My Aqua friend is being an Aqua?

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Why do we have this trait? Running away when we feel we hurt someone,running away when we feel hurt,running away when we cant face our problems?

Im an aqua myself so i do understand my friend for running away and want to isolate herself because of how hurt she is but not to this degree she is going far away and told me she might not comeback and we all know how stubborn an aqua is when they made up their mind

It pains me to lose a dear friend who i open myself too,she is by far the closest to me after 15 yrs i had kept my walls up,this is why i dont want to get close to anyone because everytime they leave it pains me deeply like a part of me just left,and i dont know how long will they stay in my life?she lost a friend by giving an honest opinion,she didnt realize i just lost mine?
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Posted by Capmercury87
I ruin friendships left and right by giving constructive criticism in toxic situations.

I've tried to keep my mouth shut its too hard.

I'm sorry tho.

Keep in touch with her.

she wasnt even saying it in person,the guy is just nosey and looked at her phone then saw what she said to me about him being a person with an attitude which is true by the way,its not like she is spewing lies to everyone im the only one she ever told about it,damn nosey virgo male
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i think if she has a strong 11th house, she is good with friendship stuff.

that is their destiny or soemthing. Something i've been noticing long ago about houses.

because those are the houses that you are going to be covering in this lifetime.

if you're a 2nd houser, material wealth is easy for you, (of course with hard work) but it's your destiny.

Oprah Winfrey and Bill Gates have very strong 2nd houses.

Oprah has sun and venus (aquarius in 2nd) and gates have jupiter and pluto in 2nd.

two strong planets each in the house, and they're both billionaires.
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i think if she has a strong 11th house, she is good with friendship stuff.

that is their destiny or soemthing. Something i've been noticing long ago about houses.

because those are the houses that you are going to be covering in this lifetime.

if you're a 2nd houser, material wealth is easy for you, (of course with hard work) but it's your destiny.

Oprah Winfrey and Bill Gates have very strong 2nd houses.

Oprah has sun and venus (aquarius in 2nd) and gates have jupiter and pluto in 2nd.

two strong planets each in the house, and they're both billionaires.

im an 11th houser and 10th but i dont seem to be good with friendship,i keep losing them and i didnt even do anything and it keeps breaking my heart
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Why do we have this trait? Running away when we feel we hurt someone,running away when we feel hurt,running away when we cant face our problems?

Im an aqua myself so i do understand my friend for running away and want to isolate herself because of how hurt she is but not to this degree she is going far away and told me she might not comeback and we all know how stubborn an aqua is when they made up their mind

It pains me to lose a dear friend who i open myself too,she is by far the closest to me after 15 yrs i had kept my walls up,this is why i dont want to get close to anyone because everytime they leave it pains me deeply like a part of me just left,and i dont know how long will they stay in my life?she lost a friend by giving an honest opinion,she didnt realize i just lost mine?
Awww, please don't cry.
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i cant help it im so sorry,how long will it take this time till i can find a friend who i can open up to so i feel horrible right now
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i think if she has a strong 11th house, she is good with friendship stuff.

that is their destiny or soemthing. Something i've been noticing long ago about houses.

because those are the houses that you are going to be covering in this lifetime.

if you're a 2nd houser, material wealth is easy for you, (of course with hard work) but it's your destiny.

Oprah Winfrey and Bill Gates have very strong 2nd houses.

Oprah has sun and venus (aquarius in 2nd) and gates have jupiter and pluto in 2nd.

two strong planets each in the house, and they're both billionaires.

im an 11th houser and 10th but i dont seem to be good with friendship,i keep losing them and i didnt even do anything and it keeps breaking my heart
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scorpio moon could be sabotaging? 😕

i have no idea.



when i google. about this stuff..

these are the lists of why we lose friendships.

http://www.mensxp.com/relationships/friendship/30261-10-reasons-why-we-lose-friends.html



for me, i notice that when love enters the equation, we disappear into our own partners. lol



3. Sometimes, it's love that ruins friendships. When one of the two friends enters into a relationship, friendships are often forgotten. They may realize it later but things are never the same. We've all been there and done that too




but there are other reasons here that you can look for yourself that will help you figure it out.



no. 1 is work, you get into a career and you dont have time for them anymore, your friends are so -called "colleagues" at work cause you work alot.

there is a bigger list there. One of them is toxicity too. And the other reason is that it is not effortless, you have to make an effort.

it is a relationshp just like having a love relationship or work relationship. ALL those take effort and hard work.
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Posted by Aquarius3189
Why do we have this trait? Running away when we feel we hurt someone,running away when we feel hurt,running away when we cant face our problems?

Im an aqua myself so i do understand my friend for running away and want to isolate herself because of how hurt she is but not to this degree she is going far away and told me she might not comeback and we all know how stubborn an aqua is when they made up their mind

It pains me to lose a dear friend who i open myself too,she is by far the closest to me after 15 yrs i had kept my walls up,this is why i dont want to get close to anyone because everytime they leave it pains me deeply like a part of me just left,and i dont know how long will they stay in my life?she lost a friend by giving an honest opinion,she didnt realize i just lost mine?
to be honest, i am annoying, to the point of wanting to know and resolve the problems so i'm very confrontational with my girlfriends, i want to know what's up so we can fix/resolve the problems and get it out.

since my best friend is really my husband, if he's angry i want to resolve the issue, and we can get right down to solving the problem. It's usually not that big so it's easy going.

you have to be more confrontational about it. to nip it in the budd. to get out the feelings of dread so you dont pile on the problems. just my thoughts.

this may be something you yourself have to try hard to do so it doesn't pile up.
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i think if she has a strong 11th house, she is good with friendship stuff.

that is their destiny or soemthing. Something i've been noticing long ago about houses.

because those are the houses that you are going to be covering in this lifetime.

if you're a 2nd houser, material wealth is easy for you, (of course with hard work) but it's your destiny.

Oprah Winfrey and Bill Gates have very strong 2nd houses.

Oprah has sun and venus (aquarius in 2nd) and gates have jupiter and pluto in 2nd.

two strong planets each in the house, and they're both billionaires.

im an 11th houser and 10th but i dont seem to be good with friendship,i keep losing them and i didnt even do anything and it keeps breaking my heart
scorpio moon could be sabotaging? 😕

i have no idea.



when i google. about this stuff..

these are the lists of why we lose friendships.

http://www.mensxp.com/relationships/friendship/30261-10-reasons-why-we-lose-friends.html



for me, i notice that when love enters the equation, we disappear into our own partners. lol



3. Sometimes, it's love that ruins friendships. When one of the two friends enters into a relationship, friendships are often forgotten. They may realize it later but things are never the same. We've all been there and done that too




but there are other reasons here that you can look for yourself that will help you figure it out.



no. 1 is work, you get into a career and you dont have time for them anymore, your friends are so -called "colleagues" at work cause you work alot.

there is a bigger list there. One of them is toxicity too. And the other reason is that it is not effortless, you have to make an effort.

it is a relationshp just like having a love relationship or work relationship. ALL those take effort and hard work.

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nah im done with the dark scorp stuff when i was 8yrs old until i was a teenager,and i did a lot of effort thats why it hurts so much,i told you its not even my fault,2 of my bff is far away from me now we dont see each other anymore,1 betrayed me,this one has an aqua with a cap moon and is wounded right now and very hurt by the man she is having a huge crush on and wants to dissapear for awhile she said but then told me she might not return again so.....
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i think if she has a strong 11th house, she is good with friendship stuff.

that is their destiny or soemthing. Something i've been noticing long ago about houses.

because those are the houses that you are going to be covering in this lifetime.

if you're a 2nd houser, material wealth is easy for you, (of course with hard work) but it's your destiny.

Oprah Winfrey and Bill Gates have very strong 2nd houses.

Oprah has sun and venus (aquarius in 2nd) and gates have jupiter and pluto in 2nd.

two strong planets each in the house, and they're both billionaires.

im an 11th houser and 10th but i dont seem to be good with friendship,i keep losing them and i didnt even do anything and it keeps breaking my heart
scorpio moon could be sabotaging? 😕

i have no idea.



when i google. about this stuff..

these are the lists of why we lose friendships.

http://www.mensxp.com/relationships/friendship/30261-10-reasons-why-we-lose-friends.html



for me, i notice that when love enters the equation, we disappear into our own partners. lol



3. Sometimes, it's love that ruins friendships. When one of the two friends enters into a relationship, friendships are often forgotten. They may realize it later but things are never the same. We've all been there and done that too




but there are other reasons here that you can look for yourself that will help you figure it out.



no. 1 is work, you get into a career and you dont have time for them anymore, your friends are so -called "colleagues" at work cause you work alot.

there is a bigger list there. One of them is toxicity too. And the other reason is that it is not effortless, you have to make an effort.

it is a relationshp just like having a love relationship or work relationship. ALL those take effort and hard work.



nah im done with the dark scorp stuff when i was 8yrs old until i was a teenager,and i did a lot of effort thats why it hurts so much,i told you its not even my fault,2 of my bff is far away from me now we dont see each other anymore,1 betrayed me,this one has an aqua with a cap moon and is wounded right now and very hurt by the man she is having a huge crush on and wants to dissapear for awhile she said but then told me she might not return again so.....
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aw she will need some time to figure things out, just be there for her, she'll appreciate you being by her side and being supportive. 🙂

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Posted by Aquarius3189
Why do we have this trait? Running away when we feel we hurt someone,running away when we feel hurt,running away when we cant face our problems?

Im an aqua myself so i do understand my friend for running away and want to isolate herself because of how hurt she is but not to this degree she is going far away and told me she might not comeback and we all know how stubborn an aqua is when they made up their mind

It pains me to lose a dear friend who i open myself too,she is by far the closest to me after 15 yrs i had kept my walls up,this is why i dont want to get close to anyone because everytime they leave it pains me deeply like a part of me just left,and i dont know how long will they stay in my life?she lost a friend by giving an honest opinion,she didnt realize i just lost mine?
to be honest, i am annoying, to the point of wanting to know and resolve the problems so i'm very confrontational with my girlfriends, i want to know what's up so we can fix/resolve the problems and get it out.

since my best friend is really my husband, if he's angry i want to resolve the issue, and we can get right down to solving the problem. It's usually not that big so it's easy going.

you have to be more confrontational about it. to nip it in the budd. to get out the feelings of dread so you dont pile on the problems. just my thoughts.

this may be something you yourself have to try hard to do so it doesn't pile up.
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i did tell her she overthinks so much and she knows i dont sugar coat the things i say which she appreciate but then she is very impulsive deciding to run away because she cant face everyone,she is so hard on herself always blaming everything to herself
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i think if she has a strong 11th house, she is good with friendship stuff.

that is their destiny or soemthing. Something i've been noticing long ago about houses.

because those are the houses that you are going to be covering in this lifetime.

if you're a 2nd houser, material wealth is easy for you, (of course with hard work) but it's your destiny.

Oprah Winfrey and Bill Gates have very strong 2nd houses.

Oprah has sun and venus (aquarius in 2nd) and gates have jupiter and pluto in 2nd.

two strong planets each in the house, and they're both billionaires.

im an 11th houser and 10th but i dont seem to be good with friendship,i keep losing them and i didnt even do anything and it keeps breaking my heart
scorpio moon could be sabotaging? 😕

i have no idea.



when i google. about this stuff..

these are the lists of why we lose friendships.

http://www.mensxp.com/relationships/friendship/30261-10-reasons-why-we-lose-friends.html



for me, i notice that when love enters the equation, we disappear into our own partners. lol



3. Sometimes, it's love that ruins friendships. When one of the two friends enters into a relationship, friendships are often forgotten. They may realize it later but things are never the same. We've all been there and done that too




but there are other reasons here that you can look for yourself that will help you figure it out.



no. 1 is work, you get into a career and you dont have time for them anymore, your friends are so -called "colleagues" at work cause you work alot.

there is a bigger list there. One of them is toxicity too. And the other reason is that it is not effortless, you have to make an effort.

it is a relationshp just like having a love relationship or work relationship. ALL those take effort and hard work.



nah im done with the dark scorp stuff when i was 8yrs old until i was a teenager,and i did a lot of effort thats why it hurts so much,i told you its not even my fault,2 of my bff is far away from me now we dont see each other anymore,1 betrayed me,this one has an aqua with a cap moon and is wounded right now and very hurt by the man she is having a huge crush on and wants to dissapear for awhile she said but then told me she might not return again so.....
aw she will need some time to figure things out, just be there for her, she'll appreciate you being by her side and being supportive. 🙂

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thank you and i hope she will realize it sooner that its not her fault☺