Insight on Aqua guy

Hi guys,

So here's my story. I used to work with this guy, always was attracted to him but knew he had a girlfriend. We reunited a couple of years later at a mutual friends place, we hung out there a few times a week but never really talked for about two years. He was still with the same girl during this time she never really came around and he never really talked about her. Anyway, about 6 months ago his woman got a job in another state and they decided to move, before he left he would elude to having difficulties in the relationship and seemed super stressed about leaving. He and I never really talked in depth with one another but i always felt a super strong connection to him. They moved, fought and he came back. I had told our mutual friend about my feelings for him a while ago and asked that if he was ever single that she let him know i am interested. He texted me about 2 weeks after he came back into town.
He is 34, had to move back home, no job, no car (all because of the move) but regardless no savings, so he is super strapped and in a weird spot. Anyway, at first he texted me all the time and was super sweet. after about 3 weeks he started hanging out with his boys until 2 or 3am on the weekends ( we only see eachother on weekends due to distance and him not having a car)and then would call to come over. Basically it has started to feel like a booty call. I started to pull away a little and he became super sweet again only to back away again a short time later.
I know he is in a bad spot, but i want to know i am more of a booty call. He is super kind its just hard as hell to get this guy to commit to hanging out. He always says i want to see you, or i hope i get to see you soon but never puts the effort forth in making it happen. He is also super passive and will often text after only seeing me for a small amount of time saying things like " wish we could have spent more time together" im at the point of saying dude, we could be but you never make it happen. He definetely puts guy time ahead of seeing me for sure. He also seems to have bad anxiety and nervous energy. Are these guys worth the trouble

Weird! I think Aqua men are definitely very sweet once they're commited. Reading the store about him and his ex reminds me of me and my Aqua husband with one exception that we're very happy together despite all the hardship he's facing after moving for my study.Notably is the transpot cost. Any way, I think if he gave up on every thing like my husband did for me for his ex then I'm afraid it might take quite long for this guy to get over his ex. Once an Aqua guy open up to you, they're very open and warm and they just can't stop it, like their defences are all down or something. He probably enjoys your company alot as the messages suggested, however, he might not be moving on just yet. It might not even be his ex(though it's probably is) but more likely the invested time, emotion and material reasons that still make him scolding himself from time to time and he can't get over the confusing feeling . It'd take him sometimes to heal and you can't do this for him. Therefore,keep a distance if you think that you can't handle after investing so much emotion and time that might form a "dependency" tie between you two. You can honestly tell him what you think as well and don't be afraid to hear the truth from him. Honestly , secretly they like someone who can challenge them abit...just abit 😛

If an Aqua is into you in a big way - they'll move mountains to spend time with you. They'll WANT to do this. Regardless of whatever difficulties are going on, they'll still find a way to come spend time with you.

Stop sleeping with him, you're creating your own drama. If what you're getting isn't enough for you then don't take what's offered.

Go find a man that will give you the whole loaf, not the crumbs. You're worth it, right?