trashit0
@trashit0
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I'm so detached yet I feel so deeply...why, why, why?
you have way too much air that's why you're detached.
go to cafeastrology and google, air domiannt...
and also astrotheme has this..
https://www.astrotheme.com/astrological_elements_fire_air_earth_water.php
you have a hard time commitin to someone.
http://astroasteria.com/post/130307761590/finding-your-dominant-planets
but honestly detachment is what Linda Goodman said...
you forget things...
you leave the bread out forget the laundry, forget stuff,...that IS detachment...just as linda goodman said.
i dont so much as i only have that one air. and i am already committed.
i'm also learning so maybe if you do your research you'll learn more about yourself.
go to cafeastrology and google, air domiannt...
and also astrotheme has this..
https://www.astrotheme.com/astrological_elements_fire_air_earth_water.php
you have a hard time commitin to someone.
http://astroasteria.com/post/130307761590/finding-your-dominant-planets
but honestly detachment is what Linda Goodman said...
you forget things...
you leave the bread out forget the laundry, forget stuff,...that IS detachment...just as linda goodman said.
i dont so much as i only have that one air. and i am already committed.
i'm also learning so maybe if you do your research you'll learn more about yourself.
Thank you lisabethur8! This gives me a good starting point.
here is an EXCELLENT one...
https://evolutioncounseling.com/detached-personality/
We all know people in our lives who are detached. They tend to have trouble accessing or experiencing emotions. Some of the character traits present in a person like this are emphasis on independence, the fear of joining or being a part of groups, and aversion towards intimate relationships where opening up is so important.
Someone who is emotionally detached will usually bounce from one relationship to the next, invariably distancing himself when threatened with increasing emotional closeness from his partner. Although we usually tend to think of males as those who have trouble accessing their emotions, the underlying character structure that leads to psychological detachment can manifest itself just as easily in females."
you would have a hard time experiencing emotions and being in a commitment.
there is hope though, so maybe there are ways to help you focus. meditation and yoga for one for an air domiannt chart.
many air dominant peeps are single for this reason.
https://evolutioncounseling.com/detached-personality/
We all know people in our lives who are detached. They tend to have trouble accessing or experiencing emotions. Some of the character traits present in a person like this are emphasis on independence, the fear of joining or being a part of groups, and aversion towards intimate relationships where opening up is so important.
Someone who is emotionally detached will usually bounce from one relationship to the next, invariably distancing himself when threatened with increasing emotional closeness from his partner. Although we usually tend to think of males as those who have trouble accessing their emotions, the underlying character structure that leads to psychological detachment can manifest itself just as easily in females."
you would have a hard time experiencing emotions and being in a commitment.
there is hope though, so maybe there are ways to help you focus. meditation and yoga for one for an air domiannt chart.
many air dominant peeps are single for this reason.
@lisabethur8
Thank you so much for pulling this up. The thing is though I am very connected to my emotions. In fact, I see myself as a very emotional and sensitive person. If I feel a true, deep attraction and connection, I have no problem with commitment. But people can't see my emotion. They think that I don't feel a thing. I don't understand that about myself. How I can be so detached yet so attached. It's weird. I wanna blame my air dominance with a Pisces venus...what do you think?
Haha so funny. I practice meditation and yoga. I think it actually helps me not be AS emotional.
What sign dominates your chart?
Thank you so much for pulling this up. The thing is though I am very connected to my emotions. In fact, I see myself as a very emotional and sensitive person. If I feel a true, deep attraction and connection, I have no problem with commitment. But people can't see my emotion. They think that I don't feel a thing. I don't understand that about myself. How I can be so detached yet so attached. It's weird. I wanna blame my air dominance with a Pisces venus...what do you think?
Haha so funny. I practice meditation and yoga. I think it actually helps me not be AS emotional.
What sign dominates your chart?
First thing that came to my mind is also the amount of Air :-)
You can also get a mini report here: https://vt.clairvision.org/astro/switchboard?as_sescode=ZpkEAxEmSPZn&tg=GotoFrontpage
You can also get a mini report here: https://vt.clairvision.org/astro/switchboard?as_sescode=ZpkEAxEmSPZn&tg=GotoFrontpage
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@lisabethur8
Thank you so much for pulling this up. The thing is though I am very connected to my emotions. In fact, I see myself as a very emotional and sensitive person. If I feel a true, deep attraction and connection, I have no problem with commitment. But people can't see my emotion. They think that I don't feel a thing. I don't understand that about myself. How I can be so detached yet so attached. It's weird. I wanna blame my air dominance with a Pisces venus...what do you think?
Haha so funny. I practice meditation and yoga. I think it actually helps me not be AS emotional.
What sign dominates your chart?
you find yourself emotional but are you really??
how do you express it.
read that link and you'll see what i mean..
you talk about how you feel but do you really feel connected to another human being? can you give of yourself? that is the question.
see? i'm also learning about this stuff too. and understanding air dominants and why they are always usually single...
and if they are NOT single, the sites says the people who are paired with them, are usually distant and live apart, or there is an emotional chasm...like an empty well of distance. You can't get close or hug ..there is a coldness. and emptiness, which is feeling of ALONENESS.
and that's ..really sad if you think about it. So open up to another human being and let yourself be loved and love them back. it doesn't hurt.
and if it does...let it hurt. that's what feelings are for, you are open to being hurt.
you see this castle??
that is you closing off to a connection ...isolated. alone. you put WALLS up, because you are scared of feeling and opening up to another human being.
that is why Linda Goodman even mentions something about air being in a castle, a description of a Rapunzel...when the prince asks her to let down her hair.
and in the site which is not even astrology related, also said that the parents or caregiver was controllng and never let you out of the castle... so therefore you have been trained as to not love or undertand love.
and in correlation to astrology, it has the same descriptions.
that is you closing off to a connection ...isolated. alone. you put WALLS up, because you are scared of feeling and opening up to another human being.
that is why Linda Goodman even mentions something about air being in a castle, a description of a Rapunzel...when the prince asks her to let down her hair.
and in the site which is not even astrology related, also said that the parents or caregiver was controllng and never let you out of the castle... so therefore you have been trained as to not love or undertand love.
and in correlation to astrology, it has the same descriptions.
Posted by trashit0
Hey all, I wanted some insight to my birth chart. Could you tell me about myself?
A big part that drives me nuts is that I am soooooo detached, but when I feel connected to someone, I feel so deeply. But heaven forbid that I let them know. But heaven forbid that they are too feely too soon, because then I start to get turned off & eventually poof.
I love being around people, all the time, but I have times where I fall off the map.
Lastly, I am goal-oriented and very ambitious, yet I get bored easily.
You sound like my emotional doppleganger!!!
Posted by intergalacticplanetaryYep.
Moon conjunct Uranus here. I get it..constant internal battle..
On the surface of it id look at your Venus in Pisces..see what aspects you have as well as that Mars in Gemini.
Posted by intergalacticplanetaryI don't have moon conjuct Uranus, but I have moon parallel Uranus. That is just the same as conjunction in declinations. Are you using it?Posted by AerialViewHaha..no wonder I'm always liking your posts😄Posted by intergalacticplanetaryYep.
Moon conjunct Uranus here. I get it..constant internal battle..
On the surface of it id look at your Venus in Pisces..see what aspects you have as well as that Mars in Gemini.
This is just crazy..how do we deal with this?it literally affects everything im doing.
What's your moon?
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My Aqua moon is only sextile sag Uranus.
Posted by intergalacticplanetaryWhen you done your chart in astro.comPosted by AerialViewPosted by intergalacticplanetaryI don't have moon conjuct Uranus, but I have moon parallel Uranus. That is just the same as conjunction in declinations. Are you using it?Posted by AerialViewHaha..no wonder I'm always liking your posts😄Posted by intergalacticplanetaryYep.
Moon conjunct Uranus here. I get it..constant internal battle..
On the surface of it id look at your Venus in Pisces..see what aspects you have as well as that Mars in Gemini.
This is just crazy..how do we deal with this?it literally affects everything im doing.
What's your moon?
My Aqua moon is only sextile sag Uranus.
No Iv never used it before..how do I look at that? Scorpio moon conjunct Uranus Scorp in 8th fml..
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Click and option for PDF tables. It was on top right side I believe.
There will be declination degrees for each planet.
For example your sun and jupiter are at 15 degrees, then both are in parallel (conjunction).
If your mars is at minus -15 degrees, then your mars is contra-parallel(opposites) your sun and Jupiter.
There are only two aspects in declinations and the orb is thight, no more than one degree.
Posted by intergalacticplanetaryOr you can do your chart herePosted by AerialViewPosted by intergalacticplanetaryI don't have moon conjuct Uranus, but I have moon parallel Uranus. That is just the same as conjunction in declinations. Are you using it?Posted by AerialViewHaha..no wonder I'm always liking your posts😄Posted by intergalacticplanetaryYep.
Moon conjunct Uranus here. I get it..constant internal battle..
On the surface of it id look at your Venus in Pisces..see what aspects you have as well as that Mars in Gemini.
This is just crazy..how do we deal with this?it literally affects everything im doing.
What's your moon?
My Aqua moon is only sextile sag Uranus.
No Iv never used it before..how do I look at that? Scorpio moon conjunct Uranus Scorp in 8th fml..
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http://www.capricorn-astrology-software.com/
Use the advanced mode. Unlike other sites, You can pull up like 50 bodies in one single chart.
It is my fav site to generate natal chart.
You can few some of the pics on my profile page.
Goodluck 😗
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A big part that drives me nuts is that I am soooooo detached, but when I feel connected to someone, I feel so deeply. But heaven forbid that I let them know. But heaven forbid that they are too feely too soon, because then I start to get turned off & eventually poof.
I love being around people, all the time, but I have times where I fall off the map.
Lastly, I am goal-oriented and very ambitious, yet I get bored easily.
Here's my cafe astrology birth chart
Zodiac : Tropical | Placidus Orb : 0
Sun Aquarius 14°29' | Ascendant Gemini 0°51'
Moon Libra 13°05' | II Gemini 25°22'
Mercury Capricorn 26°50' | III Cancer 16°31'
Venus Pisces 7°01' | IV Leo 9°04'
Mars Gemini 3°47' | V Virgo 7°27'
Jupiter Leo 7°48' R | VI Libra 16°11'
Saturn Capricorn 29°40' | VII Sagittarius 0°51'
Uranus Capricorn 11°40' | VIII Sagittarius 25°22'
Neptune Capricorn 15°22' | IX Capricorn 16°31'
Pluto Scorpio 20°18' | Midheaven Aquarius 9°04'
Lilith Sagittarius 20°53' | XI Pisces 7°27'
Asc node Capricorn 28°09' | XII Aries 16°11'
Thank you!