay up all night talking ❤️
shrooms AND wine? I mean shrooms alone you're tripping!
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Bless my tea kettle I wouldn’t kno tbhLaughing

Only tried once and it was minimal impact 🙏🏽
Posted by seraph

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Not with sex, with intellectual stimulation, emotional intimacy and unpredictability.

I feek like I need to change things up and surprise him. Something fun that would be touching and unexpected!

What would you suggest?

Sun Aqua

Moon Libra

Venus Capricorn

Mars Aqua
You’re not that intellectually stimulating

He doesn’t need a lot of emotional intimacy

Unpredictability can go both ways

Go with the sex.
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Interesting perspective considering I’m surrounded by Aquas.

Posted by Mariposa_

I agree with @seraph

Very few people can mentally and intellectually stimulate me, the reason for that? Because I can already figure them out. I tend to observe people a lot from afar. If an aqua wants to be around you 24/7, you got something going for you.

The signs to keep my brain running have been scorpios, Capricorn’s, and Virgos.



Ive been around for years.

He cant figure me out. That is what he enjoys. I manage to surprise him regularly. While he loves to observe me and watch me go.

What he enjoys is my tenderness. He is always drawn in my kind manner and respect. He mentions it often.

But I feel like we are in a rut.
Posted by LethalFantasia

Posted by wagtail

I’d pack some camping gear, pack the Aqua and head to a remote forest- take some shrooms, plenty of wine, plenty of cigarettes and just stay up all night talking ❤️


This is like the definition of a perfect date lmao
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We have already done camping under the stars...
Posted by LethalFantasia

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by LethalFantasia

Posted by wagtail

I’d pack some camping gear, pack the Aqua and head to a remote forest- take some shrooms, plenty of wine, plenty of cigarettes and just stay up all night talking ❤️


This is like the definition of a perfect date lmao
We have already done camping under the stars...


Ugh, romantic!
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It was special for sure.
Posted by Mariposa_

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Mariposa_

I agree with @seraph

Very few people can mentally and intellectually stimulate me, the reason for that? Because I can already figure them out. I tend to observe people a lot from afar. If an aqua wants to be around you 24/7, you got something going for you.

The signs to keep my brain running have been scorpios, Capricorn’s, and Virgos.



Ive been around for years.

He cant figure me out. That is what he enjoys. I manage to surprise him regularly. While he loves to observe me and watch me go.

What he enjoys is my tenderness. He is always drawn in my kind manner and respect. He mentions it often.

But I feel like we are in a rut.
If he can’t figure you out than wouldn’t he be more drawn to understanding you and not being stuck in this rut? Obviously something is missing.. lack of connection? Miscommunication? Not being on the same emotional or mental level?

It’s possible to be around for years and be close to someone but not really close. You’re still trying to figure him out even change yourself for that to happen. He knows what you’re doing.
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He enjoys that he cant pin me down. He doesnt need to understand me better, he knows me well enough. Not to mention both our lives are wver changing and we are growing as people.

You’re going too deep with it. I just want something fun to do. He has been insanely busy with work, I’ve had my own stuff. I just want to rock the boat with something fun and playful.

I change for myself only. I have felt stagnant for the last few months. But he is always excited when I do.
Posted by Mariposa_

From reading all your threads, this relationship seems very one sided, you’re placing effort, trying to place more effort, draw to him, etc. but he’s not reciprocating. He’s too busy with work, stressed, something..

As an aqua, when I love someone I MAKE the time for that person regardless of what my life is filled with. My aqua brother in law revolves my cancer sister around his whole life, always by her side.
We were more like that intially. Once he took on two other businesses he changed. Hes thrown himself into work.

I expect to come after the kids. But I dont want to compete with work.

I still see him regularly, he apologized for being distant and has been attentive since. But he isn’t available like he was.

I miss the before. When we were run away for the day. But he has serious debts to pay off and business to handle. I have to be empathetic to that as well.

I also stepped away from him. He came after me.
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Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Mariposa_

From reading all your threads, this relationship seems very one sided, you’re placing effort, trying to place more effort, draw to him, etc. but he’s not reciprocating. He’s too busy with work, stressed, something..

As an aqua, when I love someone I MAKE the time for that person regardless of what my life is filled with. My aqua brother in law revolves my cancer sister around his whole life, always by her side.
We were more like that intially. Once he took on two other businesses he changed. Hes thrown himself into work.

I expect to come after the kids. But I dont want to compete with work.

I still see him regularly, he apologized for being distant and has been attentive since. But he isn’t available like he was.

I miss the before. When we were run away for the day. But he has serious debts to pay off and business to handle. I have to be empathetic to that as well.

I also stepped away from him. He came after me.
You are not his concern right now, and in all your threads you seem unsatisfied.
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I’m not satisfied

He chased me dowm, arms open giving me the vulnerability and emotional intimacy I’ve wanted for years

Then work picked up in feb and I got pushed back. We talked about it and he has been good since. But I was completely neglected emotionally in my marriage. I am sensitive to it.
Posted by 2Moon

" bungee jumping, give him a blowjob in the air "
There is absolutely nothing that can wrong in this senario
Posted by Mariposa_

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Mariposa_

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Mariposa_

From reading all your threads, this relationship seems very one sided, you’re placing effort, trying to place more effort, draw to him, etc. but he’s not reciprocating. He’s too busy with work, stressed, something..

As an aqua, when I love someone I MAKE the time for that person regardless of what my life is filled with. My aqua brother in law revolves my cancer sister around his whole life, always by her side.
We were more like that intially. Once he took on two other businesses he changed. Hes thrown himself into work.

I expect to come after the kids. But I dont want to compete with work.

I still see him regularly, he apologized for being distant and has been attentive since. But he isn’t available like he was.

I miss the before. When we were run away for the day. But he has serious debts to pay off and business to handle. I have to be empathetic to that as well.

I also stepped away from him. He came after me.
You are not his concern right now, and in all your threads you seem unsatisfied.
I’m not satisfied

He chased me dowm, arms open giving me the vulnerability and emotional intimacy I’ve wanted for years

Then work picked up in feb and I got pushed back. We talked about it and he has been good since. But I was completely neglected emotionally in my marriage. I am sensitive to it.
How much more will you take crumbs from someone who finds money/business more important? Because I know I couldn’t.. and don’t get me wrong, I’m very ambitious independent woman but a true bonded relationship takes effort on both parts, complete loyalty, and consideration.

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This is a new dynamic between us. He was working part time intially. So I’m having to take this in since we reconnected. Before it came on waves and he would warn me.

Now its just how he is. This was his focus and goal and everything he has worked for in the last two years.

I do believe his aloof personality was a major issue in his marriage. He is trying to work past it but doesnt see when he pulls away.

I wonder what woukd happen if i had the balls to actually say what I feel?
Start watching acient aliens together 😂 I love it
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This is probably the best suggestion on here...

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Posted by Jade_Alexander

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Posted by Jade_Alexander

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Start watching acient aliens together 😂 I love it
This is probably the best suggestion on here...

Hahahaha
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I think having someone to share your quirks is what relationships are all about.

Sex is important but its these little moments.... thats where you add value.
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Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by AquaNextDoor

Start watching acient aliens together 😂 I love it
This is probably the best suggestion on here...

Hahahaha
I‘m all over ancient aliens 😂
I think having someone to share your quirks is what relationships are all about.

Sex is important but its these little moments.... thats where you add value.
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Exactly 🙏🏼


There are cultural institutions in germany,

who do a lot of events even free ones.

Do you have that?


Aquas like fringe activities, i ve heard of an aqua who goes to lockpickenthuasist meet ups.

I would just try new stuff i get into new ideas and topics by podcasts esspecially the tim ferriss show cause he interviews people feom all industries.

Posted by Parkourler

There are cultural institutions in germany,

who do a lot of events even free ones.

Do you have that?


Aquas like fringe activities, i ve heard of an aqua who goes to lockpickenthuasist meet ups.

I would just try new stuff i get into new ideas and topics by podcasts esspecially the tim ferriss show cause he interviews people feom all industries.

He is a Tim Ferriss fan

We pick locks for fun
Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by Parkourler

There are cultural institutions in germany,

who do a lot of events even free ones.

Do you have that?


Aquas like fringe activities, i ve heard of an aqua who goes to lockpickenthuasist meet ups.

I would just try new stuff i get into new ideas and topics by podcasts esspecially the tim ferriss show cause he interviews people feom all industries.

He is a Tim Ferriss fan

We pick locks for fun
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I am. You do.
Posted by GenerousLibra

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by GenerousLibra

How about just being you!
Eh that gets old. He knows me well enough. Time to shake things up, he needs a puzzle.


I didn't mean anything mean by that, it just seems like you're over focusing on him rather to shake things up with you, I know we love to satisfy our partners but sometimes we miss out the whole point.

I read you used the word stagnant to describe your current state of mind, why don't you try sth new just for yourself sth refreshing, and go talk to him about the whole new experience ... Maybe erotic dancing maybe belly dancing or whatever makes you energized and stimulating again.
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I like this advice. I think this would intrigue him and give you something to talk about
Tell him you use to be a man and watch his head explode.
Platinum blonde wig Jade and talk dirty.
Posted by AerialView

Platinum blonde wig Jade and talk dirty.
My hair is platinum blonde
Im already bored of all this.


I decided to juat go have an adventure

Hes busy with work and I’m bored in general

So I’m enjoying spring with my friends and taking in the season.

He can catch up later
Posted by Jade_Alexander

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Platinum blonde wig Jade and talk dirty.
My hair is platinum blonde
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Red wig then. You have short hair if I remember correctly.
Posted by Jade_Alexander

Im already bored of all this.


I decided to juat go have an adventure

Hes busy with work and I’m bored in general

So I’m enjoying spring with my friends and taking in the season.

He can catch up later


It’s your moon.

I am sure he is happy about you. You are overthinking your relationship.

Have fun without him 😊
Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Im already bored of all this.


I decided to juat go have an adventure

Hes busy with work and I’m bored in general

So I’m enjoying spring with my friends and taking in the season.

He can catch up later


It’s your moon.

I am sure he is happy about you. You are overthinking your relationship.

Have fun without him 😊
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Oh I’m sure he is fine. Im the bored one.

Spring really triggers my restlessness. I need space to breathe and explore and be active.

He is busy, so he cant join. I wish he could. I miss those days. But my soul cant sit much longer.
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Posted by Jade_Alexander

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Platinum blonde wig Jade and talk dirty.
My hair is platinum blonde
Red wig then. You have short hair if I remember correctly.
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Hair is longer now. Actually thinking of going red this month. My hair is like my moods... ever changing
Posted by HearttofTopazz

Easy.

Ignore him 😂
Omg this would probably work... after like a week...

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Im already bored of all this.


I decided to juat go have an adventure

Hes busy with work and I’m bored in general

So I’m enjoying spring with my friends and taking in the season.

He can catch up later


It’s your moon.

I am sure he is happy about you. You are overthinking your relationship.

Have fun without him 😊
Oh I’m sure he is fine. Im the bored one.

Spring really triggers my restlessness. I need space to breathe and explore and be active.

He is busy, so he cant join. I wish he could. I miss those days. But my soul cant sit much longer.
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It’s good 😄 I am sure you will feel so much better after and he may even miss you and want that energy
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Platinum blonde wig Jade and talk dirty.
My hair is platinum blonde
Red wig then. You have short hair if I remember correctly.
My hair is like my moods... ever changing
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I'm not surprised by that.