Posted by GenerousLibraEh that gets old. He knows me well enough. Time to shake things up, he needs a puzzle.
How about just being you!
Posted by wagtailYou lost him at shrooms and cigarettes
I’d pack some camping gear, pack the Aqua and head to a remote forest- take some shrooms, plenty of wine, plenty of cigarettes and just stay up all night talking ❤️
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by wagtailYou lost him at shrooms and cigarettes
I’d pack some camping gear, pack the Aqua and head to a remote forest- take some shrooms, plenty of wine, plenty of cigarettes and just stay up all night talking ❤️click to expand
Posted by wagtailHe likes the outdoors. Just not drugs of any sort. Doesnt appeal and doesnt react well to them.Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by wagtailYou lost him at shrooms and cigarettes
I’d pack some camping gear, pack the Aqua and head to a remote forest- take some shrooms, plenty of wine, plenty of cigarettes and just stay up all night talking ❤️
Dang welp camping is still the very bestest I’d find somewhere with a lookout and just cosy up for some stargazing lolclick to expand
Posted by GenerousLibraBest advice I've heard so far.
How about just being you!
Posted by STILLLoves books, anything intellectually stimulating.. music, art, MMA, Medical stuff
Name some of his passions. What does he talk about most?
Posted by Sag898Its the worst!
Damn that’s a lot of air
Posted by 777I have already decided that I’m stagnate... time to change again...Posted by GenerousLibraBest advice I've heard so far.
How about just being you!
Get creative with yourself firstclick to expand
Posted by wagtailshrooms AND wine? I mean shrooms alone you're tripping!
I’d pack some camping gear, pack the Aqua and head to a remote forest- take some shrooms, plenty of wine, plenty of cigarettes and just stay up all night talking ❤️
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by wagtailshrooms AND wine? I mean shrooms alone you're tripping!
I’d pack some camping gear, pack the Aqua and head to a remote forest- take some shrooms, plenty of wine, plenty of cigarettes and just stay up all night talking ❤️click to expand
Posted by seraphInteresting perspective considering I’m surrounded by Aquas.Posted by Jade_AlexanderYou’re not that intellectually stimulating
Not with sex, with intellectual stimulation, emotional intimacy and unpredictability.
I feek like I need to change things up and surprise him. Something fun that would be touching and unexpected!
What would you suggest?
Sun Aqua
Moon Libra
Venus Capricorn
Mars Aqua
He doesn’t need a lot of emotional intimacy
Unpredictability can go both ways
Go with the sex.click to expand
Posted by Mariposa_
I agree with @seraph
Very few people can mentally and intellectually stimulate me, the reason for that? Because I can already figure them out. I tend to observe people a lot from afar. If an aqua wants to be around you 24/7, you got something going for you.
The signs to keep my brain running have been scorpios, Capricorn’s, and Virgos.
Posted by LethalFantasiaWe have already done camping under the stars...Posted by wagtail
I’d pack some camping gear, pack the Aqua and head to a remote forest- take some shrooms, plenty of wine, plenty of cigarettes and just stay up all night talking ❤️
This is like the definition of a perfect date lmaoclick to expand
Posted by LethalFantasiaIt was special for sure.Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by LethalFantasiaWe have already done camping under the stars...Posted by wagtail
I’d pack some camping gear, pack the Aqua and head to a remote forest- take some shrooms, plenty of wine, plenty of cigarettes and just stay up all night talking ❤️
This is like the definition of a perfect date lmao
Ugh, romantic!click to expand
Posted by Mariposa_He enjoys that he cant pin me down. He doesnt need to understand me better, he knows me well enough. Not to mention both our lives are wver changing and we are growing as people.Posted by Jade_AlexanderIf he can’t figure you out than wouldn’t he be more drawn to understanding you and not being stuck in this rut? Obviously something is missing.. lack of connection? Miscommunication? Not being on the same emotional or mental level?Posted by Mariposa_
I agree with @seraph
Very few people can mentally and intellectually stimulate me, the reason for that? Because I can already figure them out. I tend to observe people a lot from afar. If an aqua wants to be around you 24/7, you got something going for you.
The signs to keep my brain running have been scorpios, Capricorn’s, and Virgos.
Ive been around for years.
He cant figure me out. That is what he enjoys. I manage to surprise him regularly. While he loves to observe me and watch me go.
What he enjoys is my tenderness. He is always drawn in my kind manner and respect. He mentions it often.
But I feel like we are in a rut.
It’s possible to be around for years and be close to someone but not really close. You’re still trying to figure him out even change yourself for that to happen. He knows what you’re doing.click to expand
Posted by Mariposa_We were more like that intially. Once he took on two other businesses he changed. Hes thrown himself into work.
From reading all your threads, this relationship seems very one sided, you’re placing effort, trying to place more effort, draw to him, etc. but he’s not reciprocating. He’s too busy with work, stressed, something..
As an aqua, when I love someone I MAKE the time for that person regardless of what my life is filled with. My aqua brother in law revolves my cancer sister around his whole life, always by her side.
Posted by Mariposa_I’m not satisfiedPosted by Jade_AlexanderYou are not his concern right now, and in all your threads you seem unsatisfied.Posted by Mariposa_We were more like that intially. Once he took on two other businesses he changed. Hes thrown himself into work.
From reading all your threads, this relationship seems very one sided, you’re placing effort, trying to place more effort, draw to him, etc. but he’s not reciprocating. He’s too busy with work, stressed, something..
As an aqua, when I love someone I MAKE the time for that person regardless of what my life is filled with. My aqua brother in law revolves my cancer sister around his whole life, always by her side.
I expect to come after the kids. But I dont want to compete with work.
I still see him regularly, he apologized for being distant and has been attentive since. But he isn’t available like he was.
I miss the before. When we were run away for the day. But he has serious debts to pay off and business to handle. I have to be empathetic to that as well.
I also stepped away from him. He came after me.click to expand
Posted by 2MoonThere is absolutely nothing that can wrong in this senario
" bungee jumping, give him a blowjob in the air "
Posted by Mariposa_This is a new dynamic between us. He was working part time intially. So I’m having to take this in since we reconnected. Before it came on waves and he would warn me.Posted by Jade_AlexanderHow much more will you take crumbs from someone who finds money/business more important? Because I know I couldn’t.. and don’t get me wrong, I’m very ambitious independent woman but a true bonded relationship takes effort on both parts, complete loyalty, and consideration.Posted by Mariposa_I’m not satisfiedPosted by Jade_AlexanderYou are not his concern right now, and in all your threads you seem unsatisfied.Posted by Mariposa_We were more like that intially. Once he took on two other businesses he changed. Hes thrown himself into work.
From reading all your threads, this relationship seems very one sided, you’re placing effort, trying to place more effort, draw to him, etc. but he’s not reciprocating. He’s too busy with work, stressed, something..
As an aqua, when I love someone I MAKE the time for that person regardless of what my life is filled with. My aqua brother in law revolves my cancer sister around his whole life, always by her side.
I expect to come after the kids. But I dont want to compete with work.
I still see him regularly, he apologized for being distant and has been attentive since. But he isn’t available like he was.
I miss the before. When we were run away for the day. But he has serious debts to pay off and business to handle. I have to be empathetic to that as well.
I also stepped away from him. He came after me.
He chased me dowm, arms open giving me the vulnerability and emotional intimacy I’ve wanted for years
Then work picked up in feb and I got pushed back. We talked about it and he has been good since. But I was completely neglected emotionally in my marriage. I am sensitive to it.click to expand
Posted by AquaNextDoorThis is probably the best suggestion on here...
Start watching acient aliens together 😂 I love it
Posted by Jade_AlexanderI‘m all over ancient aliens 😂Posted by AquaNextDoorThis is probably the best suggestion on here...
Start watching acient aliens together 😂 I love it
Hahahahaclick to expand
Posted by AquaNextDoorI think having someone to share your quirks is what relationships are all about.Posted by Jade_AlexanderI‘m all over ancient aliens 😂Posted by AquaNextDoorThis is probably the best suggestion on here...
Start watching acient aliens together 😂 I love it
Hahahahaclick to expand
Posted by Jade_AlexanderExactly 🙏🏼Posted by AquaNextDoorI think having someone to share your quirks is what relationships are all about.Posted by Jade_AlexanderI‘m all over ancient aliens 😂Posted by AquaNextDoorThis is probably the best suggestion on here...
Start watching acient aliens together 😂 I love it
Hahahaha
Sex is important but its these little moments.... thats where you add value.click to expand
Posted by ParkourlerHe is a Tim Ferriss fan
There are cultural institutions in germany,
who do a lot of events even free ones.
Do you have that?
Aquas like fringe activities, i ve heard of an aqua who goes to lockpickenthuasist meet ups.
I would just try new stuff i get into new ideas and topics by podcasts esspecially the tim ferriss show cause he interviews people feom all industries.
Posted by Jade_AlexanderI am. You do.Posted by ParkourlerHe is a Tim Ferriss fan
There are cultural institutions in germany,
who do a lot of events even free ones.
Do you have that?
Aquas like fringe activities, i ve heard of an aqua who goes to lockpickenthuasist meet ups.
I would just try new stuff i get into new ideas and topics by podcasts esspecially the tim ferriss show cause he interviews people feom all industries.
We pick locks for funclick to expand
Posted by GenerousLibraI like this advice. I think this would intrigue him and give you something to talk aboutPosted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by GenerousLibraEh that gets old. He knows me well enough. Time to shake things up, he needs a puzzle.
How about just being you!
I didn't mean anything mean by that, it just seems like you're over focusing on him rather to shake things up with you, I know we love to satisfy our partners but sometimes we miss out the whole point.
I read you used the word stagnant to describe your current state of mind, why don't you try sth new just for yourself sth refreshing, and go talk to him about the whole new experience ... Maybe erotic dancing maybe belly dancing or whatever makes you energized and stimulating again.click to expand
Posted by AerialViewMy hair is platinum blonde
Platinum blonde wig Jade and talk dirty.
Posted by Jade_AlexanderRed wig then. You have short hair if I remember correctly.Posted by AerialViewMy hair is platinum blonde
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Posted by Jade_Alexander
Im already bored of all this.
I decided to juat go have an adventure
Hes busy with work and I’m bored in general
So I’m enjoying spring with my friends and taking in the season.
He can catch up later
Posted by pisceswoman123Oh I’m sure he is fine. Im the bored one.Posted by Jade_Alexander
Im already bored of all this.
I decided to juat go have an adventure
Hes busy with work and I’m bored in general
So I’m enjoying spring with my friends and taking in the season.
He can catch up later
It’s your moon.
I am sure he is happy about you. You are overthinking your relationship.
Have fun without him 😊click to expand
Posted by AerialViewHair is longer now. Actually thinking of going red this month. My hair is like my moods... ever changingPosted by Jade_AlexanderRed wig then. You have short hair if I remember correctly.Posted by AerialViewMy hair is platinum blonde
Platinum blonde wig Jade and talk dirty.click to expand
Posted by HearttofTopazzOmg this would probably work... after like a week...
Easy.
Ignore him 😂
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by pisceswoman123Oh I’m sure he is fine. Im the bored one.Posted by Jade_Alexander
Im already bored of all this.
I decided to juat go have an adventure
Hes busy with work and I’m bored in general
So I’m enjoying spring with my friends and taking in the season.
He can catch up later
It’s your moon.
I am sure he is happy about you. You are overthinking your relationship.
Have fun without him 😊
Spring really triggers my restlessness. I need space to breathe and explore and be active.
He is busy, so he cant join. I wish he could. I miss those days. But my soul cant sit much longer.click to expand
Posted by Jade_AlexanderI'm not surprised by that.Posted by AerialViewMy hair is like my moods... ever changingPosted by Jade_AlexanderRed wig then. You have short hair if I remember correctly.Posted by AerialViewMy hair is platinum blonde
Platinum blonde wig Jade and talk dirty.click to expand