Is sex all us aquas really want?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by BigD56 on Monday, April 21, 2008 and has 19 replies.
Does us aquas really just want sexual relations out of a relationship? I've been thinkin again and I realized that I can put up with a lot of ish with my girl if I know she's willing to hit the sack whenever it calls us. I mean, not just that...I like it all, the kisses, the dirty dancing, the stripping, all that! When it comes down to it, that's what really matters!smile It's just that once she starts talkin bout the "future" and what I better not be doing like "Why are u here u supposed to be home" or some crap and I just can't stick around for that to grow into something I don't want to deal with. That type of talk makes my stomach hurt like I have to throw up or something.
...(or maybe it's just my manly hormones kickin my ass lol)
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You get just one: tsk.
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sounds like someone has commitment phobia.......and you get the butterflies in the stomach (sounds like me when I really think of the possible relationship lol).....that is nervousness setting in....hey your still young, you got time to commit.....so don't rush to be in a relationship .......but just be careful not to make yourself a parent just yet
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Ahhh BigD you?re just a lil?puppy!! Depends on life experience..people say i?m too young to think about the future but ive done sooooo much in my 25 years that some people dont even do in a lifetime. There?s no "set" age to do things, so if you?re happy just with sex, take it and go, but make sure she knows thats all you want..none of this leading a person up the garden path..not nice Sad I did it for 3 years, and now im happy in a "proper, or decent" relationship smile
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"Does us aquas really just want sexual relations out of a relationship"
I don't know who started the rumor that Aquarians were like stiff boards in the bedroom but we LOVEEEE sex! We may not screw everybody around town when we're single or even dating. But when we find someone that we can see as potential we set all of our hormones FREE!!! If an Aqua is hooked on you (sexually), that's a good thing. Man Oh Man, me (Aqua) & My Libra man would have the worsts of arguements & I just couldn't stand him sometimes. But at the end of the night, I JUST KNEW we'd end up having sex (make up sex is the BEST) & in a way, his annoyance kind of drifted away. BUT, the good thing about us is that Sex doesn't have any affect on how much we care or love you. If we ALREADY love you, then sex to us is just the GIFT of being with you, not the REASOn why we are with you
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Nah I'm not a whore now, I DO date the woman before anything goes down but I am up for one nighters though lol
I was thinkin that there had to be a good reason why us aquas aren't really into the whole lubby dubby thing in a relationship...
krysrenee7: "If we ALREADY love you, then sex to us is just the GIFT of being with you, not the REASOn why we are with you"
ahh...I'm soo out of place...Sad
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krysrenee: "Man, me (Aqua) & My Libra man would have the worsts of arguements & I just couldn't stand him sometimes. But at the end of the night, I JUST KNEW we'd end up having sex (make up sex is the BEST) & in a way, his annoyance kind of drifted away."
You know what? Why the hell does this have to go down? I was pretty sure that I wasn't the only one having this type of relationship with my ex libra and it's funny how soo many others go through it. The only problem I have with this is that I mean what I say when I'm in an argument, and it really gets to her even after making up. Deep down, I think that it's the sex that we really wanted in the first place lol!
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"Deep down, I think that it's the sex that we really wanted in the first place lol!"
I know! It seems like after the sex, I'm thinking in my head like "Sheesh, maybe that was the solution the whole time" & sometimes afterwards, I can go about my business like the arguement never happend & sometimes I get even worse than before
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"You know what? Why the hell does this have to go down? I was pretty sure that I wasn't the only one having this type of relationship with my ex libra and it's funny how soo many others go through it."
It seems like most Aquas that have been with Libras have the SAME story!!! We all have the same complaints or similar stories.
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krysrenee7, for that reason is why i thought that "physical business" is what really works for an aqua, and a libra is pretty much the same way. This could be the reason why an aqua can't get enough of a libra, because they don't care as much as we do...and it really does kinda drive me crazy it's like "what am I doing wrong? She should be kissing my feet like all the other women!" It really keeps me thinking about her...*sigh*
*Makes me wanna call her now...NO! I can't lose! She'll call me first then act like I wasn't thinkin of her! Yea, that'll workStars
Ahem...but yea I don't have those attachment problems though it really turns me off LOL
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CAll her NOW!!! It?s not a game you can when or lose, coz us libra laydeez never back down, ouch!!! She knows what you?re doing, you?re in lurrrrrve with her smile
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Sola, it's more like...testing myself. Experimentation. I mean we all have to learn and experience sometime in our lives I have to see what I really want out of a relationship. This is just coming from her, the only libra I made moves with and never again...
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Wow...this is exactly the post I needed to read right now! I am a libra lady, and I am seeing an Aqua guy....i'm losing my mind!!!! The problem is, it's started off as just sex...of course, we're friends from work, and I really, truly like this guy...and I'm trying to be distant and do my thang...but the SEX is freaking amazing...the best I've ever experienced with anyone! I am definitely the more experienced one, and I think I drive this guy crazy because of all of my kinkiness...I actually left him a sexy love note, hot lingerie and a vibrator in a victorias secret bag by his car the first few months we were hanging out, after he said he wasn't sure how he felt about a relationship...i know, I totally sold myself out...but he loved it....now, I'm stuck in a situation that is totally confusing me...I haven't verbalized too much about my needs, but I'm starting to get a little angry when I dont' hear from him a week at a time, but we do talk as friends on the phone, and hang out and do friend things. He always answers my calls, and usually always says yes to any plan I initiate...but I can't read him and have no idea where we stand! We're going on six months of this, FWB thing...but for some reason, I truly feel that continued friendship, with the greatest sex of his and my life- may possibly lead to potential relationship in the future....afterall, we're talking libra and aqua...best compatibility for aqua...can someone give me some insight here? The "relatinoship" loving libra side of me wants more....committment, etc...but the Horny, sex freak libra side of me, Wants Sex Sex Sex, can't live without it, especially with this aqua man...we can go 5 times in one night sometimes...that can't be normal? Right?
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Im having the same dysfunctional relationship with my fairly new libra guy friend, sans the sex.
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"She knows what you?re doing"
Ohhhh she knows! Just like WE know. I think Libras are the only ones who can bring the expert FREAK out of us. With others, we're like "hmmm, sex? No, not interested." But when a Libra rocks our world & we can clearly see that we've rocked theirs, the SEX becomes like another segment or something to the relationship. It becomes a MUST!
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.........A MUST during good AND bad times
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Amen!!! Im just SOOOO loving my Aqua that it hurts Sad
BigD..i was just saying that from my own (disgraceful) experience, i regret not spending more time on diamond people because i was so obsessed with gaining "experience"..what a fuck-up i turned into. You know yuorself well, and its totally understandable that you want to sow that young seed smile but for me the grass was NEVER greener and there were good things i missed because i wanted the next best??? thing...DAMN. I need to be 21 again Sad
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krysrenee: "With others, we're like "hmmm, sex? No, not interested.""
Believe it or not, I'm just the same way. I can't seem to want to continue having an affair with someone who can't really bring it to the table lol. I usually don't push a relationship anywhere, I allow the lady to take it as far as she wants it to go, but if I feel as though she's not that 'type' of person, I wouldn't try it I'll keep it friendly most of my friends clown me for that they'll screw anything that moves...
Sola, you're soo right...but that's why I never just give up on anything. I'll just let it happen, one thing I've learned about love is that you can NEVER control it. If it hits it hits, no matter how much you fight it. That is just too much stress to worry about right now love is at the bottom of my listSad
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aqua always know from the begining who they are gonna sleep with. They have you pinned down into 2 categories, 1 they will sleep with you but nothing more thier can be no emtional ties. 2 they are looking for something more so it might take you a long time to get in dem drawers. side note never try to force an aqua because you will get rejected even thought they like people to be aggressive you have to respect them also. The best way to see how far you can go is by being playfully thorugh convo or physical play. If your touching them and they dont freeze up or back up you might be good. if your talking to them and saying freaky ass shyt and all they do is laugh it can go anyway, beacause they are either brushing it to the side and not taking your seriously or they are intrigued.

Fun Fun aquas
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