Is my aqua back again—?

So confusing! We broke things off 3 months ago. Actually he ended things, because he said: "The feeling is not right". OK, we hooked up few times in summer and had some fun in bed. 🙂 Don't judge me. 😄 We are awesome together in bed! *shivers* Finally I got kinda over him and moved on... I went out with other people and didn't even think about him. We barely spoke during that time. It didn't bother me even a bit. AND NOW... For 3 weeks he kas been seeking for contact. He's sending me video links and just talks about random stuff. He's always the one who initiates contact. At first he spoke to me 3-4 times in omne week. For last 2 weeks he has been talking to me every day. And all we do is flirt and dirty talk. 😄 I can't help it. It just goes there... It's out of my control. 😄 Few days ago he started talking about "old times"... about how much fun we had and what we did where and so one... And suddenly he told me that I was the best girl he has ever had. And he's an idiot. And all of his friends are constantly nagging with him because he ended things with me. I was glad to hear that, and it made me feel gooooood.

He also told me few days ago that his girl friend who had feelings for him comes to visit her relatives and my Aqua will host him for one evening. He also told that he's saying that I would not get the wrong idea about the visit and would not get the wrong idea... I asked him that why is he telling me all that and does he know that he is sending many mixed signals with all that. He answered that he still cares about what I think and he is aware that he is sending mixed signals. He told that he does not know what he wants.

What the hell is going on with him... Is he just horny (I know he is horny! LOL) or might there be something more... Like is he missing me or smth? I don't want my heart walked all over again...

Oh he's horny 100% but question is are you tempted to act on it? He has a girlfriend right? thats not cool if hes chatting and flirting with you while he has a GF. He sounds very confused, like he doesnt know what hes saying or doing.. he is trying to make you jealous? wants you back? etc.. have u spoke to him straight up what he wants?

Posted by Angeleyes17
Oh he's horny 100% but question is are you tempted to act on it? He has a girlfriend right? thats not cool if hes chatting and flirting with you while he has a GF. He sounds very confused, like he doesnt know what hes saying or doing.. he is trying to make you jealous? wants you back? etc.. have u spoke to him straight up what he wants?

No he hasn't been with anyone else since we last saw. It was abouth a month ago. Then it was just pure sex. Just for fun. So, he is single. And so am I. 🙂 I have asked him that what does he want. He responds that he does not know what he wants. And he knows that he is acting like a teenager. :/

Posted by MaryJane666

Posted by Angeleyes17
Oh he's horny 100% but question is are you tempted to act on it? He has a girlfriend right? thats not cool if hes chatting and flirting with you while he has a GF. He sounds very confused, like he doesnt know what hes saying or doing.. he is trying to make you jealous? wants you back? etc.. have u spoke to him straight up what he wants?

No he hasn't been with anyone else since we last saw. It was abouth a month ago. Then it was just pure sex. Just for fun. So, he is single. And so am I. 🙂 I have asked him that what does he want. He responds that he does not know what he wants. And he knows that he is acting like a teenager. :/

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Ahh ok so single ppls.. So why dont you make a go of it? Have that fun relationship. At least you are aware of how he thinks and acts. Like you said its either he wants sex or he saw the light and misses you loads. Take that chance. If you both are great together and the sex is wow for you why miss that? See how it goes but at the same time keep your guard up.. x

Posted by MaryJane666
And all we do is flirt and dirty talk.

This might give you a clue. I may have misunderstood, but is he interested in any conversation that dosn't include sex? If all he wants to talk about is sex, beware, he might just want to continue the fling.

Posted by MaryJane666
And all we do is flirt and dirty talk.

He also told me few days ago that his girl friend who had feelings for him comes to visit her relatives and my Aqua will host him for one evening.

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This is what I'm confused about. Here you mention a girlfriend. Now you're saying he doesn't have one.

Girl, I would just proceed with caution. He might have really felt like he made a mistake and he might really want you back. But, if he and his girlfriend broke up, then he just might be wanting someone to boost his ego and have someone to hang out with. Only time will tell.

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Posted by MaryJane666
And all we do is flirt and dirty talk.

This might give you a clue. I may have misunderstood, but is he interested in any conversation that dosn't include sex? If all he wants to talk about is sex, beware, he might just want to continue the fling.

Posted by MaryJane666
And all we do is flirt and dirty talk.

He also told me few days ago that his girl friend who had feelings for him comes to visit her relatives and my Aqua will host him for one evening.

This is what I'm confused about. Here you mention a girlfriend. Now you're saying he doesn't have one.

Girl, I would just proceed with caution. He might have really felt like he made a mistake and he might really want you back. But, if he and his girlfriend broke up, then he just might be wanting someone to boost his ego and have someone to hang out with. Only time will tell.

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Hm... actually we do talk about everything else also. 🙂 Not just sex. 😄
And this friend is a girl friend, not girlfriend. Female friend, U know. 😄 They are not together and they do not have a realtionship. They live in diferent countries. 🙂 That's the complicated part... we broke up 3 months ago... and he still hasn't been with someone else.. OK, neither have I... but still...

Posted by ceu
Please read this thread, entitled, Use your common sense, and in particular focus on the opening post by krysrenee7:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/use-your-common-sense-4286877/

She says, in it:

"Trust your gut. Use your common sense. Trust yourself! Don't accept someone who gives you mixed signals or who won't commit or communicate with you!

The minute you start accepting those things or making excuses for them just b/c they are technically "Aquarians," you open the door for you to be taken for granted & not as respected"

Thank you 😉