do aqua men still test a relationship that is over? i told you guys that he has moved on, however, now i don't hear from him. he was very concerned that we remain friends, but has not initiated it at all. is he waiting for me to make the first move? or is this a test to see how long i will wait? if things are platonic, should it matter?
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
What...this should no longer concern you (harsh...I know). You should be moving on too. NO this is not a test. He is not your issue any longer, and he's acting like it. He hasnt called you because, he's busy and he dowesnt have too. We dont call our friends often anyway...its the same thing, just a different label.
Im sorry, but...*deep breath*
he's just a crappy friend even. this is becoming apparent and is very disappointing as that was the best thing about it all. i have moved on, however i hate to feel like this about friendships. i am even having a hard time with a girlfriend of mine who never calls. i have a lot of leo in me...i guess i need a lot of attention!
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
Thank you aqi...
Even our friendships are strange...I bet when he does call out of the big aqua blue oneday..he'll act like time never passed and you all just met each other for lunch yesterday...
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
I never had one of my bestfriends numbers for years (we saw each other everyday at school, etc)...until I was moving away thats when I finally got her number. Now we talk about once or twice a semester (6 times a year). But everytime I finally call...I act like no time has passed...she always laughs when I say my signature, "HEY!"..she's a gemini, so maybe she can handle it.
I personally knew there was something weird about that, but never thought it was a big deal....do people seriously speak talk to each "friend" they have everyweek...?
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
lol Kris...hows it going pumpkin?
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
Yup, my leo friend and I debate for hours in the freezing cold (all her fault).
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
Oh is she a thief too...LOL
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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
Whatever leo ego is waaaay bigger...besides I gave her props.