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seizeTheDay
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20 Years1,000+ Posts

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Hi candyman, welcome to the boards. I have to say, I've read through some of your initial posts, and I don't get what you're asking for. Not to mention, although occassionally the people here talk through someone else's snafu- we're not all here just to offer advice.

Anyway, first thing you should know.. if you're looking toward astrology for answers, you should know that true compatibility cannot be assessed by sun sign alone. You need your natal chart and her natal chart to see where your planets align.

Secondly, any good astrologer can only tell you the pros and cons of your pairing (not whether it will or won't work).

Lastly, my favorite quote No astrological connection between two people is so inherently dreadful that enough patience, love and determination cannot only make it last, but make it something precious to both of them. At the same time, there is no kind of astrological connection so wonderful that enough selfishness, confusion about sex, or plain immaturity cannot turn it into a nightmare.

Essentially, compatibility is guideline, but it's the people witin the relationship that make it work.

I say, with a aqua, you need a lot of time and a lot of patience. Sometimes it seems like they don't care- but you can start by steping back.. and letting her have some space and show a willingness to be patient. In short, only you know this person and the best answers will come from within.
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candyman99c
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19 Years

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thx, seizeTheDay. your so right on everything. i have been patirnce w/ her all this time. but its like i dont know what is going on. i just dont want to spend my next god know how long guessing and waiting. i guess that is my answer. since her answer is not answering back. if i'm correct, shes not too hot about me, 1st time my friend ask her how she feels about me, she say it was it was impossible, i'm too old. then next time she ask again was: i was too immuture..... and the last time she ask she say we were never together, and shes scare of me because im tooooooo NICE to her... okey i didnt know girls like to be slap around untill now seriously.