Need help to understand Aquarius man who got close then backed off??? Part I of II
This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by hellihelli on Wednesday, January 6, 2016 and has 4 replies.
Need to understand Aquarius man who got close then backed off???
I would really appreciate any insight or advice from any Aquarians or those who have been with Aquarian men, as this is all new to me. Forgive the long description, but I think it helps to know details.
I met an Aquarian online two months and we communicated for a whole month before meeting and got to create a nice rapport first. We met in person about 10 days ago for lunch, which turned into a ten hour date, which was probably the best first date of my life and was so magical and showed me how much chemistry we had on all levels, mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically, and we were both smiling and laughing the whole day. We ended up cuddling and having some intense kissing but nothing more. The rest of the week, he texted and called me every day multiple times and we ended up talking for hours daily. He also wanted to see me three other times that week, even though he lives over an hour away from me and has a super busy job.
I told him maybe we should spread it out a bit to not risk moving too fast cuz we had such a good connection. That bothered him a bit but he understood and we continued to talk a lot. But in this time I noticed he would seem a bit aloof when I would send him cute messages or start to want to see him more too. So I started to get unclear vibes from him and mentioned it multiple times, which started to make him stressed that I was blaming him or complaining and that I wanted to already break up with him.
Anyway, we had plans to meet last Saturday evening, but instead I wanted to meet him also that Friday as he had originally suggested last minute. It should be noted that we had talked before about how sex is really important to both of us and not something we take lightly and don't get physical with people casually but want something meaningful. So the night we met we didn't expect or plan to get so physical, but our connection was so strong and we were both massaging each other so it went a little too far too fast for us. We didn't have sex but did some messing around and were both totally turned on but didn't let it happen. He wanted to go home after (around 6am) since he had to work later the next day so he could get some sleep but that made me feel bad so we dozed off. But he woke up an hour later, got dressed and hugged me goodbye without saying much and I was still half asleep so I didn't really react but I'm sure he could see I was upset.
I would really appreciate any insight or advice from any Aquarians or those who have been with Aquarian men, as this is all new to me. Forgive the long description, but I think it helps to know details.
I met an Aquarian online two months and we communicated for a whole month before meeting and got to create a nice rapport first. We met in person about 10 days ago for lunch, which turned into a ten hour date, which was probably the best first date of my life and was so magical and showed me how much chemistry we had on all levels, mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically, and we were both smiling and laughing the whole day. We ended up cuddling and having some intense kissing but nothing more. The rest of the week, he texted and called me every day multiple times and we ended up talking for hours daily. He also wanted to see me three other times that week, even though he lives over an hour away from me and has a super busy job.
I told him maybe we should spread it out a bit to not risk moving too fast cuz we had such a good connection. That bothered him a bit but he understood and we continued to talk a lot. But in this time I noticed he would seem a bit aloof when I would send him cute messages or start to want to see him more too. So I started to get unclear vibes from him and mentioned it multiple times, which started to make him stressed that I was blaming him or complaining and that I wanted to already break up with him.
Anyway, we had plans to meet last Saturday evening, but instead I wanted to meet him also that Friday as he had originally suggested last minute. It should be noted that we had talked before about how sex is really important to both of us and not something we take lightly and don't get physical with people casually but want something meaningful. So the night we met we didn't expect or plan to get so physical, but our connection was so strong and we were both massaging each other so it went a little too far too fast for us. We didn't have sex but did some messing around and were both totally turned on but didn't let it happen. He wanted to go home after (around 6am) since he had to work later the next day so he could get some sleep but that made me feel bad so we dozed off. But he woke up an hour later, got dressed and hugged me goodbye without saying much and I was still half asleep so I didn't really react but I'm sure he could see I was upset.
what is your sun sign?
i'm an aquarius and i don't get where the problem is. when he left for work?
i'm an aquarius and i don't get where the problem is. when he left for work?
I am a Taurus female. Thanks for asking. So I need stability and don't take change too well 
Sorry I has to post my message in two parts to fit, so hope you can read the second part to make more sense of it. Thanks so much!
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