Jealousy?

Can Aquas get jealous to an extent? Show it and if they do how? Would they be direct and say or indirectly show jealously?

God that is a tough question....

1) I am like never jealous because I guess I trust my partner too much or I would have never dated them
2) I suppose the only thing that would get me jealous is if you were to spend more time with someone
else and sorta ignore me to an extent.
3)BUT I have to say this Scorpio girl got me jealous this past semester when I saw her studying with some
other guy. I knew she really didn't talk to many people... I sorta thought I might be the only one! BUT I
was obviously wrong. Maybe, it was because we weren't really anything yet at the time.
4) Either way Im convinced scorpios can make any sign jealous.

?? The way I acted when I got jealous... I pretty much just sat at the computer right across
from them and talked to her and sorta ignored him like, yeah I know her better than you
do lol!! And I realized she maybe single but not forever so I let my interest in her be known
quite directly from that day forward. I suppose at least for me it makes me more aggressive
if I actually get jealous. I suppose it's actually a good thing for the female if they can actually
accomplish this feat.

^ +1 haha

Yeah I think when in a relationship jealousy doesn't exist at all.

The thing is I view jealousy as an emotion that arises when you want something that you can't have so you just have to accept that you can't have it. Dust it off and move on.

Of course who doesnt. If i am i normally just tell the person kindly but bluntly then its over.

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
God that is a tough question....

1) I am like never jealous because I guess I trust my partner too much or I would have never dated them
2) I suppose the only thing that would get me jealous is if you were to spend more time with someone
else and sorta ignore me to an extent.
3)BUT I have to say this Scorpio girl got me jealous this past semester when I saw her studying with some
other guy. I knew she really didn't talk to many people... I sorta thought I might be the only one! BUT I
was obviously wrong. Maybe, it was because we weren't really anything yet at the time.
4) Either way Im convinced scorpios can make any sign jealous.

?? The way I acted when I got jealous... I pretty much just sat at the computer right across
from them and talked to her and sorta ignored him like, yeah I know her better than you
do lol!! And I realized she maybe single but not forever so I let my interest in her be known
quite directly from that day forward. I suppose at least for me it makes me more aggressive
if I actually get jealous. I suppose it's actually a good thing for the female if they can actually
accomplish this feat.

tough question which you answered very well..thank you 🙂I think im kinda curious about 2) and 3) I'm seeing the signs but who know, I could be wrong. and this is just from observing and no communication between me and the Aqua man lol

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
God that is a tough question....

1) I am like never jealous because I guess I trust my partner too much or I would have never dated them
2) I suppose the only thing that would get me jealous is if you were to spend more time with someone
else and sorta ignore me to an extent.

I'm the same way 🙂
If my SO spend time together, we are always in the same room, even if we're just snuggling together on the couch, bed, lounge, and he's doing his thing and I'm doing mine. It's weird.

** it also really depends on placements too 🙂
I have crazy jealousy so i must be secure first, feel safe and warm and loved kind of feeling. No woman or man wants to be suffering all the time in a relationship. I always saw my mother as a martyr, suffering for her loved ones, and to me that shows a great gift to her daughters. I thanked her yesterday for being a wonderful, loving mother who was at times in the past underappreciated, and cried a bit.

Posted by lisabethur8
** it also really depends on placements too 🙂
I have crazy jealousy so i must be secure first, feel safe and warm and loved kind of feeling. No woman or man wants to be suffering all the time in a relationship. I always saw my mother as a martyr, suffering for her loved ones, and to me that shows a great gift to her daughters. I thanked her yesterday for being a wonderful, loving mother who was at times in the past underappreciated, and cried a bit.

Are you an Aqua?!

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Posted by lisabethur8
** it also really depends on placements too 🙂
I have crazy jealousy so i must be secure first, feel safe and warm and loved kind of feeling. No woman or man wants to be suffering all the time in a relationship. I always saw my mother as a martyr, suffering for her loved ones, and to me that shows a great gift to her daughters. I thanked her yesterday for being a wonderful, loving mother who was at times in the past underappreciated, and cried a bit.

Are you an Aqua?!

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Lol. Venus Taurus is my top 3 energies in my chart, so yeah, I get very very jealous/possessive. 🙂

Posted by EvilTurtle
Of course who doesnt. If i am i normally just tell the person kindly but bluntly then its over.

Are you saying just because you felt jealousy you would end things? What if it's explainable?

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** it also really depends on placements too 🙂
I have crazy jealousy so i must be secure first, feel safe and warm and loved kind of feeling. No woman or man wants to be suffering all the time in a relationship. I always saw my mother as a martyr, suffering for her loved ones, and to me that shows a great gift to her daughters. I thanked her yesterday for being a wonderful, loving mother who was at times in the past underappreciated, and cried a bit.

Are you an Aqua?!

Lol. Venus Taurus is my top 3 energies in my chart, so yeah, I get very very jealous/possessive. 🙂

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ohhh sorry didn't know.. Yeh I'm a scorpion and we have been known to be the jealous and possessive type (gets brought up every time the sign gets mentioned) lol, but Yeh i do but i know its not extreme. I keep those emotions to myself anyways. I'm more possessive of my things.. I have my moments where i do get jealous but i work on it and try to focus myself else where.. sometimes the jealousy can cause you to make mistakes.

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** it also really depends on placements too 🙂
I have crazy jealousy so i must be secure first, feel safe and warm and loved kind of feeling. No woman or man wants to be suffering all the time in a relationship. I always saw my mother as a martyr, suffering for her loved ones, and to me that shows a great gift to her daughters. I thanked her yesterday for being a wonderful, loving mother who was at times in the past underappreciated, and cried a bit.

Are you an Aqua?!

Lol. Venus Taurus is my top 3 energies in my chart, so yeah, I get very very jealous/possessive. 🙂

ohhh sorry didn't know.. Yeh I'm a scorpion and we have been known to be the jealous and possessive type (gets brought up every time the sign gets mentioned) lol, but Yeh i do but i know its not extreme. I keep those emotions to myself anyways. I'm more possessive of my things.. I have my moments where i do get jealous but i work on it and try to focus myself else where.. sometimes the jealousy can cause you to make mistakes.

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it's cool I'm just learning astro stuff very slowly, and understanding why some signs are not always typical of their characteristics. Like say, if they are of a dominant element, it kind of shows up. And i'm normally very slowpokey anyway which i'm glad of.

I get jealous like everyone else, but it does not happen often. I need lots of alone time and I appreciate it when a girl is not always attached to me. When jealously strikes I usually get a little depressed about it, but I brush it off after few mins.

My level of possessiveness is very low and I don't like to compete. I have never felt emotionally attached to anyone except maybe my family and my best friends.

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Posted by EvilTurtle
Of course who doesnt. If i am i normally just tell the person kindly but bluntly then its over.

Are you saying just because you felt jealousy you would end things? What if it's explainable?

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I think he/she means the "talk" not the "relationship".

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Posted by EvilTurtle
Of course who doesnt. If i am i normally just tell the person kindly but bluntly then its over.

Are you saying just because you felt jealousy you would end things? What if it's explainable?

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never have ended anything due to plain jealousy. always something more extreme. like catching my gal in the arms of another man naked, that a deal breaker.

Oh, I get it. I totally misunderstood. Not the first time THAT's happened! lol!

Posted by Angeleyes17

tough question which you answered very well..thank you 🙂I think im kinda curious about 2) and 3) I'm seeing the signs but who know, I could be wrong. and this is just from observing and no communication between me and the Aqua man lol

First off I would advise you to not intentionally try to make him jealous.... he will know and most likely be turned off!
The main reason I was jealous was because I had not been clear about my interest with that girl AND not really made any moves or anything except for when I decided to sit by her in class I guess lol if you could call that a move! Anyhow I had been wanting to do something with her outside of class even if it was studying and when I had seen her doing it with that other guy.... I felt like wow you idiot that could be you but you are being to cold to get what you want and "I felt like it was all my fault" for not having that opportunity and that she had moved on to someone else that I guess showed more interest. That's what really made me jealous....

I don't think that type of situation is going to be easy for you to replicate. You would have to make it appear that you have done no wrong and that it's own fault for sitting on his hands to make him jealous I guess and even then I can't gaurantee it will work.... I REALLY REALLY liked this girl hell I still do ironically....

However, if your just wondering IF he is curious and you did not intend for him to be curious then pretty much from what I've read on the site and how I know I would act is.... If I really was into you I would make ever attempt to have to have you and make it clear! BUT you say neither of have spoken to each other yet... If that is the case while Im not gonna say he wouldn't be somewhat jealous of you talking to someone else the most likely outcome is for home to put you out of his mind at that point. He doesn't know you personally and I know if it was me if I thought it was a serious thing I would not interfere because I wouldn't like of someone else interfered and did that to me.... Aquarians like to feel they are n?mero uno.

and if they think their is competition or your the type to have a flock of men following that you flirt with.... They will either 1)at worst immediately not be interested in you cause they feel you are fickle drama queen or 2) at best only go after you for the challenge of proving they CAN have you and once they get you they will most likely leave you cause the thrill is gone.

I strongly advise you to never intentionally try to make an Aquarian jealous it almost always backfires on you!

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Posted by EvilTurtle
Of course who doesnt. If i am i normally just tell the person kindly but bluntly then its over.

Are you saying just because you felt jealousy you would end things? What if it's explainable?

I think he/she means the "talk" not the "relationship".

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he and your right the talk

I do get jealous and i dont like the feeling. It doesnt happen often, thou. And like the others have said, when i feel it i make it disappeare as quickly as it came. Feeling jealousy usually means its time for me to step back. By stepping back i mean to end the relationship or to have some alone time to get in control of my feelings. I HATE-HATE jealousy, what a horrible feeling and nobody is worth me feeling that way.

The ending of the relationship part happens when i've told my partner that i dont like it when he does a.b.c & d, and if he continues then i cut him loose. I never act all psycho on him or anything like that. I'm bad at communicating my feelings on the spot, so when i do feel jealousy i act as normal as possible even thou im seething or whatever inside, then later on (when they arent with me) i'll send a text telling them how i felt when they did 123 and we'll take it from there. I never call, lol...it makes me uncomfortable. After the "jealousy talk" thou, under no circumnstance do i wanna hear what we discussed repeated back to me when in person. Let sleeping dogs lie. It really irritates me when they wanna do an encore talk face to face, i shut down.

Happy Birthday WaterCup

Aww thanks, NYAA. Usually i dont like birthdays, but this year, today...there's an extra spring to my step and a bouncy bounce to my walk...I'm like a human ping-pong, lol. I even bought a cake! Lmao. 2013 is giving me a natural high, i tell you.

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
and if they think their is competition or your the type to have a flock of men following that you flirt with.... They will either 1)at worst immediately not be interested in you cause they feel you are fickle drama queen or 2) at best only go after you for the challenge of proving they CAN have you and once they get you they will most likely leave you cause the thrill is gone.

I strongly advise you to never intentionally try to make an Aquarian jealous it almost always backfires on you!

Thank you for the advice, I really do take on board what you're saying. I have no intention what so ever to make him jealous. I would never want to make someone feel like that (well deep down it feels good) but still lol..

I know he has his circle of friends and he does chat/flirt with the ladies, (which is the part that gets me jealous in the moment) but i get over it. I've noticed this from Twitter lol.. He's not the type to tweet much/ favourite or retweet etc.. I've been using it recently a lot and im getting more interaction with others. The other day I noticed he's been tweeting more and surprise surprise he's been through my following list and added a lot of people i know in one go. lol.. At least I know he notices me, but the communication in not there.. iv tried to from my ends and he has his random moments when he wants to chat to me. its basically when he want to chat to me, he will put his full on attention me and the convo will flow, then other times he will shut me out, distance himself. (kinda used to it by now tho) lol

Posted by WaterCup
Aww thanks, NYAA. Usually i dont like birthdays, but this year, today...there's an extra spring to my step and a bouncy bounce to my walk...I'm like a human ping-pong, lol. I even bought a cake! Lmao. 2013 is giving me a natural high, i tell you.

happy birthday, wc

🙂

Today's your day.

Yes. I have observed that they are jealous right before a relationship starts and after it is over. An unevolved Aqua will try to win you back just to prove that they can. Now, other signs will pull this "jerk move" but, an unevolved Aqua will actually be successful...lol.

Posted by firewaterearthpiscesvenus
Yes. I have observed that they are jealous right before a relationship starts and after it is over. An unevolved Aqua will try to win you back just to prove that they can. Now, other signs will pull this "jerk move" but, an unevolved Aqua will actually be successful...lol.

the unevolved can be relentless indeed. But those usually back off if they know you are happy and taken. It hurts their "ego" and "pride" that no one could ever be as fabulous as they are. This is the "unevolved" of course. And I'm also including those with Moons, Venus, ect in those love planets most especially. If they are evolved, they are respectable and well, have more boundaries. Hmmmm...that's probably what it is. :-p
You know, this could be in any sign though. Those with big egos most especially. Astrology wise, they need more Saturn.

Posted by WaterCup
Aww thanks, NYAA. Usually i dont like birthdays, but this year, today...there's an extra spring to my step and a bouncy bounce to my walk...I'm like a human ping-pong, lol. I even bought a cake! Lmao. 2013 is giving me a natural high, i tell you.

Happy birthday watercup

Thanks, ET

And thanks to you too, lisa...sorry didnt see your post there. When is yours (and im talking to you too ET, NYAA, NEXUS, 11, etc). HAPPY BIRTHDAY CHEMENGINE FOR TOMORROW AND PLEASE COME BACK.

Ta, EEE.

Posted by WaterCup
And thanks to you too, lisa...sorry didnt see your post there. When is yours (and im talking to you too ET, NYAA, NEXUS, 11, etc). HAPPY BIRTHDAY CHEMENGINE FOR TOMORROW AND PLEASE COME BACK.

Mines Feb. 13 and it's 2013!!! It's so my year I tell you 😄

My guy friend aqua /fish cusp was super jealous he didn't no guy around ne n wanted all the attention n he claimed he had a gf but he would flirt with me n control me I was no amigo calm down n being sadge him telling me what to do was funny n I did what ever I wanted but he always stuck around n was always super jealous he would try not to be obvious like lookin over my shoulder when I text tellin my friends I was on drugs I'm like wtf I never touch drugs he would try to fight my guy friends he would b emotionally abusive he text me every night n day n was always around me n would get pissed off if some one came near me!!! N he was just my friend n the first guy friend I ever had I went to a private school n had only girl friends that was my first public school when I was 16 n I met him !

Sorry for typos I'm still sleepy