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This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by saggurl88 on Tuesday, June 27, 2017 and has 66 replies.
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oh LOL join the club
Posted by fem_femme
oh LOL join the club
I'm out of it now. Lol. Lasted only 3 months. I got off easy lol
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by fem_femme
oh LOL join the club
I'm out of it now. Lol. Lasted only 3 months. I got off easy lol
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I'd love to switch places with you. Read my post here and you will know what you dodged so good job smile
Sounds like what my Aqua did at about 3 months. "I still wanna see you, I just don't wanna see you naked anymore". My response:

"I have plenty of friends, I don’t need another one".


We had sex again a week later. Sultry gets what she wants.
Wait. ..


You guys never met or slept together??


I thought you were falling hard. Without ever sleeping with him? For 3 months?


I guess I'm confused
Why do you guys think aquas don't like having sex? seems like they dont.
Posted by fem_femme
Why do you guys think aquas don't like having sex? seems like they dont.
The idea is more interesting than the reality.


Unless they find someone who rocks their world in bed, then that's a different story.


Posted by Koniuchaa
Sounds like he likes this mutual friend.
I asked him that too lol. He says there is no interest. But who knows lol
Posted by sultrykitty
Wait. ..


You guys never met or slept together??


I thought you were falling hard. Without ever sleeping with him? For 3 months?


I guess I'm confused
We slept together plenty if times then he threw on the breaks and I got irritated lol. I didn't understand what his problem was lol.
Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by fem_femme
Why do you guys think aquas don't like having sex? seems like they dont.
The idea is more interesting than the reality.


Unless they find someone who rocks their world in bed, then that's a different story.


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No it's not. He was very vocal of how good it was and still held up garlic and the cross lol

Posted by saggurl88
Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by fem_femme
Why do you guys think aquas don't like having sex? seems like they dont.
The idea is more interesting than the reality.


Unless they find someone who rocks their world in bed, then that's a different story.


No it's not. He was very vocal of how good it was and still held up garlic and the cross lol

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Nope, it's at least how mine worked. Took a long time for him to come to terms with how he felt about me. I'd stick around if you really like him.


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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by fem_femme
Why do you guys think aquas don't like having sex? seems like they dont.
The idea is more interesting than the reality.


Unless they find someone who rocks their world in bed, then that's a different story.


No it's not. He was very vocal of how good it was and still held up garlic and the cross lol

Nope, it's at least how mine worked. Took a long time for him to come to terms with how he felt about me. I'd stick around if you really like him.


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I will but I'm not contacting him anymore at all. I don't have male friends either.

Posted by sultrykitty
Sounds like what my Aqua did at about 3 months. "I still wanna see you, I just don't wanna see you naked anymore". My response:

"I have plenty of friends, I don’t need another one".


We had sex again a week later. Sultry gets what she wants.
What the???? This Aqua dude needs some

Serious cleansing . Oh my lord lol.. good job Leo!!! U noe this is all I want that just sex lolllll I mean maybe from other men too.. kind of sick of being exclusive to his penis for nothing
Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by fem_femme
Why do you guys think aquas don't like having sex? seems like they dont.
The idea is more interesting than the reality.


Unless they find someone who rocks their world in bed, then that's a different story.


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Take my story of the swinger club for example... the idea is bloody brilliant, but then he can't get a hard on.. in person with me he's a lion thoug hso god knows what goes in their head n penis hahaha

Posted by saggurl88
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Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by fem_femme
Why do you guys think aquas don't like having sex? seems like they dont.
The idea is more interesting than the reality.


Unless they find someone who rocks their world in bed, then that's a different story.


No it's not. He was very vocal of how good it was and still held up garlic and the cross lol

Nope, it's at least how mine worked. Took a long time for him to come to terms with how he felt about me. I'd stick around if you really like him.


I will but I'm not contacting him anymore at all. I don't have male friends either.

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Let's be clear, it won't be your last post. Are you ready for him to do a 360 spinning wheels on u? I just called mine a spinning wheels n he's hating that coz he has no idea what I meant lol...
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Posted by fem_femme
Why do you guys think aquas don't like having sex? seems like they dont.
The idea is more interesting than the reality.


Unless they find someone who rocks their world in bed, then that's a different story.


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the one im dealing with avoids me physically although he said he is passionately attracted to me, would love to have sex and he thinks im really hot and loves my certain body parts ut avoids me physically like a plague ut loves flirting with me and getting a hard on via texts.....i find it bizarre...why not actually get with me in real...he keeps saying he wants to and arranges dates for it to happen then he flakes out. Just like last night....he says that maybe he is a little shy making the first steps lol although he was all over me on our 1st date without sex....after a year of this crap it gets tiring for me.
just 2 days ago i heard how much he wants me in a doggy style position hahaha......i keep hearing about his sexual fantasies for a year...more power to all me who want to jump o me right away ad stay o me for a log time smile)) before learning about aquas, this one made me feel so insecure about myself....i was like what?? how come all men I come across crave for me and he doesn't...what's wrong with ME...if something's off with me then why is he continuously contacting me?! After i learned about them and saw how much compliments he gives me etc i figured that the issue is him...not me. What a mind fuck I've been through the whole year....i will ever deal with another aqua. I feel for you!
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Posted by saggurl88
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Posted by fem_femme
Why do you guys think aquas don't like having sex? seems like they dont.
The idea is more interesting than the reality.


Unless they find someone who rocks their world in bed, then that's a different story.


No it's not. He was very vocal of how good it was and still held up garlic and the cross lol

Nope, it's at least how mine worked. Took a long time for him to come to terms with how he felt about me. I'd stick around if you really like him.


I will but I'm not contacting him anymore at all. I don't have male friends either.

Let's be clear, it won't be your last post. Are you ready for him to do a 360 spinning wheels on u? I just called mine a spinning wheels n he's hating that coz he has no idea what I meant lol...
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I'm done posting about it. I really don't need to worry about this with him wanting to be friends. We seem to be in 2 different pages. I don't see the big deal about having sex while getting to know eachother and being friends. It's a problem for him though.


So I'm just not gonna think about it anymore. If he wants to talk to me he can call. I'm not putting in anymore effort. He knows I like him so if he wants to see me or talk he's gonna need to man the fuck up.

Posted by fem_femme
Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by fem_femme
Why do you guys think aquas don't like having sex? seems like they dont.
The idea is more interesting than the reality.


Unless they find someone who rocks their world in bed, then that's a different story.


the one im dealing with avoids me physically although he said he is passionately attracted to me, would love to have sex and he thinks im really hot and loves my certain body parts ut avoids me physically like a plague ut loves flirting with me and getting a hard on via texts.....i find it bizarre...why not actually get with me in real...he keeps saying he wants to and arranges dates for it to happen then he flakes out. Just like last night....he says that maybe he is a little shy making the first steps lol although he was all over me on our 1st date without sex....after a year of this crap it gets tiring for me.
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Honestly he seems to be having fun knowing that you want to see him so badly. You need to start telling him no and not being so available. You guys have been doing this for a year. He's not going anywhere. Start saying no so he can try harder and really make it happen. You don't even need to give him the excuse of no because you always cancel. Just say no, I don't think so. I'm busy. He needs a change of pace.

Im honestly tired of him...just realized it. All I get from him are texts with selfies lol. The man is obsessed with taking selfies at the age of 50. He takes selfies in his car, during a hike, at a wedding, laying on his couch. He sends me selfies while texting me from his bed....like he is about to sleep but he is horny, so he sends me a selfie from a dark room where i can hardly see his face on the pillow saying that he is horny and if i was there right now, I would be in big trouble. He also sent me a selfie from his shower once. I'm a 34 yr old woman who hardly ever takes selfies....i need to go to an event to actually take a few.
Posted by fem_femme
He sends me selfies while texting me from his bed....like he is about to sleep but he is horny, so he sends me a selfie from a dark room where i can hardly see his face on the pillow saying that he is horny and if i was there right now, I would be in big trouble.
Um......He's told you that he has problems making the first move..... but he's saying this? You don't catch what he's dropping huh? If he's said that then why aren't you saying "I'm on my way" You know where he lives, that's pretty much an invitation. It's a clear invitation to me. He's not gonna text and say oh, no wait lol

Posted by saggurl88
Posted by fem_femme
He sends me selfies while texting me from his bed....like he is about to sleep but he is horny, so he sends me a selfie from a dark room where i can hardly see his face on the pillow saying that he is horny and if i was there right now, I would be in big trouble.
Um......He's told you that he has problems making the first move..... but he's saying this? You don't catch what he's dropping huh? If he's said that then why aren't you saying "I'm on my way" You know where he lives, that's pretty much an invitation. It's a clear invitation to me. He's not gonna text and say oh, no wait lol

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Um nooo....the whole year i know him we have been in contact for 5 months in total...all he does is say how much he craves for me then cancels the 'fuck dates" which hasn't occurred to this day. lol...all i hear is how much he wants me & what he wants to do to me & how lucky he will be to be with me....but he is avoiding me physically after our first few dates started to heat up. He isn't letting 'it' to occur obviously & is avoiding the sex despite how much I hear him say he wants me in each text he sends me acting like a boyfriend. He also asks me what I'm doing on the weekend ad says let's meet up Saturday..come Saturday i don't hear from him, or 3 moths ago he invited me over then left the invitation hanging in the air so to speak....i was like ummm why did u just say u want to see me this weekend if u turned around to say you are busy at the same time. He is the one initiating these get togethers which ever happen. Only once did i say to him directly that since he is not putting effort hanging out, I wont put effort texting myself as it's all one-sided, he got so pissed that i actually demanded something from him....like his time! He says he doesn't like being lectured about what he has to do. He then said "we're both busy" to my question why he is avoiding me physically.....i said u just said u are home on Saturday inviting me over & after a minute u say u are busy?? Anyways the problem is that it is HIM who constantly crawls back & it is HIM who wants to talk to me....i don't text him and when I kick him to the curb, he returns after a while & the cycle continues. I am being told by friends that he has sexual issues most likely. He told me months ago that he doesn't force sex on me so i wont feel disrespected....i kind of feel like it's a cover up maybe of his issues?
@fem_femme Well I think the next time he says something open ended, you should just say on my way. You know he's at home, cause he sent the pic. But then that would lead to other issues. lol like when the next time will be. You're already emotionally wrapped up in it so sex will make it even worse. Why are these men so complicated!!! It's usually women who play these sex games lol


I suck at pretending to be a friend when I just want to strip you naked.
Posted by aquanib
Posted by saggurl88


I suck at pretending to be a friend when I just want to strip you naked.
You sound like a good girl, that doesn't need to be spanked........too much.


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I'm a very good girl, that can take a spanking lol But then you have to kiss the areas that are sore. Big Grin
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Posted by saggurl88


I'm a very good girl, that can take a spanking lol But then you have to kiss the areas that are sore. Big Grin
That is just what the doctor ordered! Spank, kiss, blow air to cool off the area... kiss some moar!


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In theory! But then you aquas run for the hills after its happened! lmao. Talk is cheap, I need more action! Tongue


Don't run, it will be ok I promise lol


Posted by Fun4Life
My youngest brother is an Aqua and he's always been really unusual about women.

He doesn't seem to be the horniest dude on the planet compared to this Cancer, nor does he seem to "need" women. He does what he does, and when women fit in, he arrives.

Saggurl...a guy that goes that long avoiding sex is probably "fapping" because he's afraid of performance irl.
He preforms quite well, which is why I want more of it Tongue He just knows I'm trying to trap his ass forever and he keeps fighting me lol


I don't even need to say it. He knows what it is. He forces me to slow down. He didn't even say he wasn't attracted to me just a lame excuse of sneaking around and our mutual hater friend finding out. I will just ignore what he says though and wait for him to contact me, and tell him to come over to my house. Then put a gag over his mouth so he doesn't talk so much and I can get down to business. We can talk after Big Grin
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Posted by saggurl88


In theory! But then you aquas run for the hills after its happened! lmao. Talk is cheap, I need more action! Tongue


Don't run, it will be ok I promise lol


Sags and promises.....'nuff said!

Big Grin


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I make good on my promises. That's part of the issue lol

@Saggurl88


What's his venus?
Posted by fem_femme
Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by fem_femme
Why do you guys think aquas don't like having sex? seems like they dont.
The idea is more interesting than the reality.


Unless they find someone who rocks their world in bed, then that's a different story.


the one im dealing with avoids me physically although he said he is passionately attracted to me, would love to have sex and he thinks im really hot and loves my certain body parts ut avoids me physically like a plague ut loves flirting with me and getting a hard on via texts.....i find it bizarre...why not actually get with me in real...he keeps saying he wants to and arranges dates for it to happen then he flakes out. Just like last night....he says that maybe he is a little shy making the first steps lol although he was all over me on our 1st date without sex....after a year of this crap it gets tiring for me.
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Yeah, this dude is an asshat. Either he has problems or he's totally playing you.


Honestly I don't know why you want to figure out what his issues are--you're not going to change him. I think it's time you throw in the towel. Probably should have done it months ago.


Posted by sultrykitty
@Saggurl88


What's his venus?
Slow ass Capricorn lol
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by sultrykitty
@Saggurl88


What's his venus?
Slow ass Capricorn lol
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Not much better than Mr Aqua's venus Aqua.


Hang in there - your Leo mars (like mine) will prevail. Winking

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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by sultrykitty
@Saggurl88


What's his venus?
Slow ass Capricorn lol


Not much better than Mr Aqua's venus Aqua.


Hang in there - your Leo mars (like mine) will prevail. Winking

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Yeah but Venus Aquas love sex lol You can pull him in, just based on curiosity.


Capricorns slow and cautious waiting is for the birds.His fire moon does not make him act quickly, at all. It just makes me sit in a corner like I'm on restriction lol

Posted by saggurl88
Posted by sultrykitty
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by sultrykitty
@Saggurl88


What's his venus?
Slow ass Capricorn lol


Not much better than Mr Aqua's venus Aqua.


Hang in there - your Leo mars (like mine) will prevail. Winking

Yeah but Venus Aquas love sex lol You can pull him in, just based on curiosity.


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That's true, lol. Find that "thing" to reel him in. Mine was sex, his may be something else. Food?



Edited: show up dressed in a business suit with a plate of chocolates and champagne? And a pair of handcuffs? LOL



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@Saggurl88


What's his venus?
Slow ass Capricorn lol


Not much better than Mr Aqua's venus Aqua.


Hang in there - your Leo mars (like mine) will prevail. Winking

Yeah but Venus Aquas love sex lol You can pull him in, just based on curiosity.


That's true, lol. Find that "thing" to reel him in. Mine was sex, his may be something else. Food?



Edited: show up dressed in a business suit with a plate of chocolates and champagne? And a pair of handcuffs? LOL



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My pride won't let me show up unannounced for fear of rejection lol I always ask permission first.


Posted by bittercupcake
OP please don't go... Sad


this aqua likes you smile
Your're sweet lol But no help!!! lol All your listening but no aswers! Just give me the secrets already! Big Grin


I'm not going anywhere, I know it's gonna be a slow process. I'm just very black or white and when you say something I try to conform to it and abide by your wishes. So it slows things down even more cause I miss signals of interest. I'm so busy just trying to be a friend.

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Lol
Thanks for laughing at my misery Tongue

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Lol
Thanks for laughing at my misery Tongue

I'm laughing cause you said cap in venus move like sloths lol
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Oh lol Do you have a cap venus? Any advice on how to get the ball moving? Big Grin (balls juggling is fine too)

Posted by Astrology101
But why are you miserable? smile


Seems so unlike you... Well, I don't know your history but if he's playing... why bother?


Also, all aquas are not the same... probably ??


Take whatever you like about him and look for a nicer dude.. with similar qualities?
I'm not miserable lol that was just being dramatic smile I just have to deal with him cause I don't want anyone else. I get stuck until someone else comes along and catches my eye. So until that happens, I will stick it out. He doesn't know I'm waiting though but I will. I have tons of patience when I want someone, but I also want sex while I wait. That's a big problem, He's not the typical guy.

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Lol
Thanks for laughing at my misery Tongue

I'm laughing cause you said cap in venus move like sloths lol
Oh lol Do you have a cap venus? Any advice on how to get the ball moving? Big Grin (balls juggling is fine too)

Which balls are you thinking about moving? Lol
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I'll tell you when we meet for dinner Tongue


Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Lol
Thanks for laughing at my misery Tongue

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I cant see what this is, that's why I didn't comment on it.
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Lol
Thanks for laughing at my misery Tongue

I'm laughing cause you said cap in venus move like sloths lol
Oh lol Do you have a cap venus? Any advice on how to get the ball moving? Big Grin (balls juggling is fine too)

lol thing is if the interest is pretty low it'll be hard to get that ball moving but that's on me.
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It was fine in the beginning then slowed down. It is what it is. That's why I complain here instead of to him smile


Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Lol
Thanks for laughing at my misery Tongue

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I cant see what this is, that's why I didn't comment on it.
It's a pic of my booty so no need to like it. Lol
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Hahahahahahaha !


Posted by Astrology101
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Astrology101
But why are you miserable? smile


Seems so unlike you... Well, I don't know your history but if he's playing... why bother?


Also, all aquas are not the same... probably ??


Take whatever you like about him and look for a nicer dude.. with similar qualities?
I'm not miserable lol that was just being dramatic smile I just have to deal with him cause I don't want anyone else. I get stuck until someone else comes along and catches my eye. So until that happens, I will stick it out. He doesn't know I'm waiting though but I will. I have tons of patience when I want someone, but I also want sex while I wait. That's a big problem, He's not the typical guy.



My! my! a patient and loyal Sag. ?


Well, I hope for your sake he knows what he is missing, sooner than later.

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You're a sweetie. Thanks, I hope so too.


Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Lol
Thanks for laughing at my misery Tongue

I'm laughing cause you said cap in venus move like sloths lol
Oh lol Do you have a cap venus? Any advice on how to get the ball moving? Big Grin (balls juggling is fine too)

lol thing is if the interest is pretty low it'll be hard to get that ball moving but that's on me.
It was fine in the beginning then slowed down. It is what it is. That's why I complain here instead of to him smile


Been on that same exact situation that's why I'm giving an advise but take it with a grain of salt. ?
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You haven't given any advice yet! lmao

Posted by aquanib
Posted by Astrology101



My! my! a patient and loyal Sag. ?



Almost sounds too good to be true doesn't it, so it makes me wonder if it isn't one of those social media schemes where everyone puts up the best front.


Kinda like this:


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My love signs are fixed- Mars Leo and Venus Scorpio, I think that's why I'm so loyal in love.


Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by saggurl88
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Lol
Thanks for laughing at my misery Tongue

I'm laughing cause you said cap in venus move like sloths lol
Oh lol Do you have a cap venus? Any advice on how to get the ball moving? Big Grin (balls juggling is fine too)

lol thing is if the interest is pretty low it'll be hard to get that ball moving but that's on me.
It was fine in the beginning then slowed down. It is what it is. That's why I complain here instead of to him smile


Pull away and keep your distance that's the only way you'll get to see the clear picture.
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Thank you, doing that now as we speak. I told him that if he wasn't attracted to me that I need to know so I can detach because I think about him everyday. I'm very open and honest then I pull back and confuse the shit out of you because I don't show interest lol


He didn't tell me that he wasn't interested though but I'm still not contacting him.


Posted by aquanib
Posted by saggurl88


My love signs are fixed- Mars Leo and Venus Scorpio, I think that's why I'm so loyal in love.


My jelly glands are getting all inflamed while reading this.


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Come get me, I'm single. Oh wait -but then I'll be dealing with the same issues Tongue

Posted by Maidemarilyn
Posted by sultrykitty
Sounds like what my Aqua did at about 3 months. "I still wanna see you, I just don't wanna see you naked anymore". My response:

"I have plenty of friends, I don’t need another one".


We had sex again a week later. Sultry gets what she wants.
Meaningless sex..???
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Big Grin


Except here we are, 27 years later. Winking


Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Lol
Thanks for laughing at my misery Tongue

I'm laughing cause you said cap in venus move like sloths lol
Oh lol Do you have a cap venus? Any advice on how to get the ball moving? Big Grin (balls juggling is fine too)

lol thing is if the interest is pretty low it'll be hard to get that ball moving but that's on me.
It was fine in the beginning then slowed down. It is what it is. That's why I complain here instead of to him smile


Pull away and keep your distance that's the only way you'll get to see the clear picture.
Thank you, doing that now as we speak. I told him that if he wasn't attracted to me that I need to know so I can detach because I think about him everyday. I'm very open and honest then I pull back and confuse the shit out of you because I don't show interest lol


He didn't tell me that he wasn't interested though but I'm still not contacting him.


lol trying to get him to give you a straight answer is like pushing a big rig with the brakes on.
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I thought Aquas were so straightforward. He did tell me he would stop just talking with me about our mutual friend but didn't say much else about the attraction area.


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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Lol
Thanks for laughing at my misery Tongue

I'm laughing cause you said cap in venus move like sloths lol
Oh lol Do you have a cap venus? Any advice on how to get the ball moving? Big Grin (balls juggling is fine too)

lol thing is if the interest is pretty low it'll be hard to get that ball moving but that's on me.
It was fine in the beginning then slowed down. It is what it is. That's why I complain here instead of to him smile


Pull away and keep your distance that's the only way you'll get to see the clear picture.
Thank you, doing that now as we speak. I told him that if he wasn't attracted to me that I need to know so I can detach because I think about him everyday. I'm very open and honest then I pull back and confuse the shit out of you because I don't show interest lol


He didn't tell me that he wasn't interested though but I'm still not contacting him.


lol trying to get him to give you a straight answer is like pushing a big rig with the brakes on.
I thought Aquas were so straightforward. He did tell me he would stop just talking with me about our mutual friend but didn't say much else about the attraction area.


Lol so he's an aqua? Lol sounds more like I am when I was a bit younger lol

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