Im sure this Aqua man won't be able to get a grip after I made him regret and realise.

Posted by TheGreatSearcher
He might come back, especially if there is anything of Sagittarius on his chart.


If you feel comfortable without him, go ahead and shut him down. Block him on social media, phone as well as email, but this can vary. Make sure to tell him to never return or something along those lines, so that he doesn't surprise you in your workplace or at home.


The other option is to give him one last chance (which he will most likely fuck up, given the track record), but I wouldn't advise it.

Posted by vesper


I had given him so many chances but I just don't know what he did/see to those chances. I do feel like i was taking for granted

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Posted by vesper
...he had too many reasons not to have any serious relationship because of the past but don't get me wrong I have the same baggage as him too. So we cool I/he understand...


So Why go chasing me after all this time when you screwing with others?


He won't come back right?

He didn't want any serious relationship and you agreed, what's the problem now? He was chasing you because in his mind you both were cool with being just friends/f** buddies. I'm sure you understood, that you mislead him badly.


Right, he won't come back.

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Posted by P-Angel

How funny ...... especially this part .....

Posted by vesper


I had given him so many chances but I just don't know what he did/see to those chances. I do feel like i was taking for granted

lol

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Posted by aquarius_beauty
The questions is, do you want him to come back?


I'm assuming your answer is yes because you wish he would man up and form a relationship with you.

But this is where your essential natures come into play.


#1 - aquarius don't commit easily. we like to take our time. we don't like to feel restricted or confined to a relationship. we love our freedom.


#2 - you slept with him knowing damn well he wasn't in a relationship with you and on top of that you KNEW he was sleeping with someone else. It doesn't matter whether he's Aquarius or not...Men will not hesitate to commit to a woman who gives herself respect and who they view as high value. After all, men love to chase after what they can't have. Why would he committ when he can get it from you, with no strings attached?


Now, I'm not saying it's a done deal. Chances are you can still get him back. But, you need to play it smart and take your feelings out the door.


#1 - cease all contact. go MIA. show you're having a good time (even if you're not).

#2 - Do NC for 30 days and in that time focus on yourself.

#3 - if he does come around, make it hard for him. Don't sleep with him, don't bring up the past, and treat him as a friend. trust me that works.


Remember that men love a woman whos unattainable. Men will commit to a woman they can't have and women will commit to a man who they already have. And if you do get him back do not sleep with him until he's committed to you, officially.


If you have any questions...feel free to message me

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Posted by aquarius_beauty
The questions is, do you want him to come back?


I'm assuming your answer is yes because you wish he would man up and form a relationship with you.

But this is where your essential natures come into play.


#1 - aquarius don't commit easily. we like to take our time. we don't like to feel restricted or confined to a relationship. we love our freedom.


#2 - you slept with him knowing damn well he wasn't in a relationship with you and on top of that you KNEW he was sleeping with someone else. It doesn't matter whether he's Aquarius or not...Men will not hesitate to commit to a woman who gives herself respect and who they view as high value. After all, men love to chase after what they can't have. Why would he committ when he can get it from you, with no strings attached?


Now, I'm not saying it's a done deal. Chances are you can still get him back. But, you need to play it smart and take your feelings out the door.



#1 - cease all contact. go MIA. show you're having a good time (even if you're not).

#2 - Do NC for 30 days and in that time focus on yourself.

#3 - if he does come around, make it hard for him. Don't sleep with him, don't bring up the past, and treat him as a friend. trust me that works.


Remember that men love a woman whos unattainable. Men will commit to a woman they can't have and women will commit to a man who they already have. And if you do get him back do not sleep with him until he's committed to you, officially.


If you have any questions...feel free to message me

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