If everything had a face right now...

I would punch it.

But then I would probably end up punching my own face.

/rant over

Is there a particular face you are looking for? Hmmmm?

Here, aquasnoz.

Punch it to your heart's content!

Posted by xdimplez

Posted by BlueSandCacoon
Here, aquasnoz.

Punch it to your heart's content!

DONT PUNCH THE KITTY KITTY!

go for a run, release the endorphins...itll make you feel better. and once you are calm..your DXP buddies to be here to be your listening ear and shoulder to hang on

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Don't they say that a kitty can take a beating? Or something like that? :s

I love kitties. They fulfill all of my fisting fantasies.

Always happy to help a brother. Be not afraid, aquasnoz. :]

ROFL.

I like bread.

*hands you some bandaids and a bag of ice*

Just in case....









*hugs*

Damn you scared the kitties away. You left me nothing to play with... 😢

Posted by xdimplez

Posted by BlueSandCacoon
Damn you scared the kitties away. You left me nothing to play with... 😢

haha this matches your avi pic

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Yeah, I guess. Will have to stick with 2D for now.

Just one of those days I guess. Plus Stoic's riddle has managed to calmed me down because now I'm boggling my mind over it. — to you all.

Long story short someone from the past has resurfaced to take another stab at me 😛 And she has threatened legal actions to the custody of my child. MINE.. not hers.. so to that I say bitch bring it on.

Posted by libraCUSPscorpio
CAN I HAZ BREADS?!?

I GIVES YOU BREAD. ALL OF THE BREADS

Lmao @ this thread. I hope you're feeling better now, aquasnoz. Dont punch anything or anyone lol, not worth it.

@WC: Don't worry I'm too much of a wuss to punch anything these days. Apologies for the outburst! Even I can be fragile and there's just really no one I can rely on so I've selfishly taken it out on DXP 😛 I just needed to get my head straight after all that.

@Libby: — and you know I'm here whenever.

Question to ponder: Maybe I am selfish in keeping her to myself and maybe this is out of self-defense I'm lashing out because I find stability in caring for her. Or maybe I never got over the fact someone whom I loved dearly would just up and leave like that.

Posted by aquasnoz
Question to ponder: Maybe I am selfish in keeping her to myself and maybe this is out of self-defense I'm lashing out because I find stability in caring for her. Or maybe I never got over the fact someone whom I loved dearly would just up and leave like that.

Some excellent introspective thoughts here. As you attempt to understand these, so, too, will you come to understand yourself more fully.

YOU CAN PUNCH THIS FLOATING STALKING PENIS FOR ME!

haha is that you!? Do a split! I'd be happy to punch that stalking penis for you!

Posted by aquasnoz
haha is that you!? Do a split! I'd be happy to punch that stalking penis for you!

Lulz. Yarz, that's mean. My mom super rediculous, "now do a split up in the air" Really? I can barely even do a front handspring.

@neenz: Dudette that's a way better effort than I can pull off haha! I'd probably faceplant the trampoline and fall off and breaking every bone in the process haha!

@dimpz: Thanks! I doubt myself often but I've been worried about my kid not having a mother figure in her life for a while. With this recent thing thrown in the picture, even though I'd like to punch some faces... I don't know whether I should share custody. All little girls grow up eventually and this one certainly did grow up in a blink.

Sigh I'll ask her tomorrow what she thinks or at least hint at the possibility.

Eww, sucky events are happening. Don't like 😢

Stay strong Aquanoz,

Posted by aquasnoz
@neenz: Dudette that's a way better effort than I can pull off haha! I'd probably faceplant the trampoline and fall off and breaking every bone in the process haha!

@dimpz: Thanks! I doubt myself often but I've been worried about my kid not having a mother figure in her life for a while. With this recent thing thrown in the picture, even though I'd like to punch some faces... I don't know whether I should share custody. All little girls grow up eventually and this one certainly did grow up in a blink.

Sigh I'll ask her tomorrow what she thinks or at least hint at the possibility.

*hugs* @Aquanoz. I'm sorry you have to go through this mess. Hang in there and fight for what you think is best for your child. I went through something similar to what you're going through so I feel your pain and agony. Don't give up.

dimpz I wish I could answer you but I haven't worked it out fully in my head let alone sort through all the emotions so I'll try my best.

The evil bitch who up and left gave me no reason. All she did was leave me with the one thing that I've come to cherish and love the most and taught me how to love and live again. No one is going to take that away and I don't care if she has good motives or not if she wants her spot she needs to earn it.

Aisling (my baby girl) turned 4 this year. When Dani left and went back to Germany I think we both felt this void and I think it's one of the biggest mistake I've made. In being selfish and pursuing what I wanted I had neglected the fact that I've hurt two hearts in the process, for that I'm stupid.

I can't say for certain Ais looked to Dani as a mother figure but for those few months they developed a bond and even now Ais constantly asks me when we'll be going over to Germany to see her. We still keep in contact via Skype sorta working out the kinks and trying to make a solid plan but I just don't want to promise Ais anything.

On a mental level I think Ais is ready her mind seems more mature and able to handle these things but I just don't know the right way of approaching this or if there ever IS a right way of approaching this.

well the child needs both parents. Sorry you are going through tough times with your baby. Parents need to work together.

I have hinted on previous occasions. Thing is I don't think she's ready and just given her age I don't want to force it unnecessarily. Just with this whole challenge of custody thrown in the mix there's that urgency to get the point across more so than before.

usually when a parent doesn't allow another to see their child, (unless of course the parent is a criminal/pedophile or something really really bad), it's because the parent is taking revenge. Revenge so that you can suffer. You shall suffer for making her suffer (Yeah it's sick, but the child is always the one who is suffering the MOST)
😢

That might be true but I don't see any reason I should trust someone who would disappear for no reason for the better part of 4 years without a single phone call. How safe do I feel sharing or giving custody to someone who just disappeared? I have faith in people but she hasn't made a single attempt at communicating normally with us.

She's spoken to me personally but still refuse to see Ais for that matter. How can I trust someone like that? I'm not saying she can't see Ais she has every right to but her way of approaching it is throwing ALL trust out the window.

What a load of absolute shite! He isnt looking for revenge..he is protecting his child from instability, confusion, abandonment.

Posted by aquasnoz
That might be true but I don't see any reason I should trust someone who would disappear for no reason for the better part of 4 years without a single phone call. How safe do I feel sharing or giving custody to someone who just disappeared? I have faith in people but she hasn't made a single attempt at communicating normally with us.

She's spoken to me personally but still refuse to see Ais for that matter. How can I trust someone like that? I'm not saying she can't see Ais she has every right to but her way of approaching it is throwing ALL trust out the window.

sounds like she doesn't care. I've heard of women like that all the time, via my aries sister who works in social care for abused and mistreated children. Children are the ones always suffering. It's so sad.
I understand completely your concerns. Counseling would be the only option, since it doesn't sound like you both will be able to do any compromising. Sometimes, in these cases, because both parents are too stubborn or have had a long history of bad connection, the courts will take care of it. If there is no reasonable way for both of you to take responsibility into your own hands, then the courts will do it for you.

Well there's another thing I dread! Hopefully it wouldn't come to that but one can only hope the justice system can be sensible on that part.

Posted by aquasnoz
Well there's another thing I dread! Hopefully it wouldn't come to that but one can only hope the justice system can be sensible on that part.

if you trust your justice system, everything should be ok. They are usually sensible and consider both parents.

Yeah totally! I've contacted her to talk about things, no reply yet but basically said I'd rather talk things through because I'm willing to give her that chance. Though I won't deny I don't trust her.

Well I don't know what's more overwhelming at the moment. I have spoken to her since and in her words she is concerned about the state or the environment I'm raising Ais. All if fair enough and I just needed to think this through after things got a bit heated.

She still hasn't expressed why she's come back (and yes Ultra it is the Libra Ex), she's been dealing with me more specifically and it's been making sense so far. If I am to be fair or to rationalise it all perhaps she might be too proud to admit she does care? I don't know but these are merely speculation.

I can't provide Ais with a normal family and this isn't putting myself down, this is fact. I think I might've been speaking out of fear and anger before but I think my points remain valid. What her mum can provide her with is sound financial support from her side of the family and family members for that matter.

Those were the principles for looking after her because I wanted her to feel loved and not grow up semi-hating the world like I did. This is where I can make sense if I was being selfish. Whatever it is though we're making progress and I just need swallow a bit of my pride.

lol can you just clone yourself and send a copy over. I can use a mum friend!

Hmmmmmmmm.....

poke it
punch it
stare at it till it asks "what are you staring at"
put my finger close to its cheek and wait for it to ask "what are you doing?"
"Not touching you"
"stop not touching me" and then touch it
look deep into its eyes and say some corny lines and see if it blushes
pick its nose
look up its nose and say "you got a booger"
smack its face and yell "SO THIS IS WHERE YOU HAVE BEEN?"
Put my finger by its lips and wiggle it making it go "wabwbwabwbawabwba"
have a staring contest with it
ask "Why do you have a big forehead?"
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hehehehehe