Male Roommate ...

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Well, I may have a potential roommate and because of the economy, it would be a good thing to get one. The thing is the fact he is a guy but he's cool -- he's a Saggie guy, 3rd decan I think.

There are some other pamaters that need adjusting but it could work.


I guess I have a slight hang up but I will get ovet that if we work out the pamaters.


I really want to live with this guy hahaha
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Yes.

*grasps* Xun had a male roomie 😄 Sweet! 😄 😄 😄 Coool, you didn't tell me this lol

My ex -roommates boyfriend who was pretty much a roommate to the other 4 girls in the house. It wasn't too bad. I didn't share a bathroom with him or anything and that made me happy enough. I don't know why but I am not too keen on sharing a bathroom with a guy who is just my roommate.

Yeah, thats one concern on mine, the fact that we have to share a bathroom.


Ask away.

I prefer dudes so I'm cool with it. He takes out the trash, which is a plus.


I ALWAYS thought it would be cool to have a male roommate 😄
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I lived with my Taurus friend for awhile. I've known him for YEARS and honestly I thought he was gay. I KNOW things about him so let's just say he's bi curious. Anyway, he got married to a Gem woman (yuck) so maybe he satisified his curiousity 😛

It was like having any other roomie. I did most of the cleaning though since I'm a neat freak. We shared a bathroom. Once he got drunk and for some odd reason started inspecting my "personals" in the bathroom and tossed them about the house. Errrr.... yeah weird I know.
People in our small town swore we were sleeping together but geez.... I had a BF at the time and seriously the dude was pretty much gay.... and turns out the women he IS attracted to have to be large and in charge if you know what I mean 😉
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People in our small town swore we were sleeping together


See, thats what I'm afraid of. I come from a small town too but I moved away to go to school. However, I'm moving back to the small town with him (the Saggie) and am transferring to another school -- its due to work, its hard working an hour away from school, I need to be closer -- learned that the hard way.

I don't want anyone thinking we are sleeping together, no way. Because people would think I'm going out two guys and than I will be wrongfully labeled as a tart and I don't want that.
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Well gossip happens in small towns. People have nothing better to do then to talk and the more juice, the more talk. It's pathetic. I've had so much crap said about me that was so far from the truth. *sigh* Depending on my mood I'd confront the person who started it but nobody ever fesses up to me. Hmmm... I've very confrontational when I'm angry so really I don't blame them. LOL (Yeah like little ole me could do any harm 😉 😛 )
Once crap was SO bad that I got sick of it and started a rumor about myself that I was preggo with twins by my roomie. LMAO. Oh they bit and they bit HARD. Rumors were swirling like a turd in the toilet. THEN at a town function in front of a group of people who saw me drinking AND oh boy were they talking then ... I let them have it. I called them all snoopy hens with nothing else to do but cluck at each other. I told them all I started the rumor myself just to see how STUPID they all were to believe it. Needless to say I made a bunch of people feel like bigtime ass holes.
I moved away from that town because of the talk and I know when I go back they still do but they do it with alot more caution.
All I can say is hold your head up and laugh when you hear something stupid being said. Hell, play into it.
"Yep, I'm sleeping with 2 different guys!!! AND I'm a hooker!!! *wink wink* " Then laugh your butt off when they look at you like WHAT?!?!
You can't live your life being worried about what people say about you.
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men are messy MESSY MESSY! Messy!
hope you like walking behind someone, picking up after them, so that the place doesn't become an absolute pig sty, because that's what you're going to be doing, and eventually you're going to become resentful of that, and then you're going to let it slip a little when you discuss things, and it's going to make you seem a little passive aggressive, even though you despise passive aggressiveness you just haven't taken the time to nitpick about little annoyances and so they accidently pop out at inopportune times, and so it is that you really hate picking his shit up all the time, even though it doesn't bother him a bit, and so you'll leave his mess there for a month just to see if he will EVER pick it up or clean up after himself, and of course he doesn't so you walk over the computer and start typing angrily into the message board box...men are messy, MESSY MESSY! messy!


LMAO!!! Sounds like my scorpio roommate from 2007 thru the spring of 2008 hahaha, no kidding and the scorpio was a girl. She was way gross, and the Scorpio-Saggie cusp third roommate was even more gross -- they were both with me and we had a one bedroom apartment.

I was so glad to be rid of that headache.
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All I can say is hold your head up and laugh when you hear something stupid being said. Hell, play into it.
"Yep, I'm sleeping with 2 different guys!!! AND I'm a hooker!!! *wink wink* " Then laugh your butt off when they look at you like WHAT?!?!
You can't live your life being worried about what people say about you.


Hmmm, yeah. you are right Ginger, I mean, what can I do, he's my friend, you know?

hahaha, I guess it doesn't help the matter any that he broke up with his girlfriend recently lol!!!!

Actually, he did it because she was wanted to know his every move basically -- she checked his phone, you know, stuff like that. I know how he feels, I was pissed off when my boyfriend looked at who was calling me at 2:00am ... then I get in trouble for it. Just because I get a call at 2:00am, I always get calls but it was unexpected that my boyfriend would be with me that night :O


Hopefully I'm single really really single when I move in, I don't want to deal with all that stuff.