Im new to the Aquarius world

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by libradreams on Monday, July 31, 2006 and has 14 replies.
Hello
I need some advise. Im new to meeting Aquarius men and I am falling for one big time. He has all the usual Aquarius trait (very busy, exclusive, private, doesnt talk about his feel much) now when we do get together he makes me feel very special and he act like he likes me alot. He says things to me like "Are you going to help me decorate my place for the holiday" or "a woman has to be special if i let her touch my bass (he place bass guitar). I've never done that til now now i know everyone in the band is going to want to meet you" He has been inviting me to go see him play, but i havent made it yet. One the other hand he will go days without calling me or answering my call. He apologizes and say he's had alot on his mind and he's not use to sharing or dealing with anyone when he like that. This leave me confused am I special or am I not. So my question to the group is Does he like me or just being a Aquairus? How can I tell if Im specail to him or is this how he treat all his friends? Does he have other firend like me (we do have a sexual relationship as well) and my last question, what can I do to get this man to fall for me as much as i've fallen for him (I do believe im in love) (no libra cracks on that comment...lol)
Please enlighten me. By the way I am a Libra.
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I have asked him...he say yes more then I know. but his action sometimes...to not answer my calls or messages, well its hard to believe sometimes
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oh ok thanks for the advise. a couple more questions should I just chill and pretend he doesnt exist, should i tell him how i feel? do i contact him at all when he gets like this or will he think all of this attention is annoying?
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well thanks for all your advise. i'm really diggin this man and I dont want to mess things up with him
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what do you mean "sorta got it right" please add anything that will help me.
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oh ok i can wait...im learning patients dealing with my Aquarius smile
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You have a similar problem to another lady on here that had a man that's doing the same thing to her, who is also an aquarian...and I guess I'll just recycle my knowledge, yes, he's acting like a true aquarian. He will give you the world while he's with you, but his aquarian blood keeps his full attention on one thing at a time, and this is the reason he hardly calls or answers your call. It could also be the fact that we hate to be smothered, AND that he wants to give ALL of himself to you, instead of giving from a distance, all aquarian attributes. I think that...yeah, he's really into you, just be patient and don't give up on him because aquarians can show you the greatest love, or the most painful heartbreak. I'm a TRUE aquarian, and I see the aquarian attitude in him. Good luck though, it will be a hard fight to tie him down to you though...us wind elements are quite breezy and unattached when it comes to relationships...
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Thank you for that info. I guess i'm also deal with a true Aquarius. There is something about you guys. any advise BigD56 on how I may tie him down. I dont want to smother him, or stop him from being him. I just want to love him, experience him and learn him. See I'm also an air sign and I value and treasure the freedom of the spirit. It will be refreshing to be with such a honest, real, secure and free brother.
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Well...that's cool that you think this is a good thing, because most people take our 'free spirits' too seriously, and tend to think that we are soo unattached that we really don't know what we want. I think in order to totally win him over is to not be too selfish with him, compliment him on his success and let him know that you got his back on what he has is eyes on to accomplish. Personally, I too am a pretty busy young man, and I just love the fact that when things get hectic and tight, I have someone I care about right there encouraging me, even if she's miles away. Of course I'll tell her that her support is SOO much appreciated over the phone, but I'd prefer to show her face to face, and that's probably where me and your boyfriend are linked at. I think this will encourage him to shower you with love whenever he comes around you!
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I'm sorry, but I just realized that you are a Libra...(Laughs in pure stupidity). I should have given you some tips on that, too. My first love was acutally a libra, and I've been with her for 4 years! I've noticed, just like every other libra I know, she just couldn't live without someone there with her, she was soo friend oriented about everything she did. This also could be a girl thing, but I even have male libras that act the same way. What I mean is, she couldn't help but to tell her friends EVERYTHING ABOUT US!!! If I go to her house, she is more her if she has a couple of friends over. I'm guessing that for libras, they feel more themselves if they balance themseles out with other people (This is also what I've heard). This isn't a negative for aquarians, but we just don't like too much drama when it comes to our lovers, and I'm not saying that you act accordingly like a libra, but if you tend to mouth off a lot to your friends about your relationship with him and your friends would tell him about it, chances are he won't like it a whole lot. Besides this, I loved the way she lived her life...soo outgoing, secure, and true, I personally think that wind types are the best when it comes to showing that they care about you and your feelings...
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I have a Scorpio rising and a couple other planets that keep me from mouthing off too much as you say. My friendships are few and pure. Most of my closest dearest friends are male, so i not one to have alot going on at my crib. I have learn to be patient and quiet with my new friend. Allowing him to do the things he has to do, being here when he does come up for air and trying to become his haven. Somewhere to go when he want to relax, have good conversation, be himself. Im also learning not to take his disappearing personally. I want to believe him at his word. It hard sometimes because I love being around him so much, but I understand that if i care about him I care about him for who he is, and this is a part of him. Althought he's not my boyfriend yet and we are estashblishing a relationship, I believe him when he says that no one has been this close to him in awhile and it going to take him some time to get use to. The times we are together is so good that i cant be mad at him, just thankful for another moment. He say he doesnt want to be around me when he has alot on his mind or going on because he wants to be able to focus just on me...i can appreciate that.
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This is my first Aquarius experience and it has been very interesting. I hope for this to be a long and beautiful ride. I understand so much yet know so little. He tells me he's a simple man. NOt alot to try and figure out, yet I feel he holds in so much. Im a open person, with love with conversation with ideas. Althoughwe can talk about everything, I still feel there's so much more I dont know.
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Libradreams..im in exactly the same position as you. Im not yet exclusively dating an aqua man, but already its been the best connection of my life. I just wonder if he knows what im feeling? I hope so because i'll never tell him in case i scare him away. Im also Libra..what are we like??
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prime-your posts make me feel very clear& contentWinking
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