Need insights about aquarius man? :)

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by liamee on Monday, April 15, 2013 and has 14 replies.
Can anyone tell me..does aqua guys take long to approach someone they like? i am a bit curious. I have known these three aqua guys for past three years,though not very personally except for one who is my friend. The first one is a friend of mine who took a year long to approach,he still does but that time i was in a relationship and also i always see him as my friend no attraction. The second aqua have also done the same thing but we had attraction but i never let it grew because i was committed and the third one i am more curious about because i always felt that he was rude and stubborn and disliked me as i used to get this vibe from him though he hasn't done anything to me. Well its not only me i think many other people at the work place think so. He doesn't talk to anybody or i see him smile,he comes work,wraps up and leave. Lots of girls i have noticed drools over him. So the thing is he messaged me in fb asking me how i am and then for another week we chatted and exchanged numbers. Then i found him a different person though,he still say very few words while talking. He confessed he liked me since the time he first saw me but was hesitant to start a conversation. He told me everything how i do my work and serious about it and everything, that is when i got it that he really did noticed me.We hung out quite a few times,he used to pick me up and drop me to my place,also went for workout at the gym together,we both are workout freaks.Okay the thing is the other two aquas i feel easy to be with and trust them but i am finding hard to trust this one,i don't know why.I have started to like him but i can't let my feelings grow without that trust thing. Or may be i was getting the wrong vibes from my head.
If an aqua guy liked you, you would know. He makes it very clear. He will be very inquisitive about you, he will want to know everything there is smile He might not say it but you will feel that he wants to be around you and so on. They are not scared to go after someone they really like.
Thank you aquapicescusp smilewhat you said really helped. I am excited and happy and hope the way i am feeling now goes on smile
Posted by liamee
Thank you aquapicescusp smilewhat you said really helped. I am excited and happy and hope the way i am feeling now goes on smile


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HI rgh1.. Thank you,i have experienced the similar behaviour by them smileyes they do tell you everything and their intentions. But they have this habit of disappearing i don't get it. Is it like they want me to contact them and say something? are they waiting to hear from me after a date?



hey liamee, yeah aqua males do that from time to time, from my observations of some aqua guys..it varies.. only if they are 50/50 of their feelings for you.I had 2 aqua guys who would come and go.then out of NO WHERE contact me "miss me?". There are type of aqua guys i found...
group a) whisper sweet nothingness in woman's ear. come and go when they want.
group b) they back it up with action. Strong and aggressive. (then again that is with men who are truly interested beyond just getting laid.
Its pretty confusing lol even i can't understand another sex of the same sign.





Hi candi3bb yes may be the same thing happening or i don't know so confused they seem to be so into me and then phoof! they are gone. Actually even me i am making sure i don't seem to them so clingy or desperate, i only text if they do or IF wanted to meet me. i dont want to make any mistakes this time.
Also it is annoying when they do this...
Okay actually its been a while we haven't texted each other and i am not sure if i should Sad what if i don't get any response.
Thank you for the advice smilei am so clueless especially when i start liking someone. Lol now the tough part is how to keep him intrigued. Well i am on it! smile
@rgh1-I totally agree about Aqua men going after what they want. All the Aquas that I dated were more aggressive than the Scorpios and Aries that I had been with. My current Aqua goes into his cave and I am totally fine with it because I am an Aries and it gives me more time to go on adventures.
I have seen the Aqua-Aqua combo work if the couple is older and already been married, raised kids, and they just want a companion.
Stereotypically, an aquarius man is very upfront and goes full throttle after what he wants. It's after the initial time period they go distant and get all quirky.
The aqua i am dating came with a full force,made plans after plans and now yes! very distant. What i feel now is may be he isn't that interested though we had a convo today through messages. It was quite simple and short like always,he is a man of few words. I don't know whats up with him Sad he seems to be interested but at times not.
We could be your best friend or your worst enemy, so always watch ya back when you at the company of an aquarian.